It’s Over! LuAnn and Tom D’Agostino File For Divorce Amid Cheating Rumors!

Posted on Aug 3 2017 - 1:57pm by Staff Writer

LuAnn de Lesseps’ marriage to Tom D’Agostino is officially over after just eight months.

The newlyweds filed jointly for divorce in Sag Harbor, Long Island today amid rumors of infidelity and fighting. 

The former Countess married D’Agostino, her second husband on New Year’s Eve in Palm Beach.

But we’re told that since the beginning of the marriage — which began in the shadow of D’Agostino’s infidelity — they have broken up and gotten back together a number of times.

CLICK: #RHONY Luann D’Agostino’s Husband Tom Caught Flirting With Blond Ex Girlfriend In The Hamptons!


As readers know, Luann’s Real Housewives of New York co-stars were surprised that Luann went through with the wedding after Bethenny Frankel showed Luann photographs of Tom kissing his ex-girlfriend at the Regency Hotel in February 2016.

As reported, the troubled couple got into a physical fight in a New York restaurant last month — during which Luann slapped her husband. Luann denied slapping Tom, calling it a “love tap” amidst the blowout fight.

CLICK: LuAnn de Lesseps’ Marriage To Tom D’Agostino On The Rocks After Fight Turns Physical!


The 52-year-old had previously denied any major problems in the marriage and chalked up the rumors to a passionate relationship.

LuAnn tweeted the news on Thursday afternoon.

 

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  • Springstreettreat

    Wow what a shocker lol totally didnt see that one coming *rolls eyes*

  • RealitytvJunkie

    While I’m not surprised, I’d guess the marriage would have lasted at least a year. WTF was Luann thinking marrying this man. EVERYBODY warned her but she was desperate for a husband. I do feel bad for Luann. I know the embarrassment and pain must not be easy for her.

    • Bryan

      I do too, she really wanted to be happy with this guy

      • RealitytvJunkie

        So true, Bryan. And at her age, in NYC, it’s really hard to find quality men, much one willing to marry. She must be hiding under the covers and sick to her stomach over this. I hope her true friends rally around her at this time.

        • Kimmie77

          She may be humiliated a bit but Luann always faces the day. I give her that. She’ll take it on the chin and hold her head up.

          • RealitytvJunkie

            You’re right, Kimmie but this gotta hurt. Especially since SO many people warned her he was no good.

          • Bryan

            yeah she won’t let this dolt keep her down for long

          • Btheladyinred

            Yes, she will just go on pretending like she has been.

        • Bryan

          I do too

      • Btheladyinred

        Well I don’t think people get married in hopes to being unhappy.

      • YouGotTheRightOneNow

        I love Lu and feel for her, but she should have listened to the little voice in her head that was surely telling her this was a bad idea. I get it though, sometimes it’s hard to swallow your pride!

    • Elizabeth Fisher

      I don’t think she was desperate for a husband. I think the woman at the auction was correct when she said Lu would rather marry and divorce instead of calling the wedding off. She was way too far gone in the wedding plans in her mind to call off the wedding.

      • RealitytvJunkie

        I think she was desperate and the train was to far gone for her to stop it.

        • Elizabeth Fisher

          Let me clarify – I don’t think she was desperate for a husband – but I do think she was desperate to prove everyone wrong and by the time the shit was hitting the fan she was too far gone in the wedding planning. Luann doesn’t need a man financially and she’s a beautiful woman and could probably date 5x a week if she wanted to – so in that sense I don’t think she was desperate for a husband but she did want to get married (I don’t know if I’m making any sense).

          • sideof Sour Cream

            She wasn’t “desperate” in the classic sense of the word, I agree. But her need for a husband and partner in life did 100% cloud her judgement about Tom.

      • Btheladyinred

        If she wasn’t desperate for a husband she wouldn’t of even got engaged this quick. She would have just dated him for much longer before getting married.

      • Yes, and the wedding date was tied into his bday too. She was a bit pressured into it and it got to a point where there was no turning back. One should never feel that way though. 🙁

        • Elizabeth Fisher

          Yeah… I forgot how she kept going on about the wedding weekend also being his birthday weekend.

  • Kimmie77

    Haha….Oh jeez,

    Who’s surprised and yet everyone of the other ladies were horrible and terrible friends for trying to tell Luann that her fiance was a major bell-end!!!!!!!!!!!!! Luann chose to deliberately and stupidly ignore everyone and accuse them of being jealous bitches because she found her “soul-mate” who couldn’t keep his dirty pee pee out of other women.

    He doesn’t even look good standing next to her. In their photos it seems that she was more into him than he into her.

    • ohjeez

      omg seriously, you are exactly the type of person to relish seeing someone fall on their face…have fun with that

      • Athena Panagakos

        Yep, karma gets us all. Especially people who enjoy watching the pain of others.

        • ohjeez

          schadenfreude is a powerful drug

        • Kimmie77

          Karma can suck balls! I don’t believe in Karma and if Karma does exist I seriously doubt I’m in trouble for calling someone stupid for BEING STUPID. It’s called honesty.

          • Athena Panagakos

            About stupid, you can’t fix it.

          • Kimmie77

            Well just keep trying sweetie…I’m sure one day you’ll succeed.

          • Athena Panagakos

            cunt.

          • Kimmie77

            LOL…sticks and stones. Call me every name in the book and see if I care?

      • Kimmie77

        Relish!!! Really? The only thing I relish is seeing you with egg on your mug because you casually dismissed what was obvious about their sham of a marriage in past articles that clearly indicated that they were headed for divorce.

        Calling Luann stupid for being stupid is just honest.

        • ohjeez

          Dude you are deranged. You literally call me out in a post. Weird!!Are you seriously collecting my comments? I never once said anything good about tom only that if that was what Luann wanted then I support her. Unlike you i am not so invested in this I feel I need to make all these judgments on another’s life or that I am rubbing my fingers together And cackling over another’s misfortune. And on top of that going after other posters. Creepy!!

          • Kimmie77

            Dude, I didn’t call you out in a post. You’re not that special. And I never said you said anything good about Tom. You still can’t read can you and you are invested with your Luann profile pic. You have your head buried in these blogs stalking the personal lives of people you don’t know. You’re on these comment boards more than most people. And I don’t recall cackling over the misfortunes of others. I recall calling someone stupid for being stupid. Not my fault you don’t know the difference.

          • ohjeez

            Lol I comment on one reality show and that’s it. And yes you did call me out just fess up you are a wierdo stalker

          • Kimmie77

            I did not call you out in a post so there’s no need for me to fess up to anything. You spend gobs of time reading blogs and trolling SM.

          • ohjeez

            Hahaha you are so crazed you actually think you know how I spend my time….freak!

          • Kimmie77

            So, it’s you that need to fess up, dear. You read articles, other blogs, and you troll Instagram and other forms of social media and you know it. Own it and be done. You googled Tom’s family, quoted a People article that cites Twitter. You’re all in and speak as if you know Lu and her family personally on how they feel about Tom. A true Fanatic.

          • ohjeez

            You are totally nuts and your obsession is getting creepy tbh

          • Kimmie77

            My obsession? You responded to me first, remember? Dont get it twisted.

          • ohjeez

            ya i saw how you tried to change your very public address to me, OHJEEZ but then you edited to put a space between since you realized how weird that is to do…get a grip

          • Kimmie77

            My post was not addressed to you. I could not care less about you to even address it to you. If It was, I would admit it. So please get over yourself.

  • Karoline

    I wouldn’t have said ” we care about each other very much”. She isn’t saving any face with that.

    • Btheladyinred

      Yeah you don’t treat people you care about like Tom has.

  • Bryan
    • RealitytvJunkie

      Hahhaha. Come thru Bryan with the laughs!

      • Bryan

        Now they are getting a divorce the truth is she probably isn’t even interested in her anymore

        • wellWellwell

          LOL!! Truth^^^^ Game of Thrones! or Hormones.

    • wellWellwell

      Good she can have this bald a$$hole, they deserve each other. She better watch out for ‘Missy’ the Lurker she’s around every corner at every party. I’m sure Sonja has slept with Missy & Tom most likely at the same time.

      • Bryan

        Dirty House Morgan sleeps with anything with a pulse

        • wellWellwell

          It took me forever Bryan…you were right from the beginning! She’s a mess and Dirty!

          • Bryan

            They should have just let her wander naked down the beach last night

          • It’s no wonder her daughter never comes home.

          • Bryan

            That’s right!

          • Bryan

            you can’t blame her

          • wellWellwell

            YES^^^ and filmed it… LMAO..

          • Bryan

            Yes!!!

    • Bad Barbie

      yep watch Sonja be right there for him.

      • ohjeez

        she said herself she was there BL and will be there after lu

        • RHONJ Fan

          Wow. That’s disgusting. Sonja has turned into a drunken nightmare.

  • RHONJ Fan

    The world warned Luann about Tom. I hate to say, “I told you so”……but you know. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/3b21bd8c45660f2d83118eaeb2c8c2e9427fc0fa4038dc46cb1a96c47f760dc5.gif

  • wellWellwell

    Good thing she has her own money, nice house in the Hampton’s she doesn’t need this messy guy in her life. It’s his loss because she was really trying to make this work and had nothing but kind things to say about him even though he degraded her at every turn. The only nice scene was the walk in the park, that I recall. She really wanted a permanent guy in her life and this fool is a perpetual bachelor. I know a few like him..sad.

    • You cannot make those types settle down. It’s best to let them roam around like the idiots they are and get herpes and such.

      • wellWellwell

        LOL!! herpes..you crack me up 🙂

  • the underground train

    Don’t you hate it when Ramona is right? Gah!

    • MidwestMiddie

      I’m sorry their marriage ended but really ticked off the Old Bravo Hags will
      be crowing about it.

      • ohjeez

        i think sonja will be the meanest about it tbh

        • MidwestMiddie

          It’s a toss up between Bones, Rude Ramona and Slutty Sonja.
          They’ll all do some crowing. I don’t think they realize just how little people think of them which is why we expect only the most awful behavior from them. NY Class? —-not even a little bit.

          First we’ll have to get through their interviews of them saying how sad they are for LuAnn and being her “GOOD” friends, they will be there for her. Eye Roll ………..

          • wellWellwell

            Are you writing their scripts Middie because this is exactly what will happen. LOL

          • MidwestMiddie

            LOL — Easy Peasy ……… No Guessing Required. : )
            This is “normal” behavior for egocentric hypocrites.

          • ohjeez

            ramona already commneted on lu’s twitter post”im so sad for you”…

          • MidwestMiddie

            LOL —–Tweeted while sipping her Pinot and tossing back
            her dreadful hair extensions.

          • wellWellwell

            GAG! Bloated #itch was outed for paying men to escort her to her cast parties. That is why she can’t remember their names or what ever happened to them.

          • ohjeez

            that is what timsely said on twitter

          • Lol! I don’t why I find that hilarious. I’m just picturing her picking them out.

          • Chickpea16

            Ramona also invited Tom’s ex-girlfriend to her party.

        • shayvoe

          What time did Lu make the announcement? I guarantee you before the sun sets, Sonja will have hooked up with him.

          • ohjeez

            sonja or any of the long line of women he seems to have but sonja for sure is unscrupulous

          • sideof Sour Cream

            Plus, Sonja is prolly WAY into kinky rebound sex, haha. She’d likely show him the best time.

          • ohjeez

            she honestly seems like the laziest ,sloppiest, dirty(literally) lay ever.

          • sideof Sour Cream

            dirty, sloppy, ITA but not lazy. I bet she’s a hyper-nympho in the sack. Really rich men don’t marry peasants that don’t put out like a cat in heat.
            🙂

          • She’s getting worse if that’s even possible. Or even more desperate. Take your pick…

          • Chickpea16

            Tom may have become more popular with the ladies due to RHNY exposure. He may have them waiting in line. If so, why stay married.

          • shayvoe

            Women of Tom’s age who are desperate for a man….like Lu and Sonja are, will be lining up for this joker. Not one blade of grass will grow under his feet. The old double standard is still at play …it is still much easier for men to find someone than woman at that age.

    • YouGotTheRightOneNow

      It’s the worst ain’t it?!

    • sideof Sour Cream

      Everyone was right though. It wasn’t too hard to predict!

      • MidwestMiddie

        These hags were awful to both LuAnn and Tom, which didn’t help.
        I sincerely hope that if one of them finds “Mr. Right,” Tom and LuAnn investigate the dude and then call Page Six with the results. : )

        • sideof Sour Cream

          All RHWs are awful to each other. It’s in the contract.

          • MidwestMiddie

            Perhaps but then Karma must be written into their contracts
            as well. : )

          • sideof Sour Cream

            Well, Luann got hers at least.
            who’s next?
            😉

          • MidwestMiddie

            Production Story Lines are being written as we post. : )

          • sideof Sour Cream

            LOL!

        • YouGotTheRightOneNow

          YES! It would be well deserved. While we all knew things weren’t on the up and up with Tom, they had absolutely no right to go after Lu the way they did. If they truly cared about her the way they claim, they wouldn’t have tried to make an even bigger fool out of her than Tom did.

        • Rochelle Huffman Barozzi

          Exactly.

  • Bad Barbie

    Somewhere Bethanny is throwing a party.

    • Btheladyinred

      I think all of them just wish she hadn’t gone through with it, but I am sure they really just want Lu’s lies about how great things were/are to stop, that must of been frustrating for everyone.

    • MidwestMiddie

      Probably but really who cares since she only serves Skinny Girl Swill………

      • wellWellwell

        Yeah the only ones who will attend that party are her paid employees, drunk Sonja, dismal Carold, and gassy Ramona.

    • ohjeez

      i think she already knew when she was on wwhl that is why she was so tighted lipped and said she felt bad for lu

  • Kimberli

    So convenient that they waited till after the reunion was taped to announce their split!

  • ScrappieONE

    What can you expect from a man who married for the first time at the age of 49? Sorry but this was doomed from jump street

    • Plus he snuck off to mug down with any and everyone that wasn’t Luann every chance he got!

      • wellWellwell

        Hi romo haven’t seen you around for awhile. He sure was and that ‘Missy’ always had a shoulder he could b*tch on. Some of his comments made me side eye his ugly bald a$$.

        • Hello! The kids have kept me busy this summer. So many camps… I’ve tried to pop in here when I can 🙂 How are you?

          • wellWellwell

            Same thing, swim club busy, I try popping in and out between boring work and my girls activities. School is starting back next week plus the swim meets, I’m exhausted. One day all this swimming and money I pay better pay off, I’m looking for a gold medal. I told her today think like a Dolphin.. LOL

    • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

      Yup … never a good sign, although knowing your fiance’ has banged um. ‘dated’ half the cast (until one took) should have tipped her off as well.

  • italiano bambino

    BUT BUT Bethany is jealous. No she’s trying to warn her from the beginning.

    • sideof Sour Cream

      They ALL were!

      • italiano bambino

        But Bethany is evil lol

        • sideof Sour Cream

          Of course. Now we just have to find a way to blame the divorce on Bethenny and all will be right with the world again.
          😉

  • sideof Sour Cream

    OMg I can’t wait to see the reactions from the other HWs. Lu-Lu’s got alotta crow to eat! lol~

  • YouGotTheRightOneNow

    Next season Lu’s going to be dodging those divorce questions like… https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/c5675bc116feed80bc4dadbb1ba77bfee48a5b1aa9cfaa97f003cb48e796d066.gif

  • Betty

    He provided a good storyline. Next! When is Carole going to get a storyline?

    • wellWellwell

      She’s Tinsley’s adviser this season, its the best she’s got… besides random cats.

      • RHONJ Fan

        Next season, look out for Tinsley and Carole as BFFs. They’ve already got a commercial together for Tinsley’s boyfriend’s company.

        • wellWellwell

          That means both will be back..can you shoot me please..

  • Just My Opinion

    When is Carole gonna get braces on those buck teeth ??

    • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

      But she does have the best boobs … she told us so … and they’re REAL~!

      • ohjeez

        they are nice but very low

        • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

          If you say so …seen two, seen’em all.

          • ohjeez

            lol

      • wellWellwell

        When did he grow boobs? It’s like Barf bragging about her great body. These women are delusional or have no mirrors in their house.

    • RHONJ Fan

      This has got to be the funniest comment of the thread lol.

      • Just My Opinion

        Thanks !!

    • the underground train

      So glad she is not a lesbian. She couldn’t go down on a woman with those big ass horse teeth

      • Just My Opinion

        Just think if she were giving a blow job !!

        • #HePersisted

          I would move my bowels all over your face and chest. Not a damn thing you would do about it.

  • ohjeez

    now will she go back to luann nadeau?

  • Evil Queen

    That’s awful! Talk about a short marriage? She gave up her Countess title for this crap?
    Poor thing. Marriage was doomed from the beginning! Bet she is PO too the max!
    Now ask Lu that, ” Rose ,& thorn,” question again?! 😁

    • sideof Sour Cream

      I just had a random thought–
      Is it farfetched to think she may have received some sort of bribe from the Count to give up the title? Maybe his new wife pressured him?
      Or is that way too Harlequin Romance? lol~

      • ohjeez

        did he remarry? i think all his 4 other exes got a curtesy title until they remarried so it may be more than just luann

        • sideof Sour Cream

          I thought he did. But maybe not?
          But it would make this a win/win for LU in any case.

          • ohjeez

            nadeau is a perfectly nice last name…she will keep countess as brand id

          • sideof Sour Cream

            If he doesn’t want her to, I don’t think she can keep it. I think those aristocratic types take their silly little titles pretty seriously, lol. (Some of ’em, at least.) At least in Britain, there are tons of rules surrounding titles. Can’t imagine it’s not all that much different in Europe.

            But I agree, Nadeau (maiden name?) very pretty last name.

          • ohjeez

            nadeau is the maiden name…her and the count are close he will go with his baby mama on this but technically no more countess except as brand id….unless they get annuled as opposed to divorce. i honestly dont think she gives a shit at this point…she has bigger problems at the moment

          • sideof Sour Cream

            Whether she cares or not…
            It was her tagline this season, so the perception will be that she does care. A LOT.

          • ohjeez

            its a tagline…it just makes her look foolish perhaps…they have all looked foolish like the rest of us

          • sideof Sour Cream

            Speak for yourself, lol. I’ve never looked THIS foolish on national TV! few have!
            🙂

          • ohjeez

            yes well thank god nothing is on tape in my case because that would be really bad tbh

          • sideof Sour Cream

            oh come on that can’t be true!
            You’re already light years ahead of these bimbos because you never became a RHW~
            Very few things in life imo, are more humiliating than a prolonged RTV career. 🙂

          • ohjeez

            ok im gonna be a little honest and say these women do not care(unless they are “unsuccessful”at reality TV and even then ) This is a real business…and they get treated pretty darn well everywhere they go and they make a lot of dough for cushy shit…straight up…are there are pitfulls and hardships sure but they are living “the life” as sonja calls it…at least those at the top of the game like Beth…and frankly now, luann…but all of them in their own way. as sad as it is to see hopes dashed this marriage and now divorce has shot lu into the stratosphere, mediawise…she is over 200k views on just page six and previous stories about her and tom there have been the top story for at least 24 hrs…which is a shit ton esp against real stars news etc

          • sideof Sour Cream

            Totally agree. And that’s what’s so humiliating, that they “don’t care”.
            I can’t imagine getting to this point in life (I’m Luann’s age) and nothing takes precedence over D-list fame and the chance at easy money.
            To me, what these reality “stars” do is far more embarrassing than being broke or not well known. I do honestly think there is something psychologically wrong with each and every one of them.

            also, Fame is an addiction and these gals got it BAD, LOL~ .

          • ohjeez

            mmmm,,, i see it differently……but i think your view is actually what keeps things afloat

    • He wasn’t even good looking either. Disrespected her left and right… all for what? Oh right, West Palm Beach and a penthouse apartment.

      • the underground train

        I thought it was Palm beach not West Palm beach according to Tinsley

    • GetReal2014

      That was a lot to give up just to be humiliated. SMH @ the Rose & Thorn. Bet she wishes that would’ve ended up on the cutting room floor.

  • Allergic2dumbstuff

    Meanwhile… Somewhere Bethany, Ramona And Sonja are doing the cabbage patch, square dancing and are high fiving while singing, “Told yah so! Told ya so!”

    • sideof Sour Cream

      I hope they get it on film!

      • Marsbars09

        Hi SC! It’s been a while since we’ve last chatted. Been wondering where you were?

        • sideof Sour Cream

          Hey Mars, thanks so much for thinking of me!
          I’ve just been living at my cabin basically all summer. Also, we got rid of cable TV so I’ve stopped watching BRAVO completely. I only heard about this by reading the DM this morning.

    • ohjeez

      it may make them look like too much of assholes…they may try to be decent/kind about it…

      • Marsbars09

        Nah. The women are already f*cking morons, so gloating in Lu’s misery is just another day at the office for them.

      • MidwestMiddie

        Bravo would fire them if they became humans.

        • GetReal2014

          LOLOLOL! That’s funny.

      • Allergic2dumbstuff

        Sonya? Maybe. But, Bethany and Ramona? I really doubt it.

    • Marsbars09

      You know it!

    • Wicked Cupcake

      None of them need to be smug. They all have failed marriages themselves.

    • GetReal2014

      Not the Cabbage Patch! LOLOL.

    • RHONJ Fan

      You’re comment made me snort.

      • Allergic2dumbstuff

        Sorry.

    • the underground train

      All Lu has to say to Bethenny is “And Ramona warned you before getting married to Jason but you didn’t listen”, then turn to Ramona and quip “Everyone knew about Mario and his cheating so you have no room to talk” then finally to Sonja “You had Tom for 10 years yet he never went public with you” “All you bitches need to sit down and be humble!”

      • ohjeez

        yikes all true i dont want to tangle with a jedi mind like you…but i would want you on my team!

        • the underground train

          Lol. These women make it easy. Like shooting fish in a barrel. If I was on any of these housewives shows no one would like me.

          • ohjeez

            i think they would! i have read plenty of your thoughts and comments…all of them are smart and tough

          • the underground train

            Aww. Thanks for the love. Enjoy your snark too.

      • Allergic2dumbstuff

        Hopefully, Lu will. it’ll make for great TV.

      • wellWellwell

        Tell it underground!! BOOM!!

  • Marsbars09

    Well, Lu & Tom gave it the old college try. Hopefully their divorce proceedings won’t be too acrimonious.
    B*tchenny stated on WWHL last night that she felt bad for Lu’s marriage woes. If Lu returns to RHNY next season you know the women will give her hell.

    • wellWellwell

      That’s why Bones (ty Middie) was so coy about Lu last night. Just wait, that low down dirty backstabber will be out with her knives soon.

      • Annlee57

        That is an understatement! Bones will be all over Lu telling her ” See I told you, I was right, Im always right” blah blah blah., and her knives are already out, mean bish!

        • sunkissed748

          Maybe she knows it ALL?!? Stab stab stabby.

    • Allergic2dumbstuff

      I see it coming. Hopefully, Dorinda will have her back and make it nice when the badgering begins.

      • wellWellwell

        Dodo talks a big game unless it’s her boyfriend, she has no ones back.
        The only back she has is back-down from Barf.

        • sunkissed748

          She says “you better back that ish up” a lot.

  • MidwestMiddie

    I have never and will never believe two people get married assuming they
    will one day be divorced. When saying their vows they mean every word.
    However given the divorce statistics, things don’t always work out.

    I’m sad things ended for LuAnn and Tom. One thing – I doubt Bravo
    viewers will ever hear LuAnn say anything bad about Tom. She is
    not an ugly and bitter woman like Bones, who publicly wore her
    divorce like a hairshirt.

    • ohjeez

      i kinda wish she would let in on him but she wont and he will just go back to the cabinet from where he came…with missy or sonja or some other woman

    • sideof Sour Cream

      I had a friend in college, he was a “do anything for a buck” type of dude. He married a foreign woman for 5k so she could remain in the country. She sent him the divorce paperwork to sign a few years later after she obtained citizenship.
      So yeah, it happens.
      :-/

      • MidwestMiddie

        Agree —arranged marriages for money, family or citizenship are totally different.

  • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

    If his whorish behavior was sudden and unexpected, I might be able to garner a little sympathy for her, but considering virtually everyone tried to warn her, I can’t. But then again, I’m still leaning towards their romance and wedding being nothing more than a very carefully orchestrated (and expensive) publicity stunt, because nothing buys these women another season or two (and probably a raise) than a crumbling marriage.

    • wellWellwell

      You have a point, remember when Barf was coming back and Lu announced she was working on something “big” with Barf.. was it this? I don’t recall seeing anything they did together except this show..hmm

    • GetReal2014

      Unreal. Never thought about it being a publicity stunt. They wouldn’t. Would they?

      • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

        Of course they would. If they both have the kind of money that they allegedly do, a few hundred thousand G’s (for the wedding) is a drop in the bucket … especially when you factor in the money that this controversy will earn them. Fame and Notoriety = Cash! At this very moment, Lu and Tom’s names and pictures are plastered all over every entertainment blog in the world, and by Monday Lu’s face will be on every tabloid in every supermarket in the country. You can’t put a price on fame. But then again, I could be completely wrong, and she’s indeed an idiot who fell for some asshole, ignored every red flag and married him anyway. BTW, I look for the same thing to happen with Kenya.

        • ohjeez

          i think it was a combo of things like all of the above

        • GetReal2014

          Very interesting perspective. But, that’s a lot to go through to get abject humiliation as a reward.

        • sunkissed748

          Money can’t buy you class…comes to mind whilst reading your insightful comment.

    • RHONJ Fan

      Things that make you go hmmm…

      • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

        Speaking of things that make you go hmmm …. it just occurs to me that you have an evil twin running around here whom I was confusing you with.

      • Annlee57

        Yep, AnEnigmaWrapped In$nark is correct.

    • Chickpea16

      I’d agree except she wouldn’t allow Bravo to film it.

  • Ronnie

    There is nothing wrong with being unmarried. You can have full, happy life without the desperation of obsessing on marriage at any cost.

  • loriann760

    Sonja will eat this up and odds are she’ll make a play for Tom, and Tom being the indiscriminate type will probably be her FWB again.

    • Elizabeth Fisher

      And we found out they were barely “lovers” as Sonja would call them or FWB because they had only slept with each other 5 times over a 10-year period. Sleeping with someone once every two years does not make that person a lover, it makes you a one-night stand.

    • RRRobin

      She probably had him make a “house call” last night.

  • Wicked Cupcake

    As a fan of LuAnn’s ( as much of a fan as I can be of reality trash) I feel badly for her. It is too bad her desperation for a wedding, cost her a title, made a mockery of her and has ended in utter humiliation. I think she wanted a wedding more than a marriage and also, had hoped she could prove those spiteful bitchy, cast members wrong. Live and learn. Sometimes you have to eat crow , admit The Bitches Are RIght, instead of trying to be right yourself. She was warned and thought she could control this bum. Lesson learned. Move on to a better life.

    • Rochelle Huffman Barozzi

      I do too.

    • RHONJ Fan

      Very nicely said.

      • Wicked Cupcake

        Thanks! 😉

  • ohjeez

    People has an article now. They are citing Twitter. They have “a source” confirming, ““She is sad, but she was the one who made the decision to file. They had lots of issues and really tried to make it work, but it was just obvious they weren’t on the same page.”

  • Disraeli99

    Who didn’t see this coming a mile away? Tom from day 1 was a lying cheating POS. LuAnn allowed delusion and desperation to be her guide instead of common sense. How can you marry a man who has screwed practically everyone in your circle? LuAnn can do better than this asshole. I never thought she was so naive about men to think Tom was the one… dude was and remains community property. A hard lesson to learn, but maybe next time she’s smarter.

  • ohjeez

    i seriously hope this is it and she doesnt get back with him at some point

    • MidwestMiddie

      I think they’ll remain friends but that’s all.
      LuAnn will be fine.
      On the other hand – Tom’s has to be concerned about his Italian Mother bopping
      him on his hairless head. She waited a long time for him to settle down
      and get married and now ………..IT’S GONE!
      RUN TOM, RUN!

      • ohjeez

        she needs to unfriend him pronto and his mom prob knows her son much better than lu

  • Rochelle Huffman Barozzi

    That is sad, I was pushing for them. It was wrong from the start, but it is her life and she had to learn.

    • ohjeez

      i was hoping for lu too…

  • Ravello

    Wow, I’m speechless. So sorry for the Countess.

  • Glooba!

    All I’m gonna say is: I do feel bad, but I’m not surprised.

  • Salmah

    I feel very bad for her. I think she went into this full of optimism and hope. He is an asshat

    • ohjeez

      as strong as lu is and she will get through this…she can not be feeling good at all right now….hopes dashed and dreams broken

  • penny 2

    C’est la vie mon ami. You were warned.

    • ohjeez

      chic c’est la vie…C’est bon! C’est bon!

  • Salmah

    And she can’t go back to being a Countess. I feel for her!

  • ohjeez

    Lu’s family couldnt bond with him because of his past indiscretions…that may have been what pushed her over the edge…realHW hags are one thing but your family is another

  • Polly

    Someone said that Tom got his trust fund money if he was married at age 50. MAYBE they had a deal. They divorce after he gets the money and she gets a cut of it. She gets a story line and cash. Wouldn’t that be a hoot.

    • ohjeez

      he is not a member of the d’agostino market chain…he is self made…you can google it…no family money…and i bet they are both had a solid prenup

      • Polly

        Yeah, I tried to find out about other money on google but no such luck. I just really want Lu to be in control of all this and not be heartbroken.

        • ohjeez

          from a piece

          “For those of you who do not hail from New York, “D’Agostino” happens to be the name of an 83-year-old supermarket chain, which bills itself as “New York’s original grocer.” But, Tom is actually of no relation to the supermarket D’Agostinos, nor is the supermarket’s heir. (And even if he was, it’s no guarantee that he’d be financially secure, since the business has been struggling commercially for several years.)
          Rather, Tom is a self-made man with his own corporate print industry company called SmartSource, which he serves as the president and CEO of. He travels a lot for business, which lends to that cosmopolitan air of his that drew Luann in early on. Plus, he’s never been married, nor does he have any kids, which means he’s been racking up considerable wealth with only himself to support.”

    • shayvoe

      Is that a fact? I read that on another gossip site and a poster was speculating that. But I have not read that anywhere else

      • Polly

        Nah, I read it there too.

        • shayvoe

          LOL…ok.

    • Koko Banned

      I can believe that. Would make sense why he felt so comfortable making out in public and why she moved forward with the wedding. No woman in her right mind would marry a man months after cheating in such a public way.

      • sideof Sour Cream

        No woman in her right mind would agree to be on this embarrassing show in the first place!

    • Chickpea16

      Kind of old to receive a trust fund though.

  • Authentic

    They filed jointly. Could Lu have been caught cheating as well?

    Edited: Lu’s only experience is an open marriage from what I’ve read.

    • wellWellwell

      I hope so but I doubt it was her.

      • Authentic

        Hello Well,, her castmates made so many comments in the early days. Remember?

        • wellWellwell

          Hi Authentic. Yes they did in the early days. I think she was in it to win it.
          It must be tough in that social circle, if I was her I would consider breaking it and import from Europe or somewhere. The choices seem slim in NY.

  • Polly

    Now I’m wondering about the reunion. Lu will be lying the whole time that the marriage is great. ugh

    • Authentic

      Bethenny mentioned last night on WWHL reunion filmed. Interesting.

    • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

      Me too … I’m guessing Andy will do one of his hard hitting special one-on-one interviews (ala RHOBH when the reunion was airing – like when Taylor’s husband lynched himself and when Kim first entered rehab) with a “devastated” Luann.

    • Evil Queen

      Reunion has already taped! Damnit

    • sunkissed748

      The lying rose thorn SL three weeks in a row. Damnit man.

  • penny 2

    At least she has a few months to recover before filming starts. It must be difficult.

  • bp

    I wish just once one of these bravolebrities could end a relationship, get vaginal procedures, ect without feeling the need to make grandiose twitter statements.

    • Authentic

      Great! Lol!

    • Champagne Hangover

      Respect their PRIVACY! *snort*…😏

      • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

        LoLoL … I was just writing the same thing. Devastated people who request privacy always go straight to SM when they want “privacy”. These fame ho’s …

  • itsjustme

    SO SHOCKED! NOT!!! No sympathy for Luann at all. She’d been given enough evidence, both verbal and pictures and yet STILL chose to marry this douchebag.
    Oh well, I guess we all know what her storyline for next season will be.

  • Ohgurl

    Who gets custody of The Regency???

    • ohjeez

      tom

    • Champagne Hangover

      I vote Tom. That dirty dog done marked his territory. Let that mangey old mutt have his old humping…er, I mean stomping ground left in tact. Let the old manwhore whore unbothered. It’s all he knows….

      • TartLemon

        Like LuAnn is a real prize here?

        • Champagne Hangover

          Oh, honey..Aren’t you cute for even insinuating there are any prizes in this group. Name one, just one! 😜. That’s why we love them. They’re the toxic, dysfunctional family that we never asked for, but yet provide us with boat loads of…😬😳🤢😡🙄😜😕😉😖 😤😈 etc..

    • Authentic

      Ha!

    • sideof Sour Cream

      If I were Luann I’d be hanging out there every night! lol. hoping to c0ck-block the m-effer every chance I got. 😉

  • Contessa Bel Raven

    I feel for Luann. Marriage is hard, harder still doing it on tv and even harder when the world is ready to pounce on the least little thing and many actively wishing for you to fail. She grabs life by the horns and lives it with gusto so I am sure she with come out of this okay. A little more wounded, maybe a little less optimistic but she will not be sent into a tailspin like some others have. I imagine Tom being her rose and her thorn comment has certainly been proved true and obviously his thorns were ultimately too piercing for her to continue to bleed for the marriage. Filing jointly and keeping the majority of details private shows they can certainly be mature about the situation. As the saying goes ‘Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all’ and I am sure she will rise from the ashes of this marriage to love again. JMO

    • TartLemon

      LuAnn did it FOR the tv benefits.

      • Contessa Bel Raven

        I don’t think so but that’s the beauty of life that we can all have different opinions 😺 How are you TL?

      • sideof Sour Cream

        I wonder if she’ll be returning the wedding gifts?

  • Champagne Hangover

    Something about this doesn’t pass the smell test. Lu is benefiting from this whole fiasco from start to finish, I feel. I just don’t buy a 50+ year old divorcee and mother whose been around the block several times both before and after the divorce from royalty, no less…AND who was in an open relationship before the divorce and is no stranger to cheating herself could be SO naive as to walk into this Tom situation without getting something out of it regardless. And THAT is what her costars were SO concerned about, NOT her well being. They, specifically Bethenny, Ramona and Sonja wanted to sabotage whatever it was LuAnn was to gain by going through this shit show of a wedding. I just don’t buy that their motives were altruistic. Not buying it. Nope, never will. Either they succeeded in their plan to sabotage after the wedding instead of before and LuAnn just cut her losses OR they failed, the ink dried on Lu’s lucrative new contract/ payout, so time to drop the charade and give birth to a KILLER storyline.

    • Marsbars09

      Great theory CH. I never thought of it that way. And who says Tom isn’t benefitting from this sham marriage?

    • sideof Sour Cream

      Well put!
      My thought is they didn’t do it to sabotage Lu, they did it to insert themselves into a juicy storyline and help their own RHW careers. None of them care enough about Lu to bother sabotaging her for no profit whatsoever.

  • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

    Poor Lu … it’s back to the men’s room stalls at Boutique’ (oh well, more fun anyway). On a different note, aside from being “devastated” … she’s got to feel like a total fcking idiot, like seriously.

    • wellWellwell

      Why would she if she did it for a fat paycheck..hmm? Who really got clowned?

      • MidwestMiddie

        If true, Bravo Viewers got clowned.

        • wellWellwell

          You know it MM, you said this ten times over.

        • ohjeez

          Everyone involved got clowned, such is the circus of life.

        • sideof Sour Cream

          Not all of them. 🙂

          • MidwestMiddie

            TRUE : )

      • sunkissed748

        The assclown himself.

  • TartLemon

    I have absolutely NO sympathy for this situation. LuAnn AND Tom knew what they were getting and CHOSE to do it anyway.

    It happened on or hours before his 50th birthday right? I always had the impression (in my own conspiracy hobbyist mind) there was some reason he had to be married by then. Family business thing maybe?

    • Authentic

      Best response I’ve read so far.

    • ohjeez

      you may have him confused with the d’agostino grocery family. he is not related. there is no family money on his end.

      • Authentic

        Or Sopronos?

        • ohjeez

          i dont know sopronos? do tell

          • wellWellwell

            HBO show..

          • ohjeez

            oh ya he is not part of the sopranos

          • wellWellwell

            No..lol

        • BetteDavisEyez1

          Still one of my favorite shows of all time.
          Hey, hey Authentic!!

  • ohjeez

    the more i think about this the dumber Tom looks….Scott after a millisecond has carol and tins doing a commercial on Bravo and is sending major flowers…smart guy. tom gets on a national platform and makes a total ass of himself and looks like a cad worse than Harry…i really hope lu stays away from him now. he will go back to his UES rotation …ALONE

  • Reality Buffy

    Next season the season of I told you so.

    • ohjeez

      she could already have a new boyfriend by then…it is a while away

    • Annlee57

      Oh my Gosh, I sure hope it isnt like that! Lu already knows so to have most of the HW’S shoving it in her face? Im not watching that!! Total BS.

  • ohjeez

    she already took his pic off twitter header name change will be tomorrow i bet…and goodbye tom

    • MidwestMiddie

      I read LuAnn found him “with ” an old GF. If true, he is a rotten person, through and through.

      • wellWellwell

        Low down dirty a$$hole!

        • MidwestMiddie

          If that rumor is not true, what a horrible thing to spread around.

      • ohjeez

        it was all too much for him…in the end he is a very basic guy..lu overestimated his abilities…

        • wellWellwell

          High hopes for someone who never checked in. What was his angle?
          I know hers, what was his??

          • ohjeez

            I think honestly they both wanted to give it a shot but it just didn’t work out. Too much too soon I reckon. Better to have loved and lost I suppose

  • Annlee57

    Im not going to pile on Luann, Im sure she is embarrassest enough, even though 4 HW’S told her. I wish her the best.

    • wellWellwell

      Those Ho’s told her about it for their own gain, not to help her. Without her, they wouldn’t have a story line this season.

      • Annlee57

        I agree that they told Lu for their own gain, not to help her and you’re right, without her they had no SL this season…except for Bones and her Shittygirl chit which was boring as usual! 🙂

        • Marsbars09

          Sh*ttygirl sh*t. Love it!

    • Marsbars09

      If Lu returns next season those women will make her regret the day she ever decided to marry Tom. :/

      • Annlee57

        You are so right about that! 🙂

  • TartLemon

    Funniest thing is how LuAnn is being treated like some prize. Neither she NOR Tom are a great catch.

  • BetteDavisEyez1

    Better to walk away now, than to drag it out. This marriage was doomed from the start but it has to be humiliating for Lu.
    Tom is a dog. Lu is better off without him. LuAnn will have no problem finding a new love interest.

    • Marsbars09

      Hi Bette! I’ve always believed the marriage was what Lu wanted, so who were we to judge? However, I never thought the marriage would end so soon.

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        Hey, Marsie!!
        I know what you mean. Quite a few of us said it wouldn’t last but less than a year?!? Wow!!
        I mean who saw that coming?!? Somewhere right now, Ramona & Sonja are doing a happy dance.

        • Marsbars09

          Girl, you know they are talking about Lu like she has a tail!

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            That’s a good saying. LMAO!!
            Sonja has probably already reached out to Tom. I put nothing past that one.

    • Daisy

      I hate that the person being cheated on is always labeled as “humiliated” That word needs to be applied to the cheater.

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        Excellent point. However, cheaters are rarely embarrassed by their actions.
        They should be but…
        I also think we all should hold the men accountable as well. We are quick to slut shame the mistress but the man gets very little backlash.

        • Marsbars09

          So true.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            TY, Marsie.

  • Sugar in my tank

    Chile, she tried and it is nothing wrong with falling in love..Unfortunately, she fell for the wrong one. I try not to judge but I wish her well, love don’t live here anymore but lust does so hopefully Luann will expand her search outside of the Upper East side and find someone sexy to lust over…

    • Marsbars09

      Hi Sugar! Great advice and very well stated.

  • Marsbars09

    I didn’t know Lu’s divorce would be such a hot thread (over 200 comments)! Who knew….

    • ohjeez

      it appeals to both those who love and hate lu

      • Marsbars09

        Well, I’m not a big fan of Lu’s, but I’ve always wished her well in her marriage.

        • ohjeez

          you are in the inbetween basic fan of the show group… but fans and haters will be the most interested

        • BeckyGrey

          I’m not a fan of her’s either and I wished her well. But I wished that she could live with her decision (the decision to marry) without regrets. She didn’t this as a teen ager. She wanted to prove that she was desirable and that she was a person without the title.(plus she is one of those women who have to have someone. Enough Im not going to kick a Girl when she’s down.

  • ohjeez

    from next epi
    Tom comes with Luann and Missy, one of Tom’s exes is there. Tom tells her he gets a little choked up when he sees her. Missy says she does too. They proceed to have inappropriate conversation and Missy asks what is really going on? It seems she means with Luann and the marriage. He says, “Oh my God I have to take this off!” and she replies, “Yes! de-mic!”

    holy shit!

    • Marsbars09

      Hi Jeez! I get the feeling next week’s episode and the announcement of the divorce is no coincidence. This is all coming together so weird.

      • ohjeez

        i think like the betrayal of her friend barbara who tried to sue the show, lu wasnt privy to all the details until after filming. this shit is pretty crazy…normal people i guess dont understand the pitfalls of reality tv….no mercy!

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        Yup!! Lu knows what is about to air & she is getting ahead of the debacle.

      • Mental Iceberg 🏇

        Agree. Like something’s been brewing and this was the final straw.

      • MBB14

        Especially since she is off to Europe with her kids. That had to be planned as they are college students and classes typically start end of August. So hmmm……

    • Authentic

      Wow! I missed this!

    • Mental Iceberg 🏇

      Snap! I have *got* to remember to DVR next week’s episode.

      Geez, now I feel bad being like a fly on the wall. Oh boy.

    • bluebell

      I wondered about this episode as well. Something very strange is going on.

  • Kimmie77

    Sonja will be the most annoying person about this news.

  • the dudette

    I just read that there is a rumour floating, that Tom had to get married by a certain age, to get his hands on some family money.
    So, rumours are rumours for a reason, but this one I can believe. Lu is far from stupid, she’s very smart in fact, smarter than most other housewives. Let’s say Tom and her had an agreement: they’d get married, he’d get his family money, and give her a percentage for her time and effort and public humiliation, after they’d amicably filed for divorce.
    I can believe that much more, than Lu being crazy, over the moon in love with him…come on. She was laying it on quite thick, imo, with her love struck shtick.
    That would also explain Sonja’s breakdown over Tom having chosen Lu: Sonja wanted that job.

    • GetReal2014

      It’s more than plausible. There’s a reason for that quickie marriage. I thought Tom was sneaky and slimy from the start. It wasn’t just that they “fell in love” so quick” but the “intensity” as well, yet at the same time Tom always looked forced and rushed when delivering his lines. They didn’t even have an onscreen romance. It all seemed shady from the start to me.

      • MidwestMiddie

        Hey GT, : )
        You really thought Tom was awful from the beginning? I’m didn’t. Given their ages, I assumed he and LuAnn fell in love and got married. Each of them had a past but it wouldn’t – shouldn’t matter. I agree, Tom didn’t speak well on camera but then again Bravo had turned him and his life into a public Cable Show Joke. What he thought might be fun turned into a nightmare.
        LuAnn likes the Bravo limelight and he doesn’t which could be the real reason their marriage is over. I hope that is the case vs him cheating on her.
        I, also, hate the fact Bones, Rude Ramona and Slutty Sonja will be laughing
        at LuAnn and doing the pointing finger thing. : /

        If all of this was done for a $toryline, Bravo viewers have been had…….again!

        • GetReal2014

          I did, Midwest. I had an aversion to him TBH. I thought the relationship was doomed from the start. At the time that he and LuAnn got together LuAnn was living with Sonja.

          Tom knew where she was living, so why didn’t he tell her, “Oh, BTW, I used to mess with Sonja a little.” Instead he acted like it wasn’t true. He didn’t disclose anything to her so I thought he was dishonest from the beginning. So was LuAnn, IMO. With the way those women sleep around, yeah, they should always check with each other. Remember the Sonja, LuAnn and Harry triangle?

          Good point about the limelight. I think there was something to that quickie marriage but I couldn’t figure out what it was, maybe on both of their parts. Maybe Tom didn’t realize that the relationship would be Lu’s primary storyline and the glaring light of the spotlight would be directly on him. He showed her no respect, constantly doing questionable things that he had to know would cast doubt on their relationship. That’s what you call a true cad. Couldn’t stand him and LuAnn’s over the top gaiety didn’t help either. (I smelled a rat) and that rat was stinking from the start.

          • MidwestMiddie

            I can’t disagree with your well-thought out summary. Wish I could. : /

          • GetReal2014

            Thanks Midwest. I like that you want real answers and don’t just take everything at face value. You like things to make sense. I like that because I do too.

          • MBB14

            I did too. He seemed stiff, but that could be unfamiliarity with cameras. But his comments about marriage, hall pass, etc. Ick.

            Also the way he treated Sonya. She had the best assessment. Instead of pretending he never had a relationship and lying he could have said that she was special to him but then he met LuAnn and they both could have felt special and he would have come off as a gentleman (not).

          • GetReal2014

            So true about the stiffness possibly being related to unfamiliarity, but I agree about his comments. Some things, heck, many things you don’t say on camera, and Tom never seemed to care.

            I love your point about Sonja, because it’s true. Tom didn’t give a chit about anybody, and he’s proved it many times over. That would’ve been the perfect way to handle it, but he chose not to. Never trust a liar.

      • the underground train

        I see what you are saying about the intensity but it wasn’t a quickie wedding right? Didn’t they get married after being together for over a year?

        • GetReal2014

          It’s hard to figure out the time line. I’ve seen too many different time frames.

    • Buddy Buddy

      Then why didn’t he marry Missy? That’s the woman he’s in love with. He could have found a million other women to have an arrangement with, and never would have been on TV (but I suppose the argument could be that Luann talked him into it for a story line🤔).

      • ohjeez

        And I think missy is the “very wealthy” ex girlfriend Carole mentioned

      • the dudette

        Ask him. I’m not him. I’m just speculating.

    • ohjeez

      Tom isn’t from a wealthy family. He is not part of the dagostino grocery family

      • the dudette

        I never said he was part of that family (side eye, rollings eyes, you what they say about ‘assuming’ stuff).
        How do you know about his family not having some money tucked away?
        Esp Italian families in NYC do not disclose certain wealths…

        • ohjeez

          oh ok that is why some have been saying that rumor but if you google it you can find nothing at all about tom being from a wealthy family. You only find the opposite.

    • kikid26

      I don’t know if that is true or not but I definitely think that they arranged this “marriage” for some ulterior motive. I never understood what Tom would get out of it but obviously Lu gets a storyline. He wouldn’t marry her because he was in LOVE with her, that obviously wasn’t part of it. They had a deal, we just don’t know what the deal was…..yet!

    • MBB14

      Interesting but then why not marry Sonya? She needs the money.

  • GirlPlz

    WHAT A TOTAL PSYCHO IDIOT. Everyone could see he was weird and they were a mismatch. The divorce announcement has been greatly timed with the season finale which also hint at cheating. Sigh

  • Mental Iceberg 🏇

    Luann’s Tagline next season:

    “I got divorced TWICE on this fucking show.”

  • italiano bambino

    I love when this people say *Respect our Privacy* yet they F share everything on tv. The irony and nerve.

    • Why is this happening to us?

      And she announced it on Twitter! Lol

      • MBB14

        And Andy Cohen retweeted…

    • MBB14

      Good stuff=share Bad/negative stuff=privacy

  • Patricia Lynn Jackson

    Guess Bethanny was RIGHT all along! And all the crap LuAnn said about Bethanny was horrible and WRONG….Maybe LuAnn needs to apologize to her! Everyone knew what kind of man LuAnn married…It was all over New York. LuAnn just wanted a man and marriage and she didn’t care to who or what kind of cheater he is! You get what you get because you didn’t want or care about all the SIGNS and PICTURES that were very clear!

    • MBB14

      I kept thinking of the scene where Beth was crying and telling LuAnn that in her gut she felt like she was making a big mistake and didn’t want her to have to go through a divorce etc. Lu was all I know what I am doing.
      From now on, all relationships should pass the “bethenny gut test” LOL

      • GetReal2014

        LOL!

  • Anoymouswillgetyou

    This guy was in his 50’s but never been married or had any long term relationship. Usually that is a red flag. I am not saying you should get married because you think it is time, but most people usually have fallen in love & wanted to have a monogamous relationship. He seems spoiled & I have seen better looking men his age. LuAnn is a tall woman, she needs a guy that is taller than her. I wonder if she would go on that millionaire matchmaking show. I had not watched it in a while but they actually got a single dad in his 40’s matched up,with a woman in her 40’s that looked like it would work. He was really nice, & loved his daughter, but had kind of forgotten about his needs. But he got back into focusing on having a relationship after both of his dates went well. I think Lu was taken with him, but there could have been a reason we don’t know. I can’t imagine having a marriage with an arrangement, because that is something I find bizarre & unnatural. If you were in a desperate financial situation or had some kind of health crisis, I guess you might do it, but in the end LuAnn is doing well. Why would she need the money? And want to go through the humiliation. I have not been watching so I need to catch up. I did see that clip where he is talking to the woman that I guess is his ex. Why not just marry or live with her? He acts like he wants to be seen as a playboy. He can’t pull that off. I wish I had a match making service because I think I could get people together.

    • Ailish Killian

      Lu likes a lifestyle, that lifestyle is expensive. And when you swim with the big fishes you have to dress, travel, live a certain way. A couple million would set most of us for life. But not with that lifestyle, that would be called broke.

    • Tracy Phillips

      Oh puh-leeze. The “millionaire matchmaker” hasn’t successfully gotten one single couple together that even stayed together, let alone get married. That idiot Patti couldn’t even hang onto her own fiance. Luann will be out prowling the bars any minute now for her next “soulmate.”

  • ohjeez

    …and she is back to delesseps on twitter…tom who? i think she should have gone with nadeau, her maiden name but i think moms like to match the kids name

  • LeLu23

    I find it really rich, that Luann took every opportunity to shove this BS engagement and wedding down everyone’s throats, but now the poor sad little thing needs her “privacy”. Boo hoo.

    • MBB14

      OMG … you’re right. Good news=attention Bad news=privacy.

    • Authentic

      Lu invaded my privacy with this bs wedding. She owes me an apology. Otherwise i will accept an explanation for this circus….quickly.

  • MBB14

    Lu gets the “good bedroom” on all cast trips until further notice! #brokenhearted

  • Authentic

    Lu, My Love…with all due respect F your privacy. I have no symphony for you. The article states you and Tom filed divorce jointly. For obvious reasons readers are assuming Tom cheated on you. I’m doubtful here because you found out via email your 1st husband was divorcing you. Why?
    You are cheap scum and probably never paid Sonja a dime while living with her and sleeping with everyone in her black book until you struck the perfect financial deal. Karma’s a bitch My Love and hopefully you and “my Tom” did nothing illegal for financial gain. I never bought your teenage rush to the alter before he turns 50. Tom may have been camera shy but he never appeared in love with you. Tom’s Tom and lu’s never been gun shy cheating on camera. Now y’all wanna divorce? Gmafb! My bets on Tom eventually explaining this circus. Its all so fishy and makes no sense. You have 2 beautiful kids My Love. Stop embarrassing them! And did The Count marry the African? We witnessed you loose the NY penthouse, Hamptons…what do you own today? Sag Harbor? Countless title gone, what does Tom get? I hope you were smart in prenup former Countess otherwise stop invading my privacy weekly with this i should get bigger room because im married bs. Im more interested in Tom and his escapades. At least he’s honest. Good luck My Love!

  • Trippinhhard

    Oh well at least she gave live a second chance.. The handwriting was on the wall to me.. If a man have never been married by 50, you need to really find out why now.. Tom seems like he liked be a bachelor too much and still calling and seeing his exes is too much.,