Caught In Another Lie! Phaedra Parks Denies Listing House For $10K Rent Despite Zillow Post

Posted on Jul 30 2017 - 10:22am by Avigail

The scandalous season nine of The Real Housewives of Atlanta might be in Phaedra Parks rear view mirror, but the shady attorney continues to be busted in more lies!

As reported, in July the fired reality star listed her newly purchased Atlanta mansion for a little over $10,000 a month rent.

Unfortunately for Phaedra, she purchased the $1.9 million Buckhead mansion in October 2016 — before she loss her high paying reality gig. The property features 6 bedrooms, 10 bathrooms with more than 9,000 square feet of living space.



After news of the rental listing broke, the online Zillow listing disappeared and Phaedra tweeted to her followers that it was all a lie, “Rumors my house is for lease is a lie.”

As readers know, “lying” and “Phaedra Parks,” have become synonymous and a cached Zillow listing has exposed yet another fib in Phaedra’s dodgy repertoire. The property located at, 4505 Garmon Road NW, Atlanta GA — went up for rent on July 26 for $10,556 a month — proving Phaedra’s denial is false.

The disgraced attorney posted photos of herself vacationing in Martha’s Vineyard — while desperately debunking rental rumors, “While you are away trifling people always try to play. I’m in #MarthasVineyard–Bih you can’t even spell #Massachusetts (in my @NickiMinaj voice).” 


Rumors are swirling that Phaedra has fallen on hard times since she was fired from her lucrative Bravo reality gig for masterminding an elaborate lie. As readers know, Phaedra created a lie that Kandi Burruss and her husband Todd Tucker, intended to drug then rape Porsha Williams

Bravo broke ties with Phaedra and her fictitious facts — but her murky lies roll on!

 

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  • loriann760

    Phaedra lie? Who is surprised by this?
    She probably took those pictures as they passed thru Martha’s Vineyard on their way to Motel Six.

  • motherall

    Yet, Vicki Gunvalson is still on RHOC- why? Her lies are equally nasty

    • Evil Queen

      Vicki did not make any defamatory, felonious lies about a friend/ coworker.

    • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

      Even if Vicki was just going along with it, making a mockery out of cancer is beyond weird (not to mention just so wrong), but I’m not sure it’s the same as completely fabricating a slanderous and defamatory lie about a fellow cast mate. But you do make a valid point, a liar is a liar is a liar.

  • ScrappieONE

    This trick just can’t help herself.

    • Marsbars09

      She really can’t.

  • Evil Queen

    The $ 10k a month is the taxes. If Fakedra is smart; she should just sell it.

    • shayvoe

      The taxes are $1,950.00 per month…$23,400 year.

      • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

        Ouch …. Taxes are a (vague) yardstick (usually about 1% of the home’s value), so either the house is priced well (at under $2M) or they’re getting SLAMMED in taxes. I’m guessing the latter, I know we’re paying over $13000 a year, and no way is ours worth $1.3 … maybe a million on a good day.

        • shayvoe

          GA has homestead exemption and low property taxes, as does much of the south, which is one of the reasons the cost of living is so much lower and attractive to home buyers. You can buy a McMansion, that would cost 4 x more in other areas of the country and property taxes are 4 x lower as well.

          • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

            Looking at her home, it looks like it would be priced similarly here in St. Louis. Of course, like anywhere else, it depends on the zip code.

          • shayvoe

            These are the taxes since 2012

            YEAR……. PROPERTY TAXES……… TAX ASSESSMENT
            2016……… $17,625 — ………………. $434,720 —
            2015——- $17,625 -4.2%…………….. $434,720 —
            2014……… $18,400 +2.9%…………. $434,724……-14.9%
            2013…….. $17,880 -0.9%…………… $510,680…..+17.5%
            2012…….. $18,035 –…………………. $434,720 —

          • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

            They’re going DOWN? Unless the neighborHOOD is going “down”, that never happens here (especially in 4 yrs).

          • shayvoe

            It is and has been happening in the south which is where I live. It has not gone back to where it was since the housing crash. It depends on resales and appraisals in the neighborhood. My home is still $30,000 undervalued from what I paid for it 12 years ago. At the height of the crash it was 60 grand! There are a lot of factors considered with homestead exemption.

          • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

            Like the stock market, the housing market here is booming, so much to the point that inventory is low, and it’s a seller’s market. However, it is slowing down now because of the 100+ degree temps as it always does during the ‘dog days of summer’, and also for some weird reason, the Cardinal baseball season affects the housing market here. I never got that.

  • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

    As much as I hate to side with Fakedra, her explanation/denial is plausible. Number one, Zillow doesn’t require a whole lot of verification on putting a property out there on their site, and number two (the more likely scenario) is they are EXTREMELY slow in updating/removing statuses of homes. Their presence is a double edged sword for we in the business; on one hand, we like them because our clients can “play agent” and work WITH us by finding their own properties to view, but on the other hand, 8 out of 10 times, the listing is no longer available, or the For Sale By Owner (fizbo) gave up and listed it with an agent. Also, Zillow is a pain in the ass with their stupid “Zestimates”, meaning they throw usually ridiculous numbers out there claiming a home is worth such and such without many realistic research. If I hear one moe fcking time, “But Zillow says it’s worth this … “, I’m going to lose it. But back to Fakedra, I suspect the listing is old and either from the previous owner (who was in hock), or she might have bought it with full intentions of renting it, then pulled it. The problem with a liar is that even when/if they’re telling the truth, they are accused if lying.

    • JustSayin

      Lol I just went through exactly what you described, like 3 months ago! I’d search on Zillow, bring this long list of potentials to the real estate agent, and out of say 10, 2 would actually be viable. The rest would be old listings or ones that never should have been listed in the first place.

      • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

        Yep, just went through it. A friend/client is nagging me to show her something SHE found on Zillow or some other site, and I’ve told her it’s not available and it was SOLD 6 mos ago … and she’s like but I just saw it on the internet … and I’m like “Look bitch, the NEW people are LIVING in it, MOVE ON!~”. Zillow and RE dot com let’s people play agent and compete with us, but the truth is, it’s not MLS and we are seeing things that these stupid sites are not.

      • Gingertee

        I write commercial insurance and Zillow shows me a lease price for almost everything and anything.

  • shayvoe

    Zillow is not known for accuracy. If she wanted to rent it, why would she pull it a few days later? Doesn’t make sense…doubtful it was ever for rent.

    • RealitytvJunkie

      Zillow is known for accuracy. Listings are verified, not just randomly posted. I think Phaedra pulled the listing because she’s embarrassed people are saying she fell on hard times.

      • shayvoe

        Zillow is not even close to being accurate on my home and many others I have looked at. If she needed the money, and has fallen on hard times, she wouldn’t have pulled it. She has had the ultimate embarrassment, so I don’t think renting out a property could be any worse than what she has already gone through.

        • RealitytvJunkie

          Really? I did not know that. Thanks for the info.

          • shayvoe

            YW!

    • JustSayin

      I always thought Zillow was pretty accurate – until I was recently looking for a new rental. I was using Zillow to find potential properties before I hooked up with an actual realtor.

      Once I was working with a realtor, I came to find out that quite a few of the potentials I found in Zillow were actually NOT for rent. I remember asking about one specifically and it had been leased 2 months ago, but the post on Zillow was brand new. I never got an explanation, but I assumed it was somehow a scam. You know, list a property, take people to see it and collect the deposit or some such craziness.

      • shayvoe

        Yep!!

  • The Champ

    Well it looks like AJC said the listing was recent, as of 07/26/2017. And again, we’re talking about Creonta. I would label her behavior as one of a sociopath/narcissist. It doesn’t even matter that she’s renting out her newly mortgaged home. She made an AZZ out of herself trying to lie about it and there are receipts to dispute her lie. Another web of lies and deceit Creonta Deville has spun. 🕷🕸

    • Bobbi

      Girl you best believe, if Creonta said it, whatever it is, #issa lie.

      • The Champ

        My common sense tells me so too. From what I’ve read, AJC said the home was just listed on 07/26/17 and it was taken down shortly after it hit the blog pages. Everything about her is smoke and mirrors. After she came out and said the story was a lie, the newspaper pulled receipts. Ppl lie, receipts don’t.

        • Bobbi

          Exactly. I can see an old “For Sale” listing not being removed but a “For Rent” listing a year after the sale and ironically after she was fired? Yeah, no. Come again liar. Out here spending money she doesn’t have, stinking up the Vineyard just to prove what everyone already know is a lie. This bish has no low point. Smdh

          • The Champ

            Considering the fact that she lies for a living, I’ll stick to my instincts. The receipts are proof enough for me. I’m guessing after she tried to make the journalist at AJC out to look like a liar, he pulled the carpet from under her azz and backed up his article. Anytime she’s caught in a lie, she comes up with another. Same sh*t she tried to pull on rhoa and they canned her crazy azz. You would think she’d be humbled by her experience, but she’s certifiably insane. You know her phunky azz is stinkin up the place. Looking like a stray seal that washed up on shore.

          • GetReal2014

            This is exactly what happened. Just because her dumb azz doesn’t have enough sense to have receipts doesn’t mean that others are stupid enough not to have them. Where are her receipts? To date, she has never produced one.

          • The Champ

            She wants to stay under the radar, but keeps frontin for IG likes. But, we’re supposed to believe she’s smart. Only a dummy would LIE continuously with no remorse. She should have been done with the bullsh*t lies after she lost her main source of income.

          • GetReal2014

            That’s what sociopaths do. They add one lie to cover the last lie. They think that they’re really smart and no one can see through them. Telling the truth is not in their wheel house.

          • The Champ

            If she was so d@mn smart her dumb azz would know that with lying there’s repercussions. Only an idiot believes in their own lies.

          • GetReal2014

            There’s nothing smart about Phaedra that I can see, otherwise she wouldn’t be getting busted with her chit all the time.

          • GetReal2014

            Phaedra is telling this lie to appease her fans and make them think that she’s not going through financial troubles. The receipts are out there and Phaedra has been proven to lie yet again. There’s nothing new here. She always lies. The end.

          • The Champ

            It doesn’t even matter if she’s struggling, the point is, she’s still up to her same tricks. I could care less about her renting out her home, she went out of her way to LlE about it. If you read about it elsewhere, ppl are roasting her azz for lying. But nobody’s shocked, cuz that’s what she does.

          • GetReal2014

            Precisely. Phaedra has been getting roasted ever since she copped to the big drugging lie all over the internet. People aren’t hating on her for no reason. Most people tend to not like liars. It’s the position that she put herself in.

          • The Champ

            Correct, that bullsh*t she pulled on the Tucker’s was the straw that broke the camel’s back. Ain’t NOBODY hatin on that mud duck. She brought all this sh*t on herself.

          • GetReal2014

            Right, that was the monster of all lies. Naturally, no one is going to believe her.

          • The Champ

            Nope, too late, closed the gate. I wonder what happened to her law practice? (sarcasm)

          • GetReal2014

            She hasn’t talked about it in awhile. Poor Phaedra, her life is like walking through molasses. She stays stuck.

          • The Champ

            Ain’t NO d@mn law practice, that heifer was LYING, again.

          • GetReal2014

            True, because it’s a well known fact that she was renting that office space for the show. Another dead giveaway was the rotating cast (employees). Amazing what people think they can get away with. If you watch what’s going on it’s pretty easy to see through the nonsense.

        • GetReal2014

          Ha ha ha, they showed the receipts and the receipts are a lie, but Phaedra isn’t? Have mercy. Bich’s reputation precedes her. Once a liar, always a liar. Phaedra is a liar. The end.

          • The Champ

            Sounds about right. I read about it on a couple of sites, one that I find to be very reputable.

          • GetReal2014

            If it’s between Fake and Zillow I’ll go with Zillow because I’ve never busted them in any lies, Fake on the other hand…

          • The Champ

            The truth is out there for anyone who cares.

      • GetReal2014

        It’s that simple. If she said it, it was a lie. Better yet, think about a time when she told the truth, about anything. You can’t.

        Pregnancy date, nonexistent texts, media tour based on a lie, lie to Cynthia, bomb CD, drugging and rape allegations, Marvin, Todd didn’t pay her, blah, blah, blah. How many lies does she have to tell? All of her lies have been disproved. This one too.

        Zillow listed her house for sale. She didn’t get a buyer and tried to rent it. End of story.

      • The Champ

        I’m posting to a previous post, bcuz I’m not trying to be accused of “instigating”. What I think is happening here is exactly what you stated “divide and conquer”. Both are trying to lump us together when it’s convenient, but when called out they’ll try to separate us, especially me. Who is this 1, 2 or 3 that they speak of, if it’s not you or Get real, it must be “Champ”. But, then who are the others? There is No proof that you, I OR whoever else the imaginary person is, have attacked or done anything to cause such chaos and drama. IT doesn’t exists.

        • Bobbi

          No worries Champ. You nailed it Of course this is what it is. It is as clear as day what they are doing but it won’t fly. I’m going to call out that bullchit out every time.

          • The Champ

            I hear you, It’s a done deal. I agree with everything you stated, every last post.

          • The Champ

            Good Night/Morning Bobbi ☺ talk to you soon.

          • Bobbi

            Sweet dreams Champ.

          • The Champ

            Back at cha 😉😉

    • GetReal2014

      Oh please. We know Creonta lied because she uttered words. No one is lying on this known, often confirmed, lying azz crook. She’s lied from Day One, about everything and has been busted in every lie she’s ever told . Give her the benefit of the doubt? For what? She’s a known shady, unsavory criminal and her trail of lies continues. It’s not Zillow’s fault. It’s Phaedra’s fault. She’s the problem.

      • The Champ

        Right, what’s wrong with anyone calling her out on her lies? Especially when it can be proven. We’re not the ones who even wrote the article, just responding to it. She LIED.

  • Marsbars09

    Fake is grabbing at straws at this point. She lost her high paying job now she needs to modify her way of living. Lots of people do this when they hit a financial rut.
    And who cares where Fake is vacationing? I’m not breaking a sweat over it.

  • Gingertee

    When I look up properties for work, Zillow will look at almost any address and give me a potential lease price so Phaedra could very well be telling the truth. It does this for commercial properties as well. If she is selling her home, who cares, big deal. Apollo can’t pay child support. If I was her, I would move to another place that has no connect to him at all and if my current home wasn’t selling, I would lease it out. People would have to get over it and find themselves something to do. If Kenya can’t sell Moore Manor and Sheree can’t sell the Chateau, they will probably do the same thing and there’s nothing wrong with it. Let’s move on….

    • mogerhild

      I thought the same since I frequent Zillow. However, after looking at the ad, I have never seen a listing with a “For rent” label on it- that was not actually for rent. You will see zestimates for rent amount, and purchase price history, but not an active ‘for rent’ listed. Same goes ‘for sale’ sign.

      She might have asked a realtor about what she could get for the house rental, and they may have done that ad to gauge interest…but thats really reaching. I think she just lied. I have lots of experience with pathological liars and even when caught, they deny, deny, deny!

      • Gingertee

        I have to do indepth searches and I’ve seen this alot. I always have to ask my customer if they are selling because these types of ads cause underwriting issues. What Phaedra did was bad but I don’t think everything she says and does is a lie. There is a lot of lying that goes on with that show, always has been. In the case of this, I’m going with my own Zillow experience. I can see this happening very easily but if she is leasing, good for her, get the money and don’t be concerned with what folks have to say because she has babies and bills its not a crime.

        • mogerhild

          Great points. Regardless of how I feel about her…renting out her house or not… it still doesnt mean she is in the poorhouse

        • BetteDavisEyez1

          How miserable do you(fig) have to be to want this woman to lose everything?!?
          This is a stranger on a reality tv show. Phaedra will be just fine. She has her babies, loving family & she will work it out.
          If her home is for rent, like you said, good for her. It’s a good source of income.
          Sorry!! Phaedra is still capable of living comfortably & she’s still not in prison. Damn her!! LMAO!!

          • Gingertee

            I know, there are just some things that don’t matter to me. I’m not a Kenya fan, Kandi fan, Nene fan, Vicki fan, etc…. but let them make their money. Folks have bills and some have babies that have to eat. She’s renting her home (or not) it’s ok with me and I’m not owed an explanation.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Exactly. Just because we watch them for an hour a week, does not mean we know them or have a right to know everything about their personal lives.

  • Trippinhhard

    For anyone saying that Zillow is soooo accurate, that’s a lie.. Our house was sold in March and it’s still listed as for sale. The new owners are sick of strangers stopping by to see their home.. Heck my check was cashed the very next day.. Our real estate salesman said they have changed the listing “as sold”. But it still say it for Sale.. It’s no longer my problem, but I feel for the young couple that purchased our home.. Any things that run by computers are not perfect, because human errors still happens.. Who cares if Fhedra house is for rent????

  • shayvoe

    For posters saying the AJC wrote an article about this and they have receipts….wrong again. Rodney Ho, who writes a column on celebrity happenings in the AJC, picked up this article from the original person who wrote it, another Atlanta celebrity blogger, Sandra Rose. The AJC had nothing to do with the article….they don’t have receipts, Rodney Ho has no receipts, and Sandra Rose has no receipts. If you want to call a screenshot of Zillow receipts, then have at it…LMAO! While you’re claiming they have receipts on Phaedra….I’ll just wait for Dust Mop Moore to show receipts from her “marriage”.

    • BetteDavisEyez1

      Wa!! Wa!! People so desperately want this woman to fail at life that they will take anything negative they hear about her & run with it. Sound familiar?!? Haters!!
      Hope you had a great weekend, Shay.

      • shayvoe

        Hi Bette…I did! Hope you are well.

        • BetteDavisEyez1

          Yes!! Very well. Thank you.
          Damn Phaedra is still not homeless or in prison. People are foaming at the mouth. LMAO!!

          • shayvoe

            Collective heads are exploding….bless their hearts.

    • Mel Del

      But what does this have to do with Mrs Kenya????? If Queen K had a dollar for every time her name is mentioned on topics that has nothing to do with her She’s would be a billionaire. The obsession is REAL!!!!!!!! Muva Twirl keeps them pressed even when she’s not trying.

      • shayvoe

        Same thing it has to do with every time there is a story about Kenya, Phaedra and Porsha are always the main topic and are talked about by 3 or 4 people on here more than their girl Kenya.

        • Mel Del

          Really now !!!! I highly doubt that.

          • GetReal2014

            You’re correct. Can’t help LOLing @ the three or four. That’s what is repetitive.

          • shayvoe

            Then you must be new here.

          • Mel Del

            Not new !!!! Just not regular

          • shayvoe

            Then you have missed A LOT, and therefore, you really have no history to base your assumption on that it is doubtful.

      • GetReal2014

        LOLOLOL! This is true. Kenya’s name comes up in everything, whether it fits or not.

        • Mel Del

          Obsessed!!!!!!

          • GetReal2014

            It sure appears to be that way. Porsha ran after Jamie. It was Kenya’s fault, LOL.

    • BetteDavisEyez1

      Ever noticed how Dust Mop fans can bring up F&F on all things ATL but as soon as someone brings up that crab, we are the ones pressed?!?
      People have to have a higher than double digit IQ to control the message. They come up short everytime.

      • shayvoe

        LOL….turnabout is fair play….then they start whining….but we are the ones pressed. It’s actually kinda funny.

        • BetteDavisEyez1

          Thank you!! While we clown on that ashy liar, we don’t go on & on hoping that she loses everything.
          On the other hand, nothing short of Phaedra going to prison & Porsha being homeless will satisfy them. Very disturbing.

          • shayvoe

            Yes….especially when the strong black woman is exalted. Funny how some would love to see this black woman in jail or living on the street with her two kids. Makes no sense.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            No sense. If you recall, I explained that to you a while ago. It is sad but this is a prime example of what I was describing to you.

      • GetReal2014

        This is about Phaedra, not Kenya’s fans.

        • BetteDavisEyez1

          Touché. I was referring to the fan that came at Shay for bringing Dust Mop up. I know you saw that post.
          Hope you are enjoying this lovely Sunday evening.

          • Mel Del

            Excuse me her name is Kenya!!!! And I came for that obsessed hater not u. So stay in your lane

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Take your own advice & stay in your lane. Her name may be Kenya but she is known as Dust Mop & the nickname fits her to a T.

          • shayvoe

            LOL….no one here is obsessed or bothered, but you. No one is whining and stomping their feet but you.

          • Mel Del

            Keep Muva Twirl out of this and I’ll be on mute

          • shayvoe

            LOL…no can do.

          • GetReal2014

            I went back and looked at the post and the poster didn’t go after Shay. The poster didn’t post to anyone, so it couldn’t have been addressed to Shay specifically. That’s speculation. Go back and look.

            I posted to Shay though, because she mentioned the 3 or 4. Again. We know who you all are talking about and wish you would stop. It creates dissension for no reason. We don’t question your right to have an opinion and that respect should go both ways.

            Other than that, it’s a great Sunday and I hope you are enjoying it too.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Are you kidding me?!? The person admitted to me that they were going at the obsessed fan & I should stay in my lane.
            This is crazy. Anytime there is a thread about Kenya, F&F get dogged out, but as soon as anyone that doesn’t like Kenya brings her name up, we are pressed.
            You trying to tell me that is not the case?!? It goes both ways. Difference is, we don’t call others “haters” on a loop.

          • GetReal2014

            No, you have to take things in context. Mel did not specifically address anyone. It was an innocuous post directed at no one. Only Mel knows who she was talking about, but that was in her head. She said that much later, AFTER you all said that she was talking about Shay.

            At the point that you were saying that Mel did something there was nothing to substantiate your claim.

            This post is about Phaedra. Kenya has nothing to do with it, nor do her fans, so I’m not understanding your point here.

            No one is pressing you all. It’s the other way around.

            The difference is, that we don’t pay you all any attention or waste our time getting into skirmishes with you all. Haters is an innocuous term, Bette. You’ll find it all over the internet. Are we not supposed to use that term anymore? What do you want?

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Shay said she wants to see Dust Mop’s marriage lincense.
            Del said it’s not about Kenya & ppl stay pressed.
            I then said ever notice how everyone can bring up F&F on every ATL post but no one calls anyone pressed but if anyone brings up Dust Mop, we are pressed.
            So in that case, my post was also innocuous.
            I think ‘hater’ is part of the vinacular at this point. I am sure it is the urban dictionary by now. LOL!!
            The term just doesn’t mean that pointing out someone’s fault is being a hater. A hater to me is someone that hates so much that they could/would never say anything positive about someone. No matter what.
            ETA: Del posted that she ‘came’ for the obsessed hater. I didn’t make that up.

          • GetReal2014

            I don’t care about all of that. My only concern was the 3 or 4 comment and the insinuations that have been floating around for months.

            Hater is a part of the vernacular and no one should be pressed about it at this point, that’s why it’s so silly to get mad when someone uses it and start pointing fingers.

            I know what Del said later, but that was never my point. I didn’t address what Mel said, only the 3 or 4 comment.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Yes. I get that now. I was referring to Del’s comment all along & hadn’t seen the post you were referring to.
            No harm. No foul. I understand your position but sometimes it’s the company that you keep. If you know what I mean?!?
            Honestly, GetReal. Even when you are not posting, the same tit-for-tat BS goes on. I know it’s hard not to take some of the posts personally but when you are being lumped together, it sometimes gets hard to seperate the personal jabs from the impersonal, innocous swipes.
            I rather enjoy posting on the other HW threads vs ATL threads because it rarely gets this nasty. Would agree?!?

          • GetReal2014

            The problem is that you and your crew are the ones guilty of the main things that you’re accusing others of. For one thing, The three of us do not initiate nasty comments to other posters for no reason. We talk among ourselves in order to defray the BS that we have seen happen over and over again.

            We also don’t run around tag teaming posters and turning the table on them. We don’t do call outs to each other asking for reinforcements. I saw your crew jump on posters like that Police Patrol person and brag about her “coming on their turf.” The other reason given was that she was new and I guess didn’t have the “right” to have an opinion. What kind of chit is that?

            Her initial post was totally innocuous, yet she and was summarily jumped on.

            What you say about the people that I hang around with is not true. I would not hang around troublemakers and petty people because I despise BS and the people who get off on it.

            And how can you say “get lumped together” when that’s been the gist of your posts to me. I’m a part of the 3, I get mad, I say F you to people, all of which is untrue. You all started with the “three running up and down the board” and you’ve been doing it for three years, don’t try to turn that around and make yourself the victim.

            IMO, if you all just posted your thoughts on the SHOW and didn’t worry about the 3 people who have different opinions this shit would be non-existent.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            That is BS. The posts are here for all the world to see. I can name posters that y’all have ganged up on.
            I thought you don’t hold on to shyt?!? Let’s move on now. This is beyond boring at this point.

          • GetReal2014

            Name them.

            Let me know when you want to take that high road you spoke of.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Whenever you are ready to join me, we can take that trip together.

          • Bobbi

            Name them Bette. Name one.
            Name one and I’ll go find it and post it. Didn’t you say it is in Black and White? Let’s put this to rest. I have record of every post I have ever made since day one. Name someone I have ganged up on or helped gang up on.
            It is time to put up or shut up.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            When did I say that you, Bobbi ganged up on anyone?!?
            After your name got brought up I said I did not want to drag you into it because we’ve had our own issues.
            At no time did I say you ganged up on people.
            Yes. It’s time to put up or shut up. I’ve already said who I thought was the instigator.

          • The Champ

            I don’t even TALK to you, directly OR indirectly. I DO address YOUR nonsense when you try to INSTIGATE between me and fellow poster’s. The thing is, I DON’T care about you enough to BEEF with you. I’m saying THIS in the nicest way possible, forget you’ve EVER seen OR heard of ME (Champ), I have NO problem doing the SAME. IF you feel I instigated a situation at anytime, between YOU and ANYONE, I’d like to see proof as well. Again, I HAVE NO BEEF/PROBLEM with BetteDavisEyez1 OR any other poster’s. I don’t know you.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            So seems like you care…a lot. Don’t get all Billy Badass now that you got your backup or alter ego here. LMAO!!
            I would have to give a fuck about you to care that you don’t like me. Which I don’t.

          • The Champ

            Stop talking about ME. I’M speaking for myself, Bobbi can speak for hers. The ONLY reason I’m addressing you is bcuz, 2 days LATER, I still seem to be your topic of discussion. Leave ME alone and I’ll kindly return the favor. (asking nicely) 😊😊

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You are the topic because after last night, I thought it was over but today Bobbi chimed in.
            I am not just going on & on two days later. That is not what’s happening.
            I am not just bringing up your name for no reason.

          • The Champ

            Again, please, leave me out of it ALL. IT’S DEAD TO ME, let’s leave it AT that. Bobbi was being targeted as well, in the indirect manner that you speak of.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Yes. At this point we are beating a dead horse.

          • The Champ

            Right, i figured 😒😒

          • The Champ

            Where’s the proof of your baseless accusations?

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Where was your backbone last night?!? Don’t come at me know.
            You know you used that disgusting term on more than one occasion & you know you tried to call me a racist. Next!!

          • The Champ

            I’ll continue to use the word “COON”, black ppl use it ALL the time, but of course you wouldn’t know that. Why do you care, you probably don’t even know what it means. Richard Pryor used it ALL the time. Nobody called you a racist, pull the receipts. I was accused of race baiting though.

          • Bobbi

            This post is full of crap to put it nicely..what company does she keep? “If you know what I mean?” Lol!!!!
            You have continuously tried to defame my character on this board and quite frankly I am sick of it.

            GetReal isn’t the only one who got along with you initially, Bette. We both did. Consequently, we stopped communicating with you over the same post and we blocked you for the same reason. I do keep receipts. Later for this new narrative you are trying to tell that doesn’t involve GetReal being at odds with you or you with her. Your story that she somehow found herself amongst some troublemakers won’t fly. I have posts for days to prove and I will go there if needed. I won’t let you lie on me and misrepresent what truly happened here.

            FYI. You can type the same accusations everyday about Champ and I causing problems on this board if you like but GetReal is not going to cosign your story, You know why? Because it is a lie!

            I have stated that I will not communicate with you but, I’ll be damned if I sit by while you drag my name over this board with your lies and falsehoods. It’s not happening.
            .

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Oh here we go. Now I have constantly tried to defame your character. Get over yourself. No one is even thinking about you.
            You claim you keep receipts so put it out there.
            Give an example of me trying to defame your character… I’ll wait…

          • Bobbi

            These are just a few from this thread alone. There are more. See below:

            1.BetteDavisEyez1  GetReal2014. a day ago

            That is BS. The posts are here for all the world to see. I can name posters that y’all have ganged up on. 

            (Again prove I have ganged on up someone)

            2.BetteDavisEyez1  GetReal2014. 2 days ago

            …..I have my own issues with The Champ & Bobbi. (Sidenote: I really don’t even want to bring up Bobbi because she & I haven’t had any reason to continue our imaginary beef) They have both decided to carry out arguments from the last place over to here. I really don’t give an eff. Once you(fig) decide to be disrespectful towards me, the gloves are off. Nothing to do with you. 

            ( not only are you insinuating that I am simply imagining my issues with you but you have accused me of being disrespectful to you. You are attempting to paint me as a trouble maker. Prove it.)

            BetteDavisEyez1  GetReal2014. 2 days ago

            You all relished being a clique & excluding any & everyone that did not agree or follow you. What is that called again?!? I think it’s called a gang.

            (Again, these are YOUR accusations. Prove it.)

            BetteDavisEyez1  GetReal2014This is why when everyone had pretty much said okay those 3 only want to talk to themselves & they snap on anyone that responds to them, let’s just leave them alone,
            I would say okay I’m going to try & respond to GR, because you seemed to be the more level headed of ‘the 3.’ 

            (Again painting me as a trouble maker who is not level headed, snaps on posters who respond to me and only talk to “themselves “.
            Total lies!! I want you to prove it, Bette.)

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            So saying I don’t want to bring you up because we have our own issues is a bad thing?!?
            I also went on to say that I don’t want to bring you up because you don’t have anything to do with this. Did you miss that post?!?
            Yes. I called it an imaginary beef because while we may not get along, you said we can coexist without getting in eachother’s faces. Besides, I’m too damn old to have a beef with a stranger on SM.
            We haven’t communicated since.
            My opinion is that GR was the more levelheaded one. My opinion. What’s the problem?!?
            There is one in particular that will call someone a racist, then turn around & use the term coon. Will quote other posts but whine when someone quotes them. You mostly cosign the tomfoolery.
            I’ve seen where you two are doing it & then GR comes on, they try to tell her they are being bothered by the usual suspects & GR will just continue to focus on the HW. That is trying to rise above it.
            Again, this has nothing to do with you, but you want it to be. You want to keep it going, let’s do it. I have not disrespected you but I’m not backing down from you either.
            Next, long after this is a dead issue, you & your sidekick will be claiming you handled me, blah, blah, blah.

          • The Champ

            YES, at the time I felt your comments were very derogatory, STILL do. If you look up the word “COON”, blacks use it ALL the time to refer to a sell OUT. It has nothing to do with you at ALL. Bald headed, crack pipe remarks were unnecessary and ignorant, if you can’t SEE that, you have deeper issues than I thought.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You know what is so crazy?!? I was accused of being in a gang. You guys are the ones that clearly are both coming at me at the same time.
            I am handling myself just fine on my own. You didn’t say anything to me until you had back up. I think they call that a wait for it… a Gang. LMAO!!

          • The Champ

            I’m not arguing, you ARE. It’s a LOST cause to ME. I just want to be left alone and Bobbi too. If we can ALL agree to that, It’s OVER. Stop acting like we came for YOU, that’s NOT the case.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I am not bothering you. And it was never about Bobbi.
            I thought I was the one that was supposed to be playing the victim?!?
            How about this?!? Let’s leave eachother alone.

          • The Champ

            BINGO! Glad you caught it. I VOW to Never, ever address/speak to you (BetteDavisEyez1) directly/indirectly from this day forward. The end……..closes the gate.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Ditto. Cheers to that!!🍻

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I have yet to see the 3-4 comment. I hope you do not think I was referring to you when I made my initial post.
            The person I was referring to has already responded. One Love

          • GetReal2014

            I wasn’t talking about you, but the 3 or 4 came up again, and that’s not cool.

            Bette, you know that you and I got along for at least a year and I don’t recall us ever having harsh words. There’s no logical reason for such foolishness. I don’t play those kind of games. I don’t care what you post, your opinion is yours to have. I respect that and anyone else’s opinion that differs from mine. What I don’t like is all of the innuendo that keeps getting spread unfairly and I would like my name to out of it. That’s all I’m asking.

            One love indeed. I have no problem with you. Never did.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            GetReal, I understand & again, whether you care or not, respect you.
            We did get along & had great banter back & forth.
            I am telling you that I am not lumping you in with anyone & I will not be giving any side digs directed towards you.
            Let me be completely candid here, okay?!? What I see happening is even when no one is referring to you. You get dragged into it. Either you are referred to as the 3, or someone tries to draw you in, like oh look they are attacking ‘us’, when it isn’t about you.
            We can lead by example & go high. Yes?!?

          • GetReal2014

            Bette, I have nothing against you. I didn’t block you because I didn’t like you. I blocked you because you continued to go back and forth over the same stuff and it got tiresome. You make a lot of innuendos and it doesn’t go unnoticed. I don’t even hold that against you because everyone does that, including me.

            We did have nice banter back and forth, but I care about how everyone is treated and if someone was constantly coming after you I would speak up in your defense as well. I detest the gang mentality and will not be a part of it. Ever.

            I want peace on the board, not this ostracizing of posters. I don’t get dragged into anything. I speak up when chit is unfair.

            Going high would be nice. I can do that.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Cheers to that. Standing up for someone you feel is getting beat up on is an admirable quality.

          • Bobbi

            Bette may have invited you to NYC and been more friendly towards you but we both got along with her initially. Quite honestly, to your point there is no logical reason for the foolishness with ANY of us. Neither of us had a problem with her nor has anyone mistreated her. Bette has to be honest with herself – you never started out having a problem with Bette and neither did I. The problem is just as you have stated in a previous post. She has had and still does have a problem with our opinion bottom line. . Shay as well. It is so bad that no matter who makes a comment to defend Kenya it becomes our issue.

            Bette’s attempt to paint a negative opinion of Champ and I is foul to say the least. If there is any innocent in any of this it is Champ who was vilified simply for posting with you and I and her posting with us was only towards the end of our time on the previous site. So this “getting lumped in” and “the company you keep” narratives are bs. The truth is, Yours and my problem started with Bette LONG BEFORE Champ. It is one thing for the two of you to make nice, but, I won’t allow this narrative that Champ and I are trouble makers on this board to continue. I know this has not been supported by you but as I see any discrepancies in the narrative regarding me, I intend to speak up.

            I’m sorry to butt in but, the same bs argument every week about the same juvenile bs is just to much now.

          • shayvoe

            Please refrain from mentioning me in your comments…this is the second time on this thread that you have done this. If you have something to say to me, address me directly. I have not brought your name up in any posts to anyone else. If you have an issue with me, address me directly. THIS is why this BS keeps happening. It is the same as talking about somone behind their back and does not allow them to defend themselves. THIS right here is what I take issue with and what causes all the conflicts!

          • GetReal2014

            I know. That’s the weird thing. There has never been a reason for this silly conflict. We were all friendly initially, and it was just me and you, not Champ. Champ wasn’t even in the picture. She came towards to the end of our time on the other site. To try to depict The Champ as a troublemaker and a chit starter is outrageous. If anything, Champ has always tried to be a bridge. I knew that was a mistake. The bottom line is that we liked Kenya and some people couldn’t, or wouldn’t accept that.

            I believe the attempt to separate me from the “group” was simply an ineffective divide and conquer tactic. No way have any of us ever gone after posters, called them a gang or chastised them in any way. These false claims need to cease. It’s a problem if posters like Kenya. It’s a problem if posters don’t talk to them, it’s a problem if you don’t respond. It’s a problem if you do respond. WTH, is a poster supposed to do if they like Kenya?

            No matter what you do conflict comes from the other side. I don’t see how anyone can justify their actions when we specifically did not post to them in order to stop the chaos. Even that didn’t work. Then, we were a gang running up and down the boards getting mad at other posters. Now you know darn well that didn’t happen.

            I wanted this nonsense to be over because it is obvious that for the last few months they have been going after Champ relentlessly without reason. You and I both know that Champ isn’t the real “target.” We are, myself included. They went after Champ because they didn’t want to come directly at us. That’s why they pretended to “communicate” with Champ and then draw her in. That’s what happened. I always wished that I could tell Champ not to communicate with them because I knew this would happen. But, we don’t have the luxury of telling each to read our emails, etc.

            These people are connected and know each other and their agenda is as plain as day. Only an idiot wouldn’t see through it. Trying to make nice wasn’t going to help.

            Everyone who has posted with us has been singled out and ridden like a pack mule, all because of their association with us. And so have many former Kenya fans. The agenda is clear. It has been from the beginning. You can go back to the first day that I came and see what happened. They converged on me like vultures, so spare me trying to get me to believe that I am not a target as well. I know exactly what’s up. always did.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            No way. I just said I considered you the more level headed on. How would that in anyway be a divide & conquer move?!?
            Were you going to stop speaking to your friends & come over to our side?!? Was your friends going to stop speaking to you because I said that?!? That statement is ridiculous. LMAO!!

          • GetReal2014

            Bette, I’ve said all I’m going to say on this subject. This is irrelevant BS to me. We talked about it, can’t say we came to an agreement, but there’s no point in beating a dead horse. Either we move on, or stay stagnant. I’m moving on. I lost brain cells going back and forth over this nonsense.

            I want to talk about the show, not all of that other stuff. It’s just silly.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I agree, but now I am going back & forth with Bobbi. This could have been a dead issue but I’m not going to be called a liar.
            There are way too many feelings about Bette. I’m not going to sit back like some punk & let anyone berate me. Not going to happen.

          • GetReal2014

            “I’M DONE!” (In my Shannon voice) Storming off. LMAO.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            LMAO!!
            All kidding aside, GetReal, we agreed it was over & then you get into a discussion about me with Bobbi & you were not saying anything complimentary. That’s not right.

          • GetReal2014

            Everything I said to Bobbi, I’ve already said to you. I asked you about squashing it, taking the high road, etc. and every time you came back talking about the same old, same old Bobbi knows what up, and you were the one who brought her name up when you spoke about you and her having an imaginary beef. I have nothing to do with that. You had to know that Bobbi isn’t going to let you besmirch her name. I told the truth. Same as I told you.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            But you said you wanted it to end. You want to go back to discussing the HW then turn right around & talk about me.
            Do you think I am going to agree to nip it in the bud & then sit back while being discussed?!? Sorry.
            I really think you guys think everyone else is stupid but you.
            Do not talk about me & I will not talk about you. Period.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You claim it’s over but then say you think it was a divide & conquer maneuver. That is BS & that slick shyt that always goes on.
            You were infact still talking about it but you don’t think I was supposed to pick up on it.

          • GetReal2014

            It’s over for me. Your last post to me was about Bobbi. I’m not going back and forth with you. If it’s not about the show. Skip me. I’m not talking about other posters.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You’re not talking about other posters to me but you were talking about me to another poster. Just stop. All together.

          • Bobbi

            There are so many great comments in this post. We have all peeped their agenda. What happened here was definitely a failed attempt to divide and conquer. The problem is no one can keep their stories straight. One minute you’re part of “the 3” and the next you’re separate. In the same conversation we only talk to ourselves AND lash out at people who disagree with us. You couldn’t make this mess up if you tried.
            We have supposedly ganged up on posters, excluded any & everyone that did not agree or follow us, we are a gang, and the 3 of us only wanted to talk to ourselves & we snap on anyone that responds to us. Like clockwork, when pressed for proof that we’ve done these things noone can provide any. Nor can anyone confirm who the 3 are. Why am I not surprised?

            This is also what I don’t get. If we are “the 3” but you are different from the “others” and no one is talking about me (per the info I received recently after asking for proof ) then who the hail are “the 3”? This is what confirms to me this is all bs and a cheap ruse to turn us against one another and that is as slimy as you can get.

            Trying to paint Champ as a trouble maker and chit starter will never fly. It has never happened and noone can convince me that Champ would do ANY of those things. That is the beauty of it all. We know the truth and why we are where we are with these people. For them to think they can all of a sudden come in and change the narrative of a 2 1/2 year history is hysterical.

            None of us want this conflict and declining to communicate was our way to keep the peace but as you stated, it became a problem even when it was obvious that nothing else worked. I was not on the boards when you first came over but when I did and read the attacks on you and then Champ I was appalled.
            They complain because I asked not to communicate but witnessing the attacks on you and Champ was exactly why I immediately made that request after coming onto this board.
            Ironically when I made those requests and explained why I had concerns, none of those people who are complaining now, assured me back then their intent was to have a different relationship than we had on the other board. This is why I know their MO never changed and it still hasn’t. They just have new tactics

          • GetReal2014

            It is all so silly. Talk about the show. The end.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You need to be honest with yourself. Stop trying to act as if you were not the first one to get nasty.
            Here you are inserting yourself in something that has nothing to do with you. Obsessing over Bette, two days in.
            I was nice to GetReal. Why does that bother you?!?
            One day you made a comment about Phaedra & I said something about her having Alpo’s money under the mattress or something like that. You went batshyt crazy on me. Went on & on & on about not wanting to speak to me, yada, yada, yada. It was out of line & unnecessary. So don’t try & say I need to be honest with myself.
            You are the one that needs to be honest with yourself & admit that you are holding on to some BS from the other place & you are a nasty piece of work.

          • Bobbi

            Bette haven’t you learned that twisting the narrative doesn’t work with me? I won’t address the nonesense you continue to regurgitate. The reason for our conversation right now is you accused me of some things that were not true on THIS thread, I asked you to prove them and you could not.

            I remember precisely the incident you recalled in your post and I am glad you have chosen this incident because it was a turning point in our relationship.. We had had a previous disagreement because GetReal and I called you out on a major lie you had told. This is the post GetReal recalled for you a few days ago. I stopped initiating contact with you at this point because in my mind you were no longer credible and I had lost respect for you. You were livid that we called you on that lie and your posts to us became vicious. The disagreement you recalled was after that incident and just one of the many times you were yet again butt hurt over my opinion. GetReal was not on the boards this particular evening and as usual you and your tag team were trolling the boards. No one attacked or went bat chit crazy on you, that is a steaming pile of bullchit but yes we had a major disagreement which ended in my replies to you being flagged and deleted when you were the one who started with me AS USUAL. Another poster came over to tell me she witnessed what had happened and confirmed that you were a problem. When I replied to her, those comments were flagged and deleted as well. Ironically all of your nasty posts remained on the board and yes, THAT evening I decided I would no longer communicate with you and your pals because you were nothing but trouble. All you ever did was have a problem with and challenge my opinions about Nene, Phaedra and Kenya and I was over it and you. This was the first time I requested to no longer communicate with you. You ignored my request and continued to goad and post antagonizing replies to posts which were not intended for you and you continued to do so until I left that site even though I refused to reply to you and repeated my request not to converse with you.

            You like to spin a different story but this is why I refused to communicate with you once I got to this site. When I saw how GetReal and Champ were being attacked over here that confirmed my decision. You tried your best to put on a good face after I called you out but you eventually digressed back to your old self. Last night/this morning was the epic unveiling of the true RT BetteDavisEyez1 in full force complete with cursing, ridiculous accusations and name calling. And all because I simply challenged you to prove some accusations you made about me. You should NEVER call another soul nasty Bette. Ever.

            None of your bogus recollections fly. You are simply trying to distract from the issue I am addressing presently and that is you accused me of actions on this thread that are untrue and you were unable to prove them.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You are making a complete fool of yourself. No one gives a damn what you think.
            You lied on me. Tried to insert yourself in something that was none of your business in the first place & you’re still going. LMAO!!
            You need to act your age & not your shoe size. You’re boring & repetitive. Yawn!!😴😴😴

          • Bobbi

            Again deflection. You lied. I called you out and now you’re pissy. I will call you out every time.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            BAHAHAHA!! Five days now.
            You are a broken record. “You lied!!” “You lied!!”
            I will call you out right back, everytime.

          • Bobbi

            Yes, you lied Bette. You. Lied. and if you want to hang around I can go for 6. I bet you will think twice to lie on me again.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You are not important enough to lie on nor about.
            I’m not going anywhere. You keep posting your BS to me, I will give it right back. You’re the one that looks ridiculous, badgering me.

          • Bobbi

            Again, your actions betray your words because apparently I was important enough. I don’t care about looking ridiculous, Bette. You think you can shame me. It won’t work. I’m going to make you think twice about positioning your fingers to post another lie about me.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            BAHAHAHA this what all of this is really about. You want me to stop so you can say “Yeah Gurl!! I got Bette together!!”
            LMAO. You lied about me lying. You obsessed over me for days, but you’ll be telling a completely different version on the next ATL thread. Mmm Hmm, Gurl!!

          • Bobbi

            I lied about the lie…..hmmm, that sounds familiar, but why am I not surprised that you used that line.
            You are all about winning. You’ve basically admitted that. You see it as right against left. I don’t care about winning or “getting you together”. I care about the truth. I care about being lied on. I have not initiated a post to you in over 2 years. You have ref my posts, voiced negative opinions about me and I have not cared. Lying on me is totally different . I won’t let you do it.

          • shayvoe

            I don’t see where you posted to me. As far as the 3-4 go, I have already stated to you previously that I don’t have any issues with you, so I’m not sure why the 3-4 comment bothered you. Maybe I should have said the 1 or 2, but there are a couple more from time to time. But, the 1 or 2 is probably more accurate on a consistent basis. If I could post directly to the people who I take issue with, I would. But when I have tried that in the past, they don’t want me to post to them…and respond “you know I don’t fu*k with you” to be accurate, so I don’t post to them. The passive aggressive posting was not started by me and I think you know that. I would much prefer to post directly to another poster. But, if that is not possible, I’m not going to stay mute, if I disagree with what is being said. This is a site to post opinions and to comment back and forth….even if you disagree. If people only want people who agree with them to post to them, maybe they should start their own site, and then they can control what is posted and make sure everyone agrees with them at all times.

          • GetReal2014

            The 3/4 comment does bother me, because you all have consistently run up and down the board talking about the 3 or 4 who come after you all whenever we have opposing views. The problem is, that’s not true and it needs to stop.

            I don’t have a problem with anyone on the board because I expect different opinions and understand that everyone will not agree with me. But, I am not going to stay silent when someone is passive-aggressively attacking me. You saw Sunflower leave because of the constant BS. She didn’t make that up.

            How did we even get the moniker of the 3 or 4? Who are the 3 or 4? No one seems to be able to answer that.

            And no, I don’t have a problem with you or anyone else on this board. That would be childish to come on a board to start chit. I have better things to do. The bottom line is EVERYONE should stay in their lane, rather than create beef for no reason. Sadly, it’s not working out that way.

          • shayvoe

            Sunflower posted in a provoking manner in her posting style. Other posters are not what made her leave here. She was doing the same thing on another board that she was doing here. She was reprimanded by the mods here for going after their writers and their articles, so please don’t make it sound like she left due to other posters, because I know exaclty what happened.

            This entire thing tonight started, because I said I wanted to see Kenya’s marriage license, then I was admonished for bringing Kenya up on a Phaedra thread. Yet, every single time like clock work….every.single.time. Phaedra and Porsha are ripped to shreds when there is a Kenya thread…and you know that is the truth. So, why is it not OK for me to bring up Kenya, and it was in context to what was posted? People want to make rules for other posters to follow, for the same things they do themselves. Like you, I am not going to sit by silently, when I feel attacked, like I was tonight. I am tired of there being unofficial rules, of how I am supposed to post or not post about Kenya or anyone else. That is my issue.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Exactly. You said you wanted to see her marriage certificate & then ended up being called an obsessed fan.
            Why should you sit back & let anyone come for you, unprovoked.
            We have ALL read threads about Dust Mop where posters go on & on ad nauseum about F&F, so why is it a problem when Dust Mop gets brought up.
            No one has the right to tell any of us when we are allowed to bring Ashy Kenya’s name up. And if they want to bitch & moan & quote us, we will do the same.
            Enough with the whining. “There’s No Crying In Baseball!!”🤣😂🤣

          • shayvoe

            Exactly! I am tired of the double standard and I will post what I want when I want! And if other people don’t like it…too bad! They bring up Phaedra and Porsha on any and every Atlanta thread. And I will continue to point out how hypocritical it is when they don’t like that I bring up the same issues that they post about Phaedra, which Kenya does as well. Number 1. LYING! I will continue to point out that Kenya is a liar on any and every thread I choose, just like they rip Porsha and Phaedra on ALL Atlanta threads.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Amen to that. They do not control this site or ATL threads. Despite what they think.
            The main one that thinks she is infact Dust Mop or her bestie is the one that keeps all this shyt stirred up.
            Hateful piece of work, that one.

          • shayvoe

            That one was the exact same way on the other board and is why she got banned. She wants to act like she is all about love and light and never instigates anything…she may have a couple of people fooled over here, but I have known her for a long time and I know exaclty what she is all about. She provokes, instigates, pot stirs to get a reaction. It’s no wonder she loves Kenya so much, they are just alike.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Nailed it. I couldn’t agree more.

          • GetReal2014

            Sunflower did not post in a provoking manner. She always tried to make peace with everyone. If she was banned about commenting on the articles, I suppose the mods have a right to do that. But, as I remember the gang was jumping on her as well. And she was tired of the constant gang ups over harmless posts. My opinion.

            How many times have you all said that others are always bringing up F & F? Many times. Who cares? In fact, who cares what others think to this extent anyway? You say things about Kenya all the time. I DO NOT CARE. That goes both ways, only I don’t take offense to it. Why would I get mad about what you post? IDGI.

            You can post about whoever you want to. I don’t recall any of the three caring about what you post. If so, who and when?

          • shayvoe

            I am not going to go around the mulberry bush with you. But, I don’t care how many times you bring up F and F. What I do care about is that when I bring up Kenya in a post that is not about her, I am admonished and told this story is not about Kenya ….or the gang starts passively aggressively posting that we stay bothered, we can’t keep Kenya out of our mouths, we are haters…blah, blah, blah, but when you all do it all the time when the post is not about Phaedra, it’s fine. There seems to be another set of rules for the ones who do that, and everyone else. You don’t see it, or don’t want to acknowledge it, but you have chimed in on many of those posts as well, agreeing with the ringleader. I don’t want to fight with you and I truly have no problem with you. I do, however, have an issue with the one who usually starts it…and it is from way back on another board. I think she is a nasty person and not just from what she posts about the shows…it goes deeper than that. Her, I have no use for. Like Bette said, sometimes people are guilty by association. But I actually think you are probably a nice person in real life. I don’t feel the same about the other.

          • GetReal2014

            You do the same thing. So why point fingers?

          • shayvoe

            I am not pointing fingers…and yes, I have done the same thing, which I admit. Everyone in this scenario has been guilty of it, at one time or another. That is my point. Fingers get pointed all the time, some can admit it, others won’t and never will, And, before you think I am referring to you…I’m not. As I see it, there is one big pot stirrer…on the Atlanta threads….in my opinion.

          • GetReal2014

            That’s my point, Shayvoe. None of us are perfect and no two people see life through the same prism, so I don’t get why people have beef or want to have beef with others. It’s just stupid to me, and pointless.

            Everyone has a right to their opinion and if we respect each other there wouldn’t be any problems.

            Even in your last sentence you negate everything that you said before by adding that pot stirrer comment. It’s still pointing fingers. Either you would like to see things squashed, or you don’t.

            And no, as a rule, unless someone is calling me the three or the gang I never try to mind read and guess who the poster is talking about, because I don’t care. These are strangers who have no impact on my life, so sitting around worrying about and talking about others is just foul and childish, IMO.

          • shayvoe

            I want it squashed and I don’t have ill feelings towards anyone, except the one who I feel always starts it. I have no use for her. If she continues to passively aggressively go after anyone who posts something she doesn’t like about Kenya, if she tries to rally the troops by repeating something I said, to someone else, trying to get others to agree with her, if she is blatantly disrespectful to me, in her passive aggressive way, because she is too much of a coward to say it to me directly, I will continue to defend myself. She doesn’t have to use my name for me to know who she is talking about, just like the other poster, Del, did on Sunday. I may be many things, but stupid has never been one of them. I will always defend myslef and I am no one’s push over. I am done with this and hopefully this bull shyt can end. We shall see…

          • The Champ

            Consider it SQUASHED then. I have NO intentions on speaking/referring to you at ANYTIME. I don’t know YOU and don’t claim to know you, Shayvoe. If you have an ISSUE with me (Champ), that’s on you, NOT me. YES, I said IDFWU and I don’t, so PLEASE, I respectfully ask that YOU do the same. I have NO beef/problem with ANYONE on this board, your BEEF is one-sided. I just don’t care enough to beef/interact with you, directly OR indirectly. It’s a DEAD issue.

          • shayvoe

            Glad you showed up to address me woman to woman. You don’t passively address me and I won’t address you. This all started when I asked you a simple question months ago, and was not ugly, and you posted that you don’t fuck with me. So nasty!! I then leanred later you were from the other board…and I knew exaclty who you were…same thing you did over there. I didn’t even know who you were at the time I posted to you. I am never nasty to anyone unless they are nasty first. We don’t like each other….simple as that. You can say you don’t have a beef with me….but we both know that is not true. Dead issue…agreed!!

          • The Champ

            Again, I don’t know you to dislike you. YOU dislike me and if I was “NASTY” toward you,I’m sure I had GOOD reason. If you don’t think so, let’s pull it up and address it further. It doesn’t matter that you don’t like me,I’m NOT trying to be your buddy/friend. Don’t remember you from any other board either, but then again, I wasn’t paying any attention. No BEEF here, let’s MOVE along……

          • shayvoe

            RIght….LMAO! You can pretend like you are so above it and we both know you remember me from the other board. But….moving on….I don’t fuck with you…..you don’t fuck with me….until we do.

          • The Champ

            Well, I don’t……..

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Let the choir say AMEN!!🙌🙌🙌👏👏👏

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Sunflower got banned from the site. She did not voluntarily leave. LOL!!

          • RealitytvJunkie

            Lmaooooo!

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            It’s the truth. LMAO!!

          • GetReal2014

            How do you know that she got banned? What did she do?

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            The mods asked her to stop trying to insight riots on the board & she flipped out on the Mod. I haven’t seen her post since.

          • GetReal2014

            Then how can you say she got banned? Maybe she left.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            ^ times 1000.
            They don’t want us to reply to them but they want to quote us. They need to start their own site or write in a diary. Enough already,

          • Bobbi

            I won’t even allow you to insinuate that I cause problems on this board or anywhere else for that matter. I have never said I don’t fk with you. Ever. What I did do was respectfully ask you to not to post to me and I explained why. A few times. In short it was because all of our previous discourse ended in arguments no matter how calmly or benign they began. You are complaining about that request now but when I explained my reluctance to post to both of you at that time, neither of you confirmed that your intentions were peaceful. You did continue to post to me though. Don’t try and play the victim now Shay. You are trying to make it seem as though I or we asked you not post to us because we are unable to tolerate a difference of opinion when you know full well I explained it was because I did not want to argue with you.

            Your post is disingenuous and I know I requested not to communicate with you but I won’t let you bend this story to fit your narrative or lay blame for what has happened between us on this board on me. Never. I will speak up every time you attempt it.

          • shayvoe

            I am NOT talking about YOU! If you did not say it, why would you assume I was talking about you! It was another poster who said it and they know who they are! I posted to you once, and you asked me not to post to you…I have not posted to you since!! No one is acting like a victim. I am never a victim or proclaim to be a victim I will always take up for myslef. What I hate is a bully, who passively aggressively goes after people whom they don’t agree with, then tries to pretend that they are all love and light and never engage in discord. THAT is what is disingenuous. There is one person who posts on the Atlanta threads who I see as a bully and a coward. Why don’t you all block the people who you don’t want to post to you? It is a lot easier and causes less strife that calling someone out asking them not to post to you….that is just rude! If you all only want to post just to each other, why not block everyone you don’t want to post to you?

          • The Champ

            Why DON’T you block me (Champ). You’re the one complaining about me bullying you and I don’t even care to speak to you. 2 days later……. Who’s getting bullied, Do tell??

          • shayvoe

            I didn’t say you are bullying me. I can take care of myself. I said you are a bully and an instigator. A bully is a person who instigates to try to get a reaction. Doesn’t mean it is me you are bullying, but that is why you do what you do….it just doesn’t work with me and never will. I don’t like the things you say. You call people racist, always bring race into it. You talk about being a strong black women and Kenya being a strong black woman, and yet, tear down other black women like they are dogs. Nothing you say rings true, I just don’t like you and you don’t like me….that is the bottom line. Let’s call it what it is. You can say all day long that you have no beef with me or don’t dislike me….but we both know that is bull shit.

          • The Champ

            What does me being a STRONG BLACK woman have to do with YOU or what I’m posting. I didn’t call you a racist, I spoke on how I felt about the network and stand by that. BetteDavis made some interesting remarks about “Kenya fans* that ” I” said and felt were derogatory and a few other poster’s spoke on it as well. If these woman on the show didn’t carry themselves in such manners and tear down one another, I wouldn’t have to CALL them out. Why do you care, you TALK about Kenya like a dog. Again, I don’t know you,don’t claim to know you and NEVER tried to get to know YOU as a friend or fellow poster. It doesn’t matter that you don’t like me, we’re not friends or enemies. I don’t know you.

          • shayvoe

            I have never spoken about Kenya the way you and the others speak about Porsha and Phaedra. I don’t talk about her looks, her family, her mother, or anything like that. I call her a liar and talk about her fake men….things that are true. I have heard you all say some horrible things about Phaedra’s mother, her brother, her family, and Porsha’s too. My point is, if you want to build up black women, why say such horrible things about them? And why go after people by talking amongst yourself, who say something negative about Kenya, speaking the posters exact words. We ALL can READ, even if you aren’t using posters names, we know who you are going after. This is the shit I am talking about, that keeps things stirred up all the time.

          • The Champ

            Please don’t make this a BLACK ISSUE, It’s not your area of expertise.You’ve said plenty disgusting things about Kenya, so let’s let that rest. These women are NASTY as HELL towards one another, on and off the show, I will call them out as I see fit. It’s NOT for you to EVER worry about. Why DON’T you go build up your ppl and STOP worrying about ME. DON’T forget about #pussygate, if they can dish it out………

          • shayvoe

            You will never find anything I said about Kenya that is anywhere near as bad as what is said by you all. But that aside, you can talk about P and P until the cows come home, just don’t go after me using the context of my post on anything I say about Kenya. If you don’t like something I say, address it to me directly. I am not worried about you, or what you post…I am only concerned about what you post about what I say. If that is clear and doesn’t happen, I won’t know you exist. I don’t understand you last sentence. What is pussygate?

          • The Champ

            The viewers refer to season 9 as #pussygate, bcuz of ALL the foul, disgusting sh*t that went DOWN. I still don’t know what you’re talking about, would you happen to have any proof of my indirect post? Maybe you’re reading too much into things. But if you want to discuss it further, I have time, if you have some examples/proof. And DITTO, don’t care what you think about Kenya and PLEASE don’t worry about my post and NO they’re NOT about you. What quotes do you speak of, just curious. You quoted ME the other day about receipts, on this very board.

          • shayvoe

            Ahhhh Pussygate….got it. I don’t have the time or inclination to search through posts where you have referenced my posts about Kenya to Bobbi and Get Real, but we both know it has happened and frequently….let’s be real here. Yes…I have done it too, mostly in response to that, but I have done it.

          • The Champ

            Well, I’m never looking for a fight with anyone, period. But, YOU yourself did quote me on this very post AND numerous other times. But, let’s agree to disagree and put it ALL to rest, once and FOR ALL. We all played a part at some point.

          • shayvoe

            Done!

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Speak on it!! I’m a racist because I said put down the crack pipe. More ppl came out in my defense than had an issue with my post. Each person got swiped by the person that claimed it.
            Porsha’s private parts stink & Phaedra’s mother makes potions to abort babies. Sheree & Kandi are ‘coons’.
            I swear!! It is really like the Twilight Zone up in here.

          • The Champ

            I knew it, just couldn’t help yourself, could you? Ladies and gentlemen exhibit #107 🔝🔝🔝 And another thing, someone also pointed out the fact that “Raisin Face” is a derogatory name. Don’t forget YOU called us bald headed too. Yeah, that part.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Do you not know the difference between addressing you & replying to a post?!?
            Ladies & gentlemen… after YOU said you would NEVER address me directly or indirectly you brought my name up in your post to Shayvoe.
            So you see… you did it first. Yet again, when it’s done in return, you whine.

          • The Champ

            I thought you were DONE with the sh*ts, but that doesn’t seem to be the case. YOU (BDE) are consistently referring to ME (Champ). Thanks for proving my POINT, my work here is DONE.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You referred to me first. Just check the post you sent to Shayvoe.
            Cold busted. You swore you were done but you are clearly not.
            I don’t need to say anything more. YOU, THE CHAMP, brought up BDE1 first. After claiming you were done.
            Drops 🎤

          • The Champ

            Gurl Bye, that was from earlier today. Tried it, FAILED 😒😒

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            BAHAHAHA!! The time is on the post. Earlier my ass. Come again. Gurl Hi!!

          • The Champ

            And I meant every word I said about your ignorance. I meant it was earlier when WE all were having a discussion. Duh 😩😩

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Ditto. I meant every word I said about your ass as well.
            You were the one that ended up begging for me to leave you alone. Nuff said. Deuces.✌️

          • The Champ

            Bcuz you’re a bug a boo, that’s why. Now, LEAVE ME ALONE and STOP referencing ME. (PLEASE) 😁😁

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Only if you do the same. You’re just a wanna be!! Wanna be better than me!!🎼
            Love that movie.🎥

          • The Champ

            📣Say it LOUD, “I’m black an I’m proud” Love that song 🎶🎶

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Yes!! James Brown. The man.
            Champ, you do realize that we are making fools of ourselves, don’t you?!?
            It does not have to be this serious. We are essentially beating one another to a bloody pulp over crab ass women that wouldn’t spit on us if we were on fire.
            Are you okay with this?!? I’m not.

          • The Champ

            You’re the one going on about me being a wanna be, AS IF 😀😀 I just referenced that I’m black and proud of it. Anywho, back to what we AGREED on, I’m ok with that.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I’m not going on. I just sang the next lyric to the song after the jigga boo/bugga boo line.
            I guess I mixed references…🙁
            I was doing the School Daze song.

          • The Champ

            Jigga boo vs bug a boo, ok. 😒😒

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I got the songs mixed up. Try not to find a slight in everything. C’mon now.

          • The Champ

            It’s the black in me, you wouldn’t understand. I’m not gonna use any insensitive language toward you, so show me the same respect. There’s certain lines we shouldn’t cross, so let’s leave it AT that.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            So you do not recall that after you pointed out that my post was offensive I said more than once that my comment may have been harsh but I did not mean to offend?!?
            Why don’t you ever acknowledge when others try to extend the olive branch?!? You never & i mean never say well I may have taken it out of context or I may have gone too far.
            You want everyone to be flogged for minor offenses but you are never remorseful of the things you say.

          • The Champ

            I never offended your race, I made examples to help you understand. Somebody called you out about using raisin face and to this day, you continue to use it. I’m black and I would know what’s offensive or NOT. We can leave race out of it, if you STOP being insensitive.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I am the one that told the story. I will call her Raisin Face anytime I please because she looks like a California Raisin. If it were Phaedra, I doubt you would be so offended.
            I’ve noticed you don’t take offense when any of the other women a called animals. Isn’t that offensive to your militant blackness?!? Since when is it okay to refer to a black woman as a moose?!?

          • The Champ

            KimZ named her that, she’s white. You would know if it’s appropriate or not,not me. I’m not white.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I have never heard that disgusting piece of trash call Dust Mop a Raisin Face. Wait… you are referring to the moose comment, right?!?
            If that was offensive, why would anyone continue to refer to Nene as a moose?!?

          • The Champ

            Moose is NOT an offensive word to my ppl, but you wouldn’t know that.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Only black ppl are bald head?!? How is Raisin Face derogatory?!?
            I’m the one that pointed out to a poster that I was called a racist on another post because I called Ole Dust Mop a Raisin Face.
            Didn’t you say you would NEVER communicate with me again?!? That pledge lasted all of what?!? Five minutes?!?🤣😂🤣

          • The Champ

            You’re NOT black, so of course your ignorance would NOT allow you to understand what’s inappropriate in our culture. I’m communicating with YOU bcuz you referenced me AGAIN. IT wasn’t even me who pointed out the “Raisin Face” as derogatory and IGNORANT, it was a fellow poster. Again, LEAVE ME out if your comments, like YOU said you would.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I’m not black?!? How would you know this?!?
            I said that someone on another post pointed it out. I never said it was you.

          • The Champ

            You’re NOT black, what’s your point?

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You don’t know me from a can of paint. How the hell would you know what race I am & how does that even factor in?!?
            You are the one calling ppl coons & Step & Fetchin. Check yourself.

          • The Champ

            I know YOU ain’t black. Black ppl can say certain things you can’t and it probably goes the same for white ppl, I don’t know, only you can answer that. My ppl use the word “COON” all the time, but YOU wouldn’t know that. It’s a culture thang.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I was raised that certain words were off limits. The N word. Coon. White trash. Mutt. These are just things you don’t say or ever let anyone call you.

          • The Champ

            Well, the N word and Coon only apply to you. I don’t use white trash or mutt. But like I stated, you wouldn’t know what words are acceptable amongst blacks and vice versa. We use the word coon ALL the time, especially in reference to a SELL out.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I get what it means. Please stop saying I am not black because you do not have a clue what my race is.
            I’ve had enough of that all of my life & it is offensive.
            This is why Shayvoe was saying race should never be brought up. You never know who you are going to offend.

          • The Champ

            Well, you’re not. I wear my blackness as a badge of honor. I LOVE who I am and I’ll continue to say so. It shouldn’t offend you or anyone else. You should be proud of your race as well, It’s who you are. I still don’t think you’re black either, whatever you are, you should own it. It’s offensive to me when you called me and my fellow sistas bald headed and to put the crack pipe down. A black person knows this already,that’s why you don’t understand, otherwise it wouldn’t have crossed your lips. Black ppl don’t like being referred to as raisins either, another clue.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I said that if her haircare products worked, her bald headed fans would be raving about it. I never called you bald.
            I call Dust Mop, Raisin Face. Not all black people.
            I am very proud of my heritage & my race. I wear it as a badge of honor as well, but you know what?!? I am first a woman. Next I am part of the human race.
            Until you are asked everyday, what are you?!? Where are you from, everyday of your life, you will never understand. This is a thread about HW. It is never supposed to be about race.

          • The Champ

            Well, I’m black that’s all I know and whatever your race is, it doesn’t matter to me. Just watch your language and your references. I don’t go around saying white trash and put the heroin needle down. I’m telling you as a black woman, we don’t do bald headed, crack pipe or raisins. I would never be so insensitive to offend your race. If I’m telling you it’s not cool, It’s not. I’m BLACK, I would know.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Do you see how nasty & insensitive your response is?!? I said put the crack pipe down. I didn’t know that crack was exclusively a black drug.
            I then said should I have said put the meth pipe down?!? Is that better?!?
            You just said whatever race I am doesn’t matter. Why should I be respectful of your race but mine doesn’t matter?!?

          • The Champ

            Why would your race matter to me? You don’t respect me or mine. I told you certain things ARE offensive, you still haven’t addressed that part. It shouldn’t have been said. I was using heroin and white trash as a reference, it doesn’t feel good does it? Black ppl and the crack epidemic is a major issue in our communities, but then again you wouldn’t know that. But, now you do. Your race should matter to you, just like mine matters to me. I know my history.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I know mine too. You think that the crack epidemic is yours to own?!?
            That is a closed minded way of viewing the world. Do ppl even still do crack?!? LOL!!
            Junkies are universal. Crack, meth, dope, it’s all the same. It really is not always about race.
            Now at this point, anyone reading these posts can clearly see that I am trying to put down my weapon, but the need to continue this imaginary war wages on.

          • The Champ

            I think you’re missing the point and yes folks still smoke crack. It’s not something that’s considered a joke. I’m not at war with you or anyone else, It’s not about our different races. I’m telling you what is offensive to my ppl Referring to one as using a crack pipe, calling or referring to a black woman as being bald headed and last but NOT least, telling us to go take care of our kids. You just learned something new about blacks. We don’t like/tolerate that sh*t, It’s offensive.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Okay, Champ. I already said my comment may have been harsh or offensive. You want to keep beating a dead horse but then deny you tried to call me racist when you got called out for it.
            I see the game you try to play. Eff race. You are that person. The one that lives to provoke & keep shyt stirred up. Just as I said from the very beginning.
            I am the stupid one that fell right into your trap but I will take the hit, because now everyone else sees your agenda.

          • The Champ

            Not may have been, it WAS harsh/offensive. I said, what I said and nobody can tell me how I feel. Show me receipts when I called you a racist.You keep saying that word, if the shoe fits……. The difference between me and you is, I know who I am. And don’t give af what anyone thinks. I respect those who respect me, no matter the race. Who ever don’t like it can #@¿¡☆¡$#&*

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Oh yes. You are the only one. No one else gives a flip what you think either.
            Stop trying to act all militant but back pedal when you get called out. “For the record, I never called anyone racist!” Remember that disclaimer?!? That was you.
            Now you trying to act like you are Malcolm X out this piece.
            Hold up!! Wait a minute!! How did we get back to posting to one another?!? We both vowed to never ever communicate again. No?!?

          • The Champ

            You’re right, back to what we AGREED to. Malcolm X has left the building.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            By any means necessary.👊🏼

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Champ, I am blacker than you, mi amore. I have forgotten more about black history than you will ever know. Now what?!?

          • The Champ

            That’s a LIE. You don’t even know what’s offensive to my ppl, so STOP. Now What?

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Oh I’m a sistah. Best believe it.😘🤣

          • The Champ

            I don’t and NEVER will. Sorry not sorry. No sista of mine would use such language,you’re trying to use that to your narrative. What you said about me and my REAL sistas was derogatory. Now you wanna claim you’re one of us Bcuz you know you were wrong. Sorry Bettie.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Nah. I am trying to tell you that I already owned my shyt. Just waiting for you to do the same.
            We going to keep it real?!? Let’s keep it ALL the way real. You say some pretty disgusting shyt & it is not about race.
            The difference between you & me is I owned my faux paus & you never will. That ain’t a race thing. Let’s make that perfectly clear.

          • The Champ

            Disgusting sh*t about who? Nobody else has a problem with my statements about HW’s, they don’t care. You made some very disrespectful, derogatory statements me and other Kenya fans. I know you wouldn’t understand bcuz you’re not black, but I’m trying to help you understand. Let’s keep the insensitive remarks about fellow poster’s to ourselves. I have never disrespected you or your race. I’m not ignorant or insensitive. Just don’t use that language or refer to me and we can go back to being invisible.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Please read my last post to you…

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You know what?!? I am LMAO!!
            We both claim we can’t stand the other. We both, just a few hours ago, swore we would never communicate with the other, yet here we go… hours later, going back & forth.
            Either we really do like one another, hate one another to the point that we want to completely annihilate the other or we really have this underlined respect for the other & enjoy playing chess with eachother.
            Which ever one… I don’t mean you any harm in this world. You are a stranger to me, but I wish you all the best in real life.
            Because at the end of the day, what you eat don’t make me shyt. So it’s kind of like, I may not like you but I don’t wish you dead. You get where I am coming from?!?

          • The Champ

            You already know how I feel about you,I addressed that long ago. No we don’t have to care for one another,but I don’t wish bad on anyone on these boards. Just don’t refer to me and say anymore insensitive remarks about my race and we can go back to not being bothered by one another. I gave you examples of the remarks black ppl don’t like used against them, It’s up to you not to use them again. I will not offend you or your race. That’s all.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            What is my race?!? You don’t know, so how can you know what I would consider offensive?!?
            I will refer to Dust Mop as Raisin Face as long as I damn well please. You want to act offended about it. Sorry. Not sorry. It has nothing to do with her race.
            I will refrain from attacking you personally because it is not that serious, but… if you are quoting a post of mine or doing that passive aggressive shyt you do, I will get back at you. I will not draw first blood.
            That’s all I can promise.

          • The Champ

            I honestly don’t care what your race is, that’s NOT my ISSUE. But, I do know black ppl don’t like being referred to as raisins and if you were black you would know that, so let’s leave it AT that. What ever race you are is your business. Keep using Raisin Face, have at it. I’m telling you as a black woman we don’t care to be referred to as raisins. You don’t have to worry about me, I never bothered you in the first place. I won’t ever reference to your race and I shared my examples with you regarding black ppl. You can use Raisin Face all you want, that tells me what I already knew about you.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Tells you what you already know about me… That tells me all I need to know about you as well.
            Coon in your mind is acceptable. Calling a black woman a THOT is acceptable. Never saw you refer to KimZ as one. Calling Nene a moose is acceptable.
            Now, using terms as Raisin Face, saying put down the crack pipe & calling ppl bald head is not acceptable. 10/4

          • The Champ

            Yep, Thot is acceptable, Coon and Moose. But then again you wouldn’t know that. I have special names designated for KimZ too. Whatever is acceptable to your own race might be more of importance to you. I just told you what was derogatory in my race ,not yours. That’s all, I’m tapping out now. One last thing, Poorsha referred to herself as “Princess of Thotlandia” she likes being a THOT. Coon is a part of black ppl’s vocabulary, I already told you that. I’m out forreal.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Yes. Porsha claimed it. I remember that episode. LOL!!
            Sweet dreams. I hope we won’t wake up to more of the same BS. Let’s save it for the next ATL thread. Wouldn’t want Fake’s thread to get more posts than Dust Mop’s.🙀😴😴

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Why should I watch my mouth or references when you just stated my race means nothing to you?!?
            You get what you give. No one is going to pussy foot or be PC with anyone that straight up says that their race doesn’t matter.
            You give respect you get respect. You disrespect you get disrespected in return.

          • The Champ

            I’m not saying your race doesn’t matter, im not judging you based on that. I’m telling you what my ppl,black ppl find derogatory. All black ppl know what’s appropriate or not when it comes to our race. You probably know what’s appropriate in your race too. Don’t use insensitive language and if you don’t know what that means, maybe you should think b4 speaking.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Okay.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Here you go!! You are bringing up my name after you swore you would not address me directly nor indirectly ever again.
            Next, you will be claiming I came for you first. This is your MO & everyone is starting to catch on. We see you. Know this.😘😘

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Shayvoe is the REAL Champ on this thread. You knock’em out faster than Mike Tyson. 👏👏👏

          • shayvoe

            TY!!

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            It’s the truth. They know it too.

          • Bobbi

            This is an excerpt from your comment: “If I could post directly to the people who I take issue with, I would. But when I have tried that in the past, they don’t want me to post to them…and respond “you know I don’t fu*k with you” to be accurate, so I don’t post to them.”

            You didn’t say ONE person Shay. You referenced “people”, “them” and “they”.
            I did ask you not to communicate with me so you tell me how I should have reconciled that you were not referencing me along with your other mystery poster?
            To add, you have referenced all 3 of us as “the 3” many times but you told GetReal you were not referring to her and that you should have stated the 1 or 2. Again, how should I have reconciled you were not referring to me?

            You speak about passive aggressiveness but you constantly refer to the people you have problems with as a number. You think the person/s you are referring to should be able to figure out if you are referring to them. Is that not passive aggressive?

            I don’t think asking someone not to post to you is rude when the alternative is arguing and fighting. Especially, when you ask respectfully and I did that. I won’t go into all the things I feel you have done to warrant my making such a request because I have stated it enough. I communicate peacefully with many people on the boards who don’t agree with my point of view so I know it is not a problem for me. I will only say, sometimes the only way to get along is not to communicate and unfortunately that is the conclusion I came to with you and Bette. It has nothing to do with rudeness or disrespect but, everything to do with preserving my peace of mind.

            Fyi- Putting someone on block does not prohibit them from posting to you and I don’t think you should have to block someone to feel good about posting on the boards. However, perhaps you should take tour own advice and I mean this in the best possible way. If you are so bothered by people you perceive to be bullies, rude to you and make your time on the boards miserable, why don’t you just block them? Perhaps you should consider it.

          • shayvoe

            I don’t know why you are hell bent on including yourself in something that had nothing to do with you. I never mentioned your name, yet you mentioned me by name twice in posts to Bette, in an argument you were having with her. I have not once mentioned you in ANY posts in this thread. Champ even acknowledged in her posts twice that she was the one who said it, yet you still thought I was referring to you?? I told you I was not referring to you. I stated that I only had a problem with one person on the Atlanta threads and why, and that person was clearly not you. The issue is over and done with…I have spoken directly to the person I had issues with. I don’t understand why you want to continue this by making yourself a target that you never were. I also don’t see that Bette was targeting you either, She has stated that several times…you are calling her a liar and that is not cool.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Thank you. Damn. I’m not going to keep repeating myself.
            Some ppl just want to fight so desperately that they jump into other’s battles.
            Even after I have come to some sort of truce or stalemate with the others Bobbi keeps coming back with Bette is lying & Bobbi cleared her name. Bizarre.
            Cleared her name of what?!? She was never a part of it. LMAO!!

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            It’s hilarious to me that everyone collectively decided they want to start speaking to me again, for fours days now. All at the same time. It’s quite odd. Hmm… but we are the gang.

          • Bobbi

            The bigger question is, What did any of us have to do with Mel’s comment? This is how you know all of this complaining about passive aggressiveness and attacking is total bullchit.

          • GetReal2014

            I have no words. That comment was nothing to spark all of that controversy. It wouldn’t happen if people stuck to the show, posted about the reality TV characters and stop being miffed about other people’s opinions? That would be wonderful.

          • Bobbi

            It’s utterly ridiculous, GetReal. This is how I know this bs will never stop.

          • GetReal2014

            I really hope it does. It’s a great board full of humorous and insightful people and posts. How’s about we leave it at that and enjoy posting about a show that we all watch. That would be the best antidote.

          • Bobbi

            I agree. I enjoy the board as well and I’m all for getting back to posting about the show.
            There were some lies stated about me on this thread though. I can and have let a few negative comments about me slide but I won’t tolerate a lie.

          • GetReal2014

            I agree. If it’s not about the show I’m not responding any more. Done, finito, the end.

        • Mel Del

          Exactly!!!!’

    • I wonder if Phaedra has the receipt for her facelift? Lol, oh my! Maybe just an eyelift, but she got something…

      • shayvoe

        She did…but she looks better than she ever has. It was money well spent IMO.

  • Mel Del

    Back on topic because the Pressed ones can’t stay on. Fraud Parks is a known lair. So why is this a surprise. She missed them Bravo checks and them stolen funds

    • GetReal2014

      A well known liar. That’s nobody’s fault but her own if most people don’t believe her. That’s the reputation she’s built for herself.

      • Mel Del

        She been lying from day 1. But blind don’t wanna see it.

        • GetReal2014

          That’s true. Just going by her record.

      • The Champ

        You know it GetReal, she’s the only one to blame, it d@mn sure ain’t nobody eles’s fault.

        • GetReal2014

          It’s so silly. This women has lied from day one with receipts to prove it. Why would we believe her?

          • The Champ

            I don’t think anyone takes her seriously to be honest. She’s made her bed of lies……

          • GetReal2014

            According to SM, no one does. Phaedra is through.

          • The Champ

            That’s what I saw. Anyways, I’m just about done with her stank azz. Her evil stinks up the place, like Bobbi mentioned.

          • GetReal2014

            Yup. Me too. I know what this crackhead is about. No need in beating a dead horse.

          • The Champ

            OVER it……… 😏😏

          • GetReal2014

            Me too. Once I’ve said what I wanted to say, I’m done. That things dies in my mind and I move on to something new.

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        Put it this way, if Phaedra told me it was raining outside, I’d have to go look out the window.
        I don’t think anyone can deny that she lies. I liked her on the show but I can admit that.

        • GetReal2014

          I’ve seen you cop to Phaedra being untruthful on many occasions. That doesn’t matter. I’m only trying to get the targeting (3 or 4) to stop, because it has no business or reason being on the board. It’s just silly and playing tit-for-tat isn’t appealing to me.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            GetReal, you keep going after the tat. If there was no tit, then there would be no tat. Am I right?!?

          • GetReal2014

            I’m just tired of this nonsense going back and forth and was hoping that you would be too. When I don’t post to you for two years and you’re still referring to me/us as the gang, then it’s you who keeps going back and forth. Talking all that “they” chit. And you expect people not to get tired of that foolishness?

            Quit acting like your hands are clean. They are not and you know it.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I can say they just like everyone else. You are the one accusing me of calling you a gang after 2 years of no communication.
            Once again, you are accusing me of something I am not doing. I do not call you part of any gang. My hands may not be clean but I’ve done nothing to you, so you shouldn’t care either way.

          • GetReal2014

            Precisely, Bette. I have not communicated with you for two years and yet you and your crew have persisted in including me in a gang.

            BTW, Bobbi and Champ haven’t communicated with you either so why don’t you let it go? Why do you all continue to be so bothered with us? And you’re so inconsistent, I am a gang member, I’m not a gang member, you can’t even keep that straight.

            As to your last point as to why I shouldn’t be concerned I consider that a false premise. I and everyone else should be concerned when we see posters, any poster, being ganged up on. It’s called compassion. It doesn’t have to be done to me for it to be wrong and I will not go along with nastiness because it doesn’t affect me. Nor will I sanction it or try to “get in” with people so that I don’t become a target. I’ll take my chances every time for what is right. I don’t go along with wrong to save my own hide. I’m a grown woman I can’t take it.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            GetReal. Do you not see how you keep referring to me & others as a crew but at the same time you keep complaining about being called a gang.
            I asked you last night, who is supposed to be this crew you keep referring to?!?
            We are just going around in circles at this point. Cue the Twilight Zone music. LOL!!
            I said last night that I don’t have an issue with you nor Bobbi. There seems to be this imaginary beef that I don’t get.
            The Champ is the one that keeps rallying the troops & doing her passive aggressive shyt all the time.
            Why do you keep trying to be other’s mouthpiece?!? It has nothing to do with you.

          • GetReal2014

            The word group in and of itself does not have a negative connotation. I like my “group.” I don’t see them going after others. That’s why I hang with them.

            You know who the crew is, and so does everyone else.

            Last night you said you had a problem with Bobbi and Champ. You must’ve forgotten. You wrote a long post about it. Remember?

            I’m shocked that you think that about Champ. Rallying what troops? You have to stop, Bette. That is so not true. Champ pushes back when she gets pushed. End of story.

            I am not trying to be a mouthpiece. I am hoping everyone can find common ground. I find this crap nauseating. It doesn’t bother you? Dissension and discord?

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I said I don’t even want to bring Bobbi into it. I do not want to get into it with anyone because I brought their name up & they aren’t involved in this.
            Now I’m sorry but that is complete BS as far as Champ is concerned. The constant quoting others in that passive aggressive way is a slick way of going after someone without approaching them directly.
            The fact that you are not willing to admit that it’s done constantly is disingenuous.
            That is all I needed to read. I’m done.
            I have no problem keeping it light with you. I want to leave it at that.
            The ATL threads are the worse. Yes. To answer your question, yes it does bother me.

          • GetReal2014

            I was just pointing out that you did, because you did, LOL.

            Please don’t talk negatively to me about Champ. Just as a favor. I don’t want to play the tit-for-tat.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Then please stop trying to deny her actions in an attempt to defend her. There is no reason neither of us need to discuss anyone other than ourselves. Better yet, let’s just discuss the HWs.
            Now if you please, can you stop bringing up this gang you claim I am a member of & please stop accusing me of things I am not doing?!?

          • GetReal2014

            I just asked you not to talk to me about Champ. What’s so difficult about that?

            Don’t act like it’s just me. You’ve been having a love affair with the keystrokes too.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            LOL!!

    • The Champ

      Hey Mel ☺She LIED, that’s that, nothing more to it. Don’t let the background noise distract you.

      • Mel Del

        Hey Champ. Missed my Twirl fam. But trust The background noise could never distract the truth !!

        • The Champ

          Right ON sis, ppl lie, receipt’s don’t. They are calling her azz out on several sites from what I’ve seen. NOBODY cares to believe Creonta.

      • GetReal2014

        So true.

  • BetteDavisEyez1

    Phaedra may be a liar but no one that is strapped for cash would remove a listing out of embarrassment.
    That is just ridiculous. Maintaining her lifestyle is more important than the public knowing she is trying to rent out her home. I mean really?!? Where is the shame in that?!? Some people are either so gullible or hateful that they will always believe anything negative.
    Says more about them than a lying reality star.

    • shayvoe

      Critical thinking is not the strong suit of some. Her husband went to prison, he humiliated her with Kenya, she lost her job….so WHY in the holy hell would it embarrass her to lease a home? Stupidest thing I have ever heard. I read on another site that she is living in that home.

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        Say what now?!? LMAO!!
        I thought everyone did their research before they post?!? No need for receipts. Phaedra is strapped for cash & lied about trying to rent out her home.
        Yeah!! Yeah!! That’s the ticket. That’s the story & we are sticking to it.

  • The Champ

    Back with the sh*t’s again, same usual suspects. As the article STATED, Creonta is a known liar and the receipts prove the house was listed for rent AS of 07/26/17. Nobody wishes she lost anything, the heifer LIED, again. Stop blaming others for her DOWNFALL, she’s a VICTIM of her OWN demise. Now, back to the regular posting. #alwaysstartingmess

    • GetReal2014

      Ha ha ha. I was just getting ready to post the same thing. Take it up with the author. Why are you arguing with posters about the content. We didn’t write it.

      • The Champ

        Giiirl, enough with the sh*t’s. I saw exactly what was going down, same ole, lame ole, bullsh*t. Mel handled herself well, I’m glad you saw through it.

        • GetReal2014

          Agreed.

          • The Champ

            ☺☺

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You see?!? The constant provocation. They just keep on stirring the pot.
            In my world, if you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
            How did Del handle herself well?!? She got up in someone else’s business. She started it & Shayvoe finished it.
            But her goes The Champ to keep the shyt going.
            Why don’t you ever check her? She is wrong 99.9% of the time but you just go along. And you wonder why you are lumped in?!?

          • GetReal2014

            How is Champ provoking when you all keep talking about her and calling her a gang member? Why can’t she say anything in response?

            Del handled herself well because she didn’t post to anyone specifically in her initial post. Surely you saw that.

            Lump me in. I don’t care, just admit that you are lumping me in and then saying the opposite in your posts to me.

          • The Champ

            Wow, I can’t believe I’m reading ALL this sh*t. Let alone seeing it be entertained. I came in on all the ruckus and Told Mel to ignore the sh*t’s and she ended it. You and her were in the middle of it and I came after. NOTHING I said was offensive or derogatory towards anyone. I spoke in defense of my FRIENDS, period. I have NO beef with anyone, If I say IDFWU, that’s just what it is. I DON’T go around referring to or even addressing IT, YOU and I both know that. Now, you’ve witnessed the taunting, instigating and insults being thrown at ME. I’m not asking you to defend me, but call a thing a thing. I wish they wouldn’t even say my name or refer to me ever again. The bus STOPS here, this is where I get OFF. I’m tired of this senless bullsh*t, I don’t care to entertain it any longer. I don’t care about being “lumped” with you or Bobbi, y’all my GIRLS. That’s exactly what the problem is, folks can’t STAND being ignored. So, have AT it, I’m NOT the problem here. Me calling grown folks out on their SHIT seems to be. This sh*t is beyond ME (The Champ).

          • GetReal2014

            I agree. Innocuous posts are being taken in a negative manner and then all the nonsense ensues. I can’t with the gang up. If it means I get banned then so be it. I don’t want to be in a place where you can’t defend yourself.

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        GetReal, if you please?!? Who is blaming whom for her downfall?!?
        At this point, all of the posts have been read. This hyperbole is the real problem. The twisting others’ post to fit your(fig) agenda is as plain as day.

        • GetReal2014

          The only thing I’m addressing are the 3 and 4 comments. The rest of your post I have no idea what you’re talking about.

          Are you saying that I’m twisting something to fit my imaginary agenda? I don’t have an agenda because I’m not silly enough to get into snits about people having opinions which is the sole reason that anyone posts here.

          We’re both entitled to our opinions and my opinion is that there is a group here that consistently runs up and down the board talking about the 3 and posting untruths. Anything other than that is of no concern to me.

          BTW, I am not twisting anyone’s post. I responded BEFORE Mel said who she was talking about and her post was not addressed to anyone specifically when the comments were made.

          Whose downfall? You’re losing me. I have no idea what point you’re making.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            No. You are not the one twisting posts to fit your agenda.
            I hope you got the proper response as far as ‘the 3’ conversation.
            I realized that you had not seen Del’s post, just as I had not seen your post about being called the 3-4.
            I think & I could be wrong, but I think that sometimes the posts aren’t posted in real time. Perhaps they are being evaluated by the mods before hand.
            So with that in mind, it’s easy for any of us to get confused by posts that seem to come out of left field & don’t seem to make any sense.

          • GetReal2014

            OK, good, because I don’t do that.

            You’re right, these posts aren’t always sequential. I’ve noticed that too.

            My only gripe is being referred to as a part of the three and the implication that I am a part of making the board unsavory. It’s not true and whenever I see it, I’m going to address it. I think that’s fair. But as far as holding internet grudges I’m not down with that. I come here to talk about the show. Period. What anyone else does or says has nothing to do with me. I think I can talk to anyone. That’s the adult thing to do, don’t you agree?

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Preach!! This is why when everyone had pretty much said okay those 3 only want to talk to themselves & they snap on anyone that responds to them, let’s just leave them alone,
            I would say okay I’m going to try & respond to GR, because you seemed to be the more level headed of ‘the 3.’ You felt that I was harassing you & I didn’t know it, but you said you blocked me. LOL!! No biggie.
            Now that it has a negative connotation, you don’t want any part of it & I don’t blame you. You don’t lashout & tell complete strangers you don’t like them, don’t fuck with them or that they have forked tongues. This is why despite being associated with ‘the 3’, you are not considered the worse in the gang.
            Even if you are considered part of ‘the 3’ you are not the one making posting here unsavory. You are not the one that is hateful towards anyone that does not like Kenya.

          • GetReal2014

            See? WTH does anyone care who posters talk to? That’s the nucleus of the problem. Why start chit over that?

            That’s not cool, singling me out as the level-headed one. That creates conflict. I never said you were harassing me. You just never let things go IMO. We had a discussion. We didn’t agree and you went back on what you said. At that point there was no reason to keep going around the mulberry bush. You make your point. I make mine and that’s it as far as I am concerned.

            I blocked you, because to me, you wouldn’t let it go and I get bored easily. If it gets to be too much I retreat. I hate being involved in nonsense.

            If you want to get technical, or be honest, you need to address your “gang.” What you all do is patently transparent, and if you’re not going to address your part in it, then we’re right back at square one.

            Thanks for admitting that I was a part of the three. It is disingenuous to pretend that the three are constantly going after you all, when it’s actually the other way around. How could we have come after you all when ya’ll were blocked? We couldn’t even see ya’lls posts.

            I took a chance and took everyone off block and I was still seeing this BS about the three when I hadn’t read any of you all for two years . That’s the problem in a nutshell.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I am just telling you how I viewed it. I am not speaking for everyone.
            So, you take issue with being lumped together but also take issue with being singled out?!? You can not have it both ways.
            I am just telling you why you were considered one of the three. I am also trying to explain to you why eventhough you were lumped in, I had no problem with reaching out to you. That is until you let it be known that you felt like I was harassing you.
            Sweetie(please don’t take offense) you have to try & not look for a slight in ever compliment.
            How does my opinion that you are the level headed on create conflicts?!?
            Who is in my gang?!? And what should I be addressing them over?!?
            I didn’t see you address your gang member when you were trying to stick to the topic & they said “I’m glad Del held her own!!” Or when they said “I need raid for these roaches!!” It goes both ways, Chica.

          • GetReal2014

            I take issue with the fact that nothing seems to please you. If someone told me that they didn’t want to talk to me, I wouldn’t talk to them. I would respect their wishes. What I wouldn’t do is target them and create chaos. I don’t want it both ways I simply want to post in peace without all of the nonsense and targeting. The only thing I want is to get the same respect that I give others.

            No, what happened was we had a similar exchange like this one and I asked you not to post to me because it was a circular argument going nowhere. Instead, you continued to post to me and I just started ignoring you. I never you accused you of harassing me. Those are your words. I said initially you ignored my requests and continued to post to me, and you did. It’s all in my profile with no responses from me.

            Those terms of endearment without a relationship are offensive, but I know that’s what you do. Calling me the level-headed insinuates that the others are not. Again, offensive.

            You know who’s in your gang. And why would I address my friends when it’s your gang that’s always piling on them? They’re not the problem. How can they be when they don’t even post to your crew? They only respond, and even that is sparingly. No one is going to continue to stay silent in the midst of all the wild accusations you all are constantly throwing out there.

            If you feel this way about the 3, why would you even want to communicate with us? Why wouldn’t you ignore us? What do you think the solution is?

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Oh I did. I didn’t even know I was supposed to be blocked because I wasn’t trying to talk to you.
            I have to wonder how crazy we both look to everyone else?!? Because I keep trying to quash this & you keep coming back with these backhanded responses.
            After two years, you came out of nowhere accusing me of being a gang & now you are complaining because someone called you, the three. I didn’t get shitty with you when you came out of nowhere posting to me. I responded respectfully. You even went so far as to say you didn’t care if I respected you or not. Why so nasty?!? What’s the deal?!?

          • GetReal2014

            Interesting. I’m the one that keeps it going. Just drop it Bette. It’s getting beyond stupid. My last post on this subject.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            GetReal, I don’t let things go?!? You are the one still holding a grudge from the other site.
            I tried to reply to everyone I thought was familiar & everyone of you snapped like I don’t fuck with you. I don’t like you. Etc. Etc.
            This will not be a tug of war. We are either going to get along & respect one another or we are not. There is no in between at this point.
            I’m not going to keep explaining that I am not coming for you, attacking you or trying to start a fight.

          • GetReal2014

            I’m not holding a grudge. I hadn’t responded to you all in over two and a half years and yet I see my name being referenced in “the three.” How does that equate to me holding a grudge? Sounds like the grudge is on your part since you’re a proud card carrying member of calling us “The Three.” Was I going around talking about you all? NO!

            Here were go again. First, I was the level-headed one who didn’t do that, but now I was snapping back and saying F you. This is the crap I’m talking about, your inconsistencies from post to post. You same one thing, and take it back in the next breath.

            Holding a grudge about this BS? Give me more credit than that. I don’t care what ya’ll post. I just want my name out of it. What don’t you get about that?

            Snapped talking about “I don’t like you.” More made up nonsense. I have no problem getting along with you or anyone else. The ball is in your court. The issue was me being referred to as a member of a gang. That’s all I care about. The rest is BS.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            GetReal, you are not being referred to. You just keep including yourself in shyt that has nothing to do with you.
            Over at the other place, you were labeled the three. You had no problem with it. You guys all showed up at the same time over here & stuck together like a gang or crew. You guys put yourselves in the position of being labeled by others that had no idea you were considered ‘the 3G’ ever before.
            When you guys call yourselves the three it’s all good. When posters that agree with you & say I love you three, it’s all good, but for some reason you are now taking offense to it, now that more posters are starting to refer to you all & it’s not always in a worshipping manner.
            Again Chica, you can not have it both ways. You cannot have your cake & eat it too.
            You love to talk about receipts… well you know what?!? The receipts are all here for everyone to see. You all owned being the three. Now there is to be no back peddling now. Own it.
            The posts are still up. Go back six months to a year. You all relished being a clique & excluding any & everyone that did not agree or follow you. What is that called again?!? I think it’s called a gang.
            We are trying to mend fences & be cool again but let’s call a spade a spade.

          • GetReal2014

            So much wrong in this post, LOL. You just said I was saying F you, which is not true.

            We did not show up at the same time here. I came alone. Champ came several days later and Bobbi several weeks later.

            We didn’t put ourselves in the position unless we asked to be labeled the three, which we did not.

            The term in itself is not offensive, it’s the other stuff that went with it. The three get mad if people don’t agree with them, the three go around posting to others in a negative manner. That isn’t true. It’s OK if you don’t want to talk to some people. That is not a reason to try to ostracize anyone.

            What about our personalities leads you to think that we’re looking for validation from posters that we don’t even talk to?

            You’re coming up with all of this chit that has nothing to do with you all running up and down the board calling us the 3 in a derogatory manner. If I did that I would own it because it’s in black and white.

            If that’s true, then that’s fair. But when are you going to own up to what you and your gang do on a daily basis? Quit pretending that your hands are clean. They’re not.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            It wasn’t until like a week ago that you told me that you had blocked me for a period of time. So me saying you said eff me can not be possible.
            I have my own issues with The Champ & Bobbi. (Sidenote: I really don’t even want to bring up Bobbi because she & I haven’t had any reason to continue our imaginary beef) They have both decided to carry out arguments from the last place over to here. I really don’t give an eff. Once you(fig) decide to be disrespectful towards me, the gloves are off. Nothing to do with you.
            This is what I am getting tired of repeating. YOU, GetReal have NOTHING to do with the others. Everyone is their own person. You do not see how you insert yourself & then want to be separated at the same time.
            This is the hyperbole I was referring to. No one is running up & down any posts saying the 3, the 3, the 3. It was mentioned all of ONCE today. It is not the norm around here.
            Put down your dukes. You are not under constant attack. Okay?!? And if you do not want to be lumped in, then may I suggest that everytime someone refers to the KM fans, you do not take it personally?!?

          • GetReal2014

            See, I find that odd. Why do you have a problem with anyone that doesn’t even correspond with you? I know that for a fact. So you having issues, is you having issues. There is no excuse for this BS. Period.

            What is going on is not just happening with the 3, but also to those who post to us, or with us. Let’s be real, so it’s hard to believe that a problem doesn’t exist.

            The three comment is three years old and it never stops. Once yesterday does not cover the last three years.

            I don’t take anything personally except injustice. I don’t have my dukes up. I was hoping that this nonsense could be put to bed. It’s tiresome. That’s all.

          • Bobbi

            You are trying to paint Champ and I as villains on this board and yourself a victim and it is not going to work. No one has done anything to you, Shay or any of your posting pals. Not ONE thing. It is also very disingenuous to try and paint GetReal as different i.e. “better” than Champ and I…. it is a disgusting ploy you and Shay are attempting here and I’m glad GetReal called you out on it because it is bull chit. The truth is until you and Shay mysteriously began to single out GetReal a couple weeks ago as “different”, both your insulting comments regarding Champ and I were about her as well. Who do you think is buying this bs you’re pushing?

            To add, your accusations are total lies. You cannot even keep them straight anymore. You say we only post to one another and yet in the very same conversation you accuse us of attacking and lashing out at anyone who doesn’t like Kenya or disagrees with us. Which is it, Bette?

            You tell two very different tales but for the sake of honesty and transparency, I would like to know when have I ever lashed out/snapped on a total stranger or anyone because they don’t like Kenya? (your words) When have I ever cursed you or anyone else out? And lastly, how can you with a clear conscience say I only post to GetReal and Champ? We all post to some, more than we do others -you do as well but to say we only communicate with each other is an outright lie.

            Show me one post where I have attacked someone who disagreed with me about ANYTHING on this board. Furthermore, I have never initiated ANY contact with you or Shay for over 2 years now so what have I done to either of you other than ask both of you not to post to me? I have access to all posts from both of you along with my few replies for my reference by the way so let’s compare notes since your claims are different than mine. You don’t go around accusing people of such things as you have accused me of without showing proof. You say it is all in Black and White…… prove your accusations concerning my attacking other posters and you. Show me 1 example.

            Lol at this “imaginary beef” you speak of. I never claimed any beef with you. I simply asked to not communicate with you and I’ve respectfully explained why at least 3 times since I started posting regularly on this site. The last time you posted to me my reply was firm but I never cursed you out or disrespected you or Shay. If your accounting is different, prove it.

            For the record, GetReal and I BOTH blocked you and requested not to communicate with you at exactly the same time and for exactly the same reasons, but you are somehow now trying to change the narrative of the issues we have had with you while also trying to magically create some bogus new “issue” with Champ and I as a way to separate yourselves from your past actions. You are doing so by trying to trump up some new “problems” you have with Champ and I while trying to magically remove GetReal from that equation. Slick, but problem with your strategy is we know and remember exactly why we blocked you and ceased communication, so your attempt to change the narrative won’t work. We blocked you because of your past actions on a previous site that carried forward to this board. Everything GetReal has spelled out for you over the past few weeks, you have heard from me before. We felt and still feel the same about your movements and your contribution to the problems we have on this board. That you have decided to make nice with GetReal doesn’t change that. To add injury to insult you have begun to persistently blame Champ and I while playing your divide and conquer games on GetReal by begging for her friendship all while trying to convince her she is better than we are. What you are doing is so low and foul, I’ve lost all hope of regaining any respect for you.

            For the record we BOTH started out on good terms with you, Bette…..not just GetReal. Don’t try and paint this picture as if you started out friendly with GetReal only and she was somehow mistakenly “lumped in” with Champ and I. We both started out on good terms with you and we all fell out for the same reasons. If anyone was mistakenly lumped in, it was Champ who became a casualty simply for posting along with GetReal and me. Again, I won’t let you change the narrative.
            In case you have not realized, this plan of yours keeps crashing and burning because you are disingenuous and dishonest. You continue to end up back at square one in trying to build a friendship with GetReal because in your attempt to extract her from all of this you are tripping over your own lies and deceit.
            You tried it, lol but I won’t allow you to make this issue WE have about me and Champ or make your problems our fault.

            Please know, I couldn’t care less whether you “give an eff about me,”…. you say this but oddly it is you who continue to discuss me and reference my posts. I started out friendly with you but I’ve always kept my distance because I saw this side of you from day one so you do me a favor to differentiate yourself from me and not “give a eff”. What I do care about and wont allow however, is your and Shay’s attempt to characterize me as a trouble maker on this board as well as continuing to drag me into bullchit I have nothing to do with.

            The ridiculousness of it all is every time I look up you and Shay are having arguments with GetReal and Champ. You two are always pointing the finger but why are you the common denominators in every disagreement? Surely people must see through you by now. I have not even been on the board at these times but I continue to see my name being brought up. Why do you insist on including me and keeping this juvenile bullchit going when I have not so much as looked your way since my last reply to you over 3 mos ago? Even more ridiculous, you are having yet another disagreement with GetReal but still trying to convince her that I am somehow involved, and it is still me and not her that you are having problems with, lol! To push the ridiculousness even further, I see you have asked her to exclude herself when you refer to us on the boards. I can’t think of a time I’ve seen anything so lowdown and deceitful. This is a new low, Bette. Even for you.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Why are you trying to make this about you?!? You’re reaching. Seriously.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Trying to paint myself as the victim?!? Total BS.
            You said it, now produce the receipts you always claim to have.
            Enough is enough of your bogus claims. When have I painted myself as the victim?!?

          • Bobbi

            Oh, no ma’am, you are the one with the accusations. The burden of proof is on you. You have posted plenty of accusations about me on this board to GetReal and I’m asking to you to prove it. Post your proof. Didn’t you say it is all in Black and White?

            Your response is exactly as I expected though. You have nothing. GetReal asked you to post proof on this thread and you couldn’t do it. You couldn’t do it when she asked you and you still aren’t able to. You lied Bette. I won’t sit by while you lie on me. I’m going to call you out every. single. time.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You are bat shyt crazy. I have posted plenty of accusations about you to GetReal. Blatant lie.

          • Bobbi

            My point exactly. Thank you for admitting you’ve posted plenty of accusations. The problem is you have not posted one damn bit of proof. NONE! Whose the liar? Why can’t you prove your accusations?

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            These are not accusations. It is FACTS. Every word I’ve said. Calling me a liar doesn’t negate that. Give it up.
            You want to keep it going… I’m here for it. You got the right one now. All your posts on these threads speak for themselves. Those are my receipts.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            GetReal is going to have to tell me when I made accusations that involve you.
            You so desperately want to be a part of this debate, it’s not even funny.
            Why would someone that blocks someone, unblocked them & then get all up in a conversation that has nothing to do with them?!?
            You must be bored talking to yourself & want to start shyt.

          • Bobbi

            You have a short memory I see. No one is making up anything or wanting to be a part of your bullchit but I am going to call you out on your lies. If you don’t want me to respond then don’t discuss me and don’t lie on me. Simple as that.

            GetReal2014  BetteDavisEyez1  a day ago
            ……Last night you said you had a problem with Bobbi and Champ. You must’ve forgotten. You wrote a long post about it. Remember?

            See my previous post of all your comments about me. What I posted was just a small sample. There are more.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Nobody lied on your ass. I don’t know who you think you are but you need to get over yourself.
            You are acting ridiculous. Call me out on my lies?!? You are full of shit & think you run this site.
            You & your friend is the reason that most of the ATL threads get nasty. Go sitdown somewhere.
            Go flag me & try to get me blocked like you kept doing over at the other place. Over your nonsense.

          • Bobbi

            Oh look at who is getting nasty. You’re giving us all a taste of RT Bette. Lol! You lied alright. If it were true you could post those receipts. I’ve posted your words verbatim. I haven’t made up anything. The problem is you can’t prove any of it. Now you’re cursing me out but, this is always your go to when you have nothing. I have no need to flag you Bette. I’ve never tried to get you banned. More accusations….. I want you to stop lying on me. I’m not going to let you do it.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            That’s right. You will not get up in my business, call me a liar then try to turn it around like I’m the nasty one.
            Nobody is putting up with your shit anymore. You think you can dictate who & when someone can talk to you but then try to come at me?!? I didn’t get nasty. I simply responded. You kept trying to take it to another level.
            Well now this is where we are. On this idiotic roller coaster together. Enjoy the ride.

          • Bobbi

            It is one thing to request no communication because you don’t want to argue. But I won’t sit by while you call out my name and lie on me and you did lie Bette. You’ve made accusations about me you cannot prove because proof does not exist. That qualifies as a lie Bette and I will “get up in your business” every time you do it because then you make it MY business. You call it what you want but if you lie on me I am going to call you out on it. You’re insane if you think I’m going to let you get away with lying on me.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You are so full of shyt. Seriously. NOBODY is thinking nor talking about YOU.
            You are the one that claimed I was trying to make you out to be a villain & I was playing the victim.
            You are insane if you think I’m going to let you try & twist shyt around on me just so you can argue.
            You keep it up & I will keep giving it back.

          • Bobbi

            Lying again – I posted proof that you did discuss me and unless you were having mindless conversation with GetReal you were obviously thinking of me as well. Continue to come back all you like, it amounts to nothing more than hot air. My mission is accomplished. I didn’t come here to bicker with you. I came to expose your baseless lies you are spreading about me and I did. Deny it all you like. In your words: “it’s all here in Black and White.”

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Oh yes!! You came here to expose my baseless lies. You really need a hobby if that is the case.
            I said I don’t want to bring you up because you had nothing to do with it. For some reason, you just keep ignoring that fact. Just goes to show how obsessed you truly are with ALL things BDE1. LMAO!!
            You are so invested in “exposing” me as if I am an ex BF that cheated on you. I love it!!

          • Bobbi

            Yes, you did say I had nothing to do with it but, I also showed you a post where GetReal reminded you after that statement that you had written a very long post about Champ and me saying just the opposite the previous night. I also posted YOUR very real accusations regarding things you said I had done which were not true so, which is it? It is fkd up to accuse someone of the things you accused me of and then blame them for being upset. So what you said I didn’t have anything to do with it, I refuse to leave your lies up about me unchallenged

            The only thing I am “obsessed with” and “invested” in on this board is clearing my name. You can try to belittle that all you like but it does not change the facts. Funny how it was important enough for you to tell the untruths but all of a sudden it has become a big joke and you want to make a mockery of the fact that I desire to address and expose those untruths. Maybe you think it is nothing to strut around spouting falsehoods about someone but I can assure you it is not a good feeling nor is it a good look for you…

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            There was NEVER a long post about you & Champ(sorry I am calling out your name again).
            It was all of one sentence in a long post. You keep lying on me in your attempt to make me out to be the liar.
            Right now, everyone is trying to come to some sort of a truce. A line in the sand, but you Bobbi are the one that is trying to keep the war going.
            Well guess what, if you want it… come & get it. You will not try & play me. I don’t bother you but you still tried to jump down my throat today for some innocuous post. I got your number. Come.

          • Bobbi

            Come? I’m already here. Sorry, I couldn’t come to the truce you all arrived at 2 days ago. I’m seeing this much later than everyone else. You compared yourself to a cheating ex, earlier. Well sorry, you don’t get to do some foul chit and then tell me to get over it because you are done talking about it and came to a truce with everyone else.

            No one is lying on you. Lol. Again. I cleared my name of the accusations you made against me that were totally untrue. You’d rather still point the finger instead of admitting you were wrong.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Yes. You cleared your name because you said so.

          • Bobbi

            No, I cleared my name because you could not prove even one accusation you made against me.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Cue the Twilight Zone music 🎶
            There are just some ppl that you can not reason with. Exhibit A right here.
            Go back to talking to yourself, okay?!? I have given you more than enough of my attention. Poof!! Be gone. Scram.

          • Bobbi

            Yes of course. You’d like me to but, you don’t get to tell me to move on after lying on me and then trying to back away from it as if I’m the wrong one.. It doesn’t work like that. You won’t walk away with the last word as if you hold some moral high ground when you can’t even acknowledge your accusations against me were untrue. So you scram, Bette. But just in case you don’t , I’ll be here.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I get to tell you what to do. Just like you get to tell posters when they can post to you.
            You got the right one. I’ve already told you this. Drop this now. You will not win this one. I am going toe to toe with your ass on this one.
            Quit while you are ahead. I have had enough of you & your BS.

          • Bobbi

            No Bette, you don’t get to tell me what to do, lol and no I won’t drop it. It doesn’t matter how nasty you get either. You are confused about my motive. This is not about winning for me, this is about my integrity and character you are attempting to besmirch. I wont walk away from your lies. As a matter of fact, the more we converse the more you are exposing who you really are to this board.

            You say you weren’t referring to me in your posts and you weren’t referring to GetReal then who are the 3 you are referring to in your comments to her? When you referenced the company GetReal keeps in reference to the 3, you’re saying I was not included in that number? We have always been referred to as the 3 so I would like to clear this up. You are cursing me out in these posts so surely you are brave enough to say to whom your accusations apply?

            Are you saying when you referred to “the 3” and stated you could name posters that they have ganged up on, that they excluded any & everyone that did not agree or follow them, that they were a gang, and only wanted to talk to themselves & snapped on anyone that responds to them…. you were not referring to us and in effect me? Is that what you are saying, Bette?

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Reading comprehension is key here. I mentioned that I considered you guys the 3 that just wanted to speak to one another & got nasty when anyone disagreed with you.
            This is where the 3 originally stemmed from, atleast in my opinion.
            You guys on the left. The rest of us on the right. No problem. But then the passive aggressive posts started. You don’t have to mention someone by name for them to know that you(fig) are referring to them. Trying to mock them.
            Sometimes, as soon as someone showed up, it was the trolls are here. They are lurking, etc. It was childish.
            We would be having a go at Dust Mop & then it would be all about haters hating on the Queen. Posts going on & on about viewers, not the issue at hand.
            This is where I think the bad blood stemmed from. JMHO

          • Bobbi

            I fully comprehend your statements. The problem is not only are they untrue as well as unproven but you’re saying two different things. You stated we only talk to each other and get nasty when people disagree with us but then you also stated you could name posters that we have ganged up on.  Those are two distinctly different courses of action. Which is it? Both cannot be true. You’ve stated those accusations as actions of “the 3” and yet you assured GetReal you were not referring to her. When I asked you to prove that I did those things you stated you were not talking about me. Yet you have admitted here that we are indeed the 3 you were referencing. This is why your accusations don’t hold water.

            I get your analogy of “the 3” but why should we bear the burden of your skewed view of us because I can tell you, you couldn’t be further from the truth.
            I don’t agree with your recounting of our starting passive aggressive posts. I won’t get into a back and forth over this -you already know our feelings about what your real problem is with us and trust, you did far more than “have a go at dust mop.”
            Consequently, your admitted views of left against right fit perfectly with how you conducted yourselves on the board because you treated us as your competition and a group that you had to beat instead of a fellow poster. This is what we faced every time we came on the boards.

            The truth is, It really doesn’t matter how we post Bette you and your pals still reference and have a problem with our posts lol. The disagreement you had with GR and Champ before this last one you and others complained about us referencing your posts and being passive aggressive and you went to the very next ATL thread and immediately began to recite, mock and discuss our posts which had NOTHING to do with you or anything you posted. A few days ago a random poster defended Kenya and Shay immediately began to reference “the 3”. Just as I stated it really doesn’t matter what or how we post, you all will always find a problem with us and quite frankly I am tired of discussing it. You guys complain so much about us why do you read us? The perfect remedy would be not to read what we post. Shay suggested we block you but it is you who are always complaining so, it is YOU who should block US. I honestly feel you should do that. We don’t care about your opinions about Kenya or any of these ladies and although we won’t tolerate being lied on, we don’t even care about your opinions of us. It is you who care about our opinions and this is what makes it difficult for you to peacefully coexist with us.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            No you don’t. Because if you did you would understand that I said in the beginning, atleast in my opinion.
            I then went on to say that you got nasty with posters that replied to you with a different opinion. Two separate thoughts.
            I wasn’t the one that referred to you guys as the 3 the other day. That was what GetReal was complaining about & said she doesn’t want to be referred to as the 3 any longer.
            The funny thing is we are referred to as a gang but being referred to as the 3 seems to offend.
            Well clearly I am not part of any gang because I have gone back & forth with all of you & you all are the ones that want to gang up on me. All collectively decided you are now coming at Bette. LMAO!! How do you all go from me being blocked to now you have so much to say?!? A lot of of feelings about Bette. For four days now. It’s hilarious!! I’m unscathed & unbothered. As long as you want to go, I will give it right back everytime.

          • Bobbi

            I have no feelings about “Bette “. Just the lies that Bette told.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            BAHAHAHA!! You are no the important enough to lie on.

          • Bobbi

            Your actions betray your words.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            RIght. Just mine. Next!!

          • shayvoe

            You really want to do this?? I asked you nicely to stop referencing my name in your posts to other posters, yet you refuse to stop. This is the 3rd time you have done this, which makes it obvious to me that you want this continue and you have no intentions of letting this go, since even after I asked you nicely to please stop yesterday, here you are at it again.

            Here’s a rundown for you:

            Mel Del shayvoe • 3 days ago
            But what does this have to do with Mrs Kenya????? If Queen K had a dollar for every time her name is mentioned on topics that has nothing to do with her She’s would be a billionaire. The obsession is REAL!!!!!!!! Muva Twirl keeps them pressed even when she’s not trying.

            shayvoe Mel Del • 3 days ago
            Same thing it has to do with every time there is a story about Kenya, Phaedra and Porsha are always the main topic and are talked about by 3 or 4 people on here more than their girl Kenya.

            Mel Del shayvoe • 3 days ago
            Really now !!!! I highly doubt that.

            GetReal2014 Mel Del • 3 days ago
            You’re correct. Can’t help LOLing @ the three or four. That’s what is repetitive.

            shayvoe Mel Del • 3 days ago
            Then you must be new here.

            Mel Del shayvoe • 3 days ago
            Not new !!!! Just not regular

            shayvoe Mel Del • 3 days ago
            Then you have missed A LOT, and therefore, you really have no history to base your assumption on that it is doubtful.

            GetReal2014 Mel Del • 3 days ago
            LOLOLOL! This is true. Kenya’s name comes up in everything, whether it fits or not.

            Mel Del GetReal2014 • 3 days ago
            Obsessed!!!!!!

            GetReal2014 Mel Del • 2 days ago
            It sure appears to be that way. Porsha ran after Jamie. It was Kenya’s fault, LOL.

            GetReal2014 BetteDavisEyez1 • 3 days ago
            This is about Phaedra, not Kenya’s fans

            BetteDavisEyez1 GetReal2014 • 3 days ago
            Touché. I was referring to the fan that came at Shay for bringing Dust Mop up. I know you saw that post.
            Hope you are enjoying this lovely Sunday evening

            Mel Del BetteDavisEyez1 • 3 days ago
            Excuse me her name is Kenya!!!! And I came for that obsessed hater not u. So stay in your lane.

            Now…..let me make this perfectly clear! I responded as I did to Mel, because she asked what it had to do with Kenya. Like you all have been saying forever, why is anyone else worried about what I or anyone else post? No reason for Mel to ask me that question. My answer was to let her know that there are people who do the same thing with Phaedra….I said what I said, because it’s the TRUTH!! And there are 3 or 4 who do it!! Yes, the 3 or 4 include you, so you don’t have to wonder it the 3 or 4 include you…YES it does. We have all admitted we have done this at some time or another. Unless you want to sit here and tell me you have never done it. Immediately, Get Real starts chiming in with Mel, and then tells Bette that Mel did not go after me, when the post I just copied and pasted clearly shows she did. You want to play all innocent, like you don’t know the games that were being played by the 3 of you and in turn, by myself and others.. Yes I said it….you are included in the 3. If you want to continue this bull shyt for the 4th phucking day, bring it!! We can keep it going for 4 weeks if you like, because you obviously are enjoying this and have waaaay too much time on you hands. But, I’ll go toe to toe with you if that’s your pleasure. To make it crystal clear, I have done it as well…I have admitted that. Are you seriously trying to convince me you don’t think you have ever engaged in the tit for tat…..seriously??!!

          • Bobbi

            Yes, I referenced your name and every time I told the truth. It doesn’t matter what Mel or GetReal stated. You can post a million comments it does not change the fact that Mel’s nor GetReal’s comments had anything to do with me or us as a group. You had no reason to reference “the 3”. Mel had nothing to do with any of us. Moreover, If you admit to coming for us unprovoked and engaging in tit for tat, then you should never complain about us! This actually makes your anger even more ridiculous and you a hypocrite.

            Ahhhhh, So you’ve changed your mind and now you WERE referring to me. Yesterday you said in bold letters you were not. So who is the liar or are you simply confused?

            Shay, you have just admitted you included me as part of the 3 and you have been riding the brakes off of that number in reference to us since we were on RT. Yet you are spitting nails because I called out your name. Do you see the ridiculousness and hypocrisy in your indignant attitude and anger?! The only difference between you and I in this instance is that I was honest enough to call you by name. To add, your continued reference to us by number is a very passive aggressive action and yet this complaint falls out of your mouth about us on the regular.
            Girl, bye

          • shayvoe

            I said the argument that ensued had nothing to do with you, and I said I never mentioned your name, and that you were not the person I was talking about who told me “I don’t phuck with you”. I am telling you NOW that you are and have always been one of the 3!! You are the hypocrite and the liar who can’t admit they have been equally complicit in most of the tit for tat that has gone on in the Atlanta threads. We have all admitted our part in it in the last 2 days, even Champ when I communicated with her yesterday. Yet here you are acting like you are some innocent victim who has been wronged…you have been just as complicit as the of rest us in keeping things stirred up. I should have called you the coward and not Champ, because she could admit her part, unlike you. I have absolutely no use for you now and no respect, as you have proven yourself in the last couple of days to be devious and duplicitous. You love to keep things going and yearn to be in the middle of conflict….even when you were not involved. And, don’t tell me because I used the phrase “the 3”, that I involved you. You call us a gang and I call you “the 3”. Calling people a gang is much worse. You just cannot let anything go. I have no desire to make amends with you in the least…you stay away from me and I’ll happily stay away from you. That is as good as you are ever going to get from me, now. Don’t bother responding, because I don’t “phuck with you” now.

          • Bobbi

            Ha! Do you think I care whether you phuck with me? I have not initiated a comment to you in over 2 years until now Lol so you are doing me a favor. Lol!
            You have been intolerable since the first time you posted to me and just because you admit to your phuckery I’m supposed to bow down? Get over yourself. Again, you’ve admitted to including me in your passive aggressive comments so you have no right to be upset about anything. Don’t worry about me admitting anything. Cop to your own bullchit and stop expecting everyone to admit something because you have a come to Jesus moment.

            I don’t ever recall calling you a gang. I have repeatedly said your crew and posting pals. But this is beside the point because we have also been called a gang. Put away the excuses.

            Did I ever ask to make amends with you? You are really reaching in this post. I’ve never expected decency from you, it is why I ceased communication with you. We have not made ammends in all the time I have known you. Why would I expect it now?
            The only reason I’m speaking to you now is that you continue to reference me. You are a coward because you have ref me for the last 2 1/2 years by a number. Now all of a sudden you call out the same number but this time I’m supposed to know you were not referring to me. You are ridiculous! I truly hope you keep to your word and stay away from me. That would be a Godsend.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Get her, Shay. It’s long overdue.
            Running around here like she runs the place. Lying thru her teeth but calling others a liar, for days.
            Days!! Okay?!? She sure has ALOT of feelings about ppl she claims she doesn’t like or care about.
            LMAO!!

          • shayvoe

            Can you believe that shyt…LOL. Craziest bunch of bull shyt I have ever read.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Well you set the record straight.
            However, instead of going away to lick their wounds, it still won’t end.
            Some ppl just have to have the last word. Childish BS.
            I am embarrassed that I fed into the BS for all these days. I am just not going to let anyone talk to me all crazy like they love to do.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Devious & duplicitous. Shayvoe, you win the Internet.🥇🏆🍾

          • shayvoe

            Speak on it!

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I am cracking up because some ppl just don’t know when to quit.
            You sat back & let us go back & forth until your name got brought up.
            So now you’ve made mince meat out of her. LMAO!!🤣😂🤣

          • shayvoe

            Yep…the only thing I said to her is that it wasn’t cool to call you a liar. I can take care of myslef and I know you can as well. I asked her nicely not to reference me by my screen name when she was speaking to someone else. and she continued to do it, yet when she asked me not to post to her, I never did again. There is no integrity there, only misplaced victimhood, disingenuousness and a huge amount of righteous indignation. She will never acknowledge complicity in anything that has transpired on the Atlanta threads. There was no reason for her to involve herself in this and ske kept it up with me, provoking and poking, until she finally got a response….and not one she was expecting. I tried to be polite, but this one doesn’t do polite. No more polite from me…all bets are off with this one. What she did the last four days, is exactly what she does on the Atlanta threads…provoking until she gets a reaction. But, she is the victim and has never done anything wrong. Enough with this bull shit!!

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I know you can, Shay. But all you said was you want to see Dust Mop’s marriage certificate & all hell broke loose.
            All of a sudden you are an obsessed hater, etc. So I responded to you about the double standards.
            Then I’m being reprimanded by the same person that was agreeing with the person that called you an obsessed hater. They never tell a Raisin Face fan it’s not about the fans but always have something to say to one of us.
            I will stick up for you when you are right. Even when you don’t need me to. We all have to stop letting them swing thru here like a wrecking ball.
            You know how many ppl have been ran off because they are afraid of being berated?!? Enough is enough.

          • shayvoe

            Thanks Bette!

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            NP.👊🏼😉

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Why is this desperado still going?!? LMAO!!

          • shayvoe

            Who knows?? Too much time on her hands.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            It’s getting creepy now.
            Boy oh boy!! I can’t wait for the next ATL thread. LMAO!!
            Happy Friday, Shay.

          • shayvoe

            You too Bette

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Shayvoe NEVER admitted she has come for you UNPROVOKED. There you go LYING again, but spent the past few days calling me a liar. BUSTED again.

          • Bobbi

            Girl, you can’t even regulate your own comments. Get up out of here.

            I know your tricks by now. You want to start some chit by having me refresh a conversation that has been put to bed because you need help. You want to include this poster in your mess via me. The old throw a rock and hide your hands trick. It won’t happen.

            Funny though, you reject my reference to Champ and GetReal whom YOU made relevant to this discussion but want me to discuss a poster who has nothing to do with you and I. Girl, bye.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Bye bye, Bobbi. You have been checked throughly & now it’s time to go back to playing with your friends.
            You are so starved for attention that you are still up in my face. Grow the hell up.
            How many days has it been now?!? LMAO!!

          • Bobbi

            But you’re still here too, replying not once but twice to each of my comments, still cursing and still insulting. Lol. I live.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Where’s the cursing?!? You lie like most ppl breathe.
            You think I am going to let you keep coming at me & not give it right back?!? You are sadly mistaken.

          • Bobbi

            More insults……..

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Just exposing you for the unstable person that you are.

          • Bobbi

            Keep the insults coming …..

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Now you just proved again what a pathological liar you are. YOU are the one that brought Shay up. Not me.
            Even after she asked you not to refer to her. But now you want to lie & say I am the one that wants you to discuss her. LMAO!!
            Put down the brown liquor & get yourself a life.

          • Bobbi

            Sorry. It won’t work.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Sad. Just sad.

          • Bobbi

            Yes. Yes, you are.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Double up on your meds dear. You are making a complete fool of yourself for four days now.
            I can really tell you are WAY too invested in me. I’m flattered but it’s getting a little creepy now.

          • Bobbi

            And More insults……..

          • shayvoe

            Thank you! I acknowledged my part in keeping things stirred up at times, she never did and never will. At NO TIME did I say it was always unprovoked.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            “The LIES!! The LIES!!” 🤣😂🤣

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Bobbi actually claims I have been dying to get into a fight with her for the longest & she is still bringing you up. Just doing it so if you don’t go back, you don’t see it.
            That one is low hanging fruit & at the bottom of the totem pole. This is why she is trying to assert herself so desperately.
            We were communicating with GetReal & trying to agree to disagree & leave one another alone as far as Champ is concerned. Poor whittle baby felt left out. So now she is throwing a tantrum. SMDH

          • shayvoe

            I am having the hardest time posting on this thread. My computer keeps freezing up. I looked, but don’t see the post you are tlaking about. Where is it?

          • shayvoe

            I found it. I can only post form here. When I go on the thread and try to post, my computer freezes up. Still trying. This is what I am trying to post.

            “Glad to see you finally admitted you are complicit in targeting me. You said, “THIS time it wasn’t us” Bwahahaha!! But, all the other times it WAS you! If you think you have been targeted in the past, get ready baby girl….like I said, all bets are off with you!! Here you are, STILL discussing me, when in your last post to me you said “I truly hope you keep to your word and stay away from me. That would be a Godsend.!!” Yet, YOU can’t stay away from ME…you can’t keep my name out of your mouth, and here you are STILL talking about me to your friends. Get ready!! You are a freaking NUT, and a PROVEN liar now!!”

            Edited to add: I finally got it to go through. Have to go through a convoluted back door, to get anything on this thread to post.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Now everyone can see how that one rolls. Waits until she thinks we are all done & tries to take her cheap shots.
            If they are still angry at BDE, why are they trying to slip your name into it?!?
            Cowardly move. Even the ones that swear they are thru with mentioning our names get drawn in by Bobbi’s manipulating. If she thinks she is going to get the last word, she is sadly mistaken.
            That headcase should have stuck to ‘ignoring’ me. Now, she has put herself on blast. Everyone can see how she lies & tries to keep the fighting going.

          • shayvoe

            She is absolutely ridiculous. She’s too dumb to realize she outed herself with that, “it wasn’t us THIS time”, after trying so hard to pretend she has never gone after us.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            BAHAHAHA!! This is because we were supposed to bow out days ago & leave her to bragging how she set us straight.
            Bobbi never expected us to go toe to toe with her. Now she is completely unhinged. Like you said, All. Bets. Are. Off.
            That featherweight stepped in the ring with heavyweights & got her head knocked off.

          • shayvoe

            It would be funny, if it wasn’t so sad. I actually feel kinda sorry for her…..poor thang.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I did too, until I realized that my sympathy was only going to be met with more lies & innuendos.
            I’m a coward because I told you she was still talking about you. Her imaginary friends call me creepy. I can’t, Shayvoe!! I just can not!!

          • shayvoe

            Then what does that make her, for still talking about me to her friends? This one has absolutely no self awareness….not an ounce.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Now Shay!! You know the same rules do not apply to the 3 faces of Eve. Just like their idol. They can do it to you but don’t you dare do it to them.

          • shayvoe

            And, you know what’s funny….I don’t even remember her from the other board. I only remember one of them, but they used another name there. Bobbi keeps talking about all this stuff I did to her on that board, and I don’t even remember her….LMAO! If I was so mean to her, how come I am still a member there and she was banned? I rest my case…

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Tell it. They were masters at flagging & complaining to the mods.
            They got ppl banned & kept going to the point they got thrown off themselves. That’s when they tried to take over this site.
            If you did anything to her demented ass, you would have gotten banned as well. Just another lie made up by Bobbi.

          • shayvoe

            Exactly…I am still posting over there, with my same screen name….she is not. That is all that needs to be said.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You do not know the laugh I had when they showed up here.
            They kept pressing their luck until RT got rid of them.
            I would post & they would pounce. Then when I responded back, they would flag me. It’s only so many times they can pull that stunt before the mods see they are just flagging poster that they don’t agree with. That is an abuse of power. They shot themselves in the foot.
            Then whenever anyone tried to post to them over here, they would lose their minds. Still holding a grudge from the other site. All 3 of them have done it to me & went on long ass rants as to why they held a grudge against me. Crazy.
            I wonder why they all decided all at once to unblock me & start coming at me relentlessly?!? Perhaps they are up to their old tricks & trying to get me banned from here as well?!?🤔

          • shayvoe

            If they are, it’s not working. I’m sure when I showed up they really lost their minds, and I didn’t even remember but one of them, and that was several months after I had been here…lol. I’ve really only been posting consistently over here for for less than a year. But, Bobbi crying to the mods on that one thread, accusing us of trying to get them banned. Ridiculous. I don’t post as much as I used to at the other place. Lots of new people and there are only a few long time posters still there. I have some good friends over there, and is one reason I still post there.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Yes!! You have the memory of an elephant 🐘
            They were doing the same whining as they are doing now. “I don’t know why everyone is attacking us!! We keep to ourselves! Wa!! Wa!!”😩
            They really have issues with anyone that does not like Raisin Face. It is not that serious.
            That moronic heifer wouldn’t spit on them if they were on fire. Yet they are ride or die over her.
            I would like to think I get along with everyone, but I am not the one to let anyone speak to me any kind of way. I have been disrespected & called a liar. There are over 90 posts between the 3 & myself. All of them posted to me first.
            You think I am going to drop it?!? Not bloody likely.

          • shayvoe

            I do have a memory like an elephant….lol. Which is how I know I didn’t post to them very much on that other board, because I did not remember their screen names when I came over here, unless they were using other names.. I did have some back and forths with the one I remember, but even with her I didn’t post that much. I think the name was Black is Beautiful or something like that on the other board, and I think they used a couple of others too. I didn’t even know when they got banned and didn’t miss them…lol. I only knew they were banned from them talking about it over here.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Yes. I know they used different screen names. Atleast one of them did, anyway.
            I really do not get the hostility. I get on well with other posters that can not stand Phaedra &/or Porsha.
            It is like if you don’t like Kenya, you are their enemy. It’s just crazy to me.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Shayvoe drops the mic 🎤
            This has really gone on for 5 freaking days. Thank you for shutting it down.
            I took on each one of them, by myself but we are the gang.
            None of you jumped in nor piled on.

          • shayvoe

            Ain’t that some shyt….done!!

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            In-freaking-sane!! LMAO!!😯😳

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            In a nutshell. You got her ALL the way together.
            Every word you posted is the gospel.👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            What is with all of the “we,we, we” but then get angry when referred to as the 3?!?
            You can not have it both ways. Speak for yourself. If the others have anything to say, let them speak for themselves.
            There you go lying again. Shay mentioned Dust Mop & that poster attacked her. You know you saw it but insist on ignoring the facts.
            Just stop. You are beginning to look unhinged.

          • Bobbi

            It seems to be you who wishes to have it two ways Bette. You discussed me along with Champ to another poster as well as referenced us in total as a group. In doing so you made very disparaging and untrue accusations about us. It is ludicrous not to expect all parties involved not to be mentioned together at some point in addressing your comments. Your lack of understanding baffles me.

            I have never gone to anyone you post to, run with or are friends with on this board to discuss you, address issues I have with you or to run down a list of accusations about you especially if I did not consider the person I was speaking to a part of the problem. Of course you will never see the the wrong in what you did but, you are insane if you thought I was simply going to stand by and watch you discuss me in such a negative manner.

            In your conversation with GetReal you were pointing the finger at Champ and I instead of owning your part in the breakdown of your relationship with her and that is what I found foul and disgusting about the entire ordeal. You attempted to erase a history of discord and explain away your problems with GetReal as a “misunderstanding” while labeling Champ and I as problems, troublemakers and unsavory company. I had previously seen plenty of references to me and my posts via your comments – I didn’t care about that. I had long ago ceased communication with you for the sake of peace but your attempt to besmirch my reputation while trying to excuse your actions left me no choice but to address you and I addressed you in the manner we referenced – as a group. Not only were you dishonest in your discussion with GR but your actions were duplicitous and cowardly and is why you continued to end up at an impasse.

            I saw what you did as a ruse to divide us. We are not a group, we enjoy posting to others and do often but we ARE friends with shared values as well as very strong opinions about the ladies of Atl and is why we post together much of the time on that board. You have tried to characterize that as something that is negative but in reality, we are the 3 because YOU made us the 3 in YOUR own mind – that is not our fault. You simply have always had a problem with our opinions and apparently our camaraderie. (long before Champ arrived)

            Whether or not you agree, I have every right to address and refute any comment that references me by a group name as well as protest the author who has done so. Your argument is foolish. If you accuse us as a group we have a right to speak as a group in our defense. If you reference me as “they” I have a right to answer as “we” and that does not exclude us from protesting the group reference. This is a bullchit argument, Bette. If you had not continued to discuss us to GetReal we would not have had this issue.

            To be clear, I recalled your comments about the 3 because I wanted to highlight the inconsistencies and dishonesty in your statements. You continued to lump us together in your rundown of untrue accusations but when you were challenged about it you assured GetReal you were not referring to her. You had consistently referenced us as the 3 so if you removed GetReal who does that leave? You went on to tell her that she was being affected by “the company she keeps”. We both know GetReal posts extensively with Champ and I and this further confirmed that you were referring to us. Again, I had seen you reference Champ and I this way on previous threads with GetReal, painting us as troublemakers but I let it go as I wanted to keep the peace. But when it continued I realized my silence was a detriment because it emboldened you to continue to make false statements about me. Your “you know what I mean” statement after referring to us as unsavory company was a wink, wink to have GetReal cosign your lies and that was the last straw for me.

            Thankfully, you were called out on the inconsistencies in your statements and your accusations about us were rejected but this time I wanted to address you myself and so I did. However, when I challenged you, you said you were not referring to me. I saw this as more dishonesty as your references clearly included me. If you removed GetReal, and you were not referring to me, then to whom were you referring as the 3? I was not the only one who noticed all the inconsistencies in your statements.

            These were the reasons I included the others. I don’t make it a practice to speak for another poster but there was no way to extract them from my conversation with you. Furthermore, you referred to the Champ and I as “company” and so the “company” defended itself. Besides, I could not in clear conscience refute your false accusations against me and leave Champ out. GetReal did none of those things you accused us of nor did Champ or I. It is clear why you wish for us to not reply as a whole. It is hard to refute when everyone is saying the same thing.

            When you reference people negatively as a group and then begin to say to one, oh you’re not like them, or to run down a negative list about that group and tell another “I wasn’t talking about you” it adds insult to injury for the others you placed in that group. To add, when you make accusations and then tell the person you’re chatting with they are not included, your accusations are more likely to go unchallenged. Again, I believe this was by design and you were trying to sew dissention amongst us.

            You were stopped cold in that attempt because we all viewed your actions the same. You called for a truce but as I stated, your actions betrayed your words. Of course I want peace but not at the expense of my integrity and character that I feel you have maligned.
            I can walk away, we were never friends but, you cant wave a white flag and blame me for not accepting when you won’t acknowledge what you did was wrong.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I want to have it both ways. You’re the one that claimed you don’t care what I think & want nothing to do with me but you are acting like a stalker.
            Still embarrassing yourself. You jumped in to something that has nothing to do with you just to get my attention. So sad.

          • Bobbi

            Don’t discuss me with another poster , don’t lie on me and you’ll never have to worry about me again. I can go back to ignoring you like I’ve done for the last 2 years.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I will do as I please. You keep harassing me but think you have the right to make demands. Not today.
            You don’t stop when ppl request you not refer to them, so you get back exactly what you give. And you have lied like a cheap rug. So give that a rest.
            Ignoring me?!? Girl, all your posts show you have NEVER ignored me. You just knew better than to post to me. Why unblock someone you want to ignore?!? There goes your disingenuous BS again.

          • Bobbi

            Lie on me again and I’ll expose you again. Simple.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            BAHAHAHA!! You really are demented. You exposed just how immature & ridiculous you are but thats about it.

          • Bobbi

            and still More insults……

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Ahh!! Back to being the victim.
            Bobbi. You want to have the last word?!? Don’t you?!?
            You are a liar, hypocrite & you have made ATL threads unbearable for anyone to post on or even just read.
            You have been acting like a petulant child for the past four days now.
            Everyone has moved on to different threads, yet here you are. Repeating the same nonsense. It’s called stuck on stupid.
            Just go play with your only friends. No one is amused by you. You jumped into something that had nothing to do with you because you clearly have nothing better to do with your time.
            When I said I feel sorry for you, I wasn’t kidding. You are a very sad person.

          • Bobbi

            Lol, this is good. I want you to keep posting. The more you post, the more you expose your true self to the board. Keep the insults coming, Bette. Know this. The truth doesn’t need to be propped up with insults and cursing. Only lies require that.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Didn’t I say that to YOU the other day?!? Now you are regurgitating my posts to you.
            Okay. This is so out there. I can’t even… I just can’t!!

          • Bobbi

            No, you did not say this to me. But you can keep believing you did.
            You had no reason to. I have not lied, cursed you nor have I insulted you. But, if I have I am sure you will prove it. So far you have not proven one thing you’ve said. All you’ve done is lie some more and insult me.. I’ll wait for your proof.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You keep acting as if I should follow your orders. Bobbi you lied. You are obsessing over me & you are creeping me out. You really need to stop.
            I was LMAO as off at you 3 days ago but now it’s just creepy. This is reaching stalker territory now.

          • Bobbi

            That is your go to line because you’re lying as usual and there is no post. By the way, there have been a few who have called your actions on this thread creepy, Bette. So don’t go thinking you’ve done something by replying back with this type of nonesense. Your attempts to deflect from the real issues have failed. You have been exposed for lying on me, GetReal and Champ and your insults are falling flat. You will never get away with lying on us. Ever.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You are a liar. You do it so much, you may not even know you are doing it. You can go on & on but you are a proven liar. Just like your Raisin Face idol. LMAO!!

          • Bobbi

            The insults are all you have and it is painfully obvious.
            You have been exposed for lying Bette. Champ, GetReal and myself have all called you out for lying and that is a fact. Everyone of us. So call me a liar all you like. Your insults are useless.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Oh yes. The 3 faces of Eve. No one takes either of you seriously. LMAO!!
            Who else you got?!?
            Anyone else?!? Anybody?!?

          • Bobbi

            Sorry. All bluster, these posts. All of them. There is no substance, no facts…. Nothing except insults. This is your arsenal.

            Again. You were exposed for lying. You made accusations against us that you cannot back up. You weren’t even brave or honest enough to admit you were referring to us and so you lied about that as well. You’re angry because not only were your lies rejected by all of us, GetReal sent you away and refused to let you continue to lie. You thought you were onto something but you got stopped dead in your tracks. What you are blowing over here is called hot air because no one else will listen to your lies any longer. You have been nullified.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Yawn!!😴

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            BAHAHAHA!! Wouldn’t I have seen these few ppl that have called my posts creepy?!? You are so full of BS. LMAO🤣😂🤣

          • Bobbi

            I never said they were posts, those are your words but trust, you aren’t looking good.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Well if they aren’t posters, how can you prove that it’s true?!? Another Bobbi lie. Next!!😜

          • Bobbi

            Hahahaha. Now we’re talking about proof? Ha! Would you like to make an even exchange? I would be happy to. I never said they were posts but they are most definitely posters. How else would they know your actions on this board are creepy. Obsessed, liar, evil, scary, stalker were words also used to describe you. I didn’t even have to say it.
            Your insulting and nasty rants, following me etc have not gone unnoticed. Trust me.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Well I guess they are talking to just you… And I take your word with a grain of salt.
            Could be more faux accts that you have made up. If they thought I was creepy, they never said anything to me. So once again… Your word means nothing, nada, zero, zilch.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            BAHAHAHA!! Following you?!? Following you?!? Now I know those are the voices in your head because you are the one that initiated the whole exchange. You really have to do better if you are going to make these claims.
            You stopped making sense days ago. I only humored you because someone needs to stand up to your wanna be boss ass. Well now you have shown the whole thread that Bobbi is a troll.
            Now, no one will ever back down from you again. Shayvoe & I both have pulled the curtain back. You have been exposed.

          • Bobbi

            Then why are you on a comment I posted to Champ when I’m already chatting with you? Yes. You are following me.

            “No one will ever back down from you again”, “wanna be boss” “you don’t run this board”, “checkmate”. ” so you can tell your friends you got me straight” on and on. ….and now I understand your real problem with me. Your posts are rife with these quips.
            Did you know those phrases are all declarations of insecurity, Bette? Ask anyone. A confident person doesn’t speak in these terms. Children and insecure adults do.

            I realize now, that your entire goal is to win. Against me. You need to win against me.
            This isn’t about truth for you or defending your integrity. Yes, you were caught in a lie but you can’t admit that because in your mind that means you lose against me.
            I haven’t posted to either of you in over 2 and a half years so I know you have no real reasons to feel this way. It is all very clear now. This is a competition for you and you need to prove to the board that you can stand up to me.
            This is all very sad.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Because I saw that you tried to slip a comment on here about Shay & I.
            That does not equate to me following you up & down the thread. Lying once again.
            You are a sneak. A liar & very devious.
            You tried to slip that post in there & we never see it. You never expected me to be logged on, chatting with someone else. I busted your lying ass in the act.
            You picked the wrong one to lie on & i am not going to let you get away with what you have been doing to me for the past four days.
            I told you, you got the right one. Your IQ is not high enough. You do not have the mental heft to play in my playground. You are a joke, playing checkers while the rest of us are playing chess. Checkmate, Guttersnipe.👑

          • Bobbi

            I touched a nerve didn’t I? Sorry. I had to be honest with you. Wow, This is who you really are and you are coming unraveled. Your delusion, anger and nastiness is beyond even what I imagined.

            PS. Check the time stamp on my post to Champ. It was during my conversation with you. There was no sneaking involved. I answer my posts in the succession they show in my notifications. You really must get a hold of yourself.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You are too ignorant to touch any nerve but the irritation nerve.
            You are the equivalent of a gnat or a fly buzzing in my ear.

          • Bobbi

            Can’t be the truth because you are still posting. Unless you like gnats. Lol. Again, your actions betray your words.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I am just not letting you try & pretend that you are right. You acted the fool, tried to accuse me of lying & continued to attack Shay after she asked you to stop bringing her up.
            Bobbi, you are dead. Just lie down. You are never going to pull your shyt on this thread again. Not as long as I’m around. Not in the morning, afternoon or evening.
            Anytime I see you attempting to discuss me, you will be checked.

          • Bobbi

            Hahahaha. You are back on ignore Bette. You are the dead one. It’s why you went and got Shay. I don’t do cowards.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Yes!! I’m a coward because I let Shay know you were trying to talk about her on the low, but you keep bringing up your crew to try & prove more than one person agrees with you.
            You even went as far as to say the voices in your head think I’m creepy.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            BS. I was logged in when it showed new post. I clicked on it & it was you trying to lie on both me & Shay. That makes you a liar & a sneaky snake.
            Who do you think you are toying with?!? I responded to your post as soon as it was made public.
            You treachous little liar. Your reign over anything ATL is done.
            I warned you but you were too confident in your position to take heed.
            Are your imaginary friends still calling me creepy but are okay with your treachery & lies?!? ROTFLMFAO🤣😜😂

          • Bobbi

            I won’t buy into your side arguments when your motive is simply to distract from the real issue and that is YOUR dishonsty.

            You have insulted me in every post, and yet you literally lose it at the slightest truth about your behavior. Smh

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            BooHoo!! Now it’s Bobbi the victim. You are either the regulator or the victim. Pick a lane & stick to it.
            You have become unhinged because your attack backfired.

          • Bobbi

            The tag team won’t work either. Been there done that, threw away the tee-shirt. Lol

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Threw away the tee shirt but should still be wearing the straight jacket.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You got stone busted trying to slip a post in here w/o the ppl you are trying to disparage knowing about it. This is & has always been your MO.
            Gotcha!! Caught’em!!👊🏼

          • Bobbi

            Bette, I know you read ALL my posts. In real time AND days later. Shay does as well. As a matter of fact, she upticked a post I made to you checking you about trying to instigate chit on THIS thread when you tried to involve her in your disagreement with me. Don’t wreck yourself now. When have I ever needed to “sneak” a post?
            There is no such thing for me. Lol Unlike you I have ALWAYS owned my words. You are truly reaching here.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You wish. I am not even reading all of your ridiculous diatribe direct at me, personally. LMAO!!

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            ROTFLMAO!! I should take your word for it. Right?!?
            Your imaginary friends & voices in your head don’t count.😉😜

          • Bobbi

            Insults galore and lies. All you’ve got. Still not stooping to your level Bette. Don’t need to.
            You are delusional if your insults convince anyone of anything except that you are incapable of having a real conversation in a disagreement. Your deflection says more than you know.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You are already in the sewer Bobbi. Don’t try to pretend you are taking the highroad, because the highroad for you is the gutter.

          • shayvoe

            To be clear, I asked her very nicely to please stop referencing me in a derogatory manner to other posters. I explained to her that it was the same as talking about someone behind their back, yet not giving them the opportunity to defend themselves. When she did it for the third time it be became very clear to me that she had no intentions of honoring my request and was only interested in being right and in keeping things going. It was then that I posted my last and final post to her.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I should probably follow your lead. Because this is not a healthy fixation. From claiming to ignore someone for two years to posting none stop for three days… it’s scary.

          • shayvoe

            She will never stop…she is like a dog with a bone, then when you lose your temper and have to get nasty, she is the victim once again, a role she loves, I might add. She is like a dog chasing it’s tail. She loves that merry go round she is riding.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            LMAO!! And the repetitive posts shows just how limited she really is. Yet, she goes on & on & on… so long winded but in the end, it all adds up to nada.

          • shayvoe

            I am waiting for her to jump in and say I am talking about her in a post to someone else. But, I hope I made it crystal clear in my last post to her, that because she refused to honor my request of referencing me in a derogatory manner to other posters, and continued to do it, after I asked her nicely to stop, that all bets were off.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Crystal clear flies right over that one’s head. Her claim will be you went back on your word.
            Truly zero self awareness. SMDH

          • shayvoe

            “All bets are off”, couldn’t be any plainer…but I’m sure you are correct.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            There is a thread about Dust Mop’s faux marriage being on the rocks.
            I am shocked. (Sarcasm)

          • shayvoe

            I give her 6 months like I did Luanne. I said how that scenario was going to play out the day they posted the story about her “marriage”. She will say when she files for divorce, “he didn’t support me in my career”. And the countdown begins….tick tock. A faux marriage and then a faux divorce.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Career. If she had a real career, her square ass would be able to leave the show & get other gigs that he doesn’t have to be a part of.
            Porsha is going to be in Sharknado. Dust Mop… nothing but the HW… still.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Refresh when you get a chance.👊🏼😉✌️

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You are a sad person, Bobbi. I really feel sorry for you. I’m not even kidding anymore.
            Anyone this invested in a complete stranger on a blog must be sad & lonely. Might I suggest you get a hobby?!?
            Go volunteer somewhere. Read a book. Do something productive with yourself.

          • Bobbi

            Again. Insult all you like. It doesn’t phase me, Bette and it doesn’t change the truth. You will think twice to lie on a poster next time.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            LMAO!! You still going. Freaking hilarious.

          • Bobbi

            And so are you. I get it Bette. None of your stories add up. This is the problem. Lol

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You wish my stories didn’t add up. Now it’s what four days of going back & forth with your little clique & im still unscathed. Weak gang in my opinion.

          • Bobbi

            No they don’t add up Bette and am not the only one who has told you so. There is a reason you have not attempted to prove these accusations. Hint: lies.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Who the hell are your that I have to prove anything to you?!?
            I’m did not lie on you & im not the only one that said this to you. So now what?!?

          • Bobbi

            You don’t have to prove it?That is a line liars use when they cannot produce proof.

            No one said you didn’t lie. The person you are referring to said they didn’t see that yiu were targeting me. Big difference. She never said you did not lie.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Yeah!! Yeah!! I’m a liar because the big boss lady said so. Next!!

          • Bobbi

            A person who lies is a liar. You lied about my attacking people on this board and as long as you want to hang around and insult me, I will continue to call you out.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I will be right here to insult you back. Believe that.

          • Bobbi

            Oh trust that is understood. I have posted receipts. All you have are insults Bette. You are guilty as hail.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            If you say so. I lied. I’m guilty. You are full of it & I love that it’s all out there for everyone to see you trying to badger someone but you claim you are not the one making this board unpleasant.
            So you know what?!? That was a LIE that you told. You are the villain you claimed not to be. Your posts for the past three days… exhibit A. LMAO!! Checkmate.😘😘

          • Bobbi

            You know what is really out there Bette? What is really out there is that in a disagreement with GetReal you posted accusations against “the 3” whom everyone knows is the moniker you and some others have assigned Champ, GetReal and myself. What is “out there” is in your effort to gain friendship with GetReal, you began to assure her that you were not including her in those accusations. (any one reading will also see this is a notion she has fully rejected)

            What is “out there” is A day or so later when I read your post and challenged your accusations you said your posts regarding “the 3” were not about me but yet as you were trying to unsuccessfully convince GetReal that you never included her in this list of yours and that she was never considered guilty of those accusations you listed, you also made overtures that the guilty parties were the “company she keeps” wink, wink as well as some other hints that pointed to Champ and I. What is “out there” is that GetReal called you out on the inconsistencies in your comments and wholeheartedly rejected your attempts to blame us. What is “out there” is, she asked you to prove your accusations against us but you were unable to.

            What is “out there” is, When I challenged you to provide proof and you denied that you made accusations against me, I posted those accusations along with the time stamp and since that moment you have done nothing but deflect and insult me.

            What is “out there” is you cursed me out, made even more insulting, baseless claims against my integrity… that I am 3 people on the boards etc and I never sunk to your level.
            What is “out there” is, you have even tried to make it seem as if you were being ganged up on in this conversation saying you were “juggling two of us” when there was only me.

            Checkmate? There is no checkmate. On either side. Again, you are all about winning and saving face to your friends on the board. I realize this now. Your verbiage during this entire exchange points to that. Your only goal was to “win the fight”. You care more about that than integrity and that is unfortunate. I have not badgered you. That is all you have as a defense because the only thing “out there” regarding me in this conversation is that I challenged your accusations against me and asked you to prove them and you were unable to.

            When you make accusations and are unable to prove they are true that is considered lying, Bette. I know that is hard to accept but that is the truth .

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            BAHAHAHA!! Bobbi is still going on about the same old BS from days ago.🤣😂🤣

          • Bobbi

            Yes, I am. It is obvious you cannot refute one word of my post because I have told the truth. You can only accuse me of “going on”. No one will defend you either and you have sent up several SOS, lol
            It is because everything I stated you have said on this thread is in Black and White. My receipts- your own words- accusations with no proof are on this board for all to see.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I don’t not need anyone to defend me when I’m the one that’s been right all along. I have handled you with the greatest of ease.
            No one is agreeing with you. Everyone is over this ridiculous rant you have been on for how many days now?!? You are STILL dancing around for my attention. Bless your obsessed heart. LMAO!!

          • Bobbi

            Hmmmm, so you don’t remember this post? The post you complained about last night but was sent away when you tried to refute it?

            Excerpt:

            ” No way have any of us ever gone after posters, called them a gang or chastised them in any way. These false claims need to cease.”

            “No matter what you do conflict comes from the other side. I don’t see how anyone can justify their actions when we specifically did not post to them in order to stop the chaos. Even that didn’t work. Then, we were a gang running up and down the boards getting mad at other posters. Now you know darn well that didn’t happen.”

            That is agreement Bette. My issue with you is that you made accusations that were not true. That post backed me up 100% and everything she said to me she has said to you.
            I can post more of that conversation and others if you would like.

          • The Champ

            Bobbi, I have nothing but the utmost respect for you. I commend you for standing up for what’s RIGHT against the blatant disrespect and baseless LIES. The past few days I have reviewed our present and past posts and NOTHING supports the accusations of “us” attacking, insulting , name calling, quoting direct/indirectly or referring to fellow poster’s as gangs. “We” have NOT in ANY way attempted to communicate with our accusers. Again, there’s NO proof to support these claims. All the things “WE” are being accused of are the very things that were used against us in a taunting manner. “OUR” being targeted was a desperate attempt to communicate and cause discord. I owned my part of saying IDFWU and addressed the derogatory statements made toward “Kenya fans”, none of which should have caused such an UPROAR. Even these past few days that you’ve been replying back and forth, not ONCE have I seen you step out of character and resort to insults, instigating or using foul language. You addressed the LIES and you held your composure. Thank you for leading by example and showing US what it means to STAND up for what you believe IN and what’s RIGHT. I salute you Bobbi, your friend Champ. #positivevibes

          • Bobbi

            Thanks Champ and same to you. I tolerate a lot but, I won’t sit by and be lied on. I’ve never experienced this in my entire life. We have not communicated with somefor peace sake but, in this case our silence was exploited. It was assumed we would sit by while we were lied on. Repeatedly.
            You have always sought peace Champ and I know without a doubt you don’t enjoy this type of confusion. I remember when you used to leave the boards when the bs started in on you and us but at some point you had to stand your ground and defend yourself.
            I value peace which is why I remained quiet for so long but I will always defend what is right. I don’t know how to be any other way.

            You can always tell the guilty party when a person/s becomes defensive and their posts are laced with insults and curse words instead of addressing the issue. There is no need to do that when you stand in truth. It is a sad day when you value saving face over integrity and you think having the last word makes you a victor when you’ve done nothing but hurl insults and curse words. This is how I know resolving this issue is dead in the water. It is one thing to misunderstand an issue but, you will never be able to reason with someone who is dishonest.

            Thanks for your comment, Champ, I look forward to getting back to the fun and laughs again with you.

          • The Champ

            You’re always welcome Bobbi ☺ I wholeheartedly agree with your post. From what I’ve read/witnessed, the disagreement started from a statement Mel made. Her and GetReal were posting to one another when an argument ensued between Mel and another. I came and tried to dissolve the situation. Somehow I was being referenced to as the one who started it ALL. It was then when we started being referenced to as “the 3” or “2”. When you and GetReal confronted both sources, they would separate us and reference to me “Champ” being a bully/troublemaker, as you’ve read I wasn’t involved in the disagreement and tried to get Mel to ignore the shenanigans. I was also referred to as evil. It wasn’t until you confronted both sources and the conversation would be diverted back to me “Champ”. That’s when I got fed up and spoke out against the accusations. Yes I’ve said to both parties IDFWU and that’s my right. It didn’t warrant such anger and outrage. Not to mention this happened about a month or so ago. But yes, we were all being referenced as “the 3” and said to be ganging up on other poster’s. All of which is untrue. It seems as if some were looking to cause drama and we were the main target’s. Mel ended it and went on about her business, while we were continuously being targeted/taunted in all the confusion.

          • Bobbi

            I saw exactly what happened Champ. You did nothing to cause that mess. You only tried to get Mel to ignore the noise and continue posting.
            Bette and Shay continue to try and twist the narrative but the truth is there for all to see.
            I saw the comment Mel made. It was an innocuous post made in defense of Kenya. Shay immediately took offense and in her reply to Mel she referenced us negatively as a group. Same bs…..Assume someone is talking about them and start chit. Only this time it wasn’t us. Shay however still found a way to include us in her disagreement with Mel. When GetReal checked her she immediately said she was not referring to her. When I came on the boards and saw that comment and challenged her she said she wasn’t talking about me as well. Neither of us bought those lies. She and Bette are playing the same games. They call you out as a group and when you call them on it they deny they were referring to you when it is all there in Black and White.

            They have tried to single out GetReal but, she has totally and directly rejected their bogus claims that they never were referring to her in their insults about the 3. It is a joke. She knows they are both lying as the problems with them started long before you ever began posting to us. Their claims and explanations when asked to clarify their comments about us are inconsistent because they are dishonest. Only dishonest people and cowards accuse you of things they cannot prove and won’t admit to the comments they have written in plain sight.

            They targeted you but also blamed me even though I have not even been on the boards during their dust-ups and haven’t posted to them for over 2 years. They took advantage of the fact that I refused to communicate with them and assumed they could lie on me at will and I wouldn’t respond.

            What they wished to do is write a new narrative. The goal was to create a new beef with you take GetReal out of the equation and in effect erase their history of foul actions regarding us by saying we are the problem. Again, they included me in their accusations and because I refused to communicate with them they assumed I would sit by and allow them to include me in their web of lies. It did not work.

            They are also attempting to create dissention amongst us by targeting some while telling others “oh, I wasn’t talking about you” or, “you aren’t as bad as they are” but we have all peeped their game. I didn’t buy it, nor did GetReal.

            They continued to ref me and include me in their bs but, they are pissy now because I called them out and wrecked their plan. No one has been disrespectful to them, I’ve only challenged the accusations they’ve made against us. They are the only ones cursing and hurling insults but they are angry because they have been exposed. Only guilty people respond in that manner.
            Neither of them have been able to prove one instance of our attacking them nor anyone else on these boards. Not one. Nor have they been able to prove the other lies they repeat almost daily. All of their bogus accusations have fallen flat because they cannot back them up. I have asked for proof, GetReal has asked for proof but we have never gotten it. That tells me all I need to know.

            I already see they are both itching for a new fight with us. Their RT personas are in full effect…..name calling, insults, cursing. Don’t give it to them because they thrive on dissention and upheaval. Let them stew in their own negativity. I won’t ever let them lie on me but, I will never stoop to their level. Ever. OT: GetReal stated you wanted to start a book club and we think that would be an excellent idea so maybe we can start one. We’re both doing some research. There’s one starting on IG called jokerswild111. It is private but, You should look it up and request to follow. Don’t use your main account though.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Here you go… LYING again. I said Mel called Shay aN obsessed fan. She then told me to stay in my lane. I never accused Champ of starting anything.
            What you do is wait until everyone has logged off to post your lies & try to twist the narrative.
            Everyone has caught on to your shenanigans at this point. Stop lying because the posts are still here for everyone to see. Stop freaking lying already. Damn!!

          • Bobbi

            Whose stalking who Bette? Whose obsessed? Look at you following me around the board with your cheap insults. You always expose yourself no matter how much you fake and point the finger. I have no need to hide on these boards especially since I know you read me like the daily paper. Lol
            I will never stoop to your level Bette. Know that. But I will call you out on your bullchit. Everytime. We all will. You’ve been itching to start a fight with me for a while now but it won’t happen. I will let you continue cursing and hurling insults while I tell the truth. The truth ALWAYS prevails.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You started commenting to me first. You want to lie about whom is stalking whom now?!? We have four days of your posts.
            You are twisted. Are you going to deny that you posted to me first?!? Don’t like it when it’s done to you, huh?!? Taste of your own medicine, buddy.

          • Bobbi

            Asking you to prove accusations is not stalking Bette but, following me all over the boards to argue and be nasty on my posts to other people certainly is and this is exactly what you are doing. You are over here right now on a post I wrote to Champ. Upset about me and my comments!
            I could do that to you but I don’t care about your chatter about me.

            You accused me along with GetReal and Champ of things I did not do and I had every right to address it just like they did. What I won’t do is follow you and cry over your posts to your friends though. You just proved to be the one who is the obsessed stalker.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You are a joke. You, BOBBI started this interaction.
            I am not, have not followed you all over this board. You & I have been going back & forth on the same post that originated from you.
            Stop lying & come to terms with the fact that you have been exposed for the liar, agitator & instigator that you truly are.
            The original origin of this whole thing had nothing to do you with you in the first place. You came along after it was over & inserted yourself.
            We have been going at it ever since. Following you up & down this thread is hogwash. Give it up already. LIAR.
            You said you were exposing me as a liar but you are the one that has been lying all along.
            I warned you to let it go days ago but your self righteous indignation wouldn’t allow you to. Now you look like a complete fool. You started all of this by getting up in my business & calling me a liar on a loop. Now you are claiming I have been following you up & down this thread.
            All you did was prove what a liar you have always been & that you are infact obsessed with me. Case closed. The defense rests.😘😘

          • Bobbi

            How did it not involve me? You spoke to GetReal about me and ran down a list of accusations that included me. GetReal corrected you directly when you denied it! She checked you twice! You did involve me. And she told you when you denied it that I would never let you get away with besmirching my reputation. And she was right. I had every right to address your lies.
            You took advantage of my silence about the situation between you GetReal andChamp as well as my wish to not communicate with you and thought I would not address your accusations about me. But I did and here we are. You call me a liar but I have proven every claim I made against you, even posted your own words back to you along with the date and time to stated it. Even more damning, Champ and GetReal have stated exactly the same things I have stated to you: You lied, you are duplicitous and you cannot keep your stories straight. Your beef is not with me Bette – your battle is with the truth.
            Meanwhile, You have not proven one accusation you have made about me or any of us.. Not ONE. Not one!

            I have only refuted your accusations and asked you to prove them. There was no reason why my request should have elicited this vitriol from you. I never insulted you, called you a name or cursed you out, nor did I ever state any accusation that I did not provide proof for. Only you did all those things.

            Your angry posts and nasty insults are not the words of one who is innocent.
            The defense rests? Ok, lol. Your words denote that you really worked hard for this. But, I’ll take it and hold you to it. The truth never rests though. The truth prevails. Always remember that.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You LIE yet again. I NEVER ran down a list that included you.
            I told GR that for me, I had a reason to consider you all the 3. I was not the one that started that argument. GetReal asked where it even stemmed from. I answered as far as I, BDE was concerned.
            I then went on to say I Did NOT want to include you in anything because you had nothing to do with the issue at hand.
            You come along a day or so later & claimed I was lying on you. I never lied on you. I went so far as to say I did not want to include you. But you, Bobbi, like I stated have this imagined beef, wanted to twist & turn it into something, just so you could act a fool.
            I am trying to explain this to you yet again. This is how I roll. This is the person that I am.
            You can take it or leave it but at the end of the day, I know I did not lie on you, about you or try to insinuate anything about you.
            Reading IS fundamental but so is reading comprehension.
            You are the one that feels the need to expose, confront or take down BDE1. You have proven this for 4/5 days now.
            But for all intent & purposes, you have tried to make it seem as if I have lied on you. Changed the narrative on you. Refused to own up to lies I have never told & now I am the one stalking you up & down this thread.
            You are exposed for the lying, instigating manipulator that you truly are. You have harassed/berated me for four/five days over nothing.
            It is your MO. I REFUSE to allow you to do this any longer. I am not a punk & im over your BS.
            If you can not comprehend, let your imaginary friends explain it to you.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Your new name is Porsha. Since everyone agrees that she is dumb.
            You are as thick as a brick. SMDH

          • Bobbi

            Smh. I had actually accepted your previous answer to this same post which is why I didn’t respond but here you are still name calling.
            It is not that I finally believed you and neither did GetReal when you tried to convince her but I was willing to let it go because I know I really touched a nerve with you and you are coming unraveled. There is a reason we don’t believe you and its all there in black and white. You are not an honest person. You can’t explain away what you did. The proof is on the boards in your own words.

            Your angry double replies to many of my post are major red flags. I have seen lots of bad behavior on this board but you take the cake hands down.

            People who name call especially as much as you do have a problem with self esteem and use it as a way to make themselves feel better about their own feelings of not measuring up. You really have a thing with needing to best me and it is very obvious. It is also obvious that you feel you are losing…..there is no other explanation for this anger and terrible behavior you are exhibiting. All your other replies that stated sentiments such as “you dont run this board” all fit into the same mentality, Bette. It is equivalent to a child screaming ” Youre not the boss of me!
            I also understand that your attempt to continuously insult my intelligence is actually a sign that you really believe the exact opposite. You are textbook!

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Stop trying to drag GR into this. If she has something to say to me, let her speak for herself.
            Or perhaps you really are all three. You have nothing to bring to the threads but negativity. You are a disgrace.
            The sad part is, you really are proud of yourself.

          • Bobbi

            My friends aren’t like yours. I get plenty of support, but we’ve never needed to fight one another’s battles. That’s your style. GetReal is relevant because you tried to talk to her about me and she is the one you lied to trying to turn her against me and she checked you and called out your lies. Funny, she has told you everything that I have stated to you. She confirmed that to your face. But you won’t admit that. She said you lied to Bette. Those are facts.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            We ALL know you are the same person. Stop the charade already. LMAO!!
            GetReal did not check me. Stop trying to keep shyt riled up between us. Your “friends” have stopped but you just want to continue this BS. I see you trying to rally them behind you.
            Even they are tried of the crap. Get your life & go back to talking to them. They are the only ones that even like you.

          • Bobbi

            Your insults are stale now Bette.
            Receipts:
            There is more but I think this sums it ALL up. No more needs to be said. I don’t lie and I will always post receipts. I won’t let you bury this post with your nonesense, bs comments either. This will be my last standing post to you. Be sure to read all of it. GR checked you and everything I have said to you she has cosigned right here. Come back with insults all you like. You will only further prove you are every negative thing this post says you are:

            GetReal2014  BetteDavisEyez1  3 days ago

            It’s over for me. Your last post to me was about Bobbi. I’m not going back and forth with you. If it’s not about the show. Skip me…..

            GetReal2014  BetteDavisEyez1  5 days ago

            I take issue with the fact that nothing seems to please you. If someone told me that they didn’t want to talk to me, I wouldn’t talk to them. I would respect their wishes. What I wouldn’t do is target them and create chaos…..
            You know who’s in your gang. And why would I address my friends when it’s your gang that’s always piling on them? They’re not the problem. How can they be when they don’t even post to your crew? They only respond, and even that is sparingly. No one is going to continue to stay silent in the midst of all the wild accusations you all are constantly throwing out there.

            If you feel this way about the 3, why would you even want to communicate with us? Why wouldn’t you ignore us? What do you think the solution is?

            (Last but not least this sums it ALL up.)

            GetReal2014  Bobbi  3 days ago

            I know. That’s the weird thing. There has never been a reason for this silly conflict. We were all friendly initially, and it was just me and you, not Champ. Champ wasn’t even in the picture. She came towards to the end of our time on the other site. To try to depict The Champ as a troublemaker and a chit starter is outrageous. If anything, Champ has always tried to be a bridge. I knew that was a mistake. The bottom line is that we liked Kenya and some people couldn’t, or wouldn’t accept that.

            I believe the attempt to separate me from the “group” was simply an ineffective divide and conquer tactic. No way have any of us ever gone after posters, called them a gang or chastised them in any way. These false claims need to cease. It’s a problem if posters like Kenya. It’s a problem if posters don’t talk to them, it’s a problem if you don’t respond. It’s a problem if you do respond. WTH, is a poster supposed to do if they like Kenya?

            No matter what you do conflict comes from the other side. I don’t see how anyone can justify their actions when we specifically did not post to them in order to stop the chaos. Even that didn’t work. Then, we were a gang running up and down the boards getting mad at other posters. Now you know darn well that didn’t happen.

            I wanted this nonsense to be over because it is obvious that for the last few months they have been going after Champ relentlessly without reason. You and I both know that Champ isn’t the real “target.” We are, myself included. They went after Champ because they didn’t want to come directly at us. That’s why they pretended to “communicate” with Champ and then draw her in. That’s what happened. I always wished that I could tell Champ not to communicate with them because I knew this would happen. But, we don’t have the luxury of telling each to read our emails, etc.

            These people are connected and know each other and their agenda is as plain as day. Only an idiot wouldn’t see through it. Trying to make nice wasn’t going to help.

            Everyone who has posted with us has been singled out and ridden like a pack mule, all because of their association with us. And so have many former Kenya fans. The agenda is clear. It has been from the beginning. You can go back to the first day that I came and see what happened. They converged on me like vultures, so spare me trying to get me to believe that I am not a target as well. I know exactly what’s up. always did.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            LMAO!! You did say you were back to ignoring me. No?!? That lasted all of five minutes.
            You just keep lying & hyperfocusing on me.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You still want this to be about you. How sad does someone have to be to go to these lengths to insert themselves in something that had nothing to do with them?!?
            I said I did not want to involve you but now after four days of you acting the fool… I am more than willing to let everyone see just how ridiculous you are & quite frankly always have been.
            The other threads don’t get this nasty because YOU don’t post on them.
            You are the one that brings ATL threads down to sewer level & when you are not around, your alter ego picks up the slack.
            Get Real said she would never let me besmirch your reputation?!? Are you freaking kidding me right now?!? Another Bobbi fable. Stop!! You are just a liar. Every post, you tell another.
            You are truly living in a fantasy world. LMAO!!

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            We all will. Tee Hee!! Yes all three of your personalities. LMAO!!
            One doesn’t want to be lumped in & is cool with me on other threads & the other only consigns your nonsense.
            Call me out?!? Yeah right. There goes big boss lady trying to summon her backup because she knows she’s got nothing. Try harder.

          • Bobbi

            The other you are referring to is GetReal and being lumped in is not her problem with you. She has rejected your lies about Champ and I and she has said they were untrue to you directly. That she answers your posts on other threads mean nothing. She called you out and shut down your lies. That is the real story.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Another Bobbi lie. She said she didn’t want me to talk about you two to her.
            Are you really this crazy that you would go this far to make yourself right & everyone that doesn’t agree with you wrong?!?
            What the hell is wrong with you?!? The posts are here for everyone to see.
            I have never seen anything like this. You are ridiculous & proud of it. What the….?!?

          • The Champ

            This post is 💯, to the 10th power. Now I see what all the UPROAR and confusion was about. In the beginning I was trying to figure how things got so personal in the first place. Now I see. It was never about us as individual’s,but separating us to cause division and confusion amongst us. I agree, not one of us has been disrespectful or used any foul language toward anyone. I did say IDFWU, but that didn’t warrant such reaction to start an argument. Anywho, It’s all good, between me, you and GetReal, that’s what matters to ME. Now let’s get this ball rolling on this book club, this is awesome Bobbi. I’m excited 😎😎

          • Bobbi

            Yes! I can’t wait for the book club. Did you check out the IG page? I can give you the info there.

          • The Champ

            Done 😉

          • The Champ

            Good Night Bobbi, talk to you soon 😀😀

          • Bobbi

            Good night Champ! Sure thing

          • GetReal2014

            I don’t have IG. 🙁 Why didn’t you put me on there since I’m one of your alter egos, LOL.

          • Bobbi

            Ok? Lol. Well since we’re the same person I thought you were automatically included. Lmao. I laugh but it is more sad than funny, smh. If you ever thought they couldn’t go any lower, now you know.

            @ the book club, I told Champ you didn’t have IG and she informed me she doesn’t have FB lol, so we’ll have to figure it out.

          • GetReal2014

            OMG, I was looking for you on the boards and couldn’t find you anywhere so I had to go through four pages of articles to see when you last posted. That’s how I stumbled upon this thread.

            All I can say is I am STUNNED. I know how hard it was for me to find you, because it took so much effort to do so. How on earth did anyone else find you without seriously dogging your posts?

            The content is unbelievable. I cannot believe what I am reading.

            All of this started because in a post by Mel, Shay brought up our names up, right? You weren’t even there so how did you become embroiled in this fiasco? I am thoroughly confused.

            ALL of the things that you’re being accused of are the things that they’ve done. Do they not understand that? This is crazy. I think it will be best to cease all communication again. There is no other recourse. I refuse to deal with this nonsense.

            Get the book club together. No sense in giving this any more life. It is what it is.

          • Bobbi

            Normally when you don’t see me I am traveling, completing a project or both. Not this time. I’ve been over here trying to clear up some misinformation posted about me on this board.

            I totally agree with you. Nothing works. You just can’t communicate with them in any form because their real goal is not peace. Their goal is to gain allies and take down erroneously perceived enemies. They proved it when they took the olive branch you extended after they expressed interest for peaceful dialogue and exploited it for their personal agenda, which was to use you to make us villains on the boards and cause dissention between us. You just don’t get any more evil than that.

            Bette assumed everyone had “moved on from this board” and was no longer reading the comments over here. This is why she felt comfortable to exhibit the foul language and abominable behavior that you just witnessed.

            These particular posters have worked overtime, trying to prove to everyone that we were the problem on the previous site as well as this one however, their behavior on this board in the past week was what we experienced on RT regularly until we stopped communicating with them and should cue anyone reading who the real culprits are. I don’t know why you’re stunned, their new found (fake) persona on this board was simply a reprieve from their true selves in order to manipulate innocent posters into thinking they were victims. But they’ve exposed who they are now. If this isn’t proof I don’t know what is. I kept posting to Bette because I knew she would show her self sooner or later, I even informed her I was continuing to post in order to expose her but even then, she couldn’t help herself.

            They won’t ever be able to explain away this behavior, GetReal. Their anger and noxious behavior on this board was unprovoked. But even if they felt they were, no one can bring you out of your character this way if it is not who you really are. You could never exhibit this nastiness if it was not the essence and at the core of who you are.

            When we chatted previously you had seen some of Bette’s behavior on this thread but it got progressively worse and the last 24 hours of her posting was nothing short of insanity.

            Yes, all of this started because Mel posted a comment about Kenya and Shay immediately brought us into it. I was not on the board at this time but you asked Shay to stick to the show and not the posters. She (and Bette who had absolutely nothing to do with that conversation) began to blame Champ who did nothing except encourage a poster to remain focused on the show and myself who wasn’t even on the boards! They once again blamed us for being trouble makers and assure you they weren’t including you. Bette went on to post very specific accusations about us that were untrue. I had witnessed both of them accuse me before with no push back because I didn’t want the confusion I knew would ensue but, my silence simply bolstered their confidence to lie and get away with it. This last time I decided to address both of them as I could no longer stand by and let them continue to lie on me.
            What you witnessed on this thread via their replies is guilt. Innocence does not respond this way.

          • GetReal2014

            Here’s what happened. I noticed that you hadn’t been posting on the board, but I also knew that sometimes we don’t see other. So, I tried to go back to an old post of yours and even that took a while. Eventually, I had to go through article after article to find you.When I found you I was stunned. And yes, maybe I shouldn’t have been stunned, but I was/am and still cannot believe what I have witnessed. I thought we were supposed to be dealing with adults.

            What stuns me is who in their right mind has this much animosity and anger over a public board and even worse, a reality show? Who spends their leisure time trying to tear others down? Who lies although their lies are written in their own hand in full view of everyone? Who is so consumed with bitterness and hatred that their anger never subsides? Who does this? Have you ever met a person this depraved? I haven’t, and I feel soiled for having even witnessed this.

            What gets me, is that in both conversations, yours and mine, never once was one issue addressed. Instead only more accusations, untruths and flat out lies. Nothing but insults which is not a path anyone would take who wants peace. She leveled one accusation after another at you, all unproven and false.

            I picked up on the often repeated refrain that you want to run the board. Why? Who in their mind wants the dubious distinction of running a board? Where is the validation in that? And what is the prize? I’m stumped. Who even thinks like that?

            The lies she has leveled against you are insane. Something is very wrong. And the lie about receiving a notification? Please, she is stalking you and she showed her real face on this board. She would never do this in full view of an active post because then people would really see who she is. The lies don’t even make sense, because if that was the case I would’ve received a notification as well. Your post was to Champ, so there’s no way Bette received a notification. That’s a darn lie. Why would Disqus notify you of posts that are not even directed towards you? Unbelievable.

            I wanted to make peace and I thought that after so much time had lapsed this nonsense would become a thing of the past. But, I have to agree with you, the nastiness, the insults, and the lying are far too much to take in. There is no way I would ever be associated with an individual like that, so I’m glad that it happened. It was a reminder to me that some broken things cannot be fixed. I feel horrible that I even tried.

            Let’s get the book club together ASAP. They have contaminated this place with their evilness, just like they did the last site. Did I ever tell you that I was on another board a while back and several former RT posters greeted me and talked about those two? They said they had gotten them banned and called them the scourge of the earth. Way to go, if you want to be known as troublemakers and chit starters. Good job. Mission accomplished. There is no peace with these people. Only discord and destruction. I’m out.

          • Bobbi

            Yep. That’s what I said. Mission accomplished.
            Wow, more posters talked about those two? Its crazy, this nasty rep they have all over. I just thought of something. Remember we spoke to a poster who was posting on one other site while we were both still over at RT and when we said we missed him, he stated he was no longer over there because of those two? He had been gone for over a year but said he still read the boards over there and saw what those two were attempting to do to us. He brought up that subject without being prompted one iota.

            Don’t feel horrible that you tried. You threw them a rope and they used it to hang themselves. You needed to see that they never changed and were never intending to. I know that you would never knowingly be associated with people like that so you needed to see them in full effect. I’ve always known Bette was capable of what you see on this thread and worse. I’ve seen through her since day one and is why I was totally satisfied to never communicate with her ever again. It’s one of the reasons she despises me. I’ve never entertained her bullxhit act. That and the fact she is very insecure and intimidated by me for reasons I will never understand. All the fake bravado via name calling, insults and cursing are nothing more than anger because she feels diminished in some way. She would never feel I “wanted to be boss”, “want to run the board” and the need to “checkmate” me otherwise and even if I did seek such a ridiculous and trivial title why would it affect her so? She was so consumed she couldn’t rein her nastiness in. It is obvious these are all her very own personal issues…..issues that are independent of me but I am a target because I bring those feelings to surface for some reason. I’ve done nothing to her and so the bitterness and animosity is totally unwarranted and quite frankly, chilling. Her sidling up to you has just as much to do with the fact that she thinks she is hurting me just as much as anything. That is the sadness of it all.
            I’ve certainly never experienced this ever in my life. She has her issues with each of us and that a blog about a reality show could fuel these types of negative emotions is mind boggling.

            Something is definitely very wrong as you stated. The stalking is on a whole other level. And to think, someone capable of this is inviting you to come visit her. Girrrrrrl……

          • GetReal2014

            I don’t feel horrible. I understand that people are different and I don’t expect anything from others, other than what they can give of their own freewill. In my world, people are allowed to be who they are. I am fascinated by human behavior. I have never been unaware of who anyone is. I simply enjoy studying people, all people, and many times I may never say a word. I don’t think that it’s necessary, because it’s not my job to fix them. It is only my intention to understand.

            I don’t want people to change. That’s never been a goal of mine. I only seek to understand where people are coming from. That’s it. For example, I’ve talked about my sister to you before. Do you think that I expect change from her? No, it’ll never happen, but for me it’s still interesting. Many people have a tendency to cast people aside. I don’t do that.

            There’s very few people that I’ll have in my inner circle, but anyone can conceivably be on the outskirts. This is a part of my nature. My natural curiosity is an innate trait that I’ve had since birth. Think about my hobby and you’ll see why it’s important for me to open up dialogue with anyone. I need to be able to see and understand other people’s POV who don’t operate in the same way as I do, otherwise, I would limit my craft and my own imagination.

            Try doing what I am trying to do with a limited perspective. I have to see as much as is available to me, otherwise I can’t create with abandon.

          • Bobbi

            “It was a reminder to me that some broken things cannot be fixed. I feel horrible that I even tried.”

            This is a quote from your previous post and the only reason I made that comment was to reassure you that you should not feel horrible that you tried. That is what I love and admire about you.

            “I understand that people are different and I don’t expect anything from others, other than what they can give of their own freewill. In my world, people are allowed to be who they are. I am fascinated by human behavior. I have never been unaware of who anyone is. I simply enjoy studying people, all people, and many times I may never say a word. I don’t think that it’s necessary, because it’s not my job to fix them. It is only my intention to understand……Many people have a tendency to cast people aside. I don’t do that.”

            I agree we are all different. We all have different personalities and experiences in life that help shape those personalities and I understand that as well however, I do expect human decency and look for the best in all until they show me differently. I seek understanding until it is to my detriment to do so. I find the old saying very true: when someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. That was my point about this situation and in this case even though we chose not to communicate I could see she had not changed therefore my decision to remain at a distance did not. In my world people are free to be who they are as well which is why I am the one to remove myself instead of asking or expecting someone to change however, once I get to the point where I need to walk away from someone I have allowed into my space I know it is for good reason because it is not a natural instinct of mine to reject people. I gave her the chance I give everyone…the chance everyone deserves and the chance I want from others but I saw in her the propensity to do exactly what we see now as many of these traits were clearly visible very early. Her actions are the same as they always were. Only her tactics changed. No one cast her aside, but sometimes you need to remove toxic people from your personal space and that is what I did.

            Everyone handles situations the way that suits them best but, once I have decided to step away from a person I no longer need to study him/her because I understand all I need to know at that point. In this case I realized at a point there was no middle, no personal accountability and no chance of reasoning. If I find out a person is a liar, I don’t try and understand why. It becomes an exercise in futility as well as give them a chance to lie some more. Especially if the lies are about me. From my point of view, this person was in plain view on this board and there was no need to invite her into my space to study her. She was textbook and I could see that from miles away.

            I have always been curious as well. My favorite books to read are auto/biographies. I watch these HW’s shows and enjoy breaking down their personalities and situations with you all the time because I love sleuthing and analyzing people and things. I just don’t feel I need to dialogue to understand someone after already determining their motives and intents. Sometimes their actions, dialogue with others as well as what they do not say tell you more than you need to know. We never needed to dialogue with Phaedra, Kandi, Porsha or any of these ladies to understand and come to the proper conclusion about them.

            If you are looking at this situation simply from an analytical perspective I totally understand, but from my own personal perspective I saw the potential to do more harm than good in allowing her back because I saw her motives which were never to make peace but to create confusion. I come here to kick it with fun posters and my buddies. What these type of people bring is more than I need in my day, so I pass. This is all far too heavy for a HW’s blog for me. I will say, I do see more clearly her issues with me but I didn’t need to know that. Once I realize someone wants to malign me I don’t go trying to understand why, I get the hail out of town. Lol To your point there was an upside. She exposed herself and also showed us how she quite possibly convinced some to cosign the narrative she sought to bring..

            I always appreciate your view, GetReal and see your perspective.. Its funny how we always often arrive at the same destination from different directions and I always learn something in the process. You are a class act. Champ as well.

          • GetReal2014

            I totally hear you and understand your point of view as well. Still, I find it fascinating and it adds depth to the work that I want to do. My schooling is in Sociology, among other things, and this is an area of fascination for me.

            In your case, I think you have been more than fair and when you’ve had to re-adjust your limits, after having already told someone you desired no communication, I guess all bets are off. Everyone has to handle situations in their own way in order to get the peace that they desire. And there is no reason you should have to defend yourself against things that you never did in the first place. It’s not fair, and it really shouldn’t be necessary.

            This is a blog for discussion, friendship and camaraderie. All of the other nonsense needs to stop. It affects everyone when there is dissension and discord. Why would anyone be okay with that?

          • GetReal2014

            I know I shouldn’t be stunned, but I am. I’m stunned because I didn’t believe that anyone could be this twisted and make up lies this way. That they would refuse to acknowledge their lies even though they’ve written them down in black and white, plain as day for everyone to see. The deflection is unreal. Not one accusation leveled against us has been answered or proved, instead more insults and lies.

            How does the twisted mind work? How does it rationalize people avoiding them and pretending that the hunters are the ones stalking them? Ha ha ha, you know that’s both macabre and evil.

            I’m also stunned that someone would hold on to this kind of anger for three years without let up and stay up day and night trying to bring us down. I have also noticed that the smart, and intelligent posters have left. That’s our cue too. Who wants to soil themselves with this evilness? One thing, they have earned their nicknames. names I have seen them called across social media fro the people that they have gotten banned for no reason.

            Everything is in place now. Let the devils feast on their own flesh. They don’t deserve to be in our company.

          • shayvoe

            Glad to see you finally admitted you are complicit in targeting me. You said, “THIS time it wasn’t us” Bwahahaha!! But, all the other times it WAS you! If you think you have been targeted in the past, get ready baby girl….like I said, all bets are off with you!! Here you are, STILL discussing me, when in your last post to me you said “I truly hope you keep to your word and stay away from me. That would be a Godsend.!!” Yet, YOU can’t stay away from ME…you can’t keep my name out of your mouth, and here you are STILL talking about me to your friends. You are a freaking NUT, and a NOW a PROVEN liar! Get ready!!

          • Bobbi

            No ma’am. Don’t get it twisted. This time it wasn’t us you were all up in your feelings about but you were still obviously very obsessed with us because you mentioned us immediately. You had no reason to. We were no where around. GetReal checked you and the rest is history.

            You have really lost it Shay. Your hypocrisy is astounding! You and Bette were discussing me early this morning why are you upset? You two had a giggle and even predicted I might jump in on your conversation because you thought I would care that you were talking about me. But I didnt because I don’t. Hahahaha. Now here you are jumping in on MY post and spitting mad. Lol!
            Oh wait! That wasn’t me you were referring to again right? That was someone else you were talking about this morning, again, right? Right?! Lol
            You guys really need to stop. You JUST discussed me and you’re over here stomping and spitting. Lol. You have been itching for a fight from me for a loooong time but you won’t get it. I will never stoop to your level but I will call out your bs like I just did. Every time. Get ready? You’re cute. Hahahahahahaha

            Shay I’ve ignored you and Bette for over 2 years for this very reason. I will not argue with you but I will be calling out the bs. I will never be silent about that ever again.
            Wait. Didn’t you say you didn’t phk with me? I’m so tickled right now. Shay please.
            I’ll go back to ignore and I’ll let you and Bette continue spittin’ and cussin’. Geeze guys. This is pathetic, now.

          • shayvoe

            Where is the “cussin” you speak of? The bottom line is, you refused to admit or acknowledge you have targeted us on the Atlanta threads and that my reference to the 3, was not warranted. Now you have outed yourself as complicit, but still want to pretend you are innocent of any wrongdoing and that you are always the victim. It is too late. It’s there in your post in black and white for all eternity and for all to see. And, with a screenshot, in case it mysteriously disappears. Had you acknowledged that to me 5 freaking days ago, we would not still be discussing it now. I am not that petty to continue this BS, if someone says “hey…we have both engaged in the tit for tat in the past” , which I did, but you refused to do. You were hell bent on painting it as if you had never done it, and I was targeting you unprovoked for no reason. That will never fly with me.

          • Bobbi

            Hahahahahahaha. You won’t get it Shay. You just wasted a lot of hot air. Save it for your next fight. Lol.

          • shayvoe

            You are not a worthy enough opponent to fight with…you bore me. I need an intelligent opponent to make a fight worth my while. You, my dear, are not that person.

          • Bobbi

            Thought you were ready. Lmao You showed up breathing fire and stomping talking about you’re ready. Now, I’m not worthy because I wont fight you.
            Lol. Sad. Remember you said that though. But oh yeah, you also said you don’t phk with me. Bet you’ll come back, lol!

          • shayvoe

            Only to laugh at you…you are amusing, if nothing else. In a child like sort of way.

          • Bobbi

            I left this post for Bette and I think you need to read it again as well. It characterizes your conduct since we have known you right up to today. What you and Bette did today is what you have done to Champ since forever but, I am not bothered because I’ve experienced this all before. I’ll leave this post with you. It is appropriate because they are not my words but are the words of the person you two claim to respect. Also, because they cosign everything I have ever said to and about the both of you.

            There is no way to separate her words from mine. If I am a liar then so is this poster and we both know she is not. Enjoy.

            GetReal2014  Bobbi  3 days ago

            I know. That’s the weird thing. There has never been a reason for this silly conflict. We were all friendly initially, and it was just me and you, not Champ. Champ wasn’t even in the picture. She came towards to the end of our time on the other site. To try to depict The Champ as a troublemaker and a chit starter is outrageous. If anything, Champ has always tried to be a bridge. I knew that was a mistake. The bottom line is that we liked Kenya and some people couldn’t, or wouldn’t accept that.

            I believe the attempt to separate me from the “group” was simply an ineffective divide and conquer tactic. No way have any of us ever gone after posters, called them a gang or chastised them in any way. These false claims need to cease. It’s a problem if posters like Kenya. It’s a problem if posters don’t talk to them, it’s a problem if you don’t respond. It’s a problem if you do respond. WTH, is a poster supposed to do if they like Kenya?

            No matter what you do conflict comes from the other side. I don’t see how anyone can justify their actions when we specifically did not post to them in order to stop the chaos. Even that didn’t work. Then, we were a gang running up and down the boards getting mad at other posters. Now you know darn well that didn’t happen.

            I wanted this nonsense to be over because it is obvious that for the last few months they have been going after Champ relentlessly without reason. You and I both know that Champ isn’t the real “target.” We are, myself included. They went after Champ because they didn’t want to come directly at us. That’s why they pretended to “communicate” with Champ and then draw her in. That’s what happened. I always wished that I could tell Champ not to communicate with them because I knew this would happen. But, we don’t have the luxury of telling each to read our emails, etc.

            These people are connected and know each other and their agenda is as plain as day. Only an idiot wouldn’t see through it. Trying to make nice wasn’t going to help.

            Everyone who has posted with us has been singled out and ridden like a pack mule, all because of their association with us. And so have many former Kenya fans. The agenda is clear. It has been from the beginning. You can go back to the first day that I came and see what happened. They converged on me like vultures, so spare me trying to get me to believe that I am not a target as well. I know exactly what’s up. always did.

          • shayvoe

            OMG…are you still at it? Sorry I am just now seeing this, but I have a life and family outside of this board, and a husband who took me to dinner. I have lost interest in your rantings, and I don’t want to ruin an otherwise lovely evening, so I didn’t read your post. I’m sure it was just more of the same nonsense you have been spewing for almost a week now and I’ve heard it all before, ad nauseum.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You believe that delusional crab in a barrel is still trying to come for us after it is obvious she got handed her ass like a week ago?!?
            The 3 faces of Eve has truly come undone. We don’t have to post anything else. Talk about making a complete ass of herself. LMAO!!🤣😜😂

          • shayvoe

            Refresh you screen.

          • Bobbi

            Hahahaha!

          • shayvoe

            You’ve finally gone round the bend….what is funny about that? Good lawd chile….get a grip.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Listen very carefully… that is the sound of the world’s smallest violin playing just for you. Yawn!!🎻

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            BAHAHAHA!! You proved what again, now?!?
            You need to quit while you are ahead. Everyone is leaning towards I may not like you but we can coexist & her goes Bobbi, still trying to make the last two days about her.
            Stop being a buffoon. No one was referring, thinking or worried about you. Still… two days later… no one cares. Move on. Save it for the next ATL thread.

          • Bobbi

            Again, short memory. This isn’t about what I proved. It’s about what you could NOT prove. You could not prove the lies you told about me on THIS thread.
            I’m already ahead. You can name call all you like. It doesn’t make you look any better.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Bobbi proved what now again?!? Bette could not prove what now?!?
            You are carrying on like a petulant child. Not a good look on anyone over the age of 13.
            Everyone is so over it. Trust & believe if you exposed me(BDE1) it would be funny but mean very little.
            Don’t give up your day job because this SM shyt will never pay the bills. ROTFLMAO

          • Bobbi

            None of these insults change the fact that you lied Bette. Sorry.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Girl you tired. You are clearly obsessed with me.
            It’s so embarrassing. Don’t you feel embarrassed?!? If not. You should.

          • Bobbi

            You should be embarrassed about lying and accusing people of things you cannot prove. Are you? I have all day too Bette. I’ll make time for you.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Yeah right. Why would I be embarrassed about lying when it never happened?!?
            You should be embarrassed because you are making a fool of yourself over a complete stranger for everyone to see.
            You’ve lost it. But you don’t even have enough sense to quit while you’re ahead. LMAO!!

          • Bobbi

            I’m never embarrassed to defend myself against a lies. You lied. Again. I’ve got time.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            The proof is in the pudding. Anyone that has been on this thread for any length of time can refer to all of your nasty posts. I don’t have to pull them up.
            You are a menace. Just STFU or go back to talking to your alter egos. We all know you are the same person pretending to be 3.

          • Bobbi

            No, this is between you and I.
            You continue to try and include others, why? Is it because your own words have no basis in fact? Is this why you are calling for others to verify your lies? These were YOUR accusations. Don’t ask others to verify YOUR accusations. Why can’t YOU prove what YOU accused me of?

            You post is a classic example of what you have always done Bette. You lose ground and then you resort to name calling and foul language. All of this because you cannot admit you should never have made those false statements. All I have asked you to do is prove it. You could not do that but, unfortunately you have proven you are a nasty person and it is all right here for all to read. Smh.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            YAY!! The gang’s all here. Bette riding solo but is called a gang.
            All while I have been juggling two of you with the greatest of ease.
            Bobbi, just chillax & let the healing process begin.
            You are the gang member that arrives after the rumble & tries to get your licks in. LMAO!! It’s over.

          • Bobbi

            What healing when you can’t even admit you lied? Please, What a joke.

            I don’t know who you are referring to as “the two of you” The only person I know of who is posting to you is me. You always like to include others but this is between you and I. You’d like to characterize this as a fight because it fits the narrative you like to push. For me it is about the lies you told. You are dishonest and as well as disingenous and now I must move on because the one who lied wants to sweep her lies under the rug? Ha!
            .

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Yes!! Yes!! Bobbi doesn’t want any form of a truce. It doesn’t fit in her agenda.
            I have been trying to make amends with GetReal. I have tried to say, you know what?!? We don’t like one another but let’s leave one another alone with The Champ.
            I even tried to tell you multiple times that I didn’t want to bring up your name because you had nothing to do with my posts. Yet, here you are, keeping the BS going.
            You are acting like a fool & im embarrassed because I’m acting like a fool right along with you.
            Bobbi… you are a day late & a dollar short. Everyone is over it but you. The one that had nothing to do with it in the first place. SMDH

          • Bobbi

            Who are “the 3” you referenced in your posts then Bette? Can we clear that up because before today, “the 3” was Myself, GetReal and Champ. You have already stated you were not speaking of GetReal. Now, you weren’t talking about me? Then who are “the 3?”. Can we clear this up once and for all?

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Anyone else?!? When has BDE1 lied?!?
            At this point, everyone has read all the posts that have gone on for three days at this point… anyone else can pinpoint the BDE1 lie that Bobbi keeps referring to…
            Bette lied on Bobbi when she posted… I’ll wait…
            Time for the real instigating, manipulating fraud to be put on blast once & for all…
            It won’t shut her up or make her admit she is a phony but let’s do this… long over do…

          • Bobbi

            Your conversations with GetReal were about “the 3” and anyone who reads this board regularly knows exactly who “the 3” are and have always been according to you and some others. You made some very specific accusations against “the 3”.

            You say I am lying on you but I posted your actual comments with those accusations along with their time stamps for you. Where did I lie?

            Since you seem to have amnesia I will recall again your accusations: You stated you could name posters that we have ganged up on.  You stated we excluded any & everyone that did not agree or follow us. You called us a gang, and stated the 3 of us only wanted to talk to ourselves & snapped on anyone that responds to us. Interestingly enough, you then made it a point to assure GetReal over and over that she never did these things and was not like the other two. I came along and read these very serious accusations and asked you to prove where I had done any of these things and you could not. You could not prove them Bette because those things you stated are lies.

            Am I supposed to be OK with your lies about me simply because you told them 3 days ago? I will never be OK with you spreading lies about me whether you told them 5 secs ago or 5 years. When I see them I will call you out.
            You don’t accuse people of the things you did without being able to prove them, what about that do you not understand? Then you tell me to move on and try to make me feel guilty about wanting to clear my name because the thread is 3 days old and everyone has read all the posts.. What do I care? I won’t let untruths stand about me. I don’t care who has moved on.

            We have a history that has not been positive. You have made it a point to say very often that I along with some others behave poorly on this board. So when you make accusations against my character that are false that is a serious problem for me.

            You then ask me to chillax and let the healing begin? That is insulting to me. In asking me to move on, you are attempting to make light of and brush under the rug those accusations you have made on this thread against me. In essence, you want me to let the untruths you recited about me stand on this board and walk away and I won’t do that. Asking me to move along without correcting those untruths is cowardly. You don’t make false statements about someone and tell that person to let the healing begin without first acknowledging the wrong.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Let’s hug it out, GetReal2014…
            we rent a party bus & any HW fans in the greater NY area can go from Kenya’s husband’s restaurant to NYC & hit up the restaurants featured on the HWNY.
            How does that sound?!? We would have a ball.🥂👯💃🏻🍾🎉

          • GetReal2014

            I have no problem with that. I’m not about conflict. I despise it.

            NY? Never been there. Everyone says you should go, but it looks too busy and congested to me.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Oh yes!! It’s the city that never sleeps. You have to do NYC at least once. Time Square, Chelsea Piers, Central Park…
            Kenya’s husband’s place is literally 30 mins from Manhattan & right at the end of the Brooklyn & Mahattan Bridges is the Marriot. So you could walk out of the hotel & walk across the Bklyn Bridge.
            You seem to have some spice in you. NYC at the right time of year would be right up your alley. LOL!!

          • GetReal2014

            There’s no spice in me. I’m too lazy to travel. Anything over twenty minutes is a bore. Packing, unpacking, airlines, renting cars? Too much of a chore. I just like to chill. Being in a hotel and having someone else clean up is heaven to me.

            Were you born there? If so, it’s strange that you would love it so much.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You are preaching to the choir right now. I am the laid back, let’s get everything we need & just chillax kind of a girl.
            For business purposes, I’m all about the hustle & bustle of NYC. If you aren’t from here, let’s say from the south, no I do not think it is appealing. Cool place to visit but to live?!? Never.
            I love it like I am from another country. The Mary Tyler Moore type “You’re Gonna Make It After All!!” attitude. LOL!!
            The only place that I felt this way about is NOLA. Walking down Bourbon Street. So what does that say about me?!? Rhetorical question.

          • GetReal2014

            Not from the South, but from what I see NY doesn’t seem appealing to me. I like a laid back culture and when I see footage of NY and people everywhere like ants, traffic all over the place, hustle and bustle, it gives me the shivers. Plus, the fact that people seem to be able to do anything and the people don’t bat an eye or pay it any attention doesn’t sit right with me.

            I like a mixture of fast and slow. My favorite vacation places have been Myrtle Beach, the Bahamas, Plattsburgh, Canada, etc. Just enough activity if I want to do something but not constant movement. New Orleans is a turn off to me too from what I’ve seen.

            It sounds like you’re adventurous and like excitement.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You make an excellent point about NY. Over crowding & a whole lot of crazy. No denying that.

  • BetteDavisEyez1

    BAHAHAHA!! The wheels on the bus go round & round.