Kandi Burruss Slams #RHOA Fans For Urging Her To Forgive Porsha Williams After Rape Lie!

Posted on Dec 5 2017 - 11:06am by Avigail

The tenth season of The Real Housewives of Atlanta is underway, and the beef between Kandi Burruss and Porsha William, is far from over!

As fans know, Phaedra Parks manufactured a lie claiming Kandi was intending to drug and sexually assault Porsha Williams. And by the end of season nine, Kandi cut all ties with Parks for creating the vicious rumor and also called out Porsha for her role in spreading the lie.

Kandi Burruss at season 9 reunion

Many fans have pointed out that the Xscape songstress needs to forgive and move on from the scandal. However, on Sunday, Kandi made it clear that she’s not ready to forgive Porsha and has no plans to in the near future.

Kandi took to her Instagram page to share the following statement.

Below is the original comment that Kandi references above.

Do you think it’s time for to move on or is she justified? Sound off in the comments!

 

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  • JustSayin

    If those accusations had turned out to be true, no one would be in a rush to “forgive and forget”, so why should Kandi?

    Personally, I would forgive (as in let go of my anger), but I’d never forget, and we’d never be cool again.

    • Perturbed

      Porsha has behaved way out of line every year she’s been on RHOA! Why she wasn’t fired a long time ago is beyond me! Can’t stand anything about her. #TeamKandi 100%!

    • italiano bambino

      Thank you that’s a HUGE defamation.

  • we”r”family

    I am of the opinion that Porsha was more in the know than she is letting on. Porsha the one who has issues with keeping her hands to herself, treats her sister like dirt, had no problem repeating, embellishing, and laying the blame on Phaedra. No, I don’t think Phaedra was innocent either. But, Phaedra is out of there and Porsha is still on?????
    However, Kandi, her Mother, and company sit around saying some pretty terrible and sometimes IMO liable things about others. They seem to get a free pass.

  • YouGotTheRightOneNow

    Kandi has every right to be pissed and not ready to forgive and forget. She was absolutely correct that if the truth hadn’t come out her professional life could and more than likely would have been ruined forever. Poorsha should just be glad her violent ass still has a job!

  • chacha1

    I think people jumped the gun on Kandi is because she admitted to 3-ways and I always thought it was true because when you are drunk you say crazy shit …… I am very surprised Bravo brought back Porsha after that …… personally I cannot stand that loud mouthed Kandi (who really protests too loudly) and her Toad husband because they would rather be friends with Apollo and his HO and was hiding assets for him after knowing that Apollo scammed senior citizens ….. Kandi is not interesting on that show and has an angry ahole of a mother Momma Joyce …. seems Kandi forgave Kim Wigs even though she got ripped off by her…. SMDH

    • wiseone

      Thank you – you are on point. Dungeon gate made her appear to be the victim but prior to dungeon gate her and her mama were victimizing Phaedra.

      • chacha1

        Thank you 🙂

      • Cassandra Dreme

        Victimizing Phaedra? yaaaaa….no

        • wiseone

          She was – now what?

          • Cassandra Dreme

            lol..i don’t know…do we take this to the schoolyard? 0_0

          • wiseone

            We can – I am not backing down. Let’s do it.

          • Authentic

            Lol!

        • chacha1

          aaaaaah yes !!

    • Authentic

      Kandi looked like a complete field N. at that reunion when she brought up Kim Z. stealing her money…voice cracking then Masta Kim put Kandi in her place so Kandi shut the F up! Lol!
      But Kandi all Billy Bad Ass on a sista. Kandi is a trip!!

      • chacha1

        ^5 ITA

    • just me…

      But Kandi does not drink.

  • wiseone

    Kandi is not going to forgive and forget – it will be her story line for the next 100 years. Mama Joyce did the same thing to Todd’s mother when she said she was a prostitute. That family can dish it out but they can’t take it.

    • Authentic

      You are so correct Wise. It’s like Kandi and her mom are dogs that can’t separate from that bone. Kandi will be crying, whining and talking about P and P until the day she dies.

  • Ronnie

    Forgiveness comes when it comes. No one can tell another person what their timeline should be. Just saying you forgive someone does mean you really have. Sometimes, also, we forgive but choose not to renew the relationship with the person, but rather, close the door.

    • ScrappieONE

      Perfectly said

      • Ronnie

        Thank you.

    • Authentic

      You’re correct Ronnie but get off SM with that bs! I believe Kandi’s very 1st scene on RHOA was reading what people were saying about her on SM…think she was talking to AJ. Anybody else remember that? Kandi’s empire is too big to fight with the pettiness of SM. Smh.

      • Ronnie

        I agree. I haven’t been watching this season. I only read the recaps. I don’t support Kandi. My statement was just a generality. Kandi, her employees and nasty battle axes mother/aunts are too much to stomach. I still wonder how much the cruelty and sress from Joyce contributed to Todd’s mother’s death.

        • Authentic

          I always think about Todd’s mother.

    • SMDRN66

      When Kandi turns to Todd, she can’t to his parents since they are both dead now, and Carmon, and even Phaedra to apologize and ask for forgiveness for what her pig mother said about them on camera several times over, then I feel she has a right to a sincere apology from Porsha.

      Then again…she was pretty heated over a stupid rumor. Thou think she doth protest too much.

      • Ronnie

        Being a victim is so easy for some, but never mind the pain they or thers inflict. They minimize it.

  • Bryan

    Go eat something Kandi!

    • Authentic

      For real!!! Stfu!

  • Authentic

    Kandi is STILL dragging this subject?? We’re in a new season….jeesh! She’ll be talking about this for the next 10 years.

    Kandi: 2 OG clowns have returned to RHOA and 1 of them trying to fight Kenya. RHOA is a hot mess this season without your participation. BTW what is your current SL? I can’t think of anything. Is that why you’re recycling this old SL??? Try to stay on topic because you have castmates that look like old worn out ratchet fools! Atlanta is already disgusting so we don t need to read about your old bs on sm today. You and Sherlock (your mom) go meet P and her mom in private. A nice restaurant with good food should suffice. Then take a nap and stop whining!

    • chacha1

      I applaud this comment X1000 … and her and her mother and aunts should jump on one of her dildo’s and ride off into the sunset (because a broom doesn’t want their ratchet stank asses on it) her house is a hot mess, her husband Mr. Potato Head with that stupid sideways hat on his giant head and Mr. Planters Peanut legs is ugly as hell, and her food is spoiled, the ice is moldy and people go to this place to eat, and being that Kandi has slept with most of the Atlanta nobody’s should quit trying to be in everyones faces screaming and yelling “The Lies, The Lies” yeah okay Kandi

      • just me…

        ~~ her and her mother and aunts should jump on one of her dildo’s and ride off into the sunset………🤦…..That is so f’n funny I can not handle it!!!!

        • chacha1

          LOL shame on me but it is true …. !!! 🙂

          • just me…

            Sad thing is I can visualize it…hehe

      • Authentic

        Chacha! You are sick! Lol Lol Lol @ your comments!!!!
        Who’s Mr Planters?

    • Miss A

      ITA, she is the only one that keeps bringing this up! I ask where is her outrage in regards to production? Allegedly, Carlos King told this lie to Phaedra, but I can’t believe he was the only one that knew about this? Andy Cohen keeps getting paid to produce shows where we look like fools. Regardless of Carlos and Phaedra being gone, there were others that stood by imo, and watched this play out without any regard for Kandi’s feelings or image.With that being said, this is entertainment, and It’s just not good tv to have her rolling her eyes, walking away or having her people fight her battles for her. She may have been the victim of this lie, but people can only take so much of her playing up the drama.Think about this…Phaedra put the lie out, lost her peach, and yet she’s still getting talked about on the show and social media.

      • Authentic

        Agree Miss A! I think Carlos was involved for sure but I’ve given up that subject. Uugghh! You are so right on the click bait and I think Kandi s popularity went DOWN after the “Just Kickin It” series and she’s pissed! Too late! We saw her sneaky ass trying to get pregnant by a producer. She did finally succeed even though he was married. Kandi needs to shut up! Enough!

  • Contessa Bel Raven

    I know it’s not a popular opinion but I do believe Carlos did tell that lie to Phaedra. Porsha was the one who ran with it yet Phaedra was the one who took the fall for it all. Does Phaedra lie at times. Yes she does (as do most of the HW’s) but I do believe her that it was told to her by Carlos. Just what my gut is telling me. Porsha is definitely being protected by a higher up. It’s pretty obvious that is the case. JMO

    • SMDRN66

      I believe it as well. It’s not a stretch because we all know how Bravo producers work. They are always trying to stir shit up. This is why Phaedra told Porsha off camera. And this is why Bravo will bring Phaedra back. Bravo doesn’t care what these people do on or off camera. People are idiots to even think that. Andy likes Phaedra, and he loves Ayden. Just like people think that Kim has no fans. How the hell did she get her own spin-off with several seasons if she didn’t have fans? I’m just glad that Karma found Kandi while we could all see it. She didn’t care what her pig mother said about Todd’s parents and Carmon. She laughed it off and got annoyed with them because they were upset. Now she knows how it feels. Although, Pig Joyce make horrible accusations about Todd’s dead father, his mother, and about Carmon on camera, many times over, like what she said was the truth. With Kandi, it was only a rumor. So why should we feel sorry for Kandi or worry that it might hurt her reputation? She sure as hell didn’t care when it was about Todd’s dead father, Sharon, and Carmon.

      • Contessa Bel Raven

        I doubt Kandi sees it as the same thing. I lost a lot of respect for Todd due to that. Not that I had much respect for him before. Kandi doesn’t seem to respect him very much either the way she walks all over him and allows her mother & crew disrespect him. As his wife I would have expected her to have his back but Kandi looks out for Kandi (& only Kandi) it seems

    • Authentic

      Hello! Phaedra did not take the complete fall once you wittness how Porsha was treated in Hawaii and the Glam trip. Phaedra was quiet and watched her friend fall.
      On the flip side I’d like for Phaedra to return. Something’s missing in the current season. Off-balance.

      • Contessa Bel Raven

        Yet Porsha is still on RHOA even after running with the rumour/getting physical with someone more than once and Phaedra was fired. That’s what I meant by her taking the fall.

  • the underground train

    Yes Kandi is justified in the way she feels. She does not need to forgive Porsha. However it will do her good not to discuss Porsha’s finances or lack thereof with her krew.

    • Authentic

      I haven’t focused on Kandi too much this season. Didn’t know she talked about Porsha’s finances or maybe she discussed in attached SM post which I didn’t read completely. Either way that’s interesting tea!

  • Kim Holmes

    I’m completely with Kandi! She doesn’t need to forgive Porscha not now or ever! Porshca is crooked and and shady AF! I hope Nene takes her out! She’s not married, dating nor pregnant. She’s boring and I hope she exits very soon!

  • Trippinhhard

    I don’t care either way.. They kept Porsha but fired Fhedra, Porsha must have a tight bond with somebody with power…Anywho Gatemouth Kandi and her no good Mother thought nothing of calling Ms. Sharon a whorer.. Joyceless said the word on the streets in New York was telling her things.. GTFOOH and Gatemouth Kandi just laughed at that.. Todd dead daddy was her so called Pimp.. Joyceless gets around with men herself, the apple didn’t fall too far from the tree..Kim walked all over her dumb ass, but she got angry that no one came to her rescue… Kim just stuck her lawyers on her dumb ass.. Kim stuck Gold and you got pennies… Bye Girl and I don’t know why you agreed to film with Xcape and didn’t want to tour.. As usual you were sleeping with one of the writers and producers Jamaine Dupre.. You were a teenager at the time, I can hear Joyceless telling her, you need to sleep with him and get whatever leverage you can..

    • Authentic

      ITA with everything you said!!!

      Kim Z. treated Kandi like shit and Kandi took it.

      • Trippinhhard

        She surel did and thought nothing of it.. Everyone was telling her Kim is a user..

        • chacha1

          and what was really pitiful is that that HO WIGS could not even sing !!!

          • Trippinhhard

            She sings worse than a dog

          • Authentic

            Lmao!!

      • chacha1

        How about when Kandi and WIGS fought over the name Kash, Kandi said it was her name and WIGS said it was hers …. it showed how low these ghetto trash bitches stoop with their petty bullshit

    • chacha1

      So true ITA and word was that she also slept with Jermaine’s father …. bitch sure got around on her nasty mean ass, Wendy Williams said yesterday that Xscape does not need Kandi and that they sound great without her ….

      • Trippinhhard

        They cleared that up on one of the shows..They really don’t need Kandia’s whining voice at all. Kandi is not a team player at all..I know that was horrible of Joyceless saying “I repeated what the word in the streets were saying”. Todd’s
        daddy was dead and she disrespected him to the highest.. That’s all those miserable old biddies do, is wreck havoc on anyone they see fit.. I don’t like any if them at all.. Joyceless is just a miserable old Bitch and she’s proud of her ways..
        Her ways have rubbed off on Kandi nasty ass..

      • Authentic

        Yeah Kandi admit on “Just Kickin” series she did sleep with JD, but not his father. I believe she did and Tameka on retracted that statement to get the Bravo show and Xscape tour.

    • SMDRN66

      I agree. When Kandi takes responsibility for not shutting her vile pig mother down when she was making horrible accusations about Todd’s parents and her BFF Carmon, on camera several times, instead of laughing it off like it wasn’t a big deal and annoyed that Todd, Sharon, and Carmon didn’t want to just blow it off, they I’ll support her in this. First, Phaedra said he heard this from a producer, and told Porsha off camera. I wouldn’t put it past production to cause trouble. They do it all the time. Porsha was talking about a rumor on camera, not fact, and Kandi had her chance to deny it. Now she knows how Todd, Sharon, and Carmon felt.

      And I don’t care what anyone says, Kandi was a shitty friend to Phaedra. When Phaedra needed her the most, she sided with that asshole Alpo. She allowed Alpo to ‘hide’ stuff in their garage, thinking he was hiding it from Phaedra. Kandi is no one’s friend. She is Mama Pig Joyce 2.0.

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        Tell it. Kandi was pissed off that Phaedra was relying on Nene & Porsha.
        She already hated Nene but that is when she started hating Porsha as well. That is all that was really about. Kandi & Todd took Alpo’s side & they wanted everyone to leave Phaedra blowing in the wind.
        Phaedra did nothing to warrant the treatment of Kandi & her crew.
        They all just seemed to take pleasure in making her life even more miserable than it already was.

        • Trippinhhard

          That’s why I can’t with Gatemouth Kandi, she automatically took Apollo side..
          Kandi and Fhedra had been friends before RHATL.. They dated some of the same men..lol
          Kandi allows her crew and mother wreck destruction on others she’s in a feud with.. She don’t like Porsha because little Todd said Porsha was the finest on the show, and he would hit it..You’re right they love the misery they do to others.. Umm why do she just drop her daughter off at her daddy???

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You already know what time it is & don’t even watch the show.
            I totally forgot that Tiny Todd said that & that may very well be what is really behind Kandi’s hate.
            That was the catalyst & then came the accusations.
            You hit the nail on the head right there.

          • Trippinhhard

            I don’t watch any of them at all..Its a waste if time and the blogs have all the scoop.. Kandi and her crew like to wreck havoc on others, then play victim..

          • Authentic

            Bette, how can you forget Todd’s comments on Peter’s show?? In a nutshell Todd admits more than once he wants to F Porsha WHILE DRINKING. Kandi is STILL pissed about Todd’s drunken comments. That’s where Kandi s hate for Porsha comes from. Pure jealousy.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I know the show you’re referring to. All of the men said Porsha was the hottest HW.

          • Authentic

            Lol! Todd had too much to drink and pretty much admit he wants to F Porsha on Peter’s show. He said it more than once. Who knows what Todd says when drunk? I think Todd regrets saying that shit on national tv but we all saw it. Sorry Todd!!!

          • Trippinhhard

            I didn’t think he had too much to drink, but he still said it and he meant it..

      • Trippinhhard

        I could not have said it better., That was a shitty ass friend to hide Apollo’s stolen goods at their home.. okay so why Kandi don’t just drop her daughter off to her daddy.. He was married when she was creeping with him.. I would not take my small children to prison for no one.. Everyone has an opinion, but where was Todd, Peter when Apollo went to jail.. Fhedra said Greg has called her several times, to see if she needed anything. He offered to mentor them if she wanted that..she didn’t receive a call from them at all..

      • Reality Buffy

        I think Apollo was involved in kinky stuff with Todd and Kandi, it wouldn’t surprise me if he and Todd shared females.

    • Authentic

      Agree Kandi probably tried to get pregnant by Jermaine Dupree per mom’s instructions. Then her mom told her to go after Block – success!

      • Trippinhhard

        A baby don’t make a man stay with you or marry you…I concur with you about Joyceless, she takes the fun out of everything….

        • Authentic

          I put NOTHING pass Mama Joyce. Nothing.

  • kacer

    Kandi can hold a grudge like no other. Move on already!

  • Champagne Hangover

    Forgiveness is SO overrated. First of all, unless it’s genuine (and let’s be real, when a bitch done you WRONG, it rarely is), it’s just one giant mouth fart of a buzzword. Toxic people, narcissist, Psychopaths, etc. LOVE this pop culture definition of ‘forgiveness’ because it resets their toxic clock. Forgiveness= Revictimization =Tick tock until they fuck you over again and but worse. They already showed you who they were when they did what they did. Let what they did speak and speak LOUDLY. Don’t enable their bad behavior to psychopathy by softening that voice. Forgiveness is EARNED and sometimes it’s just not even an option.

  • TartLemon

    I like Kandi, but THOSE FACES she makes…… Can’t stand them. The eyes rolling, contorting mouth… ALL OF IT. Blech.

    • RealitytvJunkie

      A face only a mother can love lol.

    • chacha1

      and talking thru her teeth

      • Authentic

        Right, can’t stand Mama Joyce and Kandi talking thru their teeth. Uugghh!

        • Cardio32

          Mama Joyce and those shark teeth and her wigs looking like lampshades from the 1970’s.

      • Cardio32

        Yes God. Kandi is either talking through her teeth or mumbling when she speaks.

    • Cardio32

      Yeah I agree, those dumb a $$ faces is jusr like her daughter. I excuse the daughter’s facial expressions since she is child but Kandi she is she is 40yr old mama of two #Kandi grow up.

  • BetteDavisEyez1

    It is totally up to Kandi if & when she decides to forgive Porsha. Porsha should just leave her alone & stop even acknowledging her presence.

    • wiseone

      She doesn’t have to forgive Porsha but she needs to find another story line.

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        You can say that again. But in all honesty, Kandi is still boring. Sitting around, having these faux business meetings where her lackeys sit around dogging everyone out.
        Other than that, she isn’t the one that brought it up. It was Nene. Porsha wasn’t backing down, so she tried to bring it up in a failed attempt to win an argument.

        • wiseone

          I agree but every time Porsha opens her mouth Kandi gives her a side eye and I remember at Shamea’s wedding shower Kandi and Carmen were making snide remarks when Porsha said she wasn’t going to attend her wedding. Nene is speaking for Kandi so Kandi doesn’t have to say anything – Nene is trying to make Porsha lose her cool.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            That’s right. Kandi always has everyone else fighting her battles while she sits back making her ugly faces. Over it!!

    • Authentic

      Hi Bette! Slightly disagree. They work on same tv show, both need to acknowledge each when filming. Kandi is too old for this game, ie never speak1st.
      Now look, Kandi mad at her fans? (I didn’t read her whole post). I personally think Kandi is mad at the world because she’ll probaly loose center peach next season. or has she already lost? I’m barely keeping up this season.

      Agree it’s not mandatory Kandi forgive Porsha .

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        Hey Authentic!!
        We may disagree but the one thing we do agree on is we could both go w/o that SL continuing.
        Kandi was not innocent in that whole debacle. Her whole team was gunning for both Phaedra & Porsha from the beginning of the season.
        Phaedra took things too far & in the end, Kandi was violated.
        While she is happy Phaedra was fired, just checkout her opening line, she isn’t happy Porsha is still on the show.
        Nene doesn’t give a damn about what happened to Kandi. She just wants to fight with Porsha. Her beef is so contrived. She is just as bad as KimZ gunning for Kenya.

        • Authentic

          Ha! Gunning is the perfect word!!! In my mind, gunning is for center peach next season. Nene is all over the place gunning. I’m ready for her to go after Kenya and Sheree on their significant others. Per recap she may start with Sheree next week in her TH.
          I’M READY!

          PS: I’m sick of Kandi’s whole family and executive minions at work being filmed quoting what Kandi told them to say. Enough!!!

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Oh!! I have been over Kandi & her henchmen with their well rehearsed reads. Especially Don Juan. That one is truly insufferable.
            Kenya is all onboard with Nene verbally attacking Porsha but just wait until Nene gets up in her cement ass. Then it won’t be so funny.
            I’m here for it. Just watch how she becomes the victim of jealous women hating on her fairytale marriage.(insert eye roll)

      • Cardio32

        But, Kandi can jump through hoops to get Kim to acknowledge her and Kim did her dirty.

        • Authentic

          Agree Cardio! I call Kandi a Field N. In the Kim didn’t pay Kandi situation.

  • chacha1

    Wendy Williams (yuk) had Kenya Moore on her show yesterday and hinted at being pregnant and if so, possibly twins, Kenya wasn’t saying but WW was hinting like she knows something
    And I loved it when WW said that Xscape does NOT need Kandi to be successful and also mentioned Kandi’s sex den and thinks there is some truth to what Porsha said (paraphrasing)

    • Authentic

      I saw that interview. It was like Wendy was interviewing herself. Kenya mostly giggled with twisted blank amswers like she does on RHOA. Then Wendy answered herself.

      • chacha1

        and Kenya didn’t protest too loudly at all … just kept smiling not denying

        • Authentic

          Right!

  • chacha1

    Kandi and WIGS can dish it out but they cannot take it ….. they both make me sick and WIGS has no reason to go after Kenya and then have her ass wiper Goober hiding in a closet somewhere to jump out and comfort WIGS like she was the one who was attacked

    • Authentic

      Cant stand Kandi and Kim Z. Both weak bitches!!! F Goober too.

      Porsha is not my favorite but she’s staying in her lane and keeps trying to use Bravo to kick off products like Bethenny to become a mega millionaire. 1st season RHOA tried it; DeShawn Snow did an event but didn’t realize she had cheap ghetto friends. Lisa Wu, i will not discuss her fashion show, She By Sheree either. Nene was trying to be a big shot with young girls, Kim Z f”g Big Poppa. Porsha needs to research all of these flops before continuing any product while on RHOA. Kandi came on later season.

  • Reality Buffy

    Why is Kroy called Goober? What has he done that is racist? Not doubting just don’t watch their show.

  • Educate Don’t Discriminate

    Good for her. She gave Portia a job in her play and helped her try to get recognized for her singing ….and Portia acted like a diva bitch. She forgot who was there helping her out after her divorce

    • BetteDavisEyez1

      So just because someone gives you a job or step up, they can treat you like dirt?!?
      I don’t give a hoot what you’ve done for me. It doesn’t mean I owe you my life or my first born child.
      If you do something for the next person, shouldn’t it be out of the kindness of your heart?!? That person doesn’t owe you for the rest of their lives.

      • Authentic

        Thank you Bette!

        • BetteDavisEyez1

          I mean really. You don’t do something for someone & expect them to be indebted to you for life.
          If anything, Porsha did Kandi a favor by doing that sorry attempt at a play.