#RHOA NeNe Leakes In TEARS As Fans Slam Her For Saying Woman Should Be Raped (Video)

Posted on Oct 12 2017 - 10:06am by Avigail

NeNe Leakes suffered an emotional breakdown over backlash for telling a heckler that she hopes she gets raped.

The unfortunate incident took place during her comedy show last Saturday night in Oakland, California. You can read all about it here.

The Real Housewives of Atlanta star, 49, posted a video on Instagram of herself crying while being comforted by a friend. 

Through tears, NeNe says:

“It’s cause I said the wrong thing back.” Her friend responds, “You said it in a moment of passion. It wasn’t something that you — wrote in your script — that was something that happened in an instant.”

The woman speaking to NeNe reveals that the heckler made racist remarks and even told the reality diva to kill herself — which fostered the controversial comeback from the reality star.

“Racism is very real, and it’s unfortunate that it had to come out that way,” Nene’s friend tells her as she continues wiping tears from her eyes. “But you know, it’s unfortunate to tell somebody to go kill themselves, too. Because had you killed yourself that night, would this woman be going through that?”

NeNe responds that people “don’t care,” what the other person said to cause to her lash out, “All they care about is what I said.”

NeNe goes on to explain that she meant no harm and deeply regrets the incident.

“At the end of the day, I never want to cause harm to anybody else, not in that kind of way,” NeNe adds. “Everybody who knows me, knows that I never would want that to happen.”

Press play to watch NeNe’s tearful meltdown below.


On Monday, NeNe posted an apology on Instagram, “Sometimes words can cut deep and hurt when you have no intentions of them doing so…I hope people accept my deepest and sincerest apologies.”

 

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  • ScrappieONE

    Tears my butt… This vile woman only is crying for herself in fear of loosing that paycheck… Time to check you “Boo”….

    • MissScarletwithaRevolver

      Now she’s calling the woman upon whom she wished rape a racist. Got it Nono. Now go away.

    • Ronnie

      I bet they did not say anything racist to her. Oakland is probably the most racially diverse city in the US. I hate when people lie on racism to avoid responsibility for their actions. People lose their lives and suffer tremendously because of racism. People like Nene shouldn’t cry racism frivolously.

      • ScrappieONE

        My brother lived there for over 25 years and you are absolutely dead on everything you said in your post.

        • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

          Oakland is sheet hole.

          • ScrappieONE

            You can get mugged anywhere in today’s society..

        • Ronnie

          Yes. I worked there for 7yrs and people get along and are very inclusive.

        • Ronnie

          Thnx Scrappie.

          • ScrappieONE

            Yup and he’s gay and living the life…

          • Ronnie

            That is Eastbay. It is all about live and let live.

  • JrzShoreLady

    Oh please!!! Sounds like this entire conversation was scripted which is the only way Moose doesn’t put her foot in her mouth.

  • christy flanders

    Nene has always said mean, hurtful things & people laugh. That’s why she thinks she can say whatever she wants. It finally caught up with her. I will say that a heckler is a nasty, mean person & can ruin a comedy routine. Next time she should have security remove them.

    • ScrappieONE

      Most “real” comedians know how to handle a heckler in their comic routine without wishing rape, harm or using racism to cover up their foul behavior. I agree its finally caught up with her.

      • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

        I don’t even know what the hell she’s doing on a comedy stage in the first place.

  • chacha1

    Oh STFU NeNe take your camel face and your hooves and get stepping, no one wants to see your sorry ass anymore !!!

    • TartLemon

      I am someone. You do not speak for me.

    • Ronnie

      You are wrong for that. Lololol.Now I can’t get the image of NeighNeigh clopping along with hooves, while cutting her eyes at those she passes. Every so often snarling those horse blinders (teeth) at anyone who looks like Kim or Brielle.

  • Trippinhhard

    Child that picture of Nene is horrible.. That blonde hair looks horrible on her head.
    Girl please go back to the dark color you used to wear.. This color is a miss blonk

  • we”r”family

    I thought there was video produced that didn’t show the person she made the comment to? So, Nene isn’t really sorry because she is basically blaming the person she said the vile comment to. It was retaliation her book.

  • Cassandra Dreme

    Oh come on Nene! If that woman had said a racist remark many people in that audience would have turned on her & supported you. I don’t believe that for a minute! It seems to be your excuse for everything lately. Crying wolf all the time also undermines the real racism that people endure daily.

    I don’t believe your tears either. Looks like someone is trying to brush up on their acting skills.

    • wiseone

      Not the way the racial climate is today – they probably would have joined in or encouraged her. People are no longer containing what they really feel – they are coming out with it. The racial climate in this country is exploding at an all time high.

      • Cassandra Dreme

        I agree….but this was Oakland not Ohio. I guarantee you that audience was mixed. Also why isn’t she being specific about the supposed racist comment?

        • wiseone

          I don’t know but it’s not unbelievable.

        • wiseone

          Racists are everywhere. Mixed crowd or no mixed crowd they are spewing racist rhetoric in front of everybody now. It’s like they feel privileged to speak their minds anywhere anytime – no more hiding their true feelings.

          • Cassandra Dreme

            They would get their ass beat in Oakland. Fact.

          • wiseone

            I hop so.

          • Minx

            No lie..

    • Ronnie

      First of all, picture who will go and see Nene – people who like her. Next consider that Oakland is 28% Whites, 27% Blacks, 25% Hispanic, 17% Asian and the rest a mix of other ethnicities/races. Beyond the mixture, people do get along. I do not believe her. She is spinning this.

  • D’Fwan

    What was the racist thing the woman said? Has anyone found the woman yet? What’s the tea?

    • the underground train

      That’s what I want to know too.

    • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

      No one knows. The heckler (or whoever) only posted NeNe’s response.

      • equinox2009

        Nobody and no one deserves that speech!

    • GirlPlz

      Why would there be a racist woman at her show?
      Ignoring that, the racist thing seems too convenient. Anyone who doesn’t like Nene is labelled a racist.

    • Shecodes

      They were in Oakland. No racist would have the nerve to speak up there.

      • D’Fwan

        But she seems to indicate that it was (I assume) a white lady saying that she hopes she dies or something. Find this woman, get the skinny!

  • TartLemon

    NeNe was wrong! She’s recognized it and apologized specifically. Won’t make it go away, but at least NeNe has recognized and acknowledged the mistake.

    • ShouldaCouldaWoulda

      Please! She has acknowledged nothing! She has gone into the blame mode. Pulled out her tired old racism card to boot. As long as people like Nene continue to use the racism card for non issues, they will continue to undermine the real racism in this world.

  • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

    The final piece to the puzzle … NeNe is clearly surrounding herself with nut jobs. If she thinks she’s big enough to only cater to a certain demographic; alienating a large portion of the population in the process, then so be it. She will find herself working Open Mic night at Bar None and other ghetto dives like it.

    • GirlPlz

      She’s a narcissist

  • Elizabeth Fisher

    Seriously.. this is the second time in a week Moose is crying racism. Really???

    • Ronnie

      Yet they could unfairly shoot every Black man on the planet and she wouldn’t even notice.

      • Cassandra Dreme

        Ohhh good point Ronnie! I hadn’t connected the dots on that!

        • Ronnie

          Yep. That is our Moose…

  • Jennymckitty

    You know, as mad as I’ve been over some people’s remarks, it never even occurred to me to hope that they were raped.

    • Rochelle Barozzi

      THANK YOU! This is what I just do NOT get. F off, rude names etc…but never to be raped. What kind of sick mind thinks that way??

  • Txtea

    She’s a nasty person and her tears are fake. Think before you speak and you won’t be cryin for yourself.

  • Marsbars09

    Nene is an American tragedy. God blessed her with the opportunities to fulfill her dreams but she always does something to sabotage it. Nene may not be able to bounce back from this f*ck up.

    • YouGotTheRightOneNow

      Her number 1 enemy is herself and her EGO!

      • Marsbars09

        Hey YGRO! So true.

    • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

      I’m thinking the same thing. Being dumped from the Xscape tour isn’t a good sign.

    • GirlPlz

      She’s been over for a while. Her treatment of Cynthia and Claudia, her walk out of group therapy highlighted her bullish behavior.

    • Cassandra Dreme

      oh lawdy..one would hope! but just look at Teresa & Vicki 🙁

  • Marsbars09

    I’ve read Kandi fired Nene as the opening act for the Xscape tour. I don’t blame Kandi after the rape/drug allegation nightmare she endured.

    • the underground train

      Hey love. I would expect nothing less from Kandi. I wonder if Nene’s scenes berating Porsha for last season attempting rape allegations will be edited out. Otherwise Nene will look like the biggest hypocrite.

      • Marsbars09

        Hi underground! Girl, the producers and editors of RHOA have got to be working overtime to clean up the messes made by Kenya, Nene and Kim Z.

      • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

        Great point, but I doubt it. Bravo doesn’t apparently have any problems with hypocrisy.

        • Jennymckitty

          Bravo embraces hypocrisy.

    • YouGotTheRightOneNow

      I just read that too Marsie! Girl, I don’t blame Kandi one bit!!

  • Marsbars09

    And which ass kissing friend was comforting Nene? That’s a main part of Nene’s problem. I don’t think she has friends who tell her when she’s wrong. Nene will never correct her mistakes if she doesn’t self reflect. But Nene probably doesn’t surround herself with people who don’t tell her what she wants to hear.

  • loriann760

    How do you try and erase your mistakes? You make a video and get a friend to comfort you while explaining away what you did and claim you were a victim of racism. Wont work Nene. You’re still a horrible, horrible person.
    PS…let some actual tears fall before dabbing at them. Worst. Actress. Ever.

  • Simon

    Give me a damn break! Nene can cry all she wants, we all know the deal. And she calls herself an actress… 🙄

  • theStevieJBus

    If this woman really said racist stuff to Nene why didn’t she call her out on her racist comments instead of the rape wishes? I mean I’ve had heated arguments with people but I’ve never said I wished someone got raped, its really disgusting and Nene claims to have been abused and I feel that anyone who was abused wouldn’t make a comment like that.

    Also as a black person I really wish Nene would stop claiming racism where there is none, Racism is more prevalent in our society today than it has been since the 60’s and when you have an idiot reality star making unfounded claims of racism it only emboldens the racists.

    • MissScarletwithaRevolver

      And false claims of racism as Nene seems prone to diminish the actual incidents of real racism and makes it more difficult for victims of real racism to find justice.

    • Cassandra Dreme

      That’s my major problem with this. She keeps crying wolf..and then it discredits the people that suffer daily.

    • Rochelle Barozzi

      Perfectly said.

  • Oh Snarky Me

    The only thing she is sorry about is that she got caught on video.

  • BetteDavisEyez1

    Nene is known for “reading” ppl. But Nene can dish it out but never take it. That is why anytime anyone has ever stood up to her, she goes off.
    Going low is a default for her. Nene’s massive ego can not handle being challenged.

    • GirlPlz

      Perfect eg – when Claudia read her and she couldn’t deal

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        Exactly. I can think of 3 different examples right off the top of my head. Nene fights dirty.

      • ShouldaCouldaWoulda

        That was a great moment…. watching her flounder when Claudia read her. I always felt that was why Claudia was a One Season and out regular. Nene pitched a fit to producers because she did not want to have to match wits with Claudia.

        • GirlPlz

          why did the producers cave into her though?

    • Marsbars09

      Very well put, Bette.

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        Thank you, kindly.😘😘

  • GirlPlz

    NeNe is an insecure bully, who can dish it out but cant take it. She’s also very arrogant – she thinks she is fault-less, God-like. Like other narcissists, she perpetually plays victim

  • RonnieIsBack

    and SHE JUST GOT FIRED OFF THE TOUR….#BLOOP. XScape (cough Kandi) issued a statement.

    • GirlPlz

      And she’ll hate on Kandi for it too

  • GirlPlz

    So-called champion of ending domestic violence and empowering women

    • Marsbars09

      If Nene should be shamed for anything it’s coming onto this franchise stating she supports victims of domestic violence yet displays volatile, bullish behavior. I don’t think anyone has ever called her out on her hypocrisy.

  • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

    This isn’t NeNe’s week … fired from the Xscape “tour” (that probably isn’t filling HS gymnasiums anyway), fighting with a 20 yr. old snot while crying racism, Kim lawyering up, wishing rape on another woman, and now crying racism again (and wishing rape on) a stupid heckler. The only thing left would be for Melissa Rivers to fire her ass from Fashion Po’leese and of course Bravo kicking her to the curb as well.

    • Rochelle Barozzi

      We can only hope.

      • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

        I used to actually get a kick out of NeNe, but she’s just gotten too uppity for her own good. She needs to be knocked down a few pegs.

        • Rochelle Barozzi

          I did at first too. She made me laugh…she lost that to me after she became, “popular” on the show.

          • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

            She lost me when she screamed at ShitBySheree that she was cashing Trump (Apprentice) checks, then redeemed herself when she declared she would not discuss money when Kenya who challenged her to match her $25K charity, but then lost me again when she called Claudia a half-breed and told her that her clit has left the bldg, I suspect she’s in financial trouble (or at least has concerns), because there is no way would she be crawling back to ATL with her tail between her legs (and the same with Kim).

          • Rochelle Barozzi

            She owed a loot of past taxes. I am sure she is hurting for money.

    • GirlPlz

      As mentioned elsewhere, they’ve sold out shows.

      • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

        What are they charging, $10 bucks a head and a two drink minimum?

        • GirlPlz

          Why mad though?

          • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

            Who me? You haven’t seen me mad.

  • boredatwork

    And this is why her 1-minute Hollywood and Broadway career failed: talentless skank can’t even act her way out of a paper bag LOL

  • Brenda

    Of course no one cares that this ignorant heckler called her racist names and told her to kill herself.