‘Is This fake?’ Kandi Burruss Blindsided By #RHOA Kenya Moore’s Sudden Marriage & Questions Is It Real!

Posted on Jul 13 2017 - 9:37am by Avigail

Kenya Moore went public with her sudden marriage in June — much to the surprise of her Real Housewives of Atlanta co-stars.

READ: #RHOA Kenya Moore Using New Husband To Negotiate Big #RHOA Paycheck?


The former Miss USA did not invite or inform any of her RHOA co-stars to her top-secret St. Lucia wedding and upon hearing the news of the nuptials on social media, her co-star Kandi Burruss, naturally assumed Kenya was faking it.

“I called [Kenya] when I saw it online, I was like, ‘Um, are you really married? Is this fake or is this real?'” The mother-of-two told Life & Style while laughing. “And she was like, ‘Yeah, I got married.'”

"What therefore God hath joined together, let no man put asunder."

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CLICK: #RHOA Kenya Moore Talks New Husband At The Essence Festival!


Kandi
isn’t the only one feeling blindsided by Kenya, 46, tying the knot – the Xscape songstress explains why RHOA producers and fans are upset at Moore for keeping them out of the loop!

“You have to understand that, [producers] would want us to see her get married or to see her find true love,” she explained.

“You know, our fans, they’ve been with us through our highs and our lows, and if they miss out on a moment like that… people are going to hate that they didn’t get to see it because you saw the crazy side, you want to see the happy side too.”

#baeday

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To add insult to injury, Kenya reportedly does not want her husband, Marc Daly, on the show and doesn’t want any video or photos from her wedding to be used on RHOA. Understandably, that seriously handcuffs show producers as far as her storyline for next season. As a result, production has issued the former Miss USA an ultimatum — chronicle your new marriage or breach your contract.

Additionally, Moore’s new man objects to the portrayal of African-American men on the reality series and declines to be apart of a show that has made his wife a millionaire.

The mom of two also reveals that while she knew Kenya was in a relationship, she never met Daly — and was unaware a rush to the altar was in the works. 

“I had not met him in person but I knew about him,” Kandi said of her now-husband, Marc Daly. “She talked to me about him. I knew she was in a relationship and that she was happy. I did know that. But I didn’t know she was going to get up and get married, but I am happy for her.”

Only time will tell if Mr. Twirl will prance his way onto our television screens in November. Stay tuned.

 

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  • shayvoe

    Well how about that. Even Kandi acknowledges that producers are pissed at Kenya. Weren’t some saying that could not possibly be true and the show couldn’t dictate to her what to do in her personal life, she signed a contract so they can’t fire her…. blah, blah, blah, while most of us were saying Bravo can do whatever they want? If she does not have her husband on this show, she will either have a tiny little role this season, or be fired. She has pulled these stunts one too many times and they are fed up. Her games have caught up with her and it’s long overdue. Bye Ashy!!

    • SpiceGirl

      roflmao at the BYE ASHY……

    • ALegWithWings

      It’s very telling that Kandi asked Kenya “is this fake or is this real?” When you have to ask your own friend/acquaintance/coworker if a major life event is fake or real, you know they are fraudulent af!

  • charma

    This article is so shady!
    But Kandi only said she questioned at first but took Kenya’s confirmation later.
    Also, whether or not her new husband actually said those things hasn’t been confirmed and neither has Bravo threatening to fire her. Those are internet rumors, not yet proven.

    • shayvoe

      Kandi works for Bravo…she knows they are pissed and said so in the article. The producers talk to the cast….the cast knows what is going on.

    • The Champ

      For Kandi to sit up there and let that bullsh*t fly out of her mouth is foolish. She knows d@mn well how much hate Kenya gets on the regular. Why couldn’t she congratulate the couple and wish them all the best, minus the shady comments. Kandi has shown that she will sell her soul for a bravo paycheck. But these ignorant azz women want to shame Kenya for taking a stand? That’s why the network exploits them and pays them less than half what they’re worth. Kandi got her spin-off, so she’s good. She wouldn’t dare back her fellow sista, like Kenya did her. Let all their azzes stay mad, for nothing. Makes no sense.

    • Bobbi

      Lol, truth. Kandi’s conclusion is all that matters though (in this article)…. and that is, Kenya is happily married. Bravo might be mad but, they can’t do a dang thing about it. Proof is, Kenya is filming. Everything else is just noise.

      • GetReal2014

        Absolutely.

    • GetReal2014

      You’re right, and that’s why Kenya’s fans are not bothered. She did it her way and that’s good enough for me.

  • Athena Panagakos

    I met my husband and 30 days later I married him. That was 9 years ago but I’m not on a reality show…so….

    • The Champ

      It happens all the time, ppl are just angry bcuz it’s Kenya. Why would anybody be upset when or how she finds true love? And the whole notion that she lies, Really? They didn’t get this upset about this past season unlawful, defaming lie. Which was the biggest lie in rhoa history. I’ve never seen so many ppl bothered by a woman’s marriage b4, but it’s Kenya.

      • GetReal2014

        I’m sure Kenya doesn’t care. When you do the right things you always stand alone. There’s not that many stand up people in the world, so I get it.

    • Bobbi

      …..Reminds me of a quote from one of my favorite poets/philosophers…..

      “It is wrong to think that love comes from long companionship and persevering courtship. Love is the offspring of spiritual affinity and unless that affinity is created in a moment, it will not be created in years of even generations.” Kahlil Gibran.

      • Athena Panagakos

        Wow, that is so beautiful and very poignant.😍

        • Bobbi

          Yes, I love it too and believe it.

          • GetReal2014

            So do I, and that would’ve been the same reason that I wouldn’t have shared it with known vultures.

      • GetReal2014

        Oh my goodness. I love the Prophet Gibran. Deep, philosophical words to live by.

        I’ve never read that quote, but that’s exactly how I view marriage. I don’t agree with the circus that it’s become. Many people focus more on the ceremony than what marriage really means.

        Spiritual affinity is tops on the list for me, and longevity in a relationship isn’t. Sometimes you just know.

        • Bobbi

          I’m just seeing this but Yes! My fiance’ and I both love Gibran.
          It’s true, marriage really has become a circus. I love a beautiful wedding but some of those I see online – especially the ceremony itself –
          become more ridiculous and embarrassing by the minute. It has turned into a total spectacle. I can almost guarantee those individuals spent more time planning that circus style wedding than they did contemplating the actual principles and essential character of marriage and or even their partners needs.

          I admire what Kenya did and her actions were one of a woman who values and is reverent of the institution of love and marriage – something she has earnestly wanted for a long time. It shows she does not take the gift of love for granted or wish to make a spectacle of it. A woman of Kenya’s position and means could have chosen to have a big blowout wedding but her actual union with her husband to be was more important to her.

          These obsessed folk are up in this chile’s marriage, her womb, hail they’ve even tried to get into her house even though they have attempted to nullify all 3. Why should she share something so important with those fools? Now that she is married, I hope when she does throw her big celebration, she pulls out all the stops and really give folks who ride her —–something to talk about.
          That’s how I’ve always planned to do it. Destination style with celebration after. Even when you plan in advance, not all your loved ones will be able to make a destination wedding. A celebration after is perfect imo. It’s the best of both worlds.

          • GetReal2014

            I’m glad you brought that up. I shared some of his works with my son and we had a long, philosophical discussion about Gibran. Previously, I had shared the poem about children with him, but it had been a while. That’s one of my favorites. A co-worker introduced me to Gibran many years ago, and it was before I had my son, but that poem always stuck with me and it is my approach to children too.

            My son really got into it. He loved all of his poems and we pretty much agreed with all that the prophet said. He also opened my eyes up about poetry and how creative he felt that poetry was. Ordinarily, if it didn’t rhyme, I didn’t have the time, because I like things pretty straightforward and don’t always want to think about it. But, listening to him expound on its merits gave me a new outlook.

            I agree wholeheartedly about how marriage is perceived in this day and time. So much focus is on being validated, making a big show about and so many people don’t seem to think beyond that.

          • Bobbi

            Children is a beautiful poem isn’t it? It makes me a bit melancholy for some reason but, If every parent lived by it, parent/ child relationships would be so much easier.
            He really had a gift. I can’t say enough about this poet.

            I have the book The Prophet, your poem is taken from. Also, the quote I posted came from Broken Wings – a beautiful story written by Gibran of his first love.
            I also have a gazillion quotes on tap from other works of his that I often peruse.

            It was after reading this poem on “Giving” that I wanted to know everything about him: (an excerpt)

            “You often say, “I would give, but only to the deserving.”
            The trees in your orchard say not so , nor the flocks in your pasture.
            Surely he who is worthy to receive his days and nights is worthy of all else from you.
            And he who has deserved to drink from the ocean of life deserves to fill his cup from your little stream. See first that you yourself deserve to be a giver , and an instrument of giving.
            For in truth it is life that gives unto life-while you , who deem yourself a giver , is but a witness.”

            This is just an excerpt, but this just resonates with my soul….Gibran gives voice to what I have knowledge of but cannot put into words. I could talk about him forever.

            PS. I have other favorites like Langston Hughes whose writings about life are full of metaphors and are beautifully introspective. His words draw pictures and make me dream but, when it comes to philosophy of the human condition as it relates to spirituality, Gibran is my #1.

            One of my faves from Langston Hughes is: Mother To Son. Have you read that? I can’t take a thing from Langston Hughes….. Love him too.

          • GetReal2014

            Yes, I love that poem (Children) and I tucked it away even before I had my son. Previously, I used it to mentor my nieces and nephews and others’ children. It is beyond beautiful.

            I used to have The Prophet Gibran’s book as well as books by Langston Hughes and Bernice McFadden my favorite contemporary author. I cannot find them in the house and it breaks my heart because I will have to replenish all of my faves for about the second or third time. Books like that I can read over and over.

            Yes, we read about six poems that night and discussed them, Giving was one. After my son left I did some research on Gibran. I was so impressed. His words are beautiful and the messages so spiritual. What a life of enlightenment he must’ve led. To be able to write like that is mind-boggling.

            Of course, Langston is amazing as well. I’m more than familiar with Mother To Son, but I’ll have to pull that one out to tell my son about it. I remember reading Langston as a teenager and I used to love his stories about Jesse B. Semple. They are so funny and insightful.

            And what about James Baldwin? I actually cried reading his prose. How someone can be so descriptive and spot on is simply amazing. I’m glad you brought this subject up. I have a lot of ordering to do.

          • Bobbi

            Yep. What Kenya did was a clear signal to her castmates that she saw them for who they really are. She has always reached out for friendships with these women (except Porsha) and because she has received so much hate from viewers, they bought into that and misread her as the one looking for a hand out. I believe they felt their conclusions of her were her reality and that their images of her held some form of power over her life just as many viewers do.. Its why they so easily dismiss and disregard her.
            The gall of people to speak on your life and say what you will never be or do out of hate. And people actually believe that bullchit they say or let idiots convince them it’s true. They literally think they can write this woman’s destiny. It amazes me.

            Well, Kenya showed them. They thought her lack of a partner was their “hold” on her and validated what they tried to speak into her life as well as their fantasy of superiority over her but many are left eating their words and conclusions.
            An invite doesnt gaurantee you mean something to a bride but when you are NOT invited to a wedding, you can tick that question off the list for sure.
            You are not important. Bottom line. Now these bishes know she can take or leave ’em. She doesn’t need chit from them. Goodness knows she tried because that is what all decent people do. But there is a cutoff.
            She basically said, I like you but you are only coworkers because that is all you are worthy of. Oh, she’ll treat them just the same as she always has but now they know what they mean to her. “Not much biches” (in my Dorinda voice and hand gesture). LOL

          • GetReal2014

            It was a clear signal of who and what they meant to her. The nerve of them to think that they had the power to affect her psyche and make her subservient to their will. That’s why Kenya never gangs up on others with them, because she knows how fragile their “friendships” are from season to season. Kenya is not Cynthia or Kandi, looking for acceptance and validation from people who treat you like sh*t, and are themselves empty vessels.

            Screw that “abandonment” nonsense. Many people grew up with an absent parent and that didn’t make them psychotic or lacking emotional stability. If that was the case, everyone who grew up in a nuclear family would be well healthy and well-adjusted even if the house was filled with strife and abuse. People really need to think more and actually look at life. If they did they would see that the most important quality any person has is their strength of character.

            Not one of those women have the strength that Kenya has. None of them would’ve been able to handle the negativity and scrutiny she has received from all angles, even from people she has done NOTHING to, those who jumped on the bandwagons and tried to take her down for no reason. Nene’s azz couldn’t even handle Claudia. Her azz was losing it over a small tiff. Not to mention she always needs an alliance to get her shit over, and then taking the “high road” when the other person doesn’t back down.Kandi’s crying whenever anyone puts any heat under her azz, and Cynthia’s just an azz kisser that doesn’t want none, in any way, shape, or form.

            It takes incredible mental and emotional strength to handle the negative onslaught of others on a daily basis without breaking down. Instead Kenya has achieved in spite of it. That is a result of her upbringing and the love of her family. She has a strong family unit starting with her dad, grandmother, Aunt Lori, Che and others. That’s way more than many people have. Where is Nene’s strong support system? Or Phaedra’s? Porsha has leeches pimping and prostituting her azz so that they don’t have to get a job.

            She didn’t take any of those nasty, disrespectful hags into her confidence. With that non-invite she let them their importance in her life. And Kandi is a damn fool. Did she think that Kenya trusted her implicitly when we all saw how she went along with the BS as long as it wasn’t directed at her? That shows you right there how flimsy her definition of friendship is. If Kandi was blindsided it shows you how dumb she really is. Didn’t MJ and Carmon try to tell her forever that Phaedra wasn’t her friend?

  • The Champ

    Really Kandi? WTH is it any of your d@mn business anyways. All your azz had to do is answer the question w/o all the bs and shade. And, who’s fans are upset? Not #teamtwirl, we respect our girls decision to have privacy. You must be speaking of the nasty azz vultures who live to tear this beautiful sista down, they’re the ones that are bothered. You know how shady production can be, they allowed F&F to hang your azz out to dry, Kandi. Kenya even rode for you the entire season. Wow, I haven’t heard you mum a word about the ones who shamed your azz, including KimZ. Kenya girl, if you’re reading this, #teamtwirl rides for you, no matter what. And watch Kandi’s Michael Jordan lookin azz, she’s been riding Nene’s azz as of lately. Keep an eye out for those two. 👀👀 F’k production, if they really cared about your happiness, they would respect your wishes. Don’t listen to Kandi Coonin Nights, they played her azz like a simp, especially Andy 😮😯 “who said dat?”

    • Bobbi

      That’s what I’m saying. Kenya’s fans sure aren’t mad at the prospect of not seeing Marc on the show so who does that leave? Lol. Mostly the folks who want to throw stones at her marriage or hype it as a reason to fire her are pushing for his appearance.
      Kandi doesn’t know what the hail she’s talking about. Don’t expect common sense from her. You will surely be disappointed.

      • The Champ

        Chiiile, Kandi no d@mn well many of the viewers don’t wish Kenya well. Hell, Kenya has had her comments turned off for weeks now, due to the hate fueled rants. Team twirl is over the moon about the happily married couple. We don’t give a d@mn if she chooses not to film her marriage. She must be talking about the ones who wish ill will on Kenya and now Marc. Those are the ones who are pissy about it all. Who is Kenya hurting in all of this? Nobody. I didn’t see this many folks go hard on F&F, they felt sorry for them fools and the Tucker’s were the victim’s. It just goes to show you how corrupt and f’ed up the world is, when folks rally behind criminal acts/intent. The thing is, I always knew what it was when it came to Kandi, she’s gutter butt. But, Todd tries to bring out the best in her and it seems to work at times. But, deep down we can never forget who she chose to align herself with in the beginning. That speaks volumes to her character.

        • Bobbi

          Girl, I just stated the same. I root for Kandi’s success but she will never be regarded as trustworthy. Her affiliation with Phaedra and Porsha sealed that. My opinion regarding that has never changed.

          • The Champ

            You know it, that Michael Jordan reference is an old one of mine. I’m sure you’ve heard me say it several times before 😂😂 I’ve NEVER been a fan of Kandi’s and neither have you or GetReal. Now I’m sure a few will get on her bus now that Kenya’s involved. The same ones that think #p*ssygate was good for ratings, yeah that part. The difference is, I stand by my words, Kandi and Todd didn’t deserve that, period. She is one “helluva” business woman at that, and me not being a fan of hers won’t change that fact. Ppl need to mind their own opinions. If they don’t like it, why use my verbiage? Makes no sense, but then again……………..Nevermind

          • Bobbi

            Girl, you don’t have to justify your opinions to anyone. Let them make this thread about your posts and let’s keep posting about the show. It just shows how bothered they are. You have not referenced them once. Let them knock themselves out talking about you. I think that chit is hella weak.

          • The Champ

            You’re Right Bobbi, they’ve proved themselves once again. Never let’s me down, always proving me right. It is weak, ( googles gang mentality). I thought it was a post about rhoa anyways. Now let’s commence to chatting about the show. Thanks girl 😊😊

          • Bobbi

            You got it, Champ. You can already tell this season is going to be interesting and all over the anticipation of Kenya’s marriage. Bravo had better thank their lucky stars they have Kenya. No one would be mentioning this show if it weren’t for her. All this talk only solidifies Kenya’s contract and a raise. Lol Kenya aint out buying cars because her job is in jeopardy. Think about it.

          • The Champ

            Right. Everyone knows Kenya gets the most hype. The # of comments prove it. Not one of her castmates spark these kinds of reactions. Ppl step over all the bullsh*t to get at Kenya. And for that reason alone, bravo should be thankful. The constant chatter proves Kenya’s theory, she knows how to bring it. More ppl are talking about the new marriage more than X-scapes reunion spin off, go figure. That car is so freaking cute, have you seen it. I want one 😎😎

          • Bobbi

            Is anyone snapping pictures of the rest of these women on flights, getting into their cars, walking down the street? Are they having articles written about them daily? The answer is no. Did the interviewer ask Kandi about Phaedra, Porsha, Cyn or Sheree? Double no.
            Did any magazine secure a deal with any of these heffas to secure first dibs and exclusive interviews on their weddings? Triple no….
            Need I say more?
            Kenya shook Bravo when she gave People (?) magazine exclusive rights over them. That was a slap in the face and an even bigger one if she makes them pay for Marc. That slap was well deserved.
            I have a feeling this may be her last season so she probably feels she has nothing to lose to demand more. If they want her after this season she needs to make it worth her while to stay.

          • The Champ

            That’s exactly what Bravo is pissed about. Kenya gave People Magazine the exclusive and they broke the story. If you look on Bravo’s main page, all they have is congratulations and the same posts from People Mag. They’re butt azz hurt they didn’t get in on it. I know Kenya will eventually start a family and move on from the circus. She always has a plan. Marc is a business man and could care less about rhoa. Look at what he’s up against. He hasn’t done a thing to warrant such hate, all bcuz he married the beautiful Kenya Moore. It’s a cruel, ugly world and it’s not worth risking your peace and happiness for any amount of money. I sure hope she walks after her contact ends.

          • Bobbi

            All truth. Stand in line and get in where you fit in. From a business standpoint I get why they wanted the story but those mf’s never gave her a good edit – they always come at her from a position of mockery so to hail with em. I personally wouldn’t do it, no matter what they offered me but, If she does, she needs to make them pay.

          • The Champ

            Exactly, no way Bravo has ever had any of these women’s best interest in mind. Why would Kenya let them make a mockery of her marriage? Which is supposed to be one of the best days of your life. No way would I have done it either, f’ck that. Kenya has proven in the off season that she’s buzzworthy. Why not pay her accordingly, the others are barely mentioned. And they don’t get half the action Kenya does.

          • GetReal2014

            Truth.

          • GetReal2014

            True dat.

          • GetReal2014

            I hope she leaves too. Whatever will the others do? Oh yeah, turn on each other for the hell of it. That’s always been their M.O.

          • GetReal2014

            You’re right, Nene and them are having to generate their own publicity and even at that it’s not working. But across the blogosphere there has been little to nothing for the last two years. That’s probably another reason they’re mad. Jealous wenches.

          • GetReal2014

            I haven’t seen much on Xscape’s reunion spin off either. I guess no one cares. I don’t know their music as I don’t listen to secular music or hardly any music at all. Music is just noise to me.

            But put something about Kenya up, and the comments just keep coming.

          • The Champ

            Kandi was on GMA the other day and she spoke about the new X-scape reunion and bravo camera’s filming their journey on the road. I love the group’s music, they have some beautiful songs. Kenya is the talk of the town ain’t she. Andy, if you’re reading this, uncross your eyes and take note🤓🤓 Kenya keeps the viewers engaged and talking, love her, hate her.

          • GetReal2014

            Kandi has never been anyone I would keep up with. The only person I’m interested in is Kenya. I have never watched a show that they’re on outside of WWHL, but I don’t even watch that anymore.

            I’ve never thought the others were interesting enough to warrant my time or attention. Even when Kandi was on The Real I didn’t watch it. I don’t think she’s very smart so there’s never been any reason to watch her or them. What’s she going to say but some nonsense? I don’t have time for that.

            I think the other women are idiots so they don’t get my time outside of RHOA. I’ve always been that way.

          • The Champ

            Let’s see, we’ve got Greg & Nay Nay, Kandi, Todd, Cyn, Sherain’t and last and least Poorsha. Yep, I’m rolling with beauty, brains and a fine azz husband, Kenya. Tbh, Kandi is an outstanding business savvy woman and I respect her hustle and grind. But, outside of that, her character is shallow and bland. Money don’t rule my world, so I can see far beyond ones assets. She’s not the kind of woman who carries herself with style and grace. Basically she good at doing business, but her mind doesn’t go past that. I think she uses her money to try and compensate for her low self esteem and her indecent behaviors. She’s got some deep dark secrets she’s struggling with, being freak nasty is a learned behavior, it’s not normal to be that way. IJS………..😞😞 I’m not just talking about Kandi neither, F&F got some hidden demons too. That freaky sh*t they into is abnormal, must be a down south thing, literally 😐😐

          • GetReal2014

            ^100.

            I’m with you, I’m rolling with beauty, brains and a good spirit. I don’t do ghetto rachets, never did, never will.

            I respect Kandi’s hustle, and I respect that she doesn’t start anything either, but that’s as far it goes. She’s an approval seeker and emotionally stunted and that I can’t deal with.

          • The Champ

            Kandi s self worth is at an all time low. She associates money with success and she’s too ignorant to know any better. That’s exactly why her mind doesn’t go beyond her business sense. She has a one track mind and money is her main motivator. She needs to over compensate for her looks and low self esteem. She’s not in any way spiritual or a deep thinker. I’ve never witnessed her having an intellectual conversation. She’s a good business woman and it doesn’t go beyond that.

          • GetReal2014

            That’s true, but it’s OK, because most of the world is that way, so she’ll be fine. The only thing is that she’s not getting any help for it, so she’ll stay miserable no matter how much money she has.

          • The Champ

            And that’s why the world is as f’ed up as it is. Every man for himself attitude. Any thing you can do I can do better type bullsh*t. I am my own biggest competition. There’s always room for improvement, I don’t strive for perfection, but to better myself as a person and show compassion to those who deserve it. I can’t stand how some of our ppl treat one another to uplift themselves. That’s one of the biggest problems in our communities, no unity. These women have a platform to show a different side of that, but choose to tear down an compete against one another. I will call out those type of toxic behaviors and bring awareness to those who care to listen. It’s ridiculous and yes it bothers me to an extent, bcuz it’s my own ppl who are hurting each other and making themselves look bad in the process.

          • Bobbi

            Not yet. IG? Kenya has excellent taste. I already know. Porsha really is going to knock herself out trying to keep up this season. Hahahaha. Poor tink tink.

          • The Champ

            Yeah, I saw it in my feeds.More like stink stink, ya dig! Who knows what Poorsha’s stank azz storyline would be. She’s probably still trying to fool the viewers into thinking she was duped by Creonta. Yeah right, so was Apollo and he still went to jail, go figure. What an idiot.

          • Bobbi

            Hahahaha. Yes, girl. Porsha out here singing The Clark Sisters, “I’m Looking For a Miracle.” Lmao.

          • GetReal2014

            Ha ha ha, that’s my song!

            I was thinking Porsha is more like Teddy Pendergrass’s , “Get up, Get down, Get funky, Get loose. Fits her like a glove. She’s a foul one.

          • Bobbi

            Lol! Yes, it all fits. She’s only looking for a miracle during the off season when she’s trying to find a way to measure up to Kenya come time to film. All the rest of the time she’s down and dirty, funky and loose. Lmao

          • GetReal2014

            Ha ha ha, girl, you know that dirty, stanking heffa is up all night trying to figure out how to copy Kenya. She’s been awful quiet hasn’t she? She doesn’t even show up in my newsfeed anymore.

            Girlie can’t even get any press. The only press I saw was when she had on the bodysuit (yuck) looking like she had ham hocks stuffed in them. I think people are over her. I haven’t seen anyone repping Porsha, anywhere.

          • Bobbi

            None of them can really. I’m interested to see how Porsha handles season 10. I see her all up on Kim Z’s IG along with Marlo. 3 non mf factors that need an alliance to either get or stay on. The sad part is Kim isn’t even acknowledging them. Not in public anyway. She’ll take the alliance but when she dumps them on those empty heads of theirs they won’t even be able to say she played them. Idiots.

          • GetReal2014

            That’s funny. Kim is going to play her dumb azz like a fiddle and Nene, Sheree and Kandi are going to go along with Kim Z. because they’re dirty like that and for whatever reason they seem to love the ground that trashy chick walks on.

            Isn’t that funny how they know their kind? They always welcome that kind of BS. That’s their problem with Kenya. Kenya’s not down for that nonsense, so they think she’s better than them. That’s where the hatred stems from. Think about it, have you noticed that people who can’t think their way out of a wet paper bag always have a problem with those who they think they are accomplished, smart or have it together? That’s what they’re jealous of. They’re incomplete and Kenya reminds them of it. They don’t have chit on her, hence the many lies.

            Gang ups and they’re still losing. Ha ha ha. That will never change.

          • Bobbi

            Exactly. Kenya had the audacity to walk into their circle and claim her beauty, intelligence and fabulousness while they were still trying to convince the public they had their chit together and they couldn’t handle it. As you stated, her shine showed their imperfections and those sea biscuits haven’t been right since.

            They’re still salty going on 6 seasons later….. even those that never filmed with her come back in and head straight for her. Every one. You’ll never convince me they aren’t on a serious hate trip. …..Trying to convince themselves and the viewers that Kenya wants to be them. Not one of them biches coming for her want to be themselves, why would Kenya wish to be them? Never satisfied. Always on a surgeons table. It’s a joke now, these tragic heffas. Too bad there is no surgery to extract hate and jealousy.

          • GetReal2014

            Ha ha ha! “Surgery to extract hate and jealousy.” The surgeons would really be busy if that was possible.

            I agree, that kind of hatred that they’ve shown is not normal. It’s something deep inside of them that they hate about themselves. For one, they know they ain’t chit and they want to tear down anyone whose light reflects that. How is it possible that Kenya can have all of these things while they are in misery?

            The fact that they can’t let the hatred go is your first real clue. Who stays mad at someone who hasn’t done anything to you for that long? Nobody in their right mind. Hate is a heavy burden to carry, so when you put your hate on display on a daily basis it says more about you than your intended target, because you should be able to let chit go. The fact that you can’t shows how damaged you are.

            You can add all the LOLs you want, but your true intentions and the condition of your heart will always outshine the BS you are trying so hard to deny. And others see it too, so you still lose.

          • Bobbi

            Exactly. None of the overt, social niceties mean chit when your wish and intent is to hurt others or even that very person as soon as the opportunity presents itself.

            If there were such a thing surgeons would have a contract right along with these heffas. They’ve got it bad when it comes to Kenya. ….To levels unheard of.

            I hear men say this about women all the time and I have often been defensive and have defended women in general. I grew up with women who support other women’s accomplishments and are comfortable with and can acknowledge and celebrate the beauty of others. My friends are the same way. I chose a career that requires it. But, these women have made me reevaluate what I often hear from men. I am embarrassed by it to be honest.

          • GetReal2014

            Agreed, you can use all the terms of endearment that you want to, but your motives and your agenda is always crystal clear. You can’t be that bent on hatred and hide it, it seeps out of your being, and yes, the levels are unheard of.

            You too? I’ve always defended the cattiness of women and how sneaky and conniving they were supposed to be too, but not anymore. I have SM to thank for opening my eyes that these people do exist. I thought the few people I had seen were bad, but when you see people wishing death, infertility and the destruction of someone’s life, it’s beyond creepy.

            I have a strong group of women around me too. So it’s been hard to reconcile that such people exist, and in droves at that. But it’s true. And based on what? Not one receipt just hearsay.

            I’ve re-evaluated the situation as well. I can’t fool with those kind of people, too much negative energy for me.

          • Bobbi

            Right? SM is certainly an eye opener for sure. Wishing death, destruction and unhappiness for what? A reality show? How can you reconcile that especially when you don’t know or cannot find anything negative in that person’s real life. As you stated…”not one receipt,” but here you are with your list, wishing your hardest to snatch the very breath from that person. . I was just chatting with Champ about this. It is a dangerous seat to be in when you work and set your hands to destroy people and operate from a position of hate. “You reap what you sow.”

          • GetReal2014

            I know, I call it the Social Media Mentality (SMM). I meant to tell you that yesterday. I was on a tennis post and it’s the same d@mn thing. The good guy is painted as bad, and the bad guy is painted as good. And although the evidence is right before their eyes, they allow the commentators to give them their opinion and they repeat their mantras as if it’s the gospel.

            My post was very benign and directed at the powers that be and they viewed it as a slight because I wasn’t going along with the program. The names many of them called me were so outrageous. Who lives with a heart of evil like that? It’s not like I did something to your firstborn, I simply had a different opinion. Are you that unhinged that this is your response? It was crazy.

            Now you know that I kept making my points, but I also pointed out their ignorance as well. Don’t be on SM if you can’t handle it and your response is to cuss someone out. None of this chit is that deep. They were coming in gangs, girl, and I had some spare time. Guess who stopped first? Dumb azzes.

          • Bobbi

            Yeah, its like that all over – on every genre of social media. FB, IG, Twitter, you name it. Sometimes you just have to go there with people. I’ve realized what I should have known all along – everyone who sounds and looks sane isn’t necessarily. When people start to care more about your opinion than they do the topic of discussion, that is a real problem. It is a sign of a serious, psychological weakness. Of course these would be the same people who would passionately and irrationally hate a TV personality or sports figure and everyone connected to them by default. Of course they would be the same people who hate to the point of wishing physical pain and anguish. Of course these would be the same people who would also hate the people who care about the people they hate. It’s really fantastical to me that a person could really work themselves up to that point. You could never convince me these people are operating on a full deck with these totally negative, irrational emotions.

            You mean to tell me you have dang near an entire page or board who share your sentiments and you still care about the few who don’t feel as you do? Tell me that is a rational and mentally, well adjusted person…..

          • GetReal2014

            It’s definitely something psychological going on with people because there is no reason to become so unhinged about people that you really don’t know. You see edited, biased, and many times lies, and you allow that to get you worked up? Why?

            What happened to being able to have a conversation? Why can’t people address the points stated? Instead, many people on SM act like rabid wolves looking to start fights…for entertainment? Because they’re frustrated in real life? To vent?

            And you’ll notice that these kind of people never address what you posted, they come in with a different and antagonistic angle that had nothing to do with what you said? It’s a diversionary tactic intended to anger the poster. But, why would I get angry when you’ve started the discussion by avoiding the post and creating your own brand of dissension? From that initial response it’s easy to see that you’re not seeking understanding, you just want to fight with others.

            I know that anonymity has a lot to do with it, but what security does it give people to finally be able to act like asses? I find it very confusing, namely, what do they get out of being, or trying to be antagonistic?

            And that’s a good point, no matter how many people agree with them, they’re still angry. Don’t ask me to answer why anyone would wish physical harm to another individual that they don’t know. That’s beyond the pale and says more about the person than their intended target.

            Here’s another thing that I noticed. The post was about one tennis player and his fans were salivating over his prowess, but there weren’t that many posts…until someone pointed out how the system had been rigged to accommodate that particular player.

            Well, the floodgates opened and the post went left with a quickness and all of his fans started frothing at the mouth going after the dissenter. Now mind you, no one attacked the player. It was about the organizers of the tournament. Somehow they twisted that to mean that their player was being disrespected and they started hurling insults in rapid fire succession. But it wasn’t comments such as just “you’re stupid” or “you’re a moron,” it was foul, disgusting names like you wouldn’t believe, many of them having to do with the intimate body parts.

            It was almost as if these people were waiting for any time of difference in order to vent their hatred. The post went from twenty-something posts to over a 150 in no time, and of course it was all negative. But again, why? Is that what they were shooting for? Looking for the slightest infraction to vent their anger? Who gets a kick out of this type of anti-social behavior?

            I’m going to do some research on what causes this type of behavior. It’s mind-boggling to me.

          • Bobbi

            Yes, most keyboard warriors would never in real life. Most probably have no voice in their real lives so they feel emboldened to be bad @sses online as they are anonymous.

            There is no coming back from that type of name calling you have described though. People like that are deranged and I would have to give them the floor. They’re all insane, people who can’t tolerate a difference of opinion. There’s just different levels. It’s these folks running around daily spouting sweet nothings with the two personalities that raise red flags for me.
            I’ll let you tell me what you find. I don’t have time or a care to research these loonies. All I need to know is stay farrrrrrr away.

          • GetReal2014

            Oh no, I’m not researching to be able to relate to people like that, I just enjoy understanding how people are, or become that way. What are their motivations? Because it’s just stupid to me.

            I find it both interesting and fascinating that so many people belong to this group. I want to know for me, but I have no intentions of interacting with people who resort to that kind of BS, because it’s unnecessary and IMO goofy. I’m not about to get that riled over some insignificant nonsense that doesn’t affect my life.

            I agree with you too about people being powerless in their own lives and therefore taking liberties under the cloak of anonymity. It’s a trend I’ve seen with women who talk so much crap about how tough they are and then you find out they let their man walk over them. It’s a form of over compensation. For example, Nene is always getting in someone else’s grill but allowing Gregg’s lazy azz to not have a job for ten years, and even when she tried to buy him that barber shop he still refused to work. Now, to me, that’s something that affects my life, so I would have to deal with his trifling azz, getting in someone’s face that doesn’t affect my life is just stupid. Handle your business, your real business instead of letting some old, grizzly looking fool pimp you to death instead of getting gainful employment. #TwistedPriorties.

            Right, when you can’t accept a difference of opinion, get help! Even today a few of them still showed up in my chat room still trying to argue over some chit that’s been over in my mind. I’ve said my piece, accept it or reject it, that’s up to you. If you didn’t understand it from all of my previous posts, too bad, F off, get a life, and go straight to hail, I don’t give a d@mn what you do. I’m through with you, LOL!

          • Bobbi

            I hear you. You’re right though…. Most people aren’t angry about one post- they’ve been reading you like the daily news and have been angry for a while when they finally lose it. Lololol! They may even try to make you see their side for a while but, then out of nowhere, they suddenly come barreling over headfirst to get knocked in the head. Lmao. I can agree to disagree peacefully all day, I love a friendly debate but don’t be rude and don’t harass me. I don’t do it and won’t tolerate it happening to me.

            I find asking those types who keep showing up to argue, not to communicate with me. It is very helpful if I post on a page or board regularly, because when they continue, they just look foolish and weak. Lol. I don’t post regularly on other blog mediums but I can imagine this behavior is the same everywhere. I post on a political blog from time to time but very little. That can get interesting but, these are issues that effect peoples lives so it seems a bit more understandable. Sports and reality shows though, there really is no excuse for such venom.

            I’m all for kumbaya until I find out it’s really not in you and then I simply put you on mute. I figure people out very early. It’s all fun and games until you realize some have real psychological issues and then all bets are off. I won’t worry whether others feel my strategy is harsh – you were nowhere around or you were and simply ignored instances when those individuals were harassing me and others daily for no reason other than a difference of opinion. And trust, those same harassers would still be up to the same nonsense if you didn’t check it.

            Graciousness and reasoning with those types are no longer options for me at that point – I’m done and just want you away from me. Go post over there. Sorry, yes I will shut it down because I know their issues are far deeper than me and a middle does not exist for them. Why let them disrupt your peace when their intentions are not kosher? Any attempt at convincing they want to get along is simply an attempt to silence you.

            Also, some people have a need to identify themselves as victims, i see it on Twitter and blogs mostly where people constantly state, “watch out for so and so” or “don’t come for me” after making a statement they consider controversial, even though “so and so” never shows up to challenge them. Still, there will surely be a codependent
            or fellow victim who will show right up to validate that person’s victim-hood and reassure them they will protect them. Now, THATS one for the books GF. Research and explain that one.

          • GetReal2014

            I agree with all that and honestly? I don’t care. I’m not trying to make peace with someone who doesn’t want peace. Their intentions are well known. If you don’t like what and how I post, don’t read me. Why upset yourself? I see names and scroll on by because I know I’m not interested in whatever they’re saying. I don’t think that gives me carte blanche to “get someone together,” and show others how “tough” I am. The truth is, I don’t give a care what strangers think of me, that’s their prerogative. I don’t know why people get so bent of out shape about trivial chit. It only makes the person look weak.

            LOL @ “reading you like the daily news.” So true, I don’t even know that many posters to even know their stance or their favorites. All I need is to see who you run with. That tells me all I need to know. When I see that I’m not engaging, because your motivations are on fully display.

            I come here to talk to a few select people who are on the same page as me, and those I’m not interested in can carry on. This is supposed to be a fun diversion, not WW III. I don’t have time for the BS.

          • Bobbi

            Totally agree. That is my whole point. It is futile to try and make peace with those who do not want it and yes, – if what I write upsets you so badly -why are you making it a point to read me? I’ll never understand that and I won’t try to. I just know I don’t have time for it. If I can stroll by and keep posting so should you.

            I leave people alone with those type personalities in real life because that’s where the drama is always brewing. Those are always the people in some mess because someone looked at them the wrong way, used a tone they didn’t agree with or said something that didn’t set right….. Always bent out of shape over some trivial mess just as you stated.

            I have this friend since childhood….Smart, funny girl who is so pretty guys would still try and talk to her when she was 9 mos. pregnant lol Down to earth though and people were always drawn to her but she would get you together with a quickness. We both moved away as we got older but still talked on the phone and I would visit when I was in her town. She was a mother to school age kids at this time and so when she lost her job and had trouble finding another, she pretty much stopped looking and settled into being a housewife. She was married to a man who I thought was an @sshole and he began to complain that she wasn’t working. See, this man was a contractor who made well over 6 figures and was always offering people jobs and giving referrals. I used to ask her all the time-why don’t you ask your husband to hire/refer you? She would always say, “he won’t do it.” I never understood it.

            Once during a visit I was helping her with some fabric choices and as she went into the kitchen her husband walked through and made a snide remark about her spending money. As we began to chat I found the perfect opportunity to suggest that he get her a job where he works. He immediately shot that down and cleared up why he resisted bringing her into his work space or around his colleagues. He told me she was always getting into beef with people and he didn’t want to risk his business relationships. Now, this girl will give you the shirt off her back- a good person but, as I began to think about it, she was always telling me a story about how someone had done her wrong in some way and yes, she was always into some form of disagreement – not the fighting kind but always a victim in some regard and I often found myself talking her through social situations. I couldn’t even debate him. He was still an @sshole but, I knew he was right about this. I had simply learned how to navigate that side of her personality but I’m sure many were perplexed at how they got caught up into problems with her. She wasn’t always wrong but the way she handled those situations often could have been resolved differently.

            At least my friend was a good person and could be reasoned with but folks don’t have time to always coddle and parse words with people who are always in their feelings about some slight they perceive has been done to them. These types can roll through, speak their mind and hurt everyone else’s feelings but are the first to be offended by others. Pretty soon you are going to start avoiding that person.

            Now, give that personality to someone who insists on speaking their mind regarding others but always crying foul over a comment…. Mad at you over an opinion and acting out over it, yet insisting they want peace….. Disingenuous about their own actions that are easily proven. Those issues cannot be reconciled because what they do and what they want are polar opposites. You’re always going to clash with someone like that because they will always find a problem and will always have a need to let you know how they feel….One way or another. Trying to find common ground is lunacy because they want YOU to operate differently while they continue being the same. That’s why I throw up my hands and resort to live and let live mode. I’m grown and can be cool with your opinion and whatever you care to express. 9 times out of 10 I wont even see it for the same reasons you outlined. Just don’t bring it to me.

          • GetReal2014

            It’s so simple, isn’t it? If you don’t like someone’s opinion, don’t keep reading them. Why read them and then complain? That’s just starting chit for the sake of starting chit.

            That’s their M.O., they don’t want peace, they want havoc and destruction. They delight in creating division and strife, but even worse they want to involve others in their personal vendettas. What’s sad is that the ones that they manipulate are the ones who do their dirty work, it’s never the ringleader. This is stuff we should’ve learned as children, but it’s still working on adults who want approval and are afraid to be on the outs.

            Why are you complaining about people who aren’t even posting to you? They don’t initiate posts, try to avoid you, but you insist on interacting, not in a healthy way, because you can’t build anything positive on a foundation of negativity, name calling and taunting. So the questions becomes, WTF do you want, besides trouble? Your motivations are clear.

            People like that live for drama, dissension and destruction. So, this tennis player won yesterday, you would think that with all of the fussing, cussing and acting out that they did before the match, they’d be happy and satisfied. Right? Wrong!

            Very few people posted about his milestone win. You know why? Because there weren’t any non-fans there for them to rail against. 24 hours later these posts have 17 comments, but if someone doesn’t agree with them the post will easily have over 150 in no time at all. Posts full of cursing, insults, and nonsense like that. It proves the theory of frustrated people getting on SM to vent over the futility that they face on a daily basis. They were like ravenous wolves waiting for someone to post anything that they could twist and get their agenda out there, but no one bit, so the like B.B. King said, “The Thrill is Gone.” How sad is that?

          • Bobbi

            You couldn’t have stated this better! Yes, we know this is most definitely a character trait for people who are miserable & angry as hail and have no voice in life. There must be a mold for that personality. Some folks don’t come alive unless they can argue about something or tear someone down. Peace is and was never on their agenda. When there is no one to fight with or their targets are not around to witness their chit throwing they’re on empty.

            I can chat with you and Champ on a post all alone for many days even after everyone else has lost interest. It is not everyone’s style of posting but it is a sure sign that your purpose is not confusion. These personalities you speak of are the same internet wide. Some have learned that fighting will not end well with you but their motivation to post is the same and it is the same MO all over. They don’t care about their faves – if they did they would be extolling the accomplishments and virtue of the subjects they support and the comments over there would be higher just as you stated. It is transparent for sure when you show up already caring about a poster more than the subject being discussed. The comments and/or attacks are a dead giveaways. Without a perceived adversary they fizzle out.
            Excellent, Excellent post.

          • GetReal2014

            Thanks, Bobbi.

            I was surprised to see the parallels. These fans of the tennis star have very little to say…until someone disagrees with them. Then they become rabid and will post for days just to insult you. But, when no one says anything that they can jump on, it’s as you said, they’re empty.

            It’s like they’re looking for chaos and confusion, because it’s not logical to care about what another person posts. That is mind-blowing. No one is picking on you. Well adjusted people don’t go around jumping on others with dissenting opinions. It doesn’t make sense. If someone having a different opinion bothers you that much, you should know that YOU have a probey
            And if you get to the point that you’re cussing someone out, you need help in the worst kind of way, as do the people who support your sick outbursts. Something is very wrong when you get bent out of shape because people are voicing their opinions on a public board. It’s getting to the place where they need therapists on SM, because there’s a lot of money to be had.

            And just as I expected. Their tennis guy won, and the comments are sparse. That’s because there’s no one to argue with. You would think that they would be happy and extolling the virtues of their champion, but without the ability to rub it in others faces they are deflated. I had never noticed it to this extent, but now…

            It has to be powerless and angry people who behave this way. Many people are not on SM to discuss issues, but to create dissension. It’s really sad.

          • Bobbi

            Yep. And these types know what exactly who they are. It’s why they are always crying foul. They need something to hide behind – something to give them cover so they can continue to shoot their shots and all the other bs they do.

            Funny how good people rile bad people up so. Lol
            I don’t know a lot about Rafa but, of all the times I’ve ever seen him he is as gracious a loser as he is a winner. Many athletes find it difficult to be gracious in either instance.
            Oddly, I really get into the games when I watch them but I don’t watch until the big games and when I do it’s because my fiance’ is a fan and keeps up. I do watch with him occasionally.

            One of the times that stood out to me about Rafa was several years ago when he got booed by the spectators. I think he may have been injured and stopped the game a couple times. He lost that game but when they interviewed him after the game they asked him about it but he refused to speak negatively about the crowd. He looked at it from their point of view and I was very impressed by that. I remember that interview more than I remember the game.
            Venus also strikes me as that type of athlete as well.

            I was floored when you initially told me that people got this vicious on a sports board. But, it all fits and is proof that the problem does not lie in their targets but the common denominators are the nasty personalities that wage war on them. I’ve never heard Rafa speak ill of an opponent and athletes from around the world speak highly of him as an athlete and person. That speaks volumes to me -when someone is asked about an athletes game and they say they are also a fan because of who they are as a person.
            Really, who can hate a guy like that, even if you oppose him in a game ? It is a clear indication that those types of negative emotions say more about the people who carry them than the target of their hate.

            I am reminded about how I felt about Dumars from the Detroit Pistons back in the day. I hated that team with a passion because I felt they were bullies on the court and the Lakers were my team. Dumars was a team player and in it to win it as much as his teammates but he was never in the middle of their brawls or cocky and was always courteous to his opponents – never spoke negatively about anyone. Even his countenance was different from those boys. I hated the Pistons as a team but when Dumars had the ball I was yelling DUUUUMAAAAARS right along with their fans and the announcers. Lol. You’d have to be a vile person to hate someone simply for opposing your fave. The way people deal in sports – spectator and athlete alike – says a lot about their their character in life in general. If you’re a cheater, ungracious, a slacker, a bully when it comes to sports that is how you will handle your friends and professional dealings.

            Kenya has so many fans who love and look up to her and see her for who she really is just as we do. The negative opinions of others can never take away the good that is and others see in her. That is all that counts at the end of the day.

          • GetReal2014

            Right, it’s not about the object of their anger, it’s about hateful, spiteful, frustrated people who are angry and miserable and want to see other people as miserable as they are. There is no other reason to hate others because they like someone other than their fave. The sports star, celebrity, or singer is not really the focus. The focus is on the person who celebrates good over evil, a concept foreign to them. The person who does not celebrate evil immediately becomes their target. It happens too often, across too many disciplines, for it to be coincidental.

            What people like that want, is not peace or understanding, they want to prove to themselves that their evilness is “normal.” It infuriates them when others actually believes in good over evil. Their purpose is to provoke and try to break the other person down to the point where they display the same evil actions as they do. They will go to any lengths to see the other person resort to their level. In their mind, goodness does not exist and they’ll try until the end of their days to see a glimmer of hatefulness in the other person. That is why they are so dogged in their pursuits. They want everyone to turn against you so that your words don’t sting them. Unfortunately, it never works, but they’ll never stop trying. I recognize it, because of my sister. She used to do everything she could to bring out my evil side, and I continued to douse her hatred with love and forgiveness. That infuriated her more. She wants to be able to say, “See, you’re just like me.” But, I have never given her that satisfaction, and I never will. I know what she wants from me, but I refuse to stoop to her level. I continue to treat her and others like her, with the utmost respect because I will not allow others to change who I am.

            That is exactly why Rafa riles people up. They can’t believe his honesty and sense of fairness. He never talks down about his opponents and treats the “underlings” the same way he treats the establishment, regardless of how many times they’ve wronged him, and believe me, they’ve wronged him plenty and tried to turn the fans against him. The good thing is, there are a lot of good people in the world who see through their machinations and Rafa is one of the most beloved sports stars in history. Two years ago he had to withdraw from the French Open due to injury and the organizers, grown men, walked him to the car to say goodbye. These grown men cried that he had suffered another untimely injury at his best tournament.

            This year he won his 10th FO trophy, and the French, who the writers, commentators and the powers that be have tried for years to vilify this man celebrated him in a manner previously unheard of. They lit the Eiffel Tower in the colors of Spain. They named airplanes after, and they rejoiced, and all of the lies that the few had tried fell by the wayside. To me, he is more than a tennis star, he is an example of what goodness is. That’s why I love Rafa. The tennis is secondary.

            Ha ha ha. I used to watch basketball too, but I was a Pistons fan. I thought Isiah Thomas was so cute and he had the best smile. I’ve since learned that he was supposedly a douche. So, that time I was fooled. But, I do remember Joe Dumars, and I loved him for the very reasons that you stated.

            So true, these reactions are not about “faves” it’s about that empty feeling that people have inside. It’s just not logical to hate others because they don’t support your fave. It’s much deeper than that. You hate the person, because they don’t exhibit the same hateful spirit that you’re saddled with.

            Kenya does have many fans. Thankfully, there are many people who see that she has done nothing to incur the wrath of those wildebeests. Making up, or supporting lies doesn’t hamper her character, no matter how much people wish it were so. They might have a point if they were repping upstanding, moral and decent people, but when you are pretending that the morally and spiritually bankrupt are the ones who are right, you are only identifying with what who you are inside. I believe that.

          • The Champ

            😄😄🎙😄😄 🎶🎶 She’s gonna need a lot more than a miracle to make herself seem interesting. That song is hilarious 😦😦 You’s a fool Bobbi 😂😂😂😂

          • Bobbi

            Hahahaha. You know Porsha is dead strapped for ideas. No one has heard a peep from her since the wedding news.
            Her dumb @ss was out at the beach with her two champagne glasses and one set of footprints when she thought Kenya was just having a rendezvous so, she was already behind the eight ball.

            She was getting her counter boo storyline all lined up when she took a page out of Kenya’s playbook. She started with an initial cryptic photo of balloons in the grass spelling “love” (that she lifted from a followers page) right before that beach trip so you know she was setting up her usual fake @ss storyline. But, her followers didn’t catch on and she got called out for stealing the post. Lol. That whole endeavor ended up a total waste especially once she realized she was playing checkers and Kenya was getting her life. What a kick in the gut that must have been. Now, that Kenya is a confirmed wife, she’s been sitting back at square one for weeks. Shooketh. Lmao. I’m almost afraid at what that slow heffa might come up with.

          • The Champ

            Girl, you ain’t never lied. Poorsha is a stone cold, certified idiot. She’s so stupid she doesn’t think the viewer’s will catch on to her obvious obsession of Kenya. From the cars all the way down to SL’s. What a moron 😂😂 You mean to tell me this idiot went out and copied Kenya’s entire of post. Such an afterTHOT. While Lauren is chasing behind her, looking like Sid the sloth. I can’t and I won’t have any sympathy for this two-time fool. And you’d think last season was enough embarrassment. Slow ppl are the most dangerous. That’s why she can’t keep her hands to herself, she’s stupid. Somebody better get that chick a helmet, a hard head makes a punk azz . D@mn knucklehead.

          • Bobbi

            After THOT is correct. Porsha is a cheap knock off, out here trying to keep up with a high end label. That really is her only entertainment value…..trying to keep up with Kenya.

            They all have it bad. Kenya made Porsha along with the rest of them scramble to buy and/or furnish and show the inside of their homes when she bought and built hers….they all (except Kandi) went into a frenzy trying to either keep up or one up her. Now look….. Kenya has in an instant, moved on to her next phase and life goal. Kenya lives her life and they follow her like the Pied Piper.

            That’s what happens when you are slow and live your life for others instead of yourself. It’s why they are forever behind her and coming up short. Kenya will ALWAYS be light-years ahead of these women.

          • The Champ

            Yep and that’s exactly why they’ll stay bothered by Kenya. She moves at her own pace and doesn’t care to compete in the rat race. She’s living her life and using her resources to enhance her life, while living comfortably. She doesn’t need to be validated by others opinions of her. Kandi has always had her sh*t together from a business standpoint, but she’s emotionally damaged. Todd can help her, if she’s willing to put in the work and let go of her horrid past. Poorsha doesn’t know how to be herself bcuz she has no identity. Her entire life revolves around other people’s thoughts. She has no mind of her own and gets confused a lot. She may have some type of learning disability of some sort. It will take her a lifetime to get on Kenya’s level and she’s already 35. She’d be better off moving to Thotlandia and marrying a pimp.

          • Bobbi

            This post is everything. Nothing good happens when you don’t know or even like yourself and are always measuring your own value against the accomplishments of others. They all have uphill battles and poor Porsha…… a learning disability is a bich but as long as she has a jealous heart nothing will help her get ahead. She will always wreck herself. It’s a given.
            Love this post.

          • The Champ

            See Bobbi, you better SPEAK. You know exactly what I’m talking about. They will stay reaching as long as they’re measuring success by someone else’s standards. Poorsha is the main one who’s too ignorant and immature to make changes for the better. She’s like a disobedient child who doesn’t recognize their faults unless they’re being chastised. Then they want to apologize, but still doesn’t learn from their mistakes and repeats them. She’s so much of a hater, she doesn’t even realize she’s tearing herself down.

          • Bobbi

            “We reap what we sow”. Those aren’t just some creative words put together. It is all a part of the immutable laws of the universe and there is no escape for Porsha and others like her. There is a cause and effect for your actions and they will either bring you blessings or destruction. “Tearing herself down” is EXACTLY what Porsha is doing.

            Idiots like Porsha live their lives only by what they can see, feel and touch etc. They never recognize the laws of the universe dictate what happens for your life and can affect those around you. This is why it pays not to connect yourself to nasty, vindictive people who mistreat and take advantage of others even if it is not you they mistreat. So many people walk around wondering why they never get the good things in life…why things never work out for them. You’re f’d up is why! Or you’ve got f’d up people in your circle!

            People like the Phaedra’s and Porsha’s of the world or who have friends like them are doomed.
            .

          • brendah

            This is profound.

          • Bobbi

            Thanks brendah, I truly believe in it.

          • The Champ

            Girl you said a mouthful in this post. I have nothing further to add to it. The universe has definitely spoken and not in favor of this ding bat. She has to jump through hoops just to keep her already rotted peach. It’s no wonder she’s the lowest paid, she’s the dumbest of all. I have no sympathy or respect for this miscreant or anyone who excuses such behaviors. They can all have each other, while Kenya keeps her distance. I wouldn’t want anything to do with those hateful broads.

          • GetReal2014

            Poor Porsha. She is so lost it’s not even funny. How she can watch herself on TV and be OK with it is mind-boggling. You know you have a problem when you see that chit and you’re OK with it. SMDH.

          • The Champ

            If she doesn’t recognize how messed up she is by now, there’s no hope. I blame the folks around her too for coddling her and not holding her accountable as an adult. And ppl wonder why she’s remedial. What has she learned? Having a job and putting your name on a hair weave line doesn’t cut it. She does nothing but act a straight donkey on rhoa and her job at DN is based on bullsh*t and giggles. But society wants us to believe she’s got her sh*t together. All the fundamentals of keeping a job we learn in school. But, thinking for yourself and common sense is something that comes with wisdom. Poorsha can’t function w/o being told what to do. With Creonta gone, I’m sure we’ll see a lot more of her sister Odie.

          • GetReal2014

            Yep. It’s all Kenya, all the time. People keep Kenya employed, LOL.

          • Bobbi

            Girl, they got Kenya outchear buying new cars. Does it look like she’s worried about Bravo? Hail, she might have gotten a bonus! Lol

          • GetReal2014

            Ha ha ha. That’s funny. She must’ve gotten a promotion. That’s usually what you do with windfall money. Yay, Kenya. Keep giving ’em something to talk about. Mo’ money in your pocket.

            LOL, there is no downside.

          • Bobbi

            Right? Kenya is not frivolous with her coins even though she’s got it like that. Looks like bonus money to me. Hahahaha

          • GetReal2014

            I know. There’s so much that I respect about Kenya, her business sense and financial savvy being close to the top of the list. First and foremost is her spiritual nature. She does the things that we are supposed to do, forgive, show compassion, etc.

            Those are values that are close to my heart. Throwing some shade doesn’t impress me, and doing others wrong is my greatest pet peeve. So it’s a no brainer who I support. Using that criteria it’s easy to guess who I like and dislike. It’s easy-peasy.

          • Bobbi

            Yes, I agree. Those are all the things I respect about her as well. In addition to those things, her strength stands out for me in that she never sacrifices her values or the truth for friendship or to be liked. Kenya is compassionate and empathetic….. values I strongly identify with and she forgives but she is also brave and bold and willing to stand alone. I identify with those traits as well and admire that outside of this show, she would never choose to connect with the likes of people who share the core values of the Phaedra’s and Porsha’s of this world. Proof is, in her downtime she disconnects from the bs and the toxic personalities and that’s pretty much the way that I am. Having to get along on your job with unsavory personalities is one thing. To invite them into your space in your leisure is totally another.

            I learned a long time ago that choosing not to engage and disliking or being angry with certain personalities are not mutually exclusive. I am simply selective of the connections that I have control over in my life especially when I am a witness to their values up close and personal. Moreover, It not only matters how people treat or feel about me – I have never been swayed by that. I look at how they treat others. I need to be able to reconcile the two. If I can’t, it’s a no go for me. I couldn’t fake that if I tried. Its not always necessary to take the high road when you aren’t going in the same direction.

          • GetReal2014

            Amazing post! And you know we all share the same value systems. I expect excellence if I’m giving up my time. I’ve never been prone to peer pressure.

            I get Kenya, because I know how to stand alone too, It’s her strength that I’m attracted to, and the way that she treats others. Now, she’ll come for your azz if you come for her, but if not everything will be cool.

            Selective. Yes! Everybody doesn’t fit in my life either. I detox from those kinds of situations. Who has time for that BS? Not me. Life is about making the most of it, and being weighed down with negativity is draining. I don’t know how people do it.

          • Bobbi

            I totally agree. I detox from those situations and totally from people who bring them to my door. I don’t have time or the energy to cherry pick treasure out of trash bins and look for good in people that does not exist.
            Negativity is definitely draining, I have never understood it either but, some are intent to bring it as if their lives depends on it. Phaedra, Porsha and Nene are clear examples and so are the personalities who identify with them. I wish I would entertain that trash.

          • GetReal2014

            So do I, Bobbi. I don’t have time for BS or people who thrive on that kind of nonsense. I disassociate myself from that in a heartbeat. Life is about growth and those kind of people never change. You can see them a year, five years, ten years from now and they’ll still be doing the same thing.

            I ran into this friend, we used to be besties in middle school. We were friends for years, but my mother kept telling me that Allison would never go anywhere or do anything. I didn’t understand because Allie was smart and surely that would pay off in the end. But, my mother knew her kind from listening to her conversation. By the time I was 19 I had figured it out as well.

            I ran into her many years later and girl, it was as if time had not lapsed. She was still talking the same way she did as a teenager and the subject matter was equally as juvenile. I couldn’t do it. I talked to her once on the phone and my damn head was hurting. After that I didn’t answer her calls until she gave up.

            If a person can’t help me get to another level, or teach me something that I don’t know, I’m out. There’s nothing worse than being stagnant and not evolving as a person. Life is about evolution and when nothing about you changes despite your life experiences, you are not bringing that BS into my life. You can’t even talk to those kind of people, they’re too small-minded, and proud of it.

          • Bobbi

            It’s true. I’ve always been a good judge of character in that regard, even as a kid. I’ve always had a soft heart and empathy for others…..my first instinct is always to understand what drives people to their conclusions in and about life but I have also always been able to deftly cut people out of my life who serve no positive purpose for me or whom I cannot not help. I have never had the patience for it. I have acquaintances even people I care about whom I love from a distance. Some know they’re f’d up and some don’t but, you can only hold people up for so long before they start to bring you down. I simply find a way to remove myself. It makes life drama and stress free.

          • GetReal2014

            This is me to a tee. I’m all down for helping, supporting and empathizing with others’ plight, but if you show me that you have no desire to change your circumstances I’m not going to hang around for all of the unnecessary drama. It takes too much energy to consistently hold someone up who doesn’t want real change. I’ve had girlfriends like that in the past, and you’d best believe that’s where I left them, in my past.

            I can still talk to them occasionally, but I’m not wasting my energy like that, because it’s true, they weigh you down with their BS drama.

            I will try my best to come to a reasonable conclusion, but if you show me that you’re going to continue to try to BS me, your ass is grass. I don’t have to deal with your nonsense and I quickly extricate myself from foolishness. You know what you did, you know who you are, and you’re not going to convince me otherwise. People play these stupid azz games all the time, but life experience shows you that you need to show those kind of people the door.

            If it’s that hard to deal with you, then I choose not to. I’m not going back and forth with anyone. WTF for?

          • Bobbi

            Exactly. Well said.

          • GetReal2014

            Are you serious? And no to the justifications. Post about the show. That’s what we all should be here for. Anything else is nonsense.

          • Bobbi

            What else is new

          • GetReal2014

            Have at it. It’s never bothered me. I only care what I think and those of the people that I respect. If I don’t respect someone they can say anything they please, as long as they don’t bring the nonsense to me. There’s no reason for me to care about dissenting opinions. I’m not hurt by that nonsense. I actually laugh that people expect you to be bothered. Must be how they operate. It’s not how I operate.

          • Bobbi

            Me either. I just wanted to call that chit out. Now, back to our regularly scheduled programming.
            Sooooo……about Kenya winning…….

          • GetReal2014

            Girl Kenya stay winning and her name stays in everyone’s mouths.

          • GetReal2014

            Never been a fan. You got that right.

          • GetReal2014

            Just said that too. I would never trust anyone who chooses to hang around Phaedra, Porsha, Nene, Sheree, or Marlo. Even viewers can see how dirty these women are.

        • GetReal2014

          Those last two sentences.

          That’s all anyone needs to know.

          I was suspicious of her alliances from the beginning and I could never shake that feeling, and Kandi proved me right. She’s as bad as Cynthia in that regard. They want to be loved and accepted too much. Principles go out the window for these two. Validation is all that matters in their world.

        • brendah

          ding, ding ding!

          • The Champ

            😁😁😁

      • GetReal2014

        I just said that. Kenya’s fans are happy for her. The only people who are upset are not Kenya’s fans anyway, so who the hail cares?

        I’ve always felt the same way about Kandi. She wasn’t very bright and I don’t pay any attention to what she says because I don’t trust her judgment, or lack thereof.

        • Bobbi

          That and Kandi’s opinion about what Kenya chooses for her life don’t mean squat.

          • GetReal2014

            You got that right.

    • GetReal2014

      Please, why would Kenya’s fans be upset about a bunch of shady azz women we called out from the start? This is just business as usual. We’re proud of the way Kenya handles these soulless women and continues to come out on top. Kenya is a strong woman. She’s got this.

      • The Champ

        That’s what I’m saying, Kandi knows d@mn well how folks love to hate Kenya. The same reason her weak azz won’t dare associate herself with Kenya, due to hatred and ridicule. She’s afraid of what the viewers will think of her. But her krusty azz will vouch for Sherain’t or the others. The same ones that dragged her entire life through the mud. I’m so proud of Kenya and the woman she was and has grown to be. She’s an outstanding woman who stares in the face of adversity and keeps her composure. I’m so happy for her and Marc, they are a beautiful couple worthy of all things love has to offer. May they be at peace for the rest of their lives together.

        • GetReal2014

          You don’t fight fire with fire, you fight fire with water. Douse the BS. Give it no place in your life. Period.

          • The Champ

            All truth, nothing but……..

          • GetReal2014

            🙂

          • The Champ

            ☺☺

  • shayvoe

    My how things have changed….last season, when Kandi, her mama and her employees were going after the “evil devil” Phaedra, Kandi was an angel sent from heaven and the evil devil, Phaedra, deserved everything she got. When Phaedra said Carlos King told her the rape story, and that she said so on the reunion and it was edited out, she was a phuckng liar and production had nothing to do with it. Now, that she has told the truth about production being pissed at Kenya, and that she thought Kenya fabricated her marriage, she is “Kandi Coonan Nights”, a “Michael Jordan looking azz” and production is shady and phuck um”. I can’t!!!! HAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!

    • Authentic

      And Kandi called Kenya crazy in the article. People are pissed! Lol!

      • shayvoe

        Kandi is now the evil devil…rut roh. How dare she speak on Kenya, the perfect specimen of womankind, the fairest in all the lands….all over the world. Kandi is damned to hell for letting her name come from her lips without complete and utter adoration. Kandi has really messed up now. But, with Phaedra gone, somebody has got to assume the role of “evil devil”. Kandi will be drug to kingdom come and back again. I think I will rather enjoy it….LOL!!

        • Authentic

          Lol! I’m enjoying a few posters speaking the truth on Kandi.
          This is hilarious!! The flip flop game. Lol!

          • shayvoe

            It is quite entertaining….I am having a blast reading this thread. It keeps getting better and better.

          • SassyMcAsspants

            It is hilarious. 😂

          • shayvoe

            That is is!!

    • BetteDavisEyez1

      So let me get this straight, calling someone a coon is acceptable?!?
      I can’t!! I just can not!! Dust Mop has some real devotees. I’ll give her that.

      • shayvoe

        Devotees? You are too kind! I call it cult members.

        • BetteDavisEyez1

          Yeah. This is pretty bad. I mean Jim Jones level.

          • shayvoe

            Let’s hope Kenya never offers her fans grape kool aid.

      • Bryan

        Anyone who is that supportive of such a horrible woman, obviously is just as awful and treats people the same way in their life

        • BetteDavisEyez1

          So true. Dust Mop is a POS with no redeeming qualities.

          • Bryan

            I read some of the crap they post and its more like some odd fan fiction.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            So true. I mean there is no way we are watching the same show.

          • Bryan

            that’s right

        • shayvoe

          That, my friend, is very true. One just needs to read, to prove your point.

    • Bryan
      • shayvoe

        That one gets me everytime….such a beauty!! HAHAHA!!!

  • The Champ

    First of all reading is fundamental, check Champs previous post. I never trusted Kandi, I chose the side of what’s RIGHT vs. wrong. That’s what real women do. It’s was foul and f’ed up what F&F did to the Tucker’s and I stand by that. I respect Kandi’s work ethic, it’s undeniable. A real woman doesn’t base their opinions on HATE. “Production” allowed that bullsh*t to air and I’ve been said that was f’ed up on their part. As far as Carlos is concerned, he didn’t do sh*t wrong. He wasn’t as dumb as F&F to air that sh*t out on camera. Stop reading too much into my post and use comprehension. Thank you in advance 😁 See previous post, since you care. Yes @ “Kandi Coonin Nights” 😂😂

    • Bobbi

      Truth. Besides, Kandi actually confirmed Kenya’s relationship is real and she is happily married so what’s new? Kenya is still filming so what has Kandi said other than what we already know and that is Bravo wants in on the story.

      I agree with you. Your opinion about p-gate has nothing to do with what is happening now. Your ability to to have different opinions about the same individual only shows you have an open mind and operate from a place of fairness and what is right – not hate based on a castmember. Nothing changes the fact that Kandi didn’t deserve what happened to her last season – doesn’t mean she is right in her analysis of how Kenya wants to handle HER OWN life. Kandi’s opinion doesn’t mean chit at the end of the day. Again, Kenya is still filming. Now what? Lol.

      Kandi hung in there when she was being dragged and Kenya will do the same if it comes to that. She has never had these heffas support. No need to look for it now.

      • The Champ

        Girl, reading through post w/o comprehending is senseless. Why put so much time and effort into someone else’s opinion. I don’t do bullsh*t, that ain’t never been me. I don’t care who it is, I’m on the side of what’s RIGHT. I don’t base my opinion on HATE, but LOGIC and COMMON SENSE. No I have never been a fan of Kandi’s on the show. I do feel since Todd came along, she’s somewhat changed for the better. I love her group X-scape by the way. But like you stated, we have open minds and operate from a place of fairness. Some ppl clearly can’t differentiate between right and wrong. Especially not when you’re hate driven, all logic and common sense goes out the window. Just when i thought the bullsh*t was over. By no means did Kandi and Todd deserve to be treated the way F&F did them. It was unlawful and defamatory, and whoever thinks it was good for ratings, good for them. Kenya handled the whole “whore shaming” incident gracefully, by her d@mn self. None of the women seen it for Kenya, bcuz of the lie the Nida’s orchestrated. And yes, the couple were both in on spreading the lie. Ppl need to stop investing too much time in others opinions and stick to their own thoughts. Reading is fundamental, a mind is a terrible thing to waste. Maybe I should be flattered, naaaaaaaah 😁😁

        • Bobbi

          No the bullchit never stopped. I can say with confidence we have not been referencing any posts on these boards but I’ve seen our posts quoted verbatim daily since the whole “can we all just get along” & “stop being passive aggressive” pleas. Yes, STILL invested in others opinions who are different. That’s how you know it was all bullchit but why are you surprised Champ? I see it, I just choose to ignore it and you should as well. It’s not our problem. Never was.

          • charma

            I need a can of Raid for the pests,

          • Bobbi

            I hear you GF. Just spray and step over that bullchit.

          • GetReal2014

            Yep, and keep a lot of Raid in the pantry.

          • GetReal2014

            I’ve been busy, thank goodness, so I haven’t seen it. That’s how people are though. No one cares about your opinion. You’re entitled to it. Move on. The problem is when others care about your opinion and your right to express it.

            This is tennis season and it’s the same thing. If you don’t like their favorite people get so nasty and the names they call you is absurd. What kind of people are these? Who behaves this way? It’s a mental illness. I’m sure of it.

          • Bobbi

            I thought we were done with the bs but apparently not…..Champ and I are having fun discussing the show while they are busy discussing the comments we are making. We are referenced daily STILL. This just underscores what I’ve stated all along…..that it doesn’t matter how we post, they have always and WILL always be bothered by us.

          • GetReal2014

            I would say that I’m surprised, but I’m not. It’s no more than I expected. Leopards can’t change their spots. I’m good.

          • Bobbi

            Yeah, I was never fooled by that snake in the grass Tomfoolery.

          • GetReal2014

            You know I’ve said from the beginning that I didn’t like any of those heifers. I always thought they were low rent. Who acts like they do? No one I know or surround myself with.

            It wasn’t until Kenya came that it sparked my interest. The rest of them are too dumb, uninteresting and rachet for my taste.

          • brendah

            This is so true. I used to post on the tennis boards on Yahoo, because I love the William sisters and boy did it get ugly, I had to get off that site.

          • GetReal2014

            It’s crazy, isn’t it? I’ve been on tennis boards forever. RT was the first time I ever stepped out of the tennis realm, so I wasn’t shocked by the behavior. I expected it.

            It is crazy how unbalanced these people can get over some nonsense. But, it also shows you what kind of people are in this world. Sad.

          • brendah

            SMH!

        • brendah

          Yes, preach. I hate the mob mentality of social media and the people that jump on board and bash just simply because they dislike a person.

          • The Champ

            I don’t care to entertain such ignorance. I stated my peace and moved on. These internet wanksters are just that, wack. Let’em stay bothered by our presence. They prove themselves every time. So much for finger pointing.

          • brendah

            Yes!!!

          • The Champ

            You know it Brendah 😊😊

      • GetReal2014

        You have to stay open-minded and judge individual situations. But hating just to be hating, based on nothing? No, I don’t get that.

        • Bobbi

          I agree. Some don’t know any other way.

          • GetReal2014

            Hating is some people’s lives. They live for that chit. I have a sister like that and no matter what you do she’s going to find a way to still hate you. She can’t function unless she’s hating. Life has taught her nothing. I don’t fool with her anymore. I can’t deal with that BS. Always looking for an in to try to hurt somebody. Funny thing is, everyone has finally figured it out. Now they know that someone with that kind of reservoir of hatred will always be that way. She’ll never change and that suits me just fine. She seriously is like Nene, Porsha and Phaedra, but check this out, she didn’t fully reveal herself to others until our mother passed. It was a shock to them, but I knew it when that heffa was still in the crib. You can tell by people’s spirits. That can’t be hidden.

          • Bobbi

            Wow, that is unreal. Sounds scary to be under the same roof with someone like that. But, that is exactly how some folks are. Well, you can’t choose your family as they say. We’re not perfect but thankfully, I lucked out in that department. I wouldn’t tolerate it though. Not even in my own family.

          • GetReal2014

            I am serious. I have been so patient with that knucklehead, because I’ve always sensed that she had a problem from birth. And yes, I believe in bad seeds and this one is the damn prototype. I kid you not. I have helped and supported her all of my life, not so much for her but to keep the family dynamics strong. I also knew that she would withhold my niece and nephew from me and I didn’t want that to happen. It paid off in the end, because I never spoke ill of my sister, even though they know how she is too.

            I have a loving and healthy relationship with them and they ignore her BS when it comes to me. But, now that they’re grown and able to make their own decisions, her ass is toast. I won’t deal with her anymore and I won’t even attend her funeral. I’m telling you the truth, this girl is a damn devil.

            But, one thing that she taught me is how to recognize evil and its manipulations. I can spot that chit from a mile away. She’s all sweetheart and babe, and all of that BS while she’s sticking a d@mn knife in your back and twisting it hard. My other sister is a sweetheart and she would bring her to tears, for no reason, f’ing evil.

            When my niece was going to the prom Evileen couldn’t help her. She had recently become disabled, wasn’t working and was financially strapped. She told me that she had her daughter ask my other sister to take her around to find dresses and would she pay for them? My sister was glad to help. Do you know what they bich did? After my niece got the dress and the prom was over, Evil Ass called her and told her “That’s my daughter. I’ll take care of her needs. If you want a daughter, have one of your own.” My sister called me crying saying, “I was only trying to help.” I let her know that Evil Ass had specifically told her daughter to ask for help, so don’t feel bad.” How cold and cruel is that? So, when it comes to people and their f’ed up motivations very little gets past me. And that’s why I don’t have time for the nonsense. People are who they are and they don’t change. You’re wasting time trying to get on their good side, because they don’t have one.

          • brendah

            Wow, that’s insane. This will definitely give you experience gaging someone who has ill intentions, thanks goodness for discernment.

          • GetReal2014

            I’m a pro. My husband used to think I was psychic. I can call chit out in people like you wouldn’t believe. Then, when I try to warn others they don’t believe me, but it always comes true. Then, they’re always saying, “How did you know?” And I don’t know, but I always know.

          • brendah

            Amazing, it’s a gift and a good one.

          • GetReal2014

            It is a gift. I am very grateful for it, because it saves me a lot of heartache. I don’t give people the benefit of the doubt anymore, because my gift has never led me in the wrong direction. I trust it implicitly and it has worked in my favor. I’m good.

          • Bobbi

            Lmao @ Evileen but you just preached a sermon. All truth. Nothing else to add.

          • GetReal2014

            It’s all true, but one thing is, she is funny as hell. I miss the laughs, I’m talking belly hurting.

          • Bobbi

            Nothing like laughter. Very sad your sister. Maybe she’ll come around eventually.

          • brendah

            Wow, this so sad. Especially when it’s a close family member.

          • GetReal2014

            The things she’s done would curl your hair, but I never retaliated, and that just made things worse. It was as if she was trying to break me down, but she never did. To solve her problem this idiot called herself disowning me. What a joke. I seriously have never seen anyone this sick in my life.

          • brendah

            That’s sad GetReal, it sounds like she may have mental issues mixed in with jealousy.

          • GetReal2014

            Could be. I never thought about that.

    • GetReal2014

      Right, I judge situations too, not the person. Even if I don’t like a person I don’t choose wrong over right. I don’t hate Kandi, but I don’t like her either and that’s because of her alliances. I would’ve never befriended Kim Z., Phaedra or Porsha, so Kandi was a non MF’ing factor to me from the get-go.

      • The Champ

        I don’t hate Kandi either, but since she wants to tear Kenya down, I’ll commence to roasting her crusty azz. Teamtwirl in FULL effect, okaaaay. I judge based on character and what Kandi has displayed in the interview was shady. So I’ll return the shade and Kenya can stay sitting pretty ☺ I’ve never been a fan, but always gave respect when it’s due. That seems like something Kandi s not capable of giving in return, respect.

        • GetReal2014

          I can’t even muster up anything for Kandi. She’s exactly what I expected her to be. I wasn’t happy about Kenya supporting her, because I knew that Kandi was capable of this kind of behavior. So, I’m not mad at her. This is who she’s always been.

          • The Champ

            Kandi is who she is and no amount of money will change that fact. I love how Kenya doesn’t let those around her change who she is. Kenya has always showed that dirty pigeon the utmost love and respect and she meant it. That’s real. Just bcuz Kandi is f’ed up with no morals, doesn’t take away from Kenya’s good heart. That’s why Kenya gets my respect, she’s genuine.

          • brendah

            Yes, and I hope that Kenya continues to keep her business private from these shady women. I believe if they had known in advance that she was getting married they would have leaked the information to Bravo and the press before the wedding.

          • GetReal2014

            You already know, that’s why Kenya didn’t tell them chit. One thing you can’t accuse her of is being dumb. She knows she in shark infested waters, and consistently throwing their azzes back in the water. They’re mad because they realize that she doesn’t trust them. You dang skippy.

          • brendah

            Yes!!!!

          • GetReal2014

            🙂

          • The Champ

            Me too Brendah. Kenya finally has a shot at peace and happiness, why mess that up for folks who claim to hate/dislike you. Their opinions of her are meaningless, if she cared what they thought she would have got married on the show like the others. And yes, someone would have definitely told her business. Kandi’s already running her mouth about a wedding she wasn’t even invited to. Talk too d@mn much, with that machine gun voice.

          • GetReal2014

            Exactly. You can’t please those kind of people no matter what you do. But, you also can’t let them change who you are. That’s what I respect the most about Kenya. She doesn’t retaliate by “getting them first.” Kenya only comes for you, if you come for her, but even then she can set the BS aside and maintain her decency.

            This is what I’ve seen and no one can convince me otherwise. I don’t give a damn what people say, I have a PHd in common sense.

          • brendah

            Okayyyyy, I totally agree. Just because someone hates Kenya they expect for everyone to agree with their perspective. If you don’t the attacks begin.

          • The Champ

            Kenya has a pure soul. She doesn’t put conditions on live and friendships. She comes from a place of peace and understanding. Just don’t cross her, she’s a verbal assassin. She doesn’t have to get physical or use vulgarities. If Kenya was so deplorable, ppl wouldn’t be bothered by her. I don’t see the others getting this kind of attentiion.

          • GetReal2014

            Yes she does, that’s why I like her. She operates out of a sense of fairness. That’s why it doesn’t surprise me that so many fans don’t like her. People don’t like goodness because it illuminates the darkness of their own souls and they will gladly make the object of their dysfunction suffer for their own inadequacies.

            The same thing happens in tennis. One of the top guys is so handsome, humble and kind, to everyone and I tell you, they do everything they can to tear this beautiful man down. They put things out there that implies that he’s a cheater, they jack up his schedules and make him have to play back to back in majors, and they outright lie and accuse him of being a doper although no proof of their allegations exist.

            But, as you might expect many of the fans fall for it hook, line and sinker and support the nasty champion whose behavior is on full display. It’s amazing how easily led the masses are. They refuse to believe the evidence of their own eyes and ears and choose to follow the group mentality. It’s apparent in every aspect of life, and at this point it’s become boring. You already know who’s falling for BS, because they can never support their own points. Instead, they’ll divert from the issue and resort to name calling to cover their inability to make a cohesive argument.

            This was happening to me the other day when I was on a tennis post and voiced my opinion. You wouldn’t believe the foul and juvenile insults that came my way. Now you know I didn’t care. But not once did they acknowledge anything that was in my post and respond, but they kept saying the same things over and over no matter how illogical it was. The anger these people displayed was scary. Seriously? You get that mad over something you have no control over. I think the world has lost its collective minds. Wrong is right and right is wrong. People can choose to live that way if they want to, but it will never be a staple in my life. I’m proud not to have that type of mentality, nor will I ever cheer it on. You’ll just have to be mad at me.

          • The Champ

            Kenya is such a beautiful woman inside/out. Ppl hate what they can’t obtain for themselves, true happiness. Wow, I had no idea how bad it is on those tennis board’s. I know you spoke about it a few times, but not to this extent. I hate to see how corrupt and evil ppl are over the internet. I can be pretty disgusting and overwhelming at times. I choose to take a break from it at times it can be draining. Especially all the hate fueled rantings and attacking fellow poster’s. These are supposed to be adults and they can’t carry an intellectual conversation. I’m sure you made them eat their own words in true GetReal fashion. I think folks are using the internet to spew hatred and racism. They can get away with on these board’s, but in person it’d be a total different story. Unlike us, we’ll get their azzes together on and off these board’s and not an insult in sight. I will verbally assault and outsmart a fool and walk away like I never knew they existed. Let’em stay mad, it ain’t your problem.

          • GetReal2014

            I think so,too. That’s why they hate her. People hate what they don’t have. I don’t care what strangers think about me, or even people that I know. Either you like me, or you don’t. I’m still going to live my life and speak my truth. Shrugs and walks away.

          • The Champ

            You know it, me too. I don’t care what others think, just don’t disrespect me or my fam. That’s when I have to get grown with a fool. If you don’t like me, don’t bother with me, that simple. The difference between me and them is IDGAF. I will cuss they azz out and go back to minding my business. 😌😌

          • GetReal2014

            I hear you. We’re too grown to play those high school games. We have families to raise and a future to look out for. Why would anyone waste time on things that don’t matter?

          • The Champ

            Right. For ppl not to like you, they sure go out of their way to get your attention. What kind of asinine mess is that? Going around sulking bcuz someone doesn’t want to talk to you, like they hurt your feelings. It’s obvious who cares and who doesn’t.

          • GetReal2014

            I don’t pay that mess no never mind. They didn’t like Jesus and he was without sin. Why would I worry about someone not liking me?

          • The Champ

            D@mn straight. You don’t like me, move around. 😁😁 Don’t start none, won’t be none.

          • GetReal2014

            🙂

          • The Champ

            😊😊

          • GetReal2014

            That’s just the way it is.

          • The Champ

            Pretty much. I’m not a doctor, but I think a lot of folks are mentally disturbed. That’s the scary part, you have no idea who you’re fooling with. The internet is full of them.

          • GetReal2014

            I just roll with the punches. It’s not a big deal to me. It’s expected when you get a million different personalities together.

          • The Champ

            I hear you, I can handle the differences in personalities. It’s the disrespect I don’t do. I agree it’s not as some try to make it.

          • GetReal2014

            I don’t give that kind of mess any life. People want to provoke, and I don’t allow non-entities to provoke me. They don’t add anything to my life, so why should I care? It’s childish BS, IMO, and I will not be moved. I can respect a person without agreeing with their position and if they want to be disrespectful I’ll just ignore them.

          • The Champ

            I hear you GetReal, I respect that about you. I’m from the class of speak up, speak out, I can’t just sit on my hands and ignore everything. That’s not my character, even as a child I was outspoken. I also see myself as an advocate for myself, my children and the voiceless. I don’t do BS in real life or on the internet, but i will expose ignorance every chance i get. Especially if it gives another person. the courage to stand up for themselves. I choose my battles wisely and I will not be defeated. Nothing wrong with a good tongue lashing, put a fool in their place every now and then.

          • GetReal2014

            Differences are what makes the world go around. We need all kinds.

        • GetReal2014

          I hear you, but since I’ve always felt that way about her I’m not surprised. Emotionally? I always thought she was weak. She’s not someone I would hang with because you’d have to be always explaining chit to her and I don’t have time.

          • The Champ

            I’m not surprised either GetReal. I just can’t stand the fact that Kandi added fuel to the flames. She knows d@mn well Kenya’s marriage is being mocked and ridiculed all throughout the media. “And for her to put that out there” (Kandi machine gun crying voice) She know how much it will hurt Kenya, that’s the part that’s pissed me off. F&F dragged Kandi’s azz for miles and she goes and to the media and laughs and discredits Kenya’s marriage. Talk about misery loves company. Kandi of all ppl should know what it feels like to be publicly shamed, why would she do it to someone else? That’s all I’m saying. The vultures are all over it.

          • brendah

            Exactly. Kandi should have said, Yes I spoke with Kenya and she’s happily married. The end.

          • The Champ

            Nothing more, nothing less. But nooo, she had to throw in a little shade and laughter for the “fans”. It’s all good, bcuz Kenya has a made a beautiful life for herself and now has a wonderful husband to share it with. Marc just so happens to be the hottest husband on the franchise and he takes pride in himself. No amount of money can buy you class and dignity, Kandi has neither. Run tell dat, Kaaaandi.

          • brendah

            This^^

          • The Champ

            🙄🙄

        • brendah

          Hey Champ, I agree so much with this I could’ve written it myself!

          • The Champ

            Exactly, that’s why I rox with you Brendah 😉😉

          • brendah

            Thanks Champ!!

          • The Champ

            Always, you’re my girl 😎

          • brendah

            Same here!

          • The Champ

            ☺☺

      • brendah

        I agree, didn’t she look weak and dumb running behind that racist Kim.

    • brendah

      You are so on point, you see right through kandi.

      • The Champ

        Thank you Brendah ☺ You got these heifers pegged too. Like minds…….. Kandi knew exactly what she was doing, trying to take some of the heat off her krusty azz, while throwing Kenya to the wolves.

        • brendah

          She thinks she’s slick but she’s slow.

          • The Champ

            She really is slow motion outside of her business sense. But as far as common sense goes, she’s a lost cause. She’s still licking her wounds from last season’s dragging. But still has time to tear down her fellow sista who supported her through it all. I’d love to hear what she thinks about her enemies. Ole boot lickin coon😏😏

  • Bobbi

    Looks like to me Kandi confirmed the relationship is real and Kenya is happily married. It doesn’t surprise me that Kenya didn’t tell her castmates of her plans to be married if she truly wanted it to be private. The people who mattered were there and her castmates she is closest to, (Kandi & Cyn) sent their congrats after confirming with Kenya that she was indeed married.
    Of course Bravo wants a piece of Kenya’s wedding/marriage- that is news to no one. It doesn’t mean they can do anything about it.

    Kandi is an idiot if she thinks Bravo’s agenda is to share Kenya’s happiness or that the viewers who are getting a rash over her husband being shown wants to celebrate Kenya’s marriage. Kenya’s fans sure don’t care. Take a look all over at who is chomping at the bit for this storyline and you’ll get your answer at the intentions. Lol. Screw what Bravo thinks.

    • The Champ

      Im just trying to figure out who Kenya’s friends were who attended her wedding. I was definitely thinking it was Cyn and Kandi. Maybe it was Brandon they were speaking of. Kandi just confirmed what I already knew, she’s never been a friend to Kenya. Nene put out the same kind of bs statement. What business is it if theirs anyways? A simple congratulations would have done fine. Kandi and everybody and their momma knows how Bravo loves to exploit these women. And for Kandi to side with production, tells me ALL I need to know. I hope Kenya takes heed. I’m tired of them trying to tear her down and for what?

      • Bobbi

        But, this is the reason they weren’t invited in the first place. Kenya knows who her real friends are. Kenya made a statement months ago when she thanked Erika Jayne for putting her name out there for DWS , that not one of her castmates have ever really shared their shine or promoted her like she has done for them. That told me everything I really needed to know about their relationships and how she felt about them.

        This bullchit doesn’t surprise me. Kandi’s rationale has always been screwy. Look at what she allowed to happen to her?

        • The Champ

          Cyn put out a public congratulations, which was cool. But Kandi and Nene pretty much have the same mindset about everything. That’s how I know them two have been licking each other’s boots. I’ve noticed how Kenya and EJ ride for each other as of lately. Imagine that, they haven’t even known each other for long, but have no problems showing love and supporting one another. That’s the thing about Kandi, she puts money over everything, even pride and respect. Her and Kenya have never had any issues, unless the others were involved and Kandi sided with them. Look at where that has gotten her. Now her and Nene are cool and she can’t seem to find it in her heart to congratulate Kenya, w/o a side of shade. Her self-esteem is so low, I wouldn’t be surprised if she befriends KimZ and knucklehead again. I can’t with Kandi……….😀😀

          • Bobbi

            Yeah, Kenya called that out. She has always brought a castmate along when she could and ALWAYS promoted her castmates on her page. It is rarely done for her. I can count the times on 1 finger. Literally, and even then it was lukewarm.

            Kandi congratulated Kenya on her page but, I have never trusted Kandi when it comes to Kenya. Again, her rationale and logic has never passed muster not even when it comes to her own best interest. I’m certainly not surprised at Nene’s hating @ss. The difference this season is that Kenya has Marc. I’m not bothered by this bullchit whatsoever.

          • The Champ

            You’re right about that, Kandi has never been trustworthy. Maybe Todd, but not her. Tell me this, what has Kenya done to any of them to warrant such hate. I’ve never heard her say anything bad about Kandi, not once. Not even Nene as of lately, but they stay shading her. One could only hope that they could be fair and put their differences aside, save the shade for those who wronged you and deserve it. Kandi knew what she was doing cackling and giggling during her interview. Reminds me of the laughing hyenas on Lion King. That’s why I always call F&F a pack of hyenas. Oh well, anotha day, anotha dolla. Kenya bought her a cute azz new car yesterday 😎😎

          • Bobbi

            See this is how I see it. They called Kandi for an interview but, with all the chit she’s got going on they still wanted to talk about Kenya. Now tell me again that Bravo is trying to get rid of her. Lol I love it. Kandi’s gullible @ss should have been insulted. Screw Kandi’s opinion on this.. Her association with Phaedra’s dirty @ss AND Porsha for all those seasons will always make me pause when it comes to trusting her. Kenya should never get it twisted.

            I have to go look at her car. Keep ’em shook Kenya. Ha!

          • The Champ

            I’m still curious to know, what”fans” Kandi is talking about are furious Kenya didn’t share her wedding? Don’t sound like no d@mn fans to me, just a bunch of hate and ridicule. You’re right, why didn’t Kandi even mention Kenya’s so called firing? She should have stuck to talking about her group X-scape, whom I love, for those who are reading this 😉😉 Reading is fundamental……..

          • Bobbi

            She meant fans of the show, I’m sure. But correct. Kandi never once alluded to the fact that Kenya’s job is in jeopardy. That interview didn’t amount to a hill of beans regarding Kenya’s status on the show.

          • The Champ

            Right. But, fans of the show don’t mean Kenya fans. Kandi of all ppl should know that, look at how the “fans” called her and her family all kinds of nasty names this past season. Who cares what Kandi thinks anyways, she’s never been a good judge of character or anything else for that matter.

          • GetReal2014

            There you go. I wouldn’t take Kandi’s word on anything because she always gets things twisted.

          • GetReal2014

            Kandi is too gullible to be insulted. I could care less about Kandi’s opinion. I’ve always said that and when she hooked up with Kim Z. I knew that she had a problem, but she followed it up with hanging with Phaedra and then Porsha?

            She was on my chit list ever since. I don’t give Kandi any credit at all. Even after Kim screwed her, Kandi was the one to make the first move. Girl bye, for real.

          • Bobbi

            It’s true. But, we’ve always been up on Kandi. This is just more of the same. Many looked past the fact that she actually verified the relationship and marriage is valid even if she didn’t intend to. Outside of that I couldn’t care less about her opinion regarding Kenya’s status. If she can’t figure out viewer mentality by season 10 she will never get it. I lost patience long ago regarding her rationale.

          • GetReal2014

            From the beginning. You know what turned me off of Kandi, even before Kim? When she came on the show and she was dating AJ, and she, AJ and MJ went to therapy together? I was like, oh hell naw. Who takes their mother to a therapist as a part of their marriage? If you’re old enough to be married then you should be old enough to make your own decisions. I thought that was crazy. I knew then that Kandi was stunted.I could care less what Kandi thinks. She’s shown how dumb she was throughout the show. Look at how long it took her to be onto Phaedra, and Phaedra is dumb as hell.

          • Bobbi

            Oh, I wasn’t watching then. Right. Kandi is a different breed. Even her friendships are weird. Have you ever noticed how they never have each other’s back even though they aren’t even on the same shows? How they never offer each other public support? They’re all the same. Have you ever seen any of them have a meaningful conversation with Kandi? Their connections seem very fractured and shallow. Even with Carmen. Street loyalty yes, but no heart.

          • GetReal2014

            Well, that was my first clue. I was thinking, how odd. If you’re old enough to marry, then you’re old enough to make your own decision. And of course MJ acted like she acted with Todd, but Todd outsmarted her azz. I became leery of Kandi from that point on, because that didn’t make sense to me, and solidified my idea that she has no backbone. The only backbone Kandi has is when she really gets angry, but even then she backs down, so…

            I never noticed it, but it’s true. They don’t hype or publicly support each other. Even with all of the drama regarding T.I. and Tiny, Kandi hasn’t said one word in Tiny’s defense. She acts like nothing’s happening, so for her to speak on Kenya is total BS.

            I’m so glad Kenya left her azz out of the loop. Proof that she knows who Kandi is.

          • Bobbi

            Yep. Kenya had her number long ago.. It’s possible to like people and not trust them. You ke-ke and have fun but it stops there. They haven’t really shown you their @ss but they’ve never had your back either so they don’t warrant you giving them more than the basics. She obviously feels the same about Cynthia, if you notice. Kenya put them both in the same basket when it counted. I love it. Her husband probably had something to do with that. Hopefully, her husband opened her eyes about all of these women.

          • brendah

            This is a good thing that she has her husband for backup and support.

          • Bobbi

            I totally agree brendah. You can only make the rounds with these jelly backed women but so many times. Kenya met her Prince just in time.

          • GetReal2014

            I don’t know how grown ups are this juvenile and childish. You don’t stand for anything? You have no sense of decency? You flip-flop for no reason without shame? This is on the level of peer pressure. It seems to me that you deal with that when you’re young and trying to navigate your place in the world.

            How is it that these women are so wishy-washy? Aren’t they embarrassed to display these behaviors in front of their children? What kind of example are they to their children? Do they want them to follow in their footsteps? It’s mind-blowing.

            When Nene dogged Cynthia out, she ran to Kenya.
            When Porsha and Phaedra dogged Kandi out, she ran to Kenya.

            Both longing for the ones who dogged them out?

            Kenya supported them and never treated them the way they treated her and now they’re running with the very people that dogged them out and throwing lightweight shade.

            You can’t get me to understand that busted logic. It’s insane.

            Now Kandi is so happy that Nene is back. WTH? These are some sick, twisted, dirty B’s. They have no redeeming qualities.

            I hope Nene and Kim Z. turn on Kandi’s azz, and I believe they will, and then she’ll be sobbing, yet again.

            Nene probably won’t turn against Cynthia anytime soon, because how can she when Cynthia is licking her behind so hard.

            These people are so damaged it’s hard to understand. I don’t get it. I have never seen people this sick in my life.

          • Bobbi

            Exactly. Trust me Nene has never forgotten the backroom war Kandi and Phaedra waged against her for years and you see what she did to Phaedra’s Donkey booty when she was done with her. Let Kandi run her slewfooted @ss headfirst into Nene’s lair. She’ll deserve whatever she gets.

          • GetReal2014

            I agree. Kandi needs to get therapy. Maybe her estrangement from her father has done a doozy on her head, because she doesn’t think right. Those synapses are not firing on all cylinders.

            If she’s that stupid to not know how vindictive Nene is, and the fact that Nene will love having Kim, who Kandi supported over her, being on her side. She’s going to dog Kandi the hail out.

            Yes, Nene and Kim will both get her, and then Kandi will have no one with any backbone to assist her.

            Have you heard the rumor that Cynthia may be gone? I don’t know if it’s true, but I hope so. I’m sorry, Cynthia is a wimpy, weak, no backbone flip flopper. I would be very pleased to see her gone.

          • Bobbi

            Oh wow. Didn’t hear that. Will have to look for that. Something must have happened. It looked like she was all in. I did hear she had a new beau. And he was former football player, philanthropist and motivational speaker. Allegedly. Maybe she’s getting some push back about being shown as well. Cynthia is meh to me however, I’d rather see her than another Porsha. Who knows what they will replace her with.

            Edit: just checked her IG. Last post says. “A goal is a dream with a deadline.”. Her talent manager cosigned and RHOA is not on her bio. Not sure if it ever was but now she only has “TV personality.”. Hmmmmm. We shall see.

          • charma

            Kenya’s too different for them; she’s not better than them, that’s not what I’m saying, but they for the most part, are a bunch of uncultured, country girls who don’t “get” Kenya. I’m from the South; I understand the mentality. Unless you’re one of the homegirls, they don’t deal with you much.

          • The Champ

            Thank you for saying this Charms. I just told GetReal that yesterday, something must be in the water in the A. Those Atlanta bread women are something else, and not in a good way. I’m glad you bring up that point, they are definitely “uncultured”as you stated. These group of women lack intelligence, that’s the problem. Kenya has never acted as if she were better than them, if they believe that, that’s their problem. I’m not from the south, but many of my family is and I know exactly what you’re saying. The school system failed them miserably, real talk.

          • GetReal2014

            They are different. That’s for damn sure. Hateful, jealous and insecure, at least the ones we see on RHOA. All of those tricks have mental problems. That’s why they stay hating. It’s their life.

          • The Champ

            Exactly, they are a group of ignorant women to say the least. An intelligent person would understand the difference in others and not judge them or try to make them out to look crazy. Exactly what Kandi did in this very interview. She got the vultures riled up and ready to attack Kenya’s character. Same sh*t they all do to Kenya, I already told you what Big Bird said. Let the shade begin, that’s all those dirty birds have to offer, no substance.

          • GetReal2014

            It doesn’t phase me in the least. I know an idiot when I see one, and I ignore them. No skin off my back.

          • The Champ

            It doesn’t phase me either, but I’ll call those fools out at every chance I get. From the mountaintops if need be. Once you expose ppl for their behaviors, it discredits them and makes their words useless, less meaningful. Same thing that happened with Creonta’s unlawful acts.

          • GetReal2014

            That’s Kandi for you. I’m more than sure she’s going to be kissing up to Kim Z., so there you go.

          • brendah

            If she does, I will lose what little respect that I have for her and it’s not much.

          • The Champ

            Right, looking like a fool that she is. How humiliating is that?

          • Bobbi

            I’m just seeing this but have to say, this is so true. I’ve said it a hundred times. There are plenty of sistah’s who’s got it going on but none of these women outside of Kenya and Cyn had even traveled internationally before this show. Being open and understanding about different people and cultures comes along with having experienced and been exposed to life outside of your limited surroundings. They have not. These are certainly an ignorant bunch of ill bred roughnecks. Bet, the idiots are sitting there right now calling themselves world travelers because they’ve been on a few cast trips. Porsha’s dumb @ss thought Maui was “out the country.” It’s why they operate in ways we cannot wrap our heads around. Kenya will always be outside of their clique and they will never get her. They are just too far behind to catch up.

          • The Champ

            Exactly Bobbi, that is what Charma meant by them being uncultured. The amount of ignorance amongst the Atlanta bred women is downright pitiful. Even as children and young adults we learn to understand how our differences makes us unique. It’s like in high school when a person is ostracized for not appeasing to a certain “clique”. You have to be a follower to fit in, otherwise you’re crazy or something is wrong with you. I myself have never traveled outside of the US, but I learned at a young age that we are all unique and special in our own way. And not to outcast others bcuz they don’t share the same race, looks, thoughts, religion, morals, upbringing, etc… That’s why this group continuously tries to bully and seclude Kenya by trying to make her out to look crazy. They hate who they are and hate her for taking pride in herself . Kenya is not seeking approval from any of these women and she’s confident enough to be herself and stand alone if need be. Only insecure ppl feel the need to be cliqued up. Which is the main reason Kandi laughed and giggled while answering questions about Kenya’s marriage. She’s a follower and has always made fun of Kenya, especially when F&F were involved, she joined them. Kandi knows d@mn well Kenya gets a lot of hate from the viewers and she gave them ammunition with her shady azz statement. Kenya has never said anything negative regarding Kandi, her family or marriage. That in itself makes her a better woman, that’s why she’s my fav hands down.

          • Bobbi

            In my experience children of parents committed to foreign service ie, military, diplomats etc grow up to be the most open culturally and racially than most people I know because they have been exposed from childhood to people from all walks of life. But, I agree it is not totally necessary. Children’s values are shaped by their parents and accepting people who are different from you is a basic principle of human kindness. Open mindedness is a direct connection to intelligence as well as exposure and one is heightened by the other. We know most of these women did not have a strong figure in their lives who could pass much needed values on to them and if you look at their lives and pasts you can tell who they are. Kandi made it by the skin of her teeth because she had a mentor once she was accepted into the school of the arts but her mother’s ignorance and lack of common decency still affects her to this day..

            Being an idiot is a bich but when you also lack the ability to exhibit basic human kindness as well, there is no hope for you. Most of them think kindness is an act extended free and clear….just because you feel generous. Something they do to feel good about themselves. I always say, true character is shown when others are at their worst or when it takes the most effort. It takes nothing to accept a person who thinks, talks, walks and looks the same as you.

            I bet this crew thinks they do Kenya a favor anytime they accept her into their raggedy @ss clique since they have bought into the lies and sentiments perpetuated by themselves and the viewers who hate her. That’s what blissful ignorance will do for you.
            When Kenya got married, she took away the one ill conceived reason they had to feel superior to her. They banked their true feelings of inferiority against the premise that the viewers believed the lies they told. Their feelings of superiority all hinged upon what others thought and her marriage blew a hole through that bs. What Kandi did in that interview was her way of attempting to put Kenya back in her place….back in that little dingy corner they have for her in their minds that make them feel better than her and about themselves. It’s expected. Kenya will always deal with the bs until she leaves that show. She has so many fans though and now she has a life partner whose got her back ….. Kenya’s got this.

          • The Champ

            Absolutely agree, in this day and age we have ppl from all walks of life living in the US. My g’pa served in the military as well as a host of uncles and cousins. Growing up my g’pa taught us about his experiences while traveling to various countries. His stories were very insightful and interesting, it broadened our minds and taught us a new way of thinking. I do the same for my children by teaching them about different countries, cultures, religions, etc. They also teach me things as well, especially when her friends are from different parts of the world. It’s always been amazing to learn new things that are foreign to us. I’m sure Kandi herself has traveled to various places outside the US, but she’s a product of her upbringing. Even as she became an adult, she still chooses to be ignorant and tasteless. Money can’t buy you class and that’s what Kandi has displayed over her years on rhoa, no class. There are a few things I find admirable about her, but that’s as far as it goes. She’s too insecure and her actions make me question her character. Kandi needs the approval of others. The more they mistreat her the more she’s drawn to them. It probably has a lot to do with her mother. But to push her feelings of self doubt onto Kenya is weak. Kenya has risen above all the hate that comes her way. She’ll definitely be fine and Marc is there to hold her down. I just hate the mentality of the women on these shows. Thankfully, Kenya knows her worth and she has options. When she finally chooses to walk away, she can do so with her head held high and her dignity in tact.

          • GetReal2014

            Kandi’s always been that way. It doesn’t surprise me. She always goes after those who’ve done nothing to her, and is scared to go after those who do.

          • GetReal2014

            It’s laughable that she would share good news with these hyenas. I can think of no good reason why she would.

            And you’re right, although Kenya supports them, they rarely return the favor. These co-workers are the co-workers from hell.

            Kandi is really an idiot. I think she has proven that time and time again. She should be busy suing Phaedra and Porsha for defamation of character, but instead she’s throwing lightweight shade at someone who’s done nothing to her.

            And who didn’t know Nene’s hating azz wouldn’t act a fool? The Queen of Buffoonery? Please. She’s so jealous and insecure as it pertains to anyone. Nene is incapable of friendship. There’s no way in hail that I would ever befriend that sick soul. She needs help.

          • Bobbi

            Right. That’s where I step off with Kandi. Just slow as hail but, I’m never disappointed by her because I’ve never forgotten that she was capable of this. Even last season she was laughing when Marlo was trying her best to shade Kenya on their glamping getaway. It’s why I’m glad Kenya didn’t jump in to get involved in her mess with the two P’s. And if I remember correctly, Kenya spoke up for Kandi but, Kenya also stung her @ss plenty regarding P-gate. She can bring the funk if she wants to. Kenya likes Kandi but, she can get some too if she tries it. Kenya will not tolerate foolishness from of any if these women.

          • brendah

            I totally agree, that’s why I side-eye Kandi.

          • Bobbi

            Right. 1 season of being cool with Kenya doesn’t erase 8 seasons of supporting her former friends behavior against her (Kenya). It’s still in her, she didn’t have any friends last season and Kenya was her safe space. It’s where they ALL go when fleeing the same wrath they supported being unleashed on others. What’s new? I’m using that phrase a lot but, it’s the truth. Nothing ever changed. Kandi was just in self preservation mode last season. She’s always a wild card but, she’s never going to stick that neck out for anything other than her own self interest.

          • GetReal2014

            Me either. I can’t even muster up any emotion for Kandi because I already know that she has no backbone and therefore isn’t to be trusted. She’s not a bad person, she’s just weak, and a weak person can be dangerous.

            I noticed that too on the glamping trip and every other instance where she can get an “in” with the others.

            I was so glad that Kenya didn’t jump in and come to Kandi’s aid. She simply spoke on how dirty F & F were, but it wasn’t like she said anything about suing their azzes. Kenya’s got this. All those idiots together can’t bring a good woman down. The universe won’t allow it, and it hasn’t.

          • Bobbi

            Exactly. I stated that in a previous comment. She and Cyn are not bad people but they are untrustworthy. Their loyalties change based on their personal circumstances. That is not genuine friendship and Kenya seems to finally be coming to that conclusion.. Kenya played that situation with Kandi and the dirty birds just right. I loved that she sat back and let them bask in all their ratchet glory. Kenya only stepped in when she realized that Kandi was falling apart. I died laughing when Kenya sent Phaedra’s @ss back to her seat like a petulant child.
            These women canNOT handle Kenya. It’s why they always need a team when they come for her. And they still can’t stop her.

          • GetReal2014

            Right, sometimes people are limited. They only know certain things and anything outside of their scope is foreign to them. It didn’t take long to pick up on all of these women’s personalities. Kandi and Cynthia just have more morals than the others, but that’s not saying much. They’re both approval seekers and being outside of the in crowd doesn’t sit well with them. They sacrifice their dignity and many times relationships with others, just to fit in.

            I guess they can’t help it. It must be horrible to be that way. Never standing for anything and falling for everything, but lacking the strength to extricate themselves. You’re right, at their core they can’t be true friends to anyone because they’re too scared to be ostracized.

            I look at it as a gift. I’ve never cared what others think about me. I can stand alone and that’s what I liked about you, no apologies and no compromising. You don’t like me? Tough, I’m not going to lose any sleep over it. Hell, I may not even notice that’s how much I don’t care. Do you. I’m glad too, because I was born this way, always able to hold my own. It’s a gift.

            Of course they can’t handle Kenya, that’s why they’re mad. They wish they had the strength to go it alone. But notice, they always need someone else to be in the hole with them. They never step out alone because at their core they’re cowards and need the validation from others. That’s when you see the cackling and passive aggressiveness, but on their own, see Exhibit A, Nene and Claudia. When nobody backed Nene up, Nene backed down.

            The definition of a weak bi*ch.

            Edit: Before I forget. Did you see that article where it was showing the inside of Phaedra’s home? It was jacked up! That girl has no sense of style. The writer was saying that when we see it on RHOA it looked nice. Not to me, You know you and I talked about that hodgepodge of a house she had. It was creepy looking if you ask me. The writer was saying that it was outdated and no one would want that house. You need to see it. It is awful.

          • Bobbi

            Oh wow. I’m definitely going to check it out. And I bet she isn’t even willing to negotiate on the price for that dump. Think about it…..Apollo who isn’t used to chit and barely ever had a roof over his head that didn’t involve shackles worked on that house. Combine that with Phaedra’s taste, what do you expect? We already knew it was a hot mess. Now it is confirmed.

          • GetReal2014

            Bingo, at Apollo doing some of the work. He did the outdoor barbecue pit and it’s a mess. Now that you mentioned it he must’ve done the wallpapering and put these small circular mirrors all over the walls willy-nilly. It’s bizarre as hail. I’ve never seen anything like it. Talk about ghetto looking, it makes no sense at all.

            The deal appears to have fallen through. That house is messed up from what I’ve seen. Yes, it’s confirmed and you know who spilled the beans.

          • Bobbi

            Girl OK, so last night I remembered I had to look for this article so, I googled “Phaedra’s house is a mess” …. girrrrl …Lololololol! You should see all the comments over the years regarding that house since Phaedra first moved into it. Before I thought to actually head over to the site you referenced here, I clicked on a few old articles and everyone is saying exactly what you and I have always said; Phaedra has terrible taste. They broke that house down and when the odd person would past through and post that Phaedra had good taste and they liked her decor, the board would crack up laughing.
            So funny and girl, in another article HGTV profiled her home and called her style “unique” and eclectic. Now, you know good and well those alternative descriptions are equivalent to words you use for ugly babies, outfits, nasty meals etc……when you’re too kind to say you don’t like something or that something is ugly as hail.
            That walk through was so dry and they must have been in awe at how garrish it looked. It looked worse than I even remembered it….it had a really dark and creepy feel to me.. Those curtains looked like they belonged in a vampires den. And she had bright red, patent leather looking chairs in one room (similar to Kandi’s pink ones)

            Hgtv normally lets the homeowner speak about why they chose a certain décor and their emotional connection to it but they literally let Phaedra do all the breakdowns and descriptions on the design and items. They only cut in to make very generic comments. This was hysterical to me. It’s because they were speechless is why and not once did they give a nod to her style or use the words one normally would for an impressive or high end home like; beautiful, elegant, sophisticated, smart etc.

            I saw the same comment so many times that her house was a mishmash of a lot of themes and that it looked like a yard sale inside – it was hilarious.
            Sure enough, the same descriptions on this latest article…..too many themes, mishmosh, hodgepodge….
            I died when she said Apollo had done the work on that stone wall and that outdoor kitchen. I didn’t know they even had those features but, I certainly remember Apollo with his hammer and tool belt. They showed a couple episodes of him actually doing work (nailing) on the house, remember and he also made those statements when he went off on her about how he had worked hard on and built that house- and she wasn’t going to take it from him ….so I’m sure his handy work is all over that house. Lololol. We could have written that article ourselves. It is a direct replica of what we have always said.

            What is disturbing though is the condition Phaedra is allowing her broker to show the house. They said it was filthy and still had random articles and weird paint jobs that weren’t suitable for showing. The colors in those kids rooms were nauseating and would traumatize any child. No wonder Dylan’s @ss is bad. Did you see what she did to his room? HGTV never showed those rooms and I see why. Girl, Phaedra is insane – I am truly convinced now because that house was the works of a mad woman. Can you imagine what she is going to do to her next home?

          • GetReal2014

            Wasn’t that crazy? It’s so cluttered and unorganized. Nothing goes with anything. It is a hodgepodge just like you stated. The boys’ rooms were just odd. There is no rhyme or reason to her decor. And for the house to be so filthy has to be a sign of mental illness. Her house looks like it was designed by The Addams Family, chit everywhere and nothing is related. There are over 100 different styles in her house and no continuity. The fact that Phaedra cannot see this speaks to her mental illness.

            Did you see the horrible wallpaper in Dylan’s room? It was dark and foreboding and then there were various size circular mirrors attached haphazardly on the walls. No shape or pattern, just put up willy-nilly. It didn’t appear to be the rooms she’s in on the show.

            I just saw a few rooms and that makeshift barbecue pit. It looked a mess with stones jutting out everywhere.

            I’ll have to look for that, because I think I just touched the tip of the iceberg. Further proof that something is really wrong with Phaedra.

          • GetReal2014

            I’m confused. I’m seeing all of these different houses. Some seem to be the previous owners house, but I’m not seeing any of the rooms that we see Phaedra filming in on the show.

            But, these are not the pictures that I saw. I would have to look more but I don’t feel like it. I’ll go with what I saw on the show, a mishmash of a house.

            It might be me, but these super huge houses are boring and look like museums. I don’t like that kind of stuff. If it’s going to be big it has to be airy.

          • Bobbi

            Not sure what you were referring to here. I just happened to click on some old articles as I was looking for the recent article about the open house.

            All of those photos online are definitely a bit confusing. Some are of previous owners some aren’t even her house. The article where HGTV profiled her home was a video and on par with the open house.

          • GetReal2014

            OK, that just answered my question. I saw where some of the houses weren’t even hers, but the articles neglected to tell readers that the houses had the previous owner’s decor, and not Phaedra’s. That’s why you have to read with a discerning eye and not just accept things at face value. I was confused as to why they were touting it as Phaedra’s house, when if you read further it was furnished by the previous owners. Good catch, I knew I wasn’t losing my mind.

          • Bobbi

            Right. While we’re on the subject of Phaedra, I was reading a RHW’s fan page on IG today and the owner posted a really funny post about Phaedra and in the caption randomly explained why he was always so shady to her. He stated he used to be fan of Phaedra’s and early on made some T-shirts with the “Fix it Jesus” saying that Phaedra coined. It was simple but very creative – the letter T was a contrast color cross, positioned as if it was leaning against the rest of the words.

            Well, Phaedra approached this guy about that T-shirt and after finding out he had other great ideas, befriended and talked him into going into business with her. Of course he was flattered and began to share his business plans with her. Well, when he was done sharing, the Christian, southern Belle sent him a cease & desist, ordering him to stop the sale of his T-shirts as she began hawking similar shirts on her page as well as executing the rest of the ideas he had given her.

            Now, I don’t know what kind of legal grounds Phaedra had to do what she did (signed agreements etc) but for some reason most people are intimidated by lawyers. They don’t know, most lawyers aren’t smart or savvy enough to be a partner in a law firm so, they end up at best handling parking tickets, quick-y divorces, general contract disputes etc and making very little money.(eg Phaedra) To add, many of these fan pages on IG are run by kids in or right out of college so the thought of a lawsuit is very daunting to them. But, can you believe that? Rhetorical question of course but, that she would take advantage of a fan and a kid at that, what a snake!

            I assume Phaedra is no longer a partner in the firm she used to belong to because her reputation was so bad ethically (scandals & cheating people) as well as professionally (#win a case) that she could no longer continue to bring in any new business. Well, you know that is cause to get your butt set on the curb once a partner can no longer generate business for a law firm. I guarantee that firm took her partnership, especially after what Bobby Brown stated. Her ghetto antics were most likely distracting and bad for business along with her nasty scandals and when she stopped bringing in money they kicked her @ss out. You know dang well as much as she brags about being a lawyer, she would be sashaying into that firm with a team of camera men on a regular if she could and would have been filming from there for the show as well instead of a fake office.

            I’m sure, if that kid had not been intimidated, he could have won that case against Phaedra’s dumb @ss with a little research. But, there is no confusion for me why Phaedra is failing. She has taken advantage of people her entire life. You have to wonder why she jumped to move so quickly and why that house was immediately shown in such disarray. Talks must have broken down with Bravo, and who knows what extra she has to pay Apollo after their recent divorce settlement.
            Either way, she obviously can no longer afford to pay two mortgages. The way she left seemed very sudden and she’s still losing because the contract she had on the house allegedly fell through the same day.

            She is one nasty critter and you mean to tell me she still has viewers stanning to the point of going to blows over this woman? Insanity.

          • GetReal2014

            Nothing about Phaedra surprises me. She is evil personified. It doesn’t matter who or what the circumstances are, Phaedra is always game to do evil and to hurt someone. It’s a sad story because it was unnecessary. What would it have hurt her to give the guy a hand and do the right thing for once? Evidently, that was too much to ask. There is no good in that woman, not one ounce.

            This is exactly why Phaedra is failing and why she will always be a loser in life.

            Just because she’s a lawyer doesn’t automatically mean she’s successful or smart. I don’t know why people assume that because someone has a title it equates to them being worthy of it. If that was the case there would be no such thing as a dumb accountant, CEO, doctor, judge, etc. I’ve seen many people in corporate with positions that they’re ill-equipped to handle. I’m glad Bobby Brown pointed out how he lost every case that she handled for him. Phaedra couldn’t even win those BS cases she had on RHOA, so why people think she’s so smart is beyond me. Not only that, but the fact that she was a partner with a record like she has proves that she didn’t get that position based on her record. She most probably slept her way to the top, but was unable to maintain it because she’s not very bright. If she was as successful as a lawyer, as she wants us to believe she wouldn’t need all of those side jobs. She would be busy winning cases, but her record as a lawyer is horrendous.

            You know something is up with that quickie move and not cleaning the house. I’m surprised the realtor even took her seriously. That looks bad on both of them and I sure wouldn’t risk my professional integrity fooling with Phaedra. I still can’t get over the boys’ rooms. Wasn’t that horrible?

            You’re right, it’s not a surprise why she’s failing. All of that dirt she does was bound to catch up to her. No one gets away with murder forever, eventually it catches up to you. Phaedra seems to be very stressed right now. She’s making all of these rash decisions and doing things azz backwards. Now for Apollo to triumph over her dumb azz. That would be the icing on the cake.

            Phony Phaedra’s House of Cards has toppled. She has ruined herself in her insatiable desire to ruin others. How fitting.

          • Bobbi

            Yes at those kids rooms. Who would paint a child’s room with those dark depressing colors -Dark red, olive and mustard yellow in broad stripes. Even the bathroom. All those colored mirrored disks randomly placed on the walls were crazy and Dylan was not tall enough to place or even have fun with them so that disaster was all Phaedra’s choices. Who knows what is behind that weirdness. No wonder Dylan was bad as hail looking at that madness all day.

            Phaedra is a viper. She sidled up and convinced the kid that she could help him, then tied his hands and stole from him. It is heinous. I certainly believe she is capable of anything but just thinking of the act itself blows my mind. You’re right. Only an evil person could do that.

            It also shows that Phaedra has an insatiable desire for money. She couldn’t let this young black man – whom she claims to want to uplift, try and get his business as a blogger up and running? She couldn’t stand to see someone else have something that she could potentially have. Evil personified is right. I can’t even wrap my head around it. This poor kid sat on that story for a long time before sharing it.

            But this also supports the stories another blogger on IG told me; That Phaedra threatened bloggers to take down negative stories and paid others to write positive ones. After while you’re only going to end up with affirming stories and little truth. As I stated previously, many of those fan pages are young and either know or communicate amongst each other. We already know she did the same with some of the blogs online. We had heard that for years before this IG blogger told me this. It makes sense too because there is no way so many would have had such a positive opinion of her. At the same time you have those same sheeple who are swayed by title, who believe if a blog writes and posts it, it is automatically true. While we’re at it, I wouldn’t put it past her either to pay for negative stories about Kenya or even Kandi. There is no limit to her craftiness -I believe there are no depths she will not sink to, to get what she wants.

            Her house of cards has definitely toppled. She’s on her IG trying to sound like she came out on top with her divorce but you’ll never know unless Apollo or Sherien (sp?) talks. I don’t know much about divorces but if Phaedra was smart she would have found a way to place a gag order on Apollo as part of the settlement. She can’t shut Sherien up though. We’ll hear something sooner or later..

          • GetReal2014

            Bobbi, not only did she have those disks on the wall, but they were on the ceiling too. WTH is that about? So they definitely weren’t for the children’s enjoyment? It’s probably some kind of satanic ritual, LOL.

            Those rooms were not kid friendly, or something that a child would enjoy. What it says to me is that the darkness has permeated her being to its core. I’ve never seen anyone put a child in such a depressing environment. That crap looks like something out of the Twilight Zone, only someone as evil as Phaedra could understand that BS.

            As far as the blogger, I understand that he was young and inexperienced and probably thought she would give him a hand up, but if he watches the show he should’ve had enough discernment to see who Phaedra was based on her actions. So, if he expected fairness from her, that’s a result of him believing chit that never made sense in the first place. Phaedra came on the show trying to create havoc with Nene, and then Kenya. These people kill me seeing someone doing dirt to others and thinking it’s not their problem, maybe not at the onset, but if you choose to deal with her then you should expect it. Why would she have any loyalty to you, an anonymous blogger?

            People make that mistake all the time, “They haven’t done anything to me.” A’ight, just wait, because the same way they treat others will eventually trickle down to you. How do people not understand that?

            An insatiable desire for money and status. She has a need to elevate herself because she’s aware of the depths that she’s in, and those are thinly veiled attempts to persuade others that she believes the BS that she’s spewing. We called Phaedra’s azz out from the start. It was easy.

            LOL @ that evil heifer “uplifting” anything or anyone. Her motivation is to steal, kill and destroy and she keeps dirty hands. Look at how long she was able to manipulate people? That always puzzled me. Some people still don’t see it and that’s a real SMDH.

            I always knew that she and Nene were paying bloggers because it’s impossible for anyone to have a favorable opinion about them, unless they’re just like her. But you see that as soon they stopped paying bloggers, their press dried up like a fig. I believe she pays for negative stories on the others too. I read years ago that it was Phaedra who broke those stories about Nene and the stripping, the Charles Grant thing and something else I can’t remember right now. Who else is that devious, besides Porsha, but Porsha doesn’t have the brain cells to concoct that kind of scheme.

            I’m sure her “bragging” about the divorce is just another lie. She’s never told the truth about anything. No point in believing her now.

          • Bobbi

            Now, you KNOW that’s the first thing I thought of, lol – some kind of hocus pocus contraption to capture or attract spirits. It was sure enough creepy. An adult would be depressed in those surroundings, I can’t imagine how badly a child would be effected by that. It comes off as some sort of mind control because an environment like that would severely stunt and suppress any type of imagination and creativity which is most of what being a child is about. It definitely gave off a vibe of some sort of sorcery. Creepy!

            I agree at the young blogger but, in his defense it was early on before people knew she was capable of this stuff. She was the lawyer who got brothers off etc.and she quoted scriptures, heck- half these adults couldn’t even figure out she won’t chit right up until she confessed to telling the lie about Kandi. I can’t judge a kid. You’d be surprised at how many grown church folk really believed she was saved. It’s a sad world out here. There are a lot of people out here who are very easily duped.

            Funny, you should mention the people who look the other way because someone didn’t mistreat them. I was stunned when I saw folks all over this bloggers page castigating him for ” kicking a person while they are down”. And making other comments such as, “yes, she lied, so what? Let he who is without sin cast the first stone”, lololololol, and ” let it go, God forgave her”, girl one chick literally said “d@mn, people mad with Phaedra like she did something to them personally. I just can’t live my life being mad at someone for what they did to someone else” . This particular chick got 60 likes for that comment and I guarantee she and they are the same people dragging Kenya over coochie crack and pushing Apollo in a pool. I hate stupid people.

            I read Phaedra was behind outing Nene’s stripper past as well and knowing her MO now, you know dang well it was her. She was definitely behind the Charles G story because Marlo put her on front Street once she hit it off with Nene. Phaedra is the one who approached Marlo to come on the show for that very purpose: To expose Nene…. It just backfired.

            Phaedra was an idiot to ever believe Nene would forget about that. She won’t forget Kandi either so she’d best not get it twisted with this new alliance.
            But see, that’s why I will forever give Kandi side eye. She was, right along with Phaedra approaching all the newbies to side with them against Nene. They attempted to recruit Marlo as well as Kenya. They both said so and we saw actual scenes of them dogging Nene to Kenya. No one cared about Porsha but once they figured out they could manipulate her they swooped in. And I believe they all did the same recruiting bs with Kim Fields against Kenya.

            Phaedra and Nene are pros at spinning stories. I definitely believe they pay bloggers. The lies about Phaedra’s bogus divorce was a clear indication Phaedra was planting those lies. Notice too, how the stories with the inflated salary and contract details started again as soon as Nene announced she was returning? That is no coincidence. Some of these viewers are painfully gullible.

          • GetReal2014

            I thought sorcery too, it sure wasn’t for decoration because there was no pattern. In fact, the randomness made me immediately think of the galaxy. Something crazy was going on there, and they were on too many walls. I would be depressed in that environment, I can’t imagine how it affects those children. It’s the opposite of Feng Shui. There is some strange purpose attached to that. I’m sure of it.

            You’re right. I realized that after reading your post. I’ve always watched people around me and paid attention to their words and actions. It’s how I protect myself. I won’t be devoured by wolves. I see them coming every time. I agree, about subtle words and actions, but you have to always be thinking.

            Hopefully he learned a valuable lesson because just because someone is titled doesn’t mean you should ascribe other attributes to them automatically. I see that all the time, “So and so is a doctor…ergo, he’s a good catch.” Someone being a doctor doesn’t mean that they’re decent, kind, compassionate or anything else. They’re a doctor, that’s all you know.

            That irritates me. People do that with Phaedra too. She’s a lawyer, so she’s smart, intelligent, and successful. How? I don’t get how people vouch for chit they don’t know. Did they look up her win-loss ratio to see if she was successful? Did they decipher her erroneous and f’ed up “reads” where she couldn’t even tell the difference between a sperm donor or a blood donor? No, they just went with it without questioning anything. And the devil is good at quoting Scriptures, that’s the oldest trick in the book.

            I don’t think people can’t see through Phaedra, they do, they’re just in agreement. You can tell that based on their responses. All of those excuses they’re making for her, yet, like you said Kenya hasn’t done chit but their forgiveness meter has always been on empty. I don’t see how you can observe something spouting Scriptures one minute, going on a media whore tour the next minute and then, shaking your azz and booty bumping and still be seen as a woman of virtue.

            Here was the bloggers first clue, he may be young but hopefully he learned an important lesson, don’t judge a book by its cover. She came on the show lying and refused to stop even when medical professionals disputed her information. She lied on camera to Cynthia, and she tried to get Nene’s relatives on TV. She did enough in the early days as far as I’m concerned.

            Those people on that page defending her? They’re just like her. The truth is they’re deceiving themselves about the BS that they do/have done, and they want people to forgive them. I don’t believe that, not when you go in on everybody else with a vengeance. Now you’re so forgiving? That doesn’t make sense. Before Phaedra and Porsha got busted those same people were trashing Kandi (the victim) and Todd for no reason, but when it comes to an evil bich like Phaedra, they’re magnanimous? Bull chit. That’s just another attempted manipulation.

          • GetReal2014

            You know I’m on board with that. Kandi just doesn’t get it and it’s doubtful that she ever will.

          • The Champ

            We sure called it didn’t we. I respect Kandi s work ethic and her business sense. But, this unnecessary shade and throwing Kenya under the bus to gain back her fair weather fan’s got me f’ed up. I don’t respect that kind of f*ckery. Kenya rode for her azz the entire season and this is the thanx she gets.

          • GetReal2014

            Kandi is a validation seeker. You can never trust people like that. I’m not surprised.

          • The Champ

            Kandi has a complex, she’s uncomfortable with herself. I remember when Biggie called the entire group of X-scape a bunch of ugly azz women. He meant every word of it, but later apologized bcuz it was hurtful. But that doesn’t take away the sting of being called ugly, especially by an unattractive man himself. I think that’s the story of Kandi’s life, being called the ugly duckling and allowing men to use her for her body and money. Not Todd, but in previous relationships.A part of me sympathizes with her, but she continues to target Kenya for being indifferent. She always calls Kenya crazy publicly in front of millions of viewers. Even when Kandi was bff’s with Creonta, Kenya still spoke highly of Kandi and talked about how loyal of a friend she was. I guess that loyalty only applies to ppl who f’ed her over. For that, I will never see it for Kandi. I support what’s right, which is why #teamtwirl rallied against the Tucker’s being publicly shamed on rhoa. Whether Kandi knows it or not, Kenya ain’t crazy and she’s been nothing but a friend to Kandi. Kandi’s the one who’s f’ed up from her childhood and beyond.

          • GetReal2014

            That’s sad, but Biggie had a lot of nerve calling anyone ugly with his hideous looking azz. I don’t know why people would’ve targeted Kandi by calling her ugly. She isn’t anywhere near ugly, so that’s stupid.

            I don’t sympathize with her because she has the means to get help. If she chooses not to, that’s on her. When your life continues in a negative direction and you continue to ignore, I don’t know about that.

            Life is about evolution. I’m sure you’re working every day to be a better person than you were the day before. Other people have to adopt that same attitude. You can’t wallow in the BS and expect different results. If you have a problem, or you’re feeling down, do something! The answer can’t be to stay the same, if it is a person can only expect what they’ve been getting.

          • The Champ

            Yeah, Biggie new he wasn’t attractive, he also called himself ugly. I don’t think Kandi s ugly, she’s cute at best. She’s always favored Michael Jordan to me.She has been looking better as of lately, I’m sure her new marriage played a role. Kandi needs to be mindful of how she treats others, especially the ones who are nothing but kind to her. I always knew she wasn’t trustworthy and she continues to mock Kenya publicly. She thinks it’s funny, but it’s hurtful and mean. The same way that others treat her, she’s doing to Kenya. And for that alone, she gets NO respect. Treat ppl how you wish to be treated. If a person doesn’t spare your feelings, no need to spare theirs.

          • GetReal2014

            Kandi is a fool. I could care less what she thinks. If she hasn’t learned by now, she never will. She’ll be all up in Kim Z. ass for sure. I didn’t even watch that episode because she’d be trying to get in with Kim Z., and from what I heard she did just that.

          • The Champ

            You should have seen how KimZ dismissed Kandi. Kandi was the first to initiate a conversation, KimZ was acting like Kandi didn’t exist. When Kenya told him her husband doesn’t even have a job, Kandi was the first to chime in and say ” whoa, that’s a low blow”. Really idiot, did you not hear the vulgarities being thrown at Kenya? Kandi always sides with ignorance, especially when it comes to Kenya. There’s a pattern behavior she’s diisplaying.

          • GetReal2014

            Girl, Kandi is a non MFing factor. The fact that she’s letting Phaedra and Porsha get away with that thrashing was the last straw for me. I didn’t even watch that episode. I expected Kandi’s slow azz to do something like that, and then when I came on here after the show, you confirmed it.

            But what do you expect? Kandi’s slow as hail. That’s why MJ has always had to look out for her, and now Todd. She’s not worth my time. I’m done with her and Cynthia. Too weak. I can’t stand weak azz people.

          • The Champ

            Ditto! Kandi is good at what she does the business and music industry, but sometimes her personal life can be quite embarrassing. Especially the way her and Sherain’t get star struck over KimZ, I can’t stomach that wench. I’ll tell you what, this season is going to be very interesting to say the least. Let the azz kissing and shade begin.

          • GetReal2014

            I haven’t made up my mind if I’m even watching this season. I’m tired of the lies and the gang ups. It’s just too stupid.

          • The Champ

            I’ll be watching to see what our girl Kenya is up to. I could care less about the others. Maybe Cyn, depending on how much of an influence she allows Nene to have on her.

          • GetReal2014

            We’ll see. But Cynthia? I’m not trusting her already.

          • The Champ

            I hear you GetReal, I feel the same about Cyn too. She’s likable, but such a follower. I can’t take weak minded ppl, I don’t understand how adults haven’t grown into their own. Peter hated that about her too.

          • GetReal2014

            I don’t understand it either. No matter what you do some people aren’t going to like you anyway. You have to know that at a certain age, but bending over backwards to appease someone who doesn’t care doesn’t make sense to me. If I have to be on pins and needles to keep your friendship, consider yourself gone. I’m not doing that.

          • The Champ

            As adults we should all know better than to think everybody is gonna like you. And not to get in your feelings and tale everything personal, these are called coping mechanisms. Cyn feels as if she’s indebted to Nene for whatever reason. I guess she doesn’t realize how pitiful and immature she looks. Maybe Noelle can teach her mom a thing or two about courage.

          • GetReal2014

            She’s extremely weak. I can’t tolerate her anymore. When you see yourself on TV and still choose not to make changes something is wrong with you. I don’t see very much change in her at all. It’s disturbing.

        • the underground train

          I don’t think Kandi has real friends in real life. Look at how she treated Carmon. I think Kandi like Bethenny only like having hired yes people. The only difference between the two being Bethenny snaps and goes off on those who dare question her or disagree with her while on the other hand Kandi does her Billy goat cry and tries to illicit sympathy when people don’t agree with her.

          • Bobbi

            Yes, Kandi is an odd one. I agree with you in that Kandi’s first and main objective is her wallet and everything and everyone else takes a back seat. I do think she has friends but her guidelines concerning friendship are just screwy. Her loyalties are never rational on either side and she doesn’t read situations well or know how to gauge them relative to how she should respond or how they affect her. Certainly not when it comes to emotional situations.

          • GetReal2014

            This. Her focus is primarily on her pocket and she misses social cues all the time. I think she has a lot of friends, but she bases her friendships more on external factors than internal ones. She had to know what kind of person Porsha was, but she befriended her anyway.

            I knew that was going to be a big mistake, and it turned out just the way I expected. And still, she didn’t learn anything.

          • Bobbi

            And there you have it. ……Focusing on the external factors. That will get you effed up every time.

          • GetReal2014

            Girl, Kandi was done from the jump. First she was friends with Kim Z., then Phaedra, then Porsha, and then Shamea. Birds of a feather. No way in hail would I ever be a fan of Kandi’s. She’s always been a big zero to me. In addition to her selection of friends, she’s not smart or funny, so there was never anything to me worth liking.

            That being said I’m still on her side as far as F & F are concerned, but at the same time I think she brought it on herself by being stupid. I think what they did was f’ed up, but she got what she watched them doing to others, so she was fair game. You go along with it, you’re just as bad as they are.

          • Bobbi

            That has always been my stance. I have never gotten it twisted regarding Kandi. I won’t even begin to try and justify my opinion when I’m 110% sure the same folks have read all of my previous post about Kandi just like they read what I said today. I didn’t get that twisted either. Lol

          • GetReal2014

            Same here. If you had to rate them and pick more than one, then Kandi and Cynthia would make the list based on the fact that they don’t go out seeking to destroy others, but like her? Be her fan? Kandi and Cynthia are tolerable at best. But I have never liked either one of them because they’re both weak and approval seekers, and I can’t stand a damn approval seeker. Grown ass people relying on others for their identity and feeling comfortable in a group, clique setting. H to the naw. I don’t trust people like that, and my posts reflect that as well. One thing Kandi did get right though is “The lies. The lies. The lies.”

          • Bobbi

            Truth. Same with Cyn. Both approval seekers with weak rationale. They are both wild cards based on who likes or hates them that season so respect is hard to come by for these two from my perspective. Nothing ever changed my mind about that. Its simple really. My opinion regarding the actions of a castmate’s adversary doesn’t change my opinion of that castmate. Not a difficult concept to comprehend.

          • brendah

            HELLO!!!

          • GetReal2014

            🙂

          • RealitytvJunkie

            This is not true. Kandi has many long-term friends, like Carmon, Rasheeda and few others but I don’t know their names. She post about them all the time on her IG. One man is her best friend. Also Tiny and Kandi are very close old friends.

          • charma

            I think Kandi’s just not very bright and she can’t read people so she can’t see who is a good person or a bad person.She’s not a bad person; she just has no discernment.

          • GetReal2014

            That’s exactly what it is, and it’s why MJ always tries to protect her. Kandi has no discernment at all. Without MJ, she would be screwed.

          • Bobbi

            Excellent.

        • GetReal2014

          Exactly. And this is why. Kandi’s not making sense. She knew that Kenya was dating this guy, but she still chose to throw shade and hide her hand. Kenya is no dummy. She knows exactly who those heffas are. I wouldn’t have invited their azzes either. It would’ve been stupid if she had. Why would she want people who’ve never had her back, but have shaded her at every turn to be in attendance? That’s just stupid to me.

          And Kandi? Please. She never knew who Phaedra was and she should’ve picked up on that a long time ago. When you’re hanging with someone and they’re doing that much dirt to others and you remain a ride-or-die friend, you’re an idiot, because in the end they’re going to do it to you, and that’s what happened.

          Phaedra and Porsha tried to ruin her life and she’s sitting up there crying. While I don’t agree with F&F’s BS, Kanid got what she deserved because she co-signed on the BS, and then guess who she ran to? You know it. Kenya.

          • Bobbi

            Agreed. I’m not caught off guard by any of this, though. One season doesn’t erase a history of 8 especially when you need a safe places from the scavengers you hung with previously. I could care less about Kandi’s opinion. She’s probably pissed she wasn’t important enough to be in on the secret.

            That stated, Kenya didn’t totally let her off the hook for P-gate last season. She voiced her opinion in support of Kandi but she also expressed how disgusted she was at the spectacle of it all, including Kandi’s participation in it. They all voice their opinions. Live and let live. Let Kandi pick up where she left off, Kenya’s not fooled by her. That’s why she doesn’t know the intimate details of Kenya’s world. When it comes to the real info the only difference between Kandi and the rest of the viewers is a phone number. And she probably wouldn’t have that if it wasn’t needed to communicate for the show. She was looking in the same internet window we were looking for answers. Lol

          • GetReal2014

            I agree with you about Kandi being miffed that she wasn’t in on it and had to find out along with the rest of us about the marriage. I took comfort in that because it shows that Kenya knows how weak Kandi is too. She can get along with her and point out something that’s wrong, but in the end she didn’t tell Kandi the intimate details and that shows that she knows exactly who Kandi is.

            So thanks Kandi, because you just let us know that Kenya is not fooled by you.

          • Bobbi

            Enough said.

      • RealitytvJunkie

        Brandon is not Kenya’s friend either, he’s her paid employee.

        • The Champ

          Hey girl, I thought I saw a comment from you over @ TT’s. Or, it could of been someone with the same name, long time no see ☺

          • RealitytvJunkie

            Hi Champ. Ah HAIL NAW. I don’t post at TT. I can’t stand that racist white woman. After her racist Mike Brown rants, I never clicked on her again. Then after I googled her real name and saw how deep her racism runs, I was done. Anyhow, hope you’ve been well. I’ve been on other threads.

          • The Champ

            Oh, ok. I pretty much figured it was someone with the same name, bcuz it was in favor of Kenya’s marriage 😀😀 I don’t post there, but I do click on rhoa post mostly. I’m doing good, while enjoying this beautiful weather. Anywho, Brandon and Kenya are like family, she has completely no reason to lie. I follow him on ig as well. Why do you think she needs to lie about Brandon’s friendship, what purpose would it serve?

          • Chi Town Baby

            I remember reading TT’s racist rants. I was shocked and saddened. I could not believe she actually felt that way.

      • GetReal2014

        That’s Kandi for you. She’s a backslider. I’ve never trusted her. My first clue was that she chose to hang with Phaedra. That told me all I needed to know.

        • The Champ

          Giiirl, we have been onto Kandi from the jump. We’ve been speaking of her deceitful ways for the past month.

          • GetReal2014

            I don’t think she knows any better so it’s hard to be mad at her. If you want to know who people are, watch who they hang out with. That gives you insight into their inner being.

    • Cassandra Dreme

      I don’t care to see the wedding. I hate that crap. I don’t need to see him on the show either.

    • charma

      Kandi has always been a little slow on the uptake; still love her though!

      • Bobbi

        Hahahaha. Yes she has. I will always root for Kandi’s success. She’s got the Midas touch when it comes to business and anticipating what her fans will buy and buy into. I also love that she found happiness with her little family and think Todd has been a very positive force behind her upward trajectory. I just wish she was more emotionally mature. She irks me greatly when it comes to that.

        • GetReal2014

          Yeah, business wise she’s great, but emotionally she’s stunted and child like. If it wasn’t about business I wouldn’t go to her either.

          • Bobbi

            Right. That sums it up.

    • GetReal2014

      Kandi did confirm the marriage was real and that’s all that’s important for inquiring minds. Just because Kenya didn’t run out and do an over the top wedding doesn’t mean her marriage is fake. Some people are more low key and want the ceremony to be private. That’s what I wanted. I wasn’t even going to have a ceremony and wouldn’t have if my friend hadn’t orchestrated it. My preference was to go to the Justice of the Peace. I’m not into the fanfare and sameness of wedding ceremonies.

      No doves, elephants, same white dress, flowers, etc. You see the same chit all the time and to me it’s boring.

      Hell, I don’t know any other these women personally, and I wouldn’t tell them. Why? So they can tear it down like they’ve done in the past? Anyone should be able to understand that when they’ve seen how those women act. They tried to tear Kandi’s marriage down and Cynthia’s. So, if she did tell them it would’ve just created more havoc. Those biches are not on a need to know basis. You find out when everyone else finds outs because you’re not going to be happy anyway.

      And F Bravo. They didn’t deserve the story and their ratings can go to hail. I wouldn’t have given them chit either.

      Kandi’s not very bright. She should’ve gone to Todd so that he could tell her what’s up. Kenya’s co-workers or Bravo don’t deserve shit. She wanted a beautiful, private ceremony and that’s what she got. Go, Kenya. She does it her way and those who don’t like it, oh well.

      • Bobbi

        Thank you. And, who tf is Kandi anyway that her OPINION about Kenya is now somehow golden? The cast didn’t know because they were non mf factors and she has never had their loyalty when it counted. If they meant enough to her and she trusted them they would have known so, yes call and confirm and get the answer along with the fans.

        Note, Kandi’s rep wasn’t so good in the relationship dept once upon a time. It was widely rumored that she couldn’t get a man unless she paid him. She was known as a sugar momma. Did Kenya put her out there like that when she found Todd? No. She defended their relationship. “Is this real?”. Bish please. How quickly we forget.

        • GetReal2014

          Wasn’t that long ago that people were trashing Kandi and backing F&F’s unlawful acts. Now her word is golden. LOL.

          • Bobbi

            Strange, that’s for sure. I’m trying to keep count but It’s changed 3 times now. She’s recently gone from liar and untrustworthy to the paragon and see-er of truth. What else is new?

          • GetReal2014

            Don’t try to keep count. That is written in sand. Yeah, not that long ago Kandi was the darn devil, now people believe everything she says. Temporary amnesia, it comes and goes.

          • Bobbi

            This is true. All of it.

  • Trippinhhard

    Well thanks to Kenya’s help to portrayal of black men herself, she part of the problem..
    Walter was gay, when he didn’t want her. Matt was crazy, but she never called the police on him, until after the show was over.. He was her storyline.. She’s talked shit on Kim Fields husband, Apollo although she was running behind him., She is the negative influence on the black man looking and acting a fool.. Greg has been portrayed like himself before I stopped watching the show..She help that image appear on TV, so her husband is now off limits to everyone.. GTHOOH

    • wiseone

      I know Matt is crazy and violent but I do believe Kenya manipulated and provoked him because provoking is something she is expert at. If her husband is worried about how men are portrayed I guess he hasn’t seen how Kenya is portrayed. Does he know it came out that Kenya smashed Matt in his truck on the show?

      • Trippinhhard

        I agree with you she had him do all those things for a storyline..Then she refused to compensate him for her making money off of him doing what she told him to do..Now that she’s married she doesn’t want her husband to be a target.. She did a fine job of stripping others husband.. GTHOOH

        • wiseone

          One million up votes!

    • BetteDavisEyez1

      Exactly. Dust Mop doesn’t want her ‘husband’ to be rediculed & her marriage scrutinized like she’s done to everyone else’s.
      I wonder how long before F&F are brought up.
      This has absolutely nothing to do with them but you know how that goes….

      • Trippinhhard

        IKR Kenya is the great shit stirring mess on others, but don’t touch hers..

        • BetteDavisEyez1

          Now it will be the bash Kandi thread, all because she questioned if the marriage was real.
          Kandi said nothing wrong but just to even question a habitual liar is somehow coming for Dust Mop.
          It is so ridiculous to try & spin everything to make that liar come out smelling like a rose. Delusion runs deep in some people. SMDH

          • Trippinhhard

            It’s already that..lol

      • shayvoe

        One minute ago….LMAO!!!

        • BetteDavisEyez1

          Like clockwork. That train is never late.

          • shayvoe

            That worn out broken down train is about to fall apart, but the sucker always runs on time. You can set your watch to it.

      • Authentic

        Bette you real late on the F&F question… real late!
        Lol!

        • BetteDavisEyez1

          Now how did I know it would happen is the real question. Not like im psychic or anything. LMAO!

  • italiano bambino

    Kenya need’s to either quit or expose her marriage because she shouldn’t be the exception.

    • Bryan

      She cannot expose it because then it will be seen for the fraud that it is LOL

      • italiano bambino

        That’s why she need’s to leave

        • Bryan

          She should then she can honestly say it was “HER” choice to leave instead of some stupid story after they fire her

      • RealitytvJunkie

        That’s what I’m thinking.

        • Bryan

          She gambled and she lost and the show is not going to put up with anymore scams from her

          • RealitytvJunkie

            That’s right, Bryan. If they fire her, it would be justified. This stunt is just too much. She went too far this time and turned many off.

          • Bryan

            And this bitch is so stupid she does RIGHT after all this mess with Phaedra went down and she was one of the most vocal about it and then she thought they were going to buy this nonsense

          • Authentic

            Bravo needs to fire Kenya immediately. Be done with this nonsense.

          • Authentic

            I’d like to see an interview with someone from Kenya’s family like her father, aunt Lorri, cousin Shay. Want their opinions.

          • shayvoe

            It may be hard to locate them. They may be playing other characters for other acting gigs right now.

          • Authentic

            Lol! Imagine their embarrassment right now!!
            I just don’t believe this quack is married. St Lucia should be able provide marriage license applications-somebody needs to shut this circus down.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I bet Bravo fires her if it turns out that the marriage is a fake SL she was trying to orchestrate.

  • BetteDavisEyez1

    Now you know when someone calls you up & ask is your marriage for real or not, that just says that everyone knows you are capable of lying about anything.
    Every last one of them knows that Dust Mop has been faking SL from day one & they don’t believe anything that she does or says.

    • shayvoe

      Hell…they are no different that 99.9% of the rest of the population….and they see it first hand. I have always said none of them like Kenya, they just tolerated her…Kandi’s little interview proves that. They all know she is a crazy bitch…and that includes Andy and Bravo. I would think her hubby would be seeing the crazy right about now. Why do you think she got married so quickly? She knew if she had waited much longer, he would have run screaming for the hills. I think his “what have I done” moment has already happened or will very shortly.

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        Nah!! Dust Mop’s nasty disposition is just an act. All for the show.
        She is actually a very warm, loving & stable person in real life.🤥

        • shayvoe

          Oh…that’s right…silly me!!

      • Nunna Yobiz

        If he isn’t just a paid “crisis actor” to begin with…{twirlin’…whirlin’…}

    • RealitytvJunkie

      Seriously. Kandi didn’t call and say, “congrats Kenya…..why didn’t you tell us. I’m so happy for you.” She said, “Um, is this real or fake.” That alone speaks volumes about Kenya’s shady character.

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        Exactly. That is because like I said, they have all witnessed her spinning lies every season.
        That is not a normal question but Kandi isn’t dumb enough to just believe it.

        • RealitytvJunkie

          Kenya’s response to Kandi seems suspect also.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            At this point, the only one that believes her is probably Cynthia.

          • RealitytvJunkie

            And we all know Cynthia will follow anyone to keep her peach.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I’m actually surprised that Ole Petey hasn’t added his two cents yet.
            I’m telling you, this whole thing stinks to high heaven. I mean no one has said anything about it until now?!?

  • Bryan

    Yes Kandi, it’s fake,

  • RealitytvJunkie

    Kenya showed us the crazy Matt abusive relationship, why doesn’t she want to show us her being loved, wanted and married? This whole thing stinks to high heaven.

    • shayvoe

      Like a cesspool stinks!!!

      • RealitytvJunkie

        😂😂😂😂😂

    • charma

      maybe cause she knows people are out there waiting to tear it down, tear him down.

      • GetReal2014

        You know it, and that’s exactly what happened. And then people question why she didn’t reveal it. It’s a no brainer, that’s why.

        • brendah

          All the haters claiming it’s fake is so old and tired.

          • GetReal2014

            I know.

      • But if it’s indeed a geniune relationship, she wouldn’t have to worry about any of those things. People know real love when they see it.

      • GetReal2014

        Hasn’t that been their M.O. from day one? Share with those biches? I don’t think so. She would be crazy if she did.

      • Bobbi

        …..And that is the bottom line. Most people would never be strong enough to take an ounce of the massive amount of hate Kenya receives daily. Why is it so inconceivable that she would not want to subject her innocent husband to that bullchit?

        • brendah

          This is true.

          • Bobbi

            All day.

  • RealitytvJunkie

    Kandi laughed as she made her statement to the site. She knows Kenya’s lying about this.

  • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

    More evidence that none of these B’s know (or care) about each other. They’re thrown together for a few weeks a year, forced to interact, plied with alcohol, and then told to perform like trained seals. It is what it is.

    • shayvoe

      One of their seals is refusing to perform, unless they give her a big ol extra bucket of fish. That seal just may be exiled back to Antarctica.

      • Authentic

        Lol!!

    • GetReal2014

      Exactly. They’re co-workers, not friends. I wouldn’t be discussing my plans with them either.

      • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

        It probably wouldn’t surprise you that I’m kind of the opposite … I’m always making conversation and tellin’ my bidness~ … and yes, it’s gotten me in trouble. Not so much anymore, now that I’m my own boss.

        • Annlee57

          Congratulations on being a Boss! :))

          • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

            Thanks darlin’, but congratulate me when I start making some serious money … right now I’m just killing myself trying to play, designer, builder, and selling agent. Obviously, it’s hard for me to give up control. If you’ve med Jeff Lewis, you’ve met me.

          • GetReal2014

            Ha ha ha, I love Jeff Lewis.

          • Annlee57

            Ok I will wait till then…about how long is it going to be? lol 🙂

          • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

            Well let’s see … we’re wrapping up a brand new project in the next week … a 5 BR, 7 BTH 6000+ sq. ft. beauty with casual elegance with rustic charm and only asking $1.2M … how’s your credit? https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/61161fa690276571a2595c32ac0f74ff883f36bc9f32014915914f6143c7c27b.jpg brand new project in the next week … a 5 BR, 7 BTH 6000+ sq. ft. beauty with casual elegance with rustic charm and only asking $1.2M … how’s your credit?

          • Annlee57

            What a beautiful house!! I have great credit but cant afford $1.2M :)) What state is this house in?

          • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

            The state of misery.

          • Annlee57

            Haahaaaa!

        • GetReal2014

          Nah, I talk to everyone and get along well with others, but I don’t share my personal life with co-workers or acquaintances. People are too fake for me. I only hang out with genuine people. No time for scrubs.

          • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

            I’m a buster, alwayz talkn’ bout what I want …

          • GetReal2014

            Ha ha ha. What’s a buster? It sounds funny though.

          • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

            I dunno, but it’s in the lyrics of No Scrubs. Let’s ask Kandi~!

          • GetReal2014

            Oh OK, that came to mind. Got cha!

          • brendah

            LOL! I know that’s right.

          • GetReal2014

            OK. I live by that. I don’t share anything with my co-workers. You don’t know who you’re talking to, and what their motivations are. Skip me.

  • italiano bambino
    • shayvoe

      HAHAHA….Love it!!

      • italiano bambino

        i give it to Phaedra she gives the best side eye hahaha

        • Bryan

          And she knew how to spin a phrase!

    • charma

      I don’t blame her. Those dopes don’t need to know one thing about her hubby.

      • GetReal2014

        I don’t blame her either. Why would she be rushing to tell these low-lifed women her good news? These are the same women who have consistently lied on her and cast doubt on everything in her life, but for some odd reason she’s supposed to run to them and share the private details of her life?

        And this notion that every woman is supposed to lose her mind about getting married is ridiculous as well. Maybe I’m different because to me a wedding is a personal and private occasion and I don’t go around blabbing my intentions to co-workers and people who are not close to me.

        Even my family and closest friends didn’t know that I was getting married. To me, I’m thinking, why would they care? I don’t care when other people are getting married. I don’t even think about it. That’s their thing, not mine.

        Nor would I allow the producers to dictate different aspects of my life. My closest friends were stunned when I got married. I’m just not sitting around all the time talking about my man. They didn’t even know that I was dating anyone. I didn’t see that as a problem.

        • Annlee57

          Great comment!, and why didnt anyone ask Nene about her husband? They never dug into his stuff, but they are doing it to Kenya. What he does, did, has no effect on your life so stop already., she seems happy for good for her.

          • GetReal2014

            That is odd. Apollo either. He was a felon straight out of jail and no one questioned him either. As I recall the talk was all about how fine he was. I don’t think it matters though, someone like Kenya isn’t about to be worried about people who don’t know or understand who she is. She has a great family, loyal fans and a pristine reputation outside of RHOA, and who cares about them, they’re whores, THOTS, criminals and liars.

            To each his own.

    • LifeIs2short

      Lol….

  • Bryan

    I wonder if Dust Mop does a sex tape with the so called “new spouse” and sent to the producers and Bravo big wigs, with a note “See I am having sex with my husband which proves he is real” would this be enough to suffice , they could show it every episode so he wouldn’t have to film LOL???? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

    • ALegWithWings

      His face would probably be obscured like that picture she posted of them on the boat. Kenya is that girl in middle school whose boyfriend goes to “another school” a.k.a. he doesn’t exist!

    • BetteDavisEyez1

      Remember the pic a few years back that she posted, looking all lovingly at some guy & we could barely see his face?
      Whatever happened to that guy?!? Dust Mop is a joke. I do not know how anyone believes anything she says.

      • Bryan

        was that the one where she was looking over his shoulder or something?

        • BetteDavisEyez1

          Yes. Like some crazy stalker. I mean who would want to wake up to that nut staring down at you?!?

          • Bryan

            I thought it might have been one of those life size male love dolls that she borrowed

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Well she can always lay one in her bed & everytime they film just claim her ‘husband’ is sleeping.

          • wiseone

            Kenya can’t get pregnant by a male love doll. Maybe she went back to Matt’s truck.

          • Bryan

            True!

          • Nunna Yobiz

            {snort…giggle…}

      • shayvoe

        Read it was her brother…no kidding.

        • Bryan

          Does she have one?

          • shayvoe

            The actor that appeared with the 2 little girls.

        • BetteDavisEyez1

          No way. That is even more creepy.

      • RealitytvJunkie

        Remember when she posted that video in Vegas on her birthday of the Millionaire Matchmaker guy pretending they were a couple when in reality the man went to her beforehand and told her he’s married.

        • shayvoe

          With that sad looking piece of cheesecake and one pitiful looking candle….yep, I remember!

          • RealitytvJunkie

            Lol, yeah ha.

        • BetteDavisEyez1

          Yes. This is why I do not understand how anyone could go on & on about Phaedra lying & how they hate liars but worship this fraud.
          We can make a list of lies Dust Mop has told. Why should anyone just believe this new story without any proof?!?

  • Shelly Jones

    Good for Kenya.

  • Chi Town Baby

    I do wish Kenya well and I’m happy she’s finally found love but Kandi’s comments got me wondering now. Is Kenya faking it? I really hope not.

  • Authentic

    I’m ready for Kandi’s comeback response now that she’s pissed off so many Kenya fans while supporting production. Plus, looks like Kandi is loosing fans too which drives her crazy!
    Keep talking Kandi.

    • Chi Town Baby

      While Kandi’s comments were shady towards Kenya and her marriage, I do agree with her on productions point. As a reality star of a popular show, Kenya should have notified producers of her plans.

      • Authentic

        The private marriage is very suspect to me. My main issue is Kenya asking Bravo for more money now that she’s married, SECRETLY.
        Conflicts in hubby doesn’t want to be filmed unless money involved. Its all too much!

        • brendah

          How do you know that Kenya actually asked for more money? Kenya’s has not said anything.

    • BetteDavisEyez1

      So MANY Kenya fans. LMAO!!

      • Authentic

        Good point. 😎😎😎

  • BetteDavisEyez1

    Why is it never Dust Mop being shady, she is just answering questions but it’s shade when anyone answers a question about her?!?

  • RHONJ Fan

    Weren’t some Kenya fans on this thread praising Kandi for her honesty during the reunion scandal?

    • shayvoe

      Why yes…yes, I believe they were.

    • Authentic

      They no longer exist.

      • charma

        I’ve always been a Kandi fan. I
        I just recognize her limitations.

  • Kandi and Kenya both look beautiful in these pics.

  • RonnieRIB

    AGain good for Kenya….she isn’t gong to lose that money but her man will be limited….Glad she pulled a fast one on Bravo..t.hey have been pimping her for years…

    • GetReal2014

      Amen. She got their behinds good.

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