EXPOSED! Inside #RHOC Star Tamra Judge’s Nasty Homophobic History!

Posted on Sep 13 2017 - 8:56am by BeachSpin

Tamra Judge went after “homophobic bullies,” spreading rumors about husband Eddie Judge’s sexuality in an angry Instagram post following a contentious episode of The Real Housewives of Orange County.

The 50-year-old called the big reveal about her husband’s sexual orientation, “orchestrated and wrong.”

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Tamra
accused co-star, Vicki Gunvalson of plotting to “out a straight man” — while blasting her as a “homophobic,” bully. She also urges Bravo to fire Vicki for the alleged, “homophobic” set-up — against a straight man.

Tamra compares Vicki’s whisper of an ancient rumor to Phaedra Parks’ drugging/rape allegation against her Real Housewives of Atlanta co-star, Kandi Burruss. Phaedra was fired by Bravo, after creating and spreading the damaging lie. 

CLICK: #RHOC’s Eddie Judge’s Alleged Gay Relationship With Adopted Father Revealed!


Tamra
is likely betting that viewers forgot her own homophobic bashing — a verbal slip so nasty that she found it necessary to issue a formal apology to gay rights organization, GLAAD.

According to the longtime Housewives cast member, “It’s Not the 1920’s and being gay is not something to be ashamed of or mocked.” However, Tamra commented that Slade Smiley looked like a “homo,” on the reality show’s 2009 season finale.

“I am reaching out to GLAAD and the gay community today to apologize for the ignorant comment I made on last week’s episode,” Tamra wrote.

“The word I used was “homo” and not the word I was searching for and not a word I condone. I am highly embarrassed and ashamed. I have several gay friends  and family members…”

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As fans know, Tamra’s ex-bestie, Ricky Santana — who stood up with Tamra in her wedding to Eddie — amped this week’s gay chatter, claiming that he witnessed the Cut Fitness owner making out with another man.

After Tamra’s homophobic comment, in Season 5 — she was slammed by fans — and allegedly cozied up to Ricky (a gay man), as part of damage control to repair her tainted image.

Tamra and Ricky have since parted ways, but the mom of four offered an update on their relationship, during the episode.

What do you think of Tamra’s strategized comeback? Total truth — or contrived coverup?

The Real Housewives of Orange County airs Monday nights, on Bravo.

 

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  • BetteDavisEyez1

    Is Trashy going to ignore her husband using the frozen treat to simulate a blowjob or him saying “sword fight & no women allowed!!”?!?
    Even Trashy gave him a WTF look. Trashy has brought up the rumor more than anyone this season.
    She claims Vicki should be fired like Phaedra but for some odd reason doesn’t seem to mind how Kenya mocked KimF husband. Went so far as to call him Chrissy.
    If anyone should be fired, it should be Trashy & her bloated sidekick. Take long neck Meghan with her on the way out.

    • Reality Buffy

      Phaedra wasn’t fired for gay rumor but saying Kandinsky drugs and rapes people.

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        That’s right. Calling someone gay is no where near what Phaedra was fired for.
        When you read Trashy’s rants, she is the one that is coming off homophobic. JMHO

  • Karoline

    This whole thing is wrong on so many levels. Its none of anyone’s business what people do with their genitalia. These ” gay or straight” story lines are juvenile.

    • Darris

      Agree 100%

    • Had enough

      I agree and this scene was so staged and made up by ickie, the cast of thrown out wives trying to be relevant was something off of the D list reality shows on other channels

  • Darris

    How long were and Ricky friends before they fell out?

    This storyline is stupid and played out and I’m disappointed altogether that people in/allies of the LBGT community participated in such crap.

    • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

      As I wrote on another thread, Andy finally weighed in when he said that scene made him throw up in his mouth and he’s REALLY tired of the gay husband talk on ALL the shows. Baby steps I guess.

  • pixntrix

    What a freaking hypocrite! Time for Tamara to go. And could she please take Shannon and Meghan with her.

    • Karoline

      And Vicki, Lydiot, and Pegs

  • wellWellwell

    This is exactly what Sydney was talking about when she said her mother would do anything for fame. Tamtrash has never had a SL that was interesting..never. She was, is and always will be trash!

    • we”r”family

      Sydney seems to have a good head on her shoulders. I bet she’ll find her way without having to have a man to depend on financially.

  • we”r”family

    Another platform for Tamra….eye roll……!
    Wish she would just go back to the trailer park.

    • BetteDavisEyez1

      When I saw her dressed in that flannel, blacked out tooth & holding that beer can, all I saw was the true Tamra in all her trailer park glory.
      If not for this show, she’d be walking around in flip flops, Daisy dukes, holding a beer in one hand & a menthol cig in the other.
      You can’t make a silk purse out of a sow’s ear.

      • we”r”family

        No you cannot. You can be rich and have zero class.

        • BetteDavisEyez1

          Precisely. You can take the girl out of the trailer park but you can’t take the trailer park out of the girl.

        • Marilyn

          Exactly what I think about Vicki

  • Vicki’s_neckbrace

    I don’t think anyone would give a shit if Eddie’s gay, it’s the fact that he may be gay and he’s married to a WOMAN. Not the same as homophobia.

    • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

      I agree with that, but that isn’t their message (no one gives a rat about Tamra’s marriage or well being). The point of this story line is Eddie is gay.

      • Champagne Hangover

        And married to a woman…

        • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

          Yup // I get it … and I’ve never been able to deal with (gay) guys I’ve known who married women; especially when they spend their lives cheating.

          • Champagne Hangover

            Yeah, I agree…but who knows? Maybe Eddie was gay for pay or just bisexual and Tamra knows all about it and is fine with it, but wanted it swept under the rug? I’m a pretty nosy person in a lot of ways (otherwise I wouldn’t watch these shows) and even I’m ‘meh’ about Eddie’s sexuality. It’s really just not that interesting to me…

          • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

            As I’ve said before; he just doesn’t beep for me … not at all (and I’m never wrong).

          • Champagne Hangover

            I concur. I’m not always right, but I don’t see him as full on gay. He’s either straight, gay for pay or bisexual. My guess would be either of the first two before the latter, but in the end who cares? And why stir this up? If none of them have a beef with Eddie, stay out of the man’s business. These harpies are all so damn thirsty.

          • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

            I don’t believe he’s ever even touched another man. Even his (and Tamra’s) reaction to all this BS is what a guiltless straight dude’s reaction would be.

          • Champagne Hangover

            Yeah, either he’s cool with having done a little dudeage, a little bro time 😉 here and there ….for whatever reason …OR, dude ain’t done dudes. So, the whole thing is a nothing burger. Why give it life?

          • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

            Yup … just like this season. I am enjoying it (because I eat this shit up), but it’s looking increasingly manufactured. I hate to ruin everyone’s fun, but I know in my gut that Tamra and Vicki are BFF’s for life … and this so called beef is all for television.

          • Champagne Hangover

            I have to admit, I kind of enjoy Vicki and Tamra getting butt ass wasted on vaycay. They’re very entertaining….

          • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

            Yup, they’re two peas in a pod.

          • Champagne Hangover

            It’s kind of like Ramona and Sonja together. You may not like them individually or even as friends, but they’re entertaining drunk on vaycay together. ..even if only in a train wreck kind of way. I mean, I’d rather shave my head with a cheese grater while simultaneously chewing on tin foil and standing barefoot on ice cubes and broken glass than actually be in the presence of a drunk Ramona and Sonja….BUT it’s an entertaining spectacle to watch. Same with Vicki and Tamra, except if we’re being perfectly honest, I could probably hang with a drunk Vicki and Tamra on vaycay. I’m not saying I could put in more than a couple of hours or that I could keep up with those bitches, but I could probably hang…and maybe even not regret doing so…

          • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

            I would probably enjoy partying with all four of them too, but would probably enjoy Sonja and Old Moaner a little more … esp in NYC.

          • Champagne Hangover

            I couldn’t take Sonja and Ramona. Now, Lu and Sonja? Sure. Lu and Ramona? If I had the proper drugs, why not? Sonja and Ramona? Gotta nope out on that one, bro. No gracias to that mess, but I’ll watch that trainwreck from afar all day any day 👍

  • as seen on TV

    tamra is wretched and ignorant and will say and do anything to make someone ELSE look bad, she twists things just BEYOND. nothing she says makes sense, or is based AT ALL in truth. she exaggerates and uses inflammatory pejoratives to foment hatred for anyone she’s disagreeing with. she did this to her own daughter Sidney, her parents, both former husbands, former costars, current costars, etc. it’s absolutely UNBELIEVABLE that she has gotten away with this for years. –more astounding is the fact that no one has broken both of her arms yet.
    rant over.

  • Bryan

    She is a useless worthless sea creature, every time she complains about something its laughable because she is often always guilty of the crime herself

    • Marilyn

      Then what’s that say about Vicki constantly screeching “I DID NOT LIE ABOUT CANCER”? She claims to have nothing tied with Coto to the former KillAllCancer scam hmmm – months prior to the KillAllCancer show aired she was selling bracelets and sending them out with Coto Insurance letterhead https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/4b8ed3d2a97d7a09f4ebce0f2d68084885cfe7d611eee7f1d9617ea519b8e43f.jpg

      • Bryan

        And?

        • Marilyn

          Um “and” she claimed to never link her insurance company to the cancer crap… that’s proof that she “sold” bracelets and linked it all to Coto Insurance… that’s profiting…. she never had a 501c3 either. Applied for it supposedly but it doesn’t take a year to get it granted.

          • Bryan

            And she obviously broke no laws or she would be in prison today, so its been several years move on from this Cancer nonsense you Barnyard fans love to keep alive is tired and old, she apologized , she learned her lesson, and Brooks was thrown into an active volcano, find a new song to sing and you and all the rest of Dirty Granny Cancer Scammer Singers need to stop trying to pretend Barnyard is the sole of integrity and Fat Ass Beador is a victim of everything, it ain’t working .

          • Sliceo’pie

            It’s true she did apologize but she continues to have no insight into her choices or behavior. It was an empty apology as she believes she was the true “Victim” in the whole sorted mess. Vicki has a very low emotional IQ. One learns as a teenager than you can offer an apology after a wrong but that doesn’t mean the other person HAS to accept it and embrace you again as a friend. People are right to be wary-especially after a whopper like that.
            You’re right though, Tamara and Shannon definitely don’t hold the moral high-ground.

          • Bryan

            You are right they never learn and they are all guilty many social faux pas OC needs to be CANCELLED, not recast CANCELLED its a mess and there is nothing in OC that is not anywhere else in any of the other california beach cities so its time to move to a new one

          • Marilyn

            Vast difference in breaking the laws and having something filed against her. Taking money in the name of a charity and claiming to have a 501c3 is against the law period. As for forgetting about the cancer lies? Um sorry not ever going to happen. That shows a total lack of character that is ingrained inside of her. She has no moral compass. Even as he was leaving her (she didn’t break up with him, she admitted he left her) she fell to her knees (her words as stated on the show last season) begging him not to leave her and that she didn’t care about his cancer or medical lies.

          • Bryan

            its time to move, as many of us are already tired of this old beat up and dead horse, its over and its part of what is making this show so boring is the constant dredging up of old tired crap, And if you are looking for a moral compass, The REAL Housewife franchise is not exactly the place to look and OC in particular these dirty certainly women have no idea what is really right and wrong .

          • Marilyn

            Only tired and old crap is Vicki. Lying about cancer is never “over”.

          • Bryan

            Well stop posting about it here, and from someone who has lost a good deal of family members to Cancer, its bothers me more when I see posters like yourself still beating that horse. I put all her Cancer nonsense behind me because that is where it belongs, If you are so concerned about Cancer, go make a difference in the fight to cure this disease, not harassing people with old diatribes about imaginary cancer scams, from several seasons back Yeah she lied about it she paid for it, MOVE ON!

          • Marilyn

            And it bothers ME that someone lied about it – if you truly lost family members to cancer you should be outraged
            And FYI – me 2 time breast cancer survivor, 2 time cervical cancer survivor, mother ovarian cancer survivor (diagnosed at 64 and lived to be 87), father lung cancer (after he had quit smoking 40 years prior), sister died after 2 years of battling colon cancer.
            She has NOT “paid for it” since she’s never fully admitted it. Oh she admitted she lied but oh she didn’t lie on purpose then she lied about lying, oh no that’s not what I meant…
            Here’s a thought if it bothers you to see it posted then block me.
            Have a great weekend

          • Bryan

            No Marilyn I save my outrage for things that matter not what someone on a reality show had done its a silly tv show,, this woman is nothing, she made herself look foolish and stupid and luckily no one else fell for her nonsense You MUST be new because I have discussed in detail those in my family have passed, here and on another blog that others here often post on. And of course as soon as I mention this in my above post, you have to reply to me with a medical laundry list and as for post. I won’t be the only one blocking you if you continue beating this particular dead horse, its old its tired and its done. And if you really want to honor those in your family who have suffered, make it count, not by ranting and raving about Vicki

          • Marilyn

            No not “new” lol why would I pay attention to details of someone on the internet? #GETLIFE
            Boohoo blocking me? Oh I’m crushed! LOL LOL Hilarious
            So you can post YOUR medical laundry list but others have never been impacted right? Narcissism at it’s finest.
            Too funny. Later – have a great weekend supporting some fat cow who lied about cancer (there i said it again)
            PS It may be a TV show (and if it’s so “silly” why are you bothering to comment? Hmm?) but what a human being does and did is real life. Not some TV script, it’s her real life.
            Sheesh
            Just stop ok? Good lord.

          • Marilyn
  • Bryan

    that photo of her with “hypocrite” needs to be posted to her twatter page.

    • Marilyn

      After Vicki’s who is the biggest hypocrite of them all

      • Bryan

        Baby Aspirin

  • Nathan Hastings

    I’m shocked! 😒

  • penny 2

    At least Eddie got a gym out of it. It might be empty but at least he has somewhere to go.

  • Lulu

    So maybe Eddie is Bi and Tamrat is cool with it. What I find deplorable is another gay man can sit there and throw that out on national tv .vickileaks and her duck-lipped minions were lapping it up and salivating. … to retaliate against tamrat.

    What they fail to realize is Eddie seems like a nice person and he doesn’t deserve all this.

    These ppl on RHOC are just going below the belt lately and I’m finding it DIFFICULT to find any redeeming qualities in any of these Ho’s

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