RECAP: #RHOC Tamra Judge’s Former Friend Exposes Eddie Judge’s Gay Hook Up!

Posted on Sep 12 2017 - 12:59am by Dani-K

Who wants to party? Can I get a woo-hoo! We join The Real Housewives of Orange County for multiple celebrations with multiple revelations. Vicki is planning a party for herself and wants to have a roast, but doesn’t know exactly what a roast is. Spoiler alert: it has nothing to do with beef. Once Briana informs Vicki she will be crying in her birthday cake, Vicki no longer wants people to roast her.

Next we are with Kelly as she stops by the clothing boutique that Peggy’s daughter Gia works at, not to be confused with her other daughter Gio who does not work there. Or the other way around. Anyway, Kelly announces she’s not trying anything on because she’s had another vajayjay tightening procedure. Because obviously.

Elsewhere, Lydia and Meghan are hiking. Lydia is still discussing Doug’s vasectomy. My God Woman! Stop talking about it. She says Doug is thinking about banking some of his sperm just like Jimmy did, so Doug can either use it with Lydia or a younger wife, whoever comes first. Ba-dum-tisk. Lydia then brings up the drag queen event and that she had a nice time before the fight between Meghan and Kelly broke out. Meghan says, Oh no you weren’t. Lydia explains that dressing like a man, made her feel uncomfortable.

Meghan says something’s off with Kelly. Lydia thinks something’s off with Meghan and it’s called hormones. When Meghan tries to point out the difference between her text and Kelly’s text, Lydia says catty is as catty does, and she’s Team Kelly. MELTDOWN! Meghan starts crying and says she’s not hiking with Lydia anymore, ever again, so there. Lydia says sorry, not sorry, let’s go back so you can breastfeed your baby. Thought she was done on St. Patrick’s Day, but whatev.

Over at Tamra’s place, she is baking something not very well when she gets a surprise call from Vicki. Vicki timidly asks Tamra to meet for coffee sans alcohol. Tamra can’t believe her ears. Go without alcohol? Vicki says she’s ready to get to a not-so awkward place. Tamra calls Shannon immediately afterwards to tell her about the call. Shannon says, Eff her. Tamra says she is willing to give Vicki a chance to apologize because she’s a Christian?

Back with Peggy, two of the three kids will be flying the coop soon and she no longer has to hear, mom, mom, mom, again and again. How’s that for honesty. Next, Peggy ponders if a bear sleeps where he sh*ts in the woods? She has no clue. Diko drives one of their many sports cars with Peggy to the post office to mail off college applications. Have you heard the joke, how many people does it take to mail a letter? Oh my gosh, these two! It takes one assistant. Sheesh.

Meghan’s mom is in town for a visit with her grandbaby, Aspen. Jimmy is nowhere to be seen. Meghan reminds us that her mom was actually there for the conception of her grandchild, but eww, we know, Aspen was conceived in a doctor’s office, not in a bedroom. Meghan admits she’s struggling with her hormones and says she has no time for Kelly-drama. What do you mean? There’s always time for Kelly-drama!

It’s birthday time again for Shannon. This time last year David threw her a vow renewal and pretended he loved her. David no longer pretends. Instead he blames the distance on Shannon’s stress and Shannon blames Vicki for the stress. David reaches out to touch Shannon’s hand and she tells him it’s the first time he’s held her hand in six months. Way to kill the mood, Shannon. She continues to eat, I mean, beat the dead horse about David’s lack of interest. Shannon wants to know what happened, but David goes to check on the girls and the birthday dinner everyone pitched in to make. David prays and asks for the Lord’s help. Because obviously.

The decorations are coming together for Vicky’s birthday party. Brother Billy and sister Lisa are in town from Chicago. Briana and her husband Ryan arrive with gifts. Matching guns for Vicki and Briana! Ryan, you’ve been in Oklahoma too long. Vicki is shocked that her boyfriend Steve, a cop, packs heat on their dates. Mmm-hmm. That joke wrote itself.

Elsewhere, Tamra, Shannon, David and Meghan and her mom are going out to dinner with some other friends to celebrate Shannon and Eddie’s birthdays. They order liquid nitrogen alcoholic drinks and food with giant forks. Tamra tells Meghan about Vicki’s call for coffee and that she is struggling with that whole forgiveness thing that she’s supposed to be gung ho about. Meghan tells Tamra she can’t renege on the coffee invite just because her baking skills were insulted. What would Martha Stewart do?

Back at Vicki’s party. RHOC alum Jeana Keogh is there. Peggy, Lydia and Kelly arrive with their significant others. And Kelly wants a gun now, too. If ever there was a case for gun control, it’s Kelly. Turns out, Lydia said yes to Shannon’s dinner invite a month ago, but bailed and came to Vicki’s party instead. Peggy tells Lydia she did wrong and will probably burn in hell. Lydia is like, Whatev.

Gretchen and Lizzie arrive. Gretchen looks exactly same and Slade does too. Lydia says hello to Gretchen and tells her right away that Doug will be getting a vasectomy. Swedish meatballs anyone? Vicki tells Lydia she reached out to Tamra and the two will be meeting for coffee. Lydia says this is her birthday wish for them because she believes in love and unicorns and vasectomies.

Vicki gives a nice toast about how wonderful Steve is and how she loves having her friends and family with her on her birthday. Let’s take a group fireball shot. Yum!

When they sit down, Kelly tells a story of how she met Lizzie back in the day at the gym and the rumor then was, Eddie’s gay.

Gretchen asks Ricky (Tamra’s former friend) to share his two-cents about Eddie’s sexuality and he drops a bomb! Ricky tells the ladies that he walked in on Eddie making out with a man. #NotShockedAtAll. When the women ask him why he didn’t tell Tamra, since they were bff’s at the time, Ricky says he thought Tamra was into this. 

Tune in next week for Vicki and Tamra’s dramatic reunion.

 

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  • just me…

    Ok..so holy crap lizzy IMO looks like a bad drag queen.

    • Maisey 😎 🇺🇸

      Actually she looks like a good drag queen which is the same thing.

    • BooBooBaby

      Lizzy had on a really bad lipstick colour on her overly plumped up lips. I did like her hair better than usual though.

      Peggy’s hair and lipstick colour looked Horrible as usual!

    • BigBrothersMother

      Lizzie looks like a mop to me. Turn it upside down and draw a face on the stick. LOL

  • just me…

    No one here?

  • Maisey 😎 🇺🇸

    “Swedish meatballs anyone?”
    😂😂😂😂

    • just me…

      sword fight in the alley..no women invited…

    • Hamimono

      Maisey Maisey guess what! I think that—if we so choose—we are reinstated at RT . . #options

      • Maisey 😎 🇺🇸

        What makes you think that?
        Doesn’t work for me. ☹️

        • Hamimono

          I tried and it worked. Thinking that you and I had some similar situation. I did dig deep into Mod Tools for Disqus and found that their Temporary and Shadow Bans have buttons for Three Days, One Week, Two Weeks, Three Weeks. Month, Three Months, and Indefinite . . .

          It was exactly two weeks ago so I figured that was our “wrist slap” for . . . whatever?

          Anyway, if you have interest, this is hopeful. Maybe check from time to time. 🙂

          • Maisey 😎 🇺🇸

            Thanks for the info. I am glad you are back there having fun. I miss all my friends from there and remain mystified because I do not consider any of my posts offensive or mean spirited. Immature and corny…yeah. Lol.
            Say….have you seen Medusa or ALF after the night of Stigmata Barbie?

            Anyway there are some great posters on this site also.👍

          • Hamimono

            I’m with you Maisey! It was mysterious. Anyway, I really have a good feeling that you will have options soon, too! 🙂

            I’ve asked a bit and NO ONE has seen Medusa or ALF since that night. I don’t know ALF but I know some other sites where Medusa posts and haven’t seen here there either. . . I hope they are checking in occasionally being “reinstated” means it just suddenly “works” . . . makes me wonder if some people go away and don’t know that they could return . . . . I know some people are Not Happy with RT and don’t want to . . . Anyways . . . 🙂

          • the underground train

            I get randomly banned from there too. I send an email to the moderator asking why. They always reply with either I don’t know or I am not banned and then I am free to post again.

          • Hamimono

            Hmmm. OK, thanks for the info, underground. Mods won’t reply to our repeated emails asking why but maybe it’s just some glitch in their system that bans people temporarily under certain situations.

    • just me…

      I have never been to IKA…true.

  • BetteDavisEyez1

    Why is Kelly now just admitting that Vicki wasn’t the first person to tell her about the Eddie rumor?!?
    Clearly that guy was only invited to tell that sorted story about Eddie. Talk about a Bravo plant.
    Am I the only one that found those over sized props ridiculous?!? The swords. That gigantic fork. It was just dumb & too gimmicky.

    • Suzanne Stephens Bird

      IKR!! Vicki’s party seemed so staged. It was so obvious why Gretchen and that Ricky guy were there. And why did Kelly even bring up the rumor. If Kelly was trying to fix her wicked ways (what she has told Shannon and Tamara when she apologized for all her crap she has said to them), then why bring it up. She is supposed to be friends with Tamara now. They need to just drop it and move on…with or without everyone else. Grow up! They have never shown that Ricky dude until now..so obvious he was planted! RHOC and bravo need have really gone down over the last couple of seasons. This season is nothing but fighting and drama. Nothing good has come out of it.

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        I could not agree more. Every last woman on this show is annoying. All they do is repeat themselves. Vicki called my husband gay!! Vicki said my husband beat me!! These girls owe me an apology!! Baby Aspen!! Baby Aspen!!
        Enough already. Time to pull the plug on this franchise.

        • Bryan

          The Dirty Granny party, which of course is staged all the parties on all the HW shows are staged for the cameras, looked much more fun and appetizing then Barton G’s and Kitsch Cuisine!!

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            The overuse of nitrogen oxides & the oversized props are just too much. If the food is good, you don’t need all of that.
            Vicki’s party was filled with ppl that love her & the other party was a table filled with ppl that were there for the camera time.

          • Bryan

            Lizzie and the gossip gang, I think Jeana was there because they are friends

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Everytime I see Jenna, I think about Trashy throwing that drink in her face.
            That woman has a helleva lot of restraint because Trashy’s arm should have been broken in a few places.

          • Bryan

            or one good shove into the pool

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Even better. You can’t get charged with assault.

          • Bryan

            Always a benefit

          • Evil Queen

            Thank you!

          • At least Jeana got her face pulled back for the occasion.

          • Bryan

            boy did she ever, at least she kept out of Eddums gate

          • lynninla

            I don’t agree with you. Vicki’s party was gimmicky and a theme too…..Frozen.

          • Bryan

            At least they had food, if Loon Beador was there she could have ate and drank to her hearts and waistlines content

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            That’s fine. We don’t always have to agree.

      • the underground train

        The party may have been staged but everyone missed their cue to welcome Vicky! Lol

    • BooBooBaby

      Yes, I noticed ALL of that too.♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡

      I kept thinking, wait, so Kelly heard about Eddie before and didn’t bring it up at the reunion last year. Did Bravo mess up? Or did they think we wouldn’t remember?

      All their faces looked staged and fake when Tamra’s ex friend said that about Eddie.
      Looks like from the previews, for up coming shows, that that’s the last they are going to be talking about Eddie’s Gay-ness…..Lol! Until this year’s reunion. Oooo-ooh! I bet Tamra’s ex BBF will be at the reunion this year to explain more. It’s probably a big nothing burger though.

      At first when I read that part in your post where you posted, “Am I the only one that found those over sized props ridiculous?!?”
      Haha! The first thing I thought of was Kelly Dodd’s fake saggy breasts implants in her dress at Vicki’s B-Day Party. Lolz! Then I realized you meant those ridiculous props at that restaurant. Hahahaha! Yes those props at that restaurant were really silly and oversized. How can they see each other and talk at the table while they eat with that crazy Big Sheeett all over the table!?

      P.s. I have breast implants too, but mine are under the muscle and mine are not long and saggy. ☆♡☆♡☆

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        Nailed it. You hit on every point. This show is so contrived that we see what is coming up from a mile away.
        LMAO @ long & saggy.🤣😂🤣

      • Dani-K

        So technically Kelly threw Vicki under the bus last year by saying that Vicki said Eddie was gay – which she did – but Kelly should have mentioned then she’d heard this rumor before. So did Kelly say it and Bravo took it out? Or was this total fabrication to begin the conversation?

    • What are you supposed to do with the huge fork when you try to use you normal sized fork and knife to cut your steak? Do you throw it at Tamra? Does the waiter come back for it? Just place it on the floor? I wonder if its ever fallen on someone during transit to the table. That could be bad if one of those swords slipped off the tray and hit someone… so many questions.

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        Let Shannon use it to get more food in her mouth faster.

        • 😂🤣😭

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I mean really!! “Im fat!! Can I get the steak with a side order of baby back ribs & spaghetti & meatball?!?”
            She makes me sick.

    • Dani-K

      I wonder what happened between That guy and Tamra. Obviously something for him to skip Eddie’s party for Vicki’s. If you’ve ever been on a jury and they bring in the jail house snitch you have weigh what he says with the fact that he’s getting something in return.

      • the underground train

        Exactly!

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        Great analogy. That guy has a hidden agenda. No doubt.

      • GirlPlz

        His switch of loyalties is totally absurd. He’s excuse that he thought Tamra was OK with marrying a bi/gay is also absurd.

  • we”r”family

    Vicki has been on the redemption tour far too long. She is so trying to prove her and Steve are beyond happy. That these other women are missing out by not being her friend. Not to mention she managed to get her dig in with the Eddie is gay once again.
    But, then again all these women have negative agendas.

    • GirlPlz

      I thought it was very convenient she called Tamra earlier to discuss their friendship. Is she trying to play innocent in this setup/gay storyline

      • we”r”family

        I am trying to figure out WHY. Is Vicki angrier at Shannon than Tamra? They certainly are building up Vicki and Tamra talking. Why do I feel like it will be a dud.

        • GirlPlz

          This show makes no sense

  • Darris

    I like Shannon…she charmed me the first couple of seasons but good lord she is a buzz kill with David. It’s been 3 years now so if you’re going to forgive David and move on from him cheating it should have happened long ago. Just divorce the man and be miserable alone because that couch scene and Shannon crying in the confessional sad to see.

    On to Piggy Vicki, Lizard gecko looking Lizzie and that hard face looking hooker Gretchen and her fiancé of half a century Slade. Kelly had said she heard the rumor before Vicki told her but what made it obvious to me this was a setup and petty is that why have this big party and invite all these women just to sit down and have Kelly randomly bring it up…that convo had no natural flow to it and it shows exactly why I haven’t liked any of those women recently minus Kelly who I have a love/hate relationship

    If there is one person on this cast and previous seasons who always seemed to be all around nice and pleasant to everyone it’s been Eddie. I’m also sick and tired of this “your husband is gay” storyline running on these shows.

    • Dani-K

      Yes that convo at the party had set up written all over it, but for a second I thought I saw Lizzie cringe. Not Gretchen, though. She was all too happy to get to the bottom Eddie’s bidness. Obviously Gretchen wants back on the show but nothing has changed. She is still with Slade. Still hasn’t married Slade. Still hasn’t started a family. No storyline.

    • the underground train

      Lizzie is not bad looking to me but I lol @Slade her fiance of half a century.

      • Darris

        Lizzie isn’t ugly. She just has a reptilian face now since she’s had additional work done

    • GirlPlz

      Pretty much agree with all of this

  • wellWellwell

    Was that Eddie’s real partner sitting next to him, both looked like pro’s handling those long popsicles. Eddie has always reminded me of a z-list Telenovela porn actor. He likes to sword fight in alleys (no women allowed)..hmm. Oh well better than getting it on with Tamtrash.

    If there was ever a valid reason for children running away from home, it’s Shanloon’s daughters. I don’t feel sorry for David, he knows what he re-signed up for with that crazy alcoholic. He gets what he deserves. I feel sorry for the girls, the tension in that house even at a dinner table is off the charts. She has literally brow beat every family member into submission. Just think what its like when the cameras aren’t rolling.

    • RealitytvJunkie

      That man sitting next to Eddie at his dinner that started doing the blow job action sure did look like Eddie’s partner.

      • wellWellwell

        First time ever seeing Eddie have chemistry with anyone on this show.
        I remember Terry Deborring wrapping his arm around Eddie every chance he could but there was no chemistry from Eddie, it looked more like an assault.

    • Ya, who is that guy? It’s as if Tamballs insisted on hanging out with Eddie on his bday and he said only if I can bring my boyfriend.
      Shannon is that Debbie Downer character from SNL if Debbie Downer was an alcoholic. I wish David would leave her and take the kids with him!

      • wellWellwell

        Eddie made sure to sit with him, then all the lean ins, very close body language. He seemed to be right at home with that guy. I think Eddie is there for a check only, at least he seemed to enjoy his bday with his boyfriend. Beats the heck out being surrounded by the HW and their flunky husbands.

        At this point I think David’s plan is to drive her over the edge of no return, that way he can move on with his daughters. Not sure how old the youngest girl is but that is too many years to continue the suffering. He needs to speed it up.

  • delaney

    I don’t care if Eddie got it on with a hermaphrodite. Not my bizness. Why does anyone else care?

    • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

      Maybe he was “identifying as” a very androgynous person on that day?

    • Evil Queen

      😂😂

  • Karoline

    Did Vicki honestly think that dress was flattering?

    • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

      I don’t think she even knew wtf she was wearing; she was obviously half- crocked woo-hooing it up hours before “all her friends and family came together for HER one day of the year”.

      • E Marie Dee

        At least she only picks “one day”, not like Ramoana (RHNY) who celebrates longer and longer each year!

        • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

          Personally, I hate birthdays (never saw the advantage of being one foot closer to the grave) and only even acknowledge much less celebrate others BD’s when I’m forced to. Was always a stupid tradition to me.

  • LuxLuxLux

    I wish Meghan would stop coming out with “who can say their mom was with them when they concieved their baby?” WHO THE F WOULD WANT TO BE ABLE TO SAY THAT?!!

    • Maisey 😎 🇺🇸

      Ha ha so true.
      Hey Meghan….you might want to wonder why your HUSBAND didn’t want to be present during the conception

    • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

      A woman who refers to her baby as a “petri dish creation”.

  • Maisey 😎 🇺🇸

    I betcha anything Shannon took that big ol’ fork home with her to use.

    • Dani-K

      ROFL!

      • Maisey 😎 🇺🇸

        Hey Dani-k 👋
        Your recap was fantastic!

        • Dani-K

          Thanks Maisey!

    • Bluefire

      Good lord the woman isn’t obese. I guess I’m not seeing a person who you think shovels food into her mouth with a fork that size. I’m just not seeing her as big like that. Woman are sure horrible to each other.

      • E Marie Dee

        Actually the worst person is Shannon herself, always pointing out her weight gain! No one else really cares, unless Shannon forces them too!

        • Maisey 😎 🇺🇸

          She brings it up constantly. Terrible example for her daughters.

      • Maisey 😎 🇺🇸

        Damn right the woman isn’t obese…so she should knock of “Woe is me..I’m obese” crap.
        Let’s get it straight: Age, menopause, and yes, stress can put some pounds on a good woman.
        What a great opportunity this woman missed. She had a stage to showcase a grown woman dealing with a few extra pounds and show her 3 Daughters how to go thru it it.

        Instead she just taught them how to obsess and whine and focus on looks instead of health.
        She is a vain and shallow idiot who squandered a great chance to demonstrate how a woman ages with grace and style children.

        • Bluefire

          Wow, I would turn the show off if I felt this way.

          • Maisey 😎 🇺🇸

            Lol

      • GirlPlz

        I thinks she still looks good. But she should stop with the drinking.

        • Bluefire

          Well yeah. That too can put weight on you. But people are acting like she is “Precious” sized.

  • PapaRon

    ok pic of Eddie at dinner is too damn funny. haha. nice work

  • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

    So to summarize … too many cringe worthy moments in this one; an obvious post-partum Meghan having a breakdown on the mountainside, Vicki and Tamra’s awkward phone conversation, and the thirsty flamer claiming he witnessed Eddie’s tongue down some dude’s throat. But as usual, Shannut topped them all by once again publicly humiliating HERSELF (and David) by DEMANDING answers as to why he’s clearly done with her. That woman would truly be miserable if she were ever happy.

    • Maisey 😎 🇺🇸

      Shannon would not recognize Happiness if it walked up to her and slapped her on the ass.

      • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

        … and she’s got the nerve to sarcastically refer to Vicki as “victim Vicki”.

  • Elizabeth Fisher

    I’m guessing the scene with Ricky at the birthday party is the scene that Tamra tried to force Bravo to cut out the show?

  • Evil Queen

    Last night’s episode was good.
    Still cannot stomach Meganeck. Her breakdown made me laugh! Lydia is right,& Meghers is wrong.
    The restaurant For Eddie’s birthday was cool. Seeing Eddie’s imitation of giving head was interesting ( as he was eyeing David.)
    Vickie’s party was cute. Loved her pink, sparkly gun. Thought all the ladies looked pretty.
    So, Ricky walked in on Eddie making out with a man. Wish he had photos.
    Loved his response, ” Thought Trampra was into that ?!”

    • Dani-K

      I thought last night was good too, better than the past few weeks. And I’m really looking forward to Iceland even though these women will annoy the heck out of the locals like they did in Ireland.

      • Maisey 😎 🇺🇸

        I think they should have a group trip to Stockholm to visit David’s syndrome

        • Dani-K

          Girl, you are too funny!

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        These women in particular should all have their passports revoked. They make all the rest of us Americans look bad.

  • Maisey 😎 🇺🇸

    I am tired of “He is gay” as some sort of go to insult for these Housewives.
    Lemme see….Kordell then Kim Feilds husband….I think there were others.
    Lame storyline

    • Bluefire

      And it’s no ones business either. The only person that matters is the spouse.

      • GinaNY

        not if you’re on a reality tv show.

        • Bluefire

          Why does it matter to people just because she is on TV?? It still doesn’t affect anyone else.

    • GinaNY

      its not being used as a insult. it shows tamara’s life is a lie.

  • italiano bambino

    I’m surprised andy hasn’t invite tamra and eddy to the club house ever since thr Gay storyline reemerged once again.. Hey they all know the truth.

    • we”r”family

      That’s too obvious….I mean they could discuss the rumor and Tamra’s supposed bj with a certain person….

      • GinaNY

        what rumor? oh do tell!

        • we”r”family

          There is a rumor that Tamra, while married to Eddie, gave another man a blow job.

  • GirlPlz

    The Gretchen-Lizzie-Kelly setup was cringeworthy and I think it’s going to backfire. Go after Tamra in another way if you want to. Leave Eddie out of it

  • GirlPlz

    Shannon really needs to stop being obsessed about Vicki. No wonder David has been distant – no man wants to listen or put up with that level of crazy. David is not phased by Vicki’s accusations, and neither should you. It’s ok to be hurt, but its gone beyond that, to the point where it affects the daily functioning of her life and even her marriage to David

  • GirlPlz

    Meghan can’t stop pot-stirring. At Eddie’s dinner, she dragged her mom into it. “My mom was just asking about how you guys (Tamra, Shannon) and Vicki are”. Her tempter tantrum at the mountain was also ridiculous. Lydia was right

  • Maisey 😎 🇺🇸

    Check out that photo above of Tamra with Vicki.
    Tamra looks like the angry, ugly possum I find on top of my garbage can.
    But the possum is nicer.

    • Housewifey

      And has more integrity

      • Maisey 😎 🇺🇸

        LOL!!!!! So true

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  • JerseyCountess

    Oh dear. Me thinks this may get ugly.