#RHOA Recap: Phaedra Parks Blames Kenya Moore For Breaking Up Her Marriage After Divorce Party Drama!

Posted on Mar 19 2017 - 11:45pm by Dani-K

We are still in Hawaii with The Real Housewives of Atlanta. Phaedra and Kenya are on the tennis court, and the famous Williams’ sisters they are not. The two friends do not have a natural flow on the court, but at least things are going well off the court…for now anyway. About last night’s restoration revival, Phaedra concedes that #JesusCouldNotFixIt and nothing was accomplished. 

Next up is Peter’s birthday breakfast with Cynthia. There will be #NoBirthdayBooty for Peter and this will be the last time they eat as husband and wife — unless they hook up down the line. Peter says, he almost called Cynthia last night for a booty call — but didn’t. Just when Peter can’t get any more depressed, he opens Cynthia’s gift. It’s a bible. Peter isn’t impressed. It’s like Cynthia is saying, “I’ll pray for you, but you also need to pray for you.” Peter says he feels like he failed as a husband. Cynthia explains she wasn’t a good wife, and proceeded to take the blame for the entire breakdown of their marriage. Cynthia vows to never marry again. #FamousLastWords

Tonight’s dinner should be fun. They crew is going to roast Peter for his birthday. Frick and Frack are dressed like they part-time at the Bunny Ranch in Vegas. Bob arrives and announces he can’t sit by Sheree due to the “flashback of hatred,” he experienced. When Sheree arrives she most definitely does not want to sit next to Bob. When asked how her day was, Sheree says she doesn’t want to talk about it while the men are present. Okay then. Bring on the Hawaiian dancers!

Kandi starts the roast by saying Peter is “so dark, you can’t see him at night.” Todd asks, “How did Peter get a woman like Cynthia — by borrowing money from her! Porsha asks Peter if he and Cynthia are going to hit it tonight, but Peter has the better snark and says — only if Porsha don’t get there first! Kenya tells the gang that Peter’s social security number is one. Phaedra tells Peter she wants to bury him every time she sees him. We learn Cynthia, like Phaedra, should never attempt comedy. She says nobody can brush their teeth like Peter. Bob gets up, and is also a disappointment. He tells Peter something like he knew Benjamin Franklin and thanked him for the lights. But at least he tried, Sheree wasn’t in a “joking mood.” Good news though, Peter blew out all the candles on his cake and didn’t pass out.

It’s the last night in Hawaii. Kenya is planning a surprise party for her Cynthia and Phaedra. It’s an Aloha Party because it means both hello and goodbye, and I do, I did, and I’m done. But before the girls’ party, the gang goes on a windy sunset cruise. Inside the catamaran, Bob and Sheree are having a moment. Bob apologizes, although he doesn’t know exactly what for. Bob learns, as he laughs, that it’s because he doesn’t take anything serious. Bob says, he’ll take the blame for being an ass, but claims he’s not that ass anymore. Besides, what’s a grown ass man supposed to do? Bob yells he’ll bleed if that’s what she wants. Sheree wants Bob to be remorseful about walking out on her and the kids. Outside, the rest of the crew can hear and analyze their relationship. They think everything will be okay, but they are wrong. Inside, Sheree is sobbing and has decided it’s over. Bob suggests they act like they are having fun. 

Onto the divorce party for Cynthia and Sheree. What a flop! When Cynthia arrives, she isn’t happy about the party’s theme and is almost in tears. Elsewhere the men are drinking at the bar, and Peter isn’t feeling it either. Cynthia cuts off a “Bride to Be” sash because she remembers she never wants to get married again.

In walks Frick and Frack — and Frick doesn’t want any part of this party. She pretends acts like she’s sick, even looks sick, and leaves to get some “ginger ale” which is code for Hennessy. After the girls play kiss the d*ck, Phaedra sends a text to Porsha to tell her she was appalled by the party. The text reads, “I’m good, but appalled that they would think that a break up of a family is a cause for celebration and with the host being the trifling woman who was texting my husband. Disgusting and disgraceful.”

In case you’re wondering, Phaedra just called Kenya — the woman she took to a Michigan girl’s camp to support her charity — a sneaky hoe. Cynthia says she gets not wanting the divorce party, but after everything they’d been through, why is Phaedra bringing up the lies from Apollo now? That was so five years ago? Flashbacks are shown of Apollo admitting he lied about Kenya, and Phaedra telling Kenya her slate had been wiped clean. Porsha leaves the divorce party to check on the party pooper, Phaedra. Porsha tells her when she read the text, “Dey mouths dropped.”

Ding dong! Here’s comes Kenya to get to the bottom of things and kicks out Porsha, who takes her big bottle of Hennessy with her. Phaedra, who is bedridden after the traumatic divorce party, explains she does not want to celebrate her children losing their father. Umm, excuse me, but didn’t her babies lose their daddy because he committed fraud and went to jail? Kenya tells Phaedra both she and Cynthia chose divorce. This pisses Phaedra off and she tells Kenya she was a contentious part in the breakdown of her marriage. Harpo, who dis woman Phaedra — you ain’t right— and until you do right by Kenya, everything you touch will crumble! Alright, I got a little carried away there but you get my point. Kenya asks Phaedra, if she blames her and Phaedra says no, but still thinks Kenya is skanky.

Kenya tells Phaedra to get off her high horse and shoves the mock restoration service in her face. Kenya points out that the very person who is trying to bring women together in forgiveness is the one who can’t put things aside and forgive #SouthernBelleDown! Serena Williams Kenya just backhanded PhaedraKenya calls Phaedra a hypocrite and Phaedra dismisses Kenya from her room.

Back at the divorce party — Porsha explains to the other girls that this whole divorce thing is new to Phaedra because the divorce just happened. The rest of the girls had no idea that Phaedra‘s divorce took place. The men folk join the women at the divorce party and Kandi recaps the Hawaiian vacation as having done nothing for their friendships, but at least Porsha admitted she’s a liar. Can we get an amen! And Peter had a great time even though he didn’t get any birthday booty.

Tune in next week, when we learn more about the “divorce,” between Phaedra and Apollo and Matt Jordan returns to serve up some more drama for Kenya.

 

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  • italiano bambino

    I felt sheree and bob scene very force… Sheboo was acting.

    The whole kiss and make up fake friendship between fakedra and kreyonce remind me of Gretchen and tamra. Storyline

    Perhaps this the end of papa smurf head talks.

    Is thot still dating todd? Crickets

    Kreyonce shouldn’t take the blame for phadra and apollo marriage break up.. Blame it on #Chocolate #AfricanPrince

    Fakedra talking about the sacred of marriage? Really? Woman got a nerve.

    • Authentic

      All this BS to keep a peach!

  • BetteDavisEyez1

    If Kenya wouldn’t have thrown the party, Phaedra wouldn’t have brought up the past.
    Why would anyone in their right mind want to celebrate their divorce with someone that disrespected the marriage?!?
    Phaedra didn’t accuse Kenya of breaking up her marriage.
    Cynthia wasn’t even happy about the party. I do not think Kenya did it to be hurtful but neither woman is in the frame of mind to celebrate just yet.

    • Bluefire

      All Phaedra had to do was act sick and let it go. She brought up the past for no good reason.

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        That’s just what she did. Porsha read her text out loud & that is how everyone knew what was up.

        • alwayznillin

          Porsha read the text as instructed production. Phaedra sent the text as instructed by production. Kenya through the divorce party as instructed by production.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I agree. I mean it was quite apparent when Porsha read the text out loud.

      • melanctha

        She had every good reason. Kenya was horrible to Phaedra and did it deliberately. The last person to throw a divorce party should have been Kenya. It was RUDE. No one was happy with it.

        • Bluefire

          Oh please. Phaedra’s marriage was a joke. And it was clear Kenya didn’t do anything to hurt anyone. People acting like she did something vindictive and that didn’t happen. Good lord it’s not that serious people.

    • Authentic

      You don’t throw a divorce party for someone else without asking! Rude!

    • Dani-K

      I’ve never been to a divorce party or thrown one. Once some friends and I went zip lining to acknowledge a friend’s divorce – with her full knowledge. There was something freeing about it. But Hallmark has a divorce section on cards so that must mean its in now.

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        We went to Vegas after my cousin’s divorce was finalized. We all agreed she needed to get away.
        I know about the Hallmark cards. There are invitations for divorce parties & the cards are pretty funny, but not everyone celebrates the ending of their union. Some get very depressed.

  • Sugar in my tank

    Puhleeze, I am sooooo tired of seeing fake ass Phaedra be outraged. Both her and Apollo are crooks. Phaedra wouldn’t know the truth if it kicked her in her ass and introduced himself. Apollo admitted to lying on Kenya, every one saw the texts he initiated and admittedly Kenya was wrong to respond back to him, the pool scene was wrong (no excuses)but at no point do I believe Kenya broke up her fake ass marriage. I thought when you accept an apology, you agree to move on. Why all the pretense? I know, storyline..Phaedra was soooo devastated but she knew Apollo had a girlfriend while incarcerated, she was dating a man she referred to as Chocolate, she set up the scenes going to the divorce attorney and Kandi outed her lying ass on everything else…so spareth me b*tch and stop clutching the proverbial pearls because I am not buying it. Get your horse and wagon and sell your snake oil somewhere else, tramp.

    • BetteDavisEyez1

      Phaedra isn’t blaming Kenya for her divorce. Would you want to celebrate your divorce with someone that didn’t respect it?!?
      Now please don’t diefy me. LOL!!

      • Bluefire

        Apollo didn’t respect his marriage Kenya had nothing to do with that. And Please if you’re still upset about it why even hang out with Kenya? The whole thing seemed like fake outrage to me. That whole thing seemed like a script to me. I mean come on Phaedra just happens to text Porsha, and she reads it out loud!!??

        • BetteDavisEyez1

          You ever think that perhaps the idea of having a divorce party thrown by someone that had no respect for your marriage could be the reason she wasn’t into it?!?
          Apollo did disrespect his marriage & family & they are now divorcing. To claim that Phaedra is blaming Kenya is ridiculous. She is saying that her major issue with Kenya was the lack of respect Kenya displayed.
          I love all of the women that act as if the way Kenya acted was no big deal. Apollo was a disgusting pig but Kenya was acting like a skank. No bueno.

          • Bluefire

            OMG, you are making way too much out of this. And it’s silly to say Kenya had no respect for her marriage. That is just stupid. All that stuff was made up by Apollo. Kenya had nothing to do with their marriage. You keep saying the same thing and that doesn’t make it true. Kenya did nothing to disrespect their marriage. Apollo made all that stuff up. And if you are going to put the pool thing out there that is ridiculous. Apollo is the person who did all this not Kenya. He even admitted he lied so you and Phaedra need to move on from those lies.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            That is your opinion that I am making too much of this.
            Apollo made up Kenya trying to hook up with him but I am not making up how Kenya acted.
            If you don’t have a problem with her behavior, then that’s great. You are on another level from the average person.

          • melanctha

            He said that because she was stalking him. She liked effing with Phaedra. She would deliberately flirt with Apollo in Phaedra’s face. Apollo set her up because she was trying to make him look like a fool. She told Phaedra she could take her man if she wanted to and Apollo wasn’t having that. He did not want Kenya and told her so.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Any married man that tells me that if he wanted it, he could have gotten it would have gotten cursed out.
            Dust Mop’s reaction was to giggle like a giddy little school girl. She was trying to act all coy, meanwhile she has zero game & just comes across as ackward & immature.

          • melanctha

            I agree. Apollo was a POS. But Kenya and her stans keep insisting he was into on her and he was not. He probably could have slept with her if he wanted to but he didn’t want to. She kept trying to insist to Phaedra and the world that he wanted her. He didn’t. She disrespected and demeaned a married woman. I could never forgive someone for that. That is low rent stank guttersnipe behavior.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You are preaching to the choir.
            Kenya flirted & Apollo’s head got swollen. They both knew it bothered Phaedra & they both kept it going.
            But you know Raisin Face NEVER does anything wrong. Phaedra was calling her whore because she was jealous.
            That is always the immature go to. Anyone that isn’t fooled by the loser is automatically jealous. I find it hilarious as she has nothing to be jealous of.

        • GetReal2014

          Ha ha ha. That does sound odd. Don’t think I’ve seen that before.

      • Guessy

        Fakedra didn’t straight up say it but she eluded to it. Same thing

        • BetteDavisEyez1

          She said no she doesn’t think Kenya is responsible for her divorce but Kenya’s behavior was one of the major issues that she has had with her. There’s a difference.

      • Authentic

        I still need to look that word up!!! Lol!

        • the underground train

          It means holding someone up or regarding them as a God.

          • Authentic

            Wow! Really? Thanks!

          • Dani-K

            I had to look up trifling to make sure it meant more than “to go through.” LOL

          • I had to look up Kiki. LOL

          • ALegWithWings

            “Give me a word, any word, and I show you that the root of that word is Greek.”

      • Sugar in my tank

        Apollo didn’t respect their marriage. While I understand that everyone doesn’t subscribe to divorce parties, the outrage seemed very contrived.

        • Bluefire

          But the party really was for Cynthia. Everyone knows if Kenya didn’t add Phaedra she would have made some issue out of that. And even Kenya said it was a new start party. Anyone making an issue over the party is just looking for things to complain about towards Kenya.

          • The Champ

            Thank you Bluefire, she’s d@mned if she do, d@mned if she don’t 😩😩

          • Bluefire

            Exactly. People just want to hate on Kenya for any reason. I don’t take these people that serious. The whole thing wasn’t that serious but Phaedra acted like a fool. There was no reason go do all that extra when it was clear Kenya wasn’t doing anything vindictive. And when you marry a guy from Prison it’s a bit hard to take you seriously when you talk about the sanctity of marriage. Even more so when you walk around with your azz showing half the time.

          • The Champ

            It’s the norm around here. Many poster’s condone Phaedra’s behaviors, but will condemn Kenya for doing far less. Kenya hasn’t done half of the sh*t that Phaedra has. But ppl have their reasons for liking her and that’s their right. But the whole blame it on Kenya campaign seems like a major deflection to me. Some ppl don’t like to admit when they are wrong, I’m guessing.

          • Sugar in my tank

            Now you know Kenya is the root of all things evil on this planet. She is responsible for homelessness, world hunger and the next plague.

        • The Champ

          It most certainly was. Poorsha didn’t even look at the text long enough to read the full message. Phaedra came looking like she already knew what was going on.Staged. Divorce parties are the new wave, they can google it and look at the images while they’re at it. It’s nothing new. I’ve seen women celebrate with girlfriends in the club, crown and all 👸😀😀

          • Sugar in my tank

            You know I didn’t even catch that..but we know shows are staged and scenes are contrived. A few years back while in Atlanta I was at a restaurant where they were shooting and the scene was shot a few times. Kandi was told to come late and when she got there, the convo driven was her never showing up anywhere on time.

          • The Champ

            I bet. I definitely understand how the game is played. Nothing on television is 100% real as far as entertainment goes. That’s why I always say, “it’s strictly for entertainment”. Not to be taken seriously. We seem to be enjoying it 😁😁

        • BetteDavisEyez1

          He most certainly did. I agree that the whole divorce party scenario was producer driven.
          It seemed scripted & they are all terrible actresses.
          While I understand Cynthia & Phaedra getting emotional, the rest was blown out of porportion.

          • Sugar in my tank

            Uh oh, we are in agreement again..

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            I like it when that happens. LOL!!

    • Authentic

      The divorce party was unnecessary. Pure shade. Who does that without asking?

      • Sugar in my tank

        People on a reality show at the behest of production. Let’s not forget how these shows are driven.

        • shayvoe

          If that is the case, then Phaedra’s reaction could have just as easily been production driven…right?

          • Sugar in my tank

            Unfortunately with Phaedra and her multiple faces, I can’t call it. I just know for a fact that in the reality show world, production drives scenes especially when they want drama. Drama seems to be at its best when they are vacationing.

    • The Champ

      Hey Sugar, good to see you. YES, that pool scene was disrespectful in every way, I said it when it first occurred. It took Kenya a minute to realize her playfully flirting with a married man was inappropriate to say the least. The following season she had a sit down with Phaedra and genuinely apologized, Phaedra wasn’t ready to receive it. She never got over the fact that Apollo was in lust with Kenya. The way he would look at Kenya vs. Phaedra made my skin crawl. He always looked at his wife in disgust, be he knows her better than we do, ya dig? BTW, I love your post, always on point. Salute.

      • Sugar in my tank

        Hey there. Hi you doing{Wendy’s voice}..I am in total agreement with your observation. Phaedra seized the opportunity to gain a storyline with Kenya knowing that she hasn’t moved on and still resents her for her husband outwardly flirting with another woman on camera. Her issue should have been with his blatant disrespect for his wife but she defected and placed it on Kenya..

        • The Champ

          How youuu doin? 😀😀And there you have it. That’s exactly how I see it. Phaedra is trying to get her shine off of beefing with Kenya, she knows she can redeem herself with the viewers. Kenya was trying to make a peace offering by involving her in the festivities. A divorce party may not be for everyone and Kenya found that out with Cyn as well. But Cyn was a good sport and she participated in the fun. Phaedra has no intentions on bringing harmony to this group, her goal is to keep them at odds to deflect from her own misdeeds. Poorsha was actually civil when she wasn’t under that demons spell. It just shows you how much Phaedra controls the fauxship.

          • GetReal2014

            Yes to this post.

          • The Champ

            Thanks GetReal, always good to see you ☺

          • Sugar in my tank

            Well said, fauxship, cute..

          • The Champ

            Thanks Sugar 😊

      • melanctha

        Apollo wasn’t in lust with Kenya and he set her skank ass up to prove it to her. He did not want Kenya and said so. She was the one tracking him. You do not text married men. I am married and nobody better ever flirt with my husband in my face. I do not get why women do not understand this. Is anyone here married?
        I saw Apollo look at Kenya once when she flashed him in a yellow bikini and asked him to join her in a grotto. He was seeing other people not Kenya.

  • Girl Please

    That roast was a flop

  • Girl Please

    Bob is so hideous and unattractive

    • The Champ

      Bob’s attitude is disgusting and Sherain’t is nasty for taking a second look at him 😝😝

  • Girl Please

    The theme of the party was so stupid

    • Authentic

      The the theme seemed a bit shady. Unnecessary.

  • Girl Please

    Oh plz Fakedra. You are the biggest crook on the planet. You’re always talking about sex but this outrages you. Plus – the day before you were buddy with Kenya. Now all of a sudden she hates Kenya and brings up some old shit from years ago that was made up

    • Guessy

      And they always say Kenya is the crazy one… 🙄

      • The Champ

        All the time 🤓🤓 F&F are nutty buddies with benefits 🙊🙊

    • The Champ

      Let’s not forget the disgusting party Phaedra threw for Kandi. I loved how Kenya got her together. God don’t like ugly 😬

      • GetReal2014

        Kenya got here azz together and walked out. Leaving that trick nothing left to do but burp with her nasty azz.

        You know Phaedra was freaked out when Kenya won that poll over her. Nobody was buying that BS from that episode.

        • The Champ

          Giiiirl, I was all over it 😮 She have Phaedra’s azz the business, flipped her hair and walked away. Gone with the wind fabulous 😃😃

          • GetReal2014

            You dang skippy. Walked out like a queen. Phaedra had to be embarrassed. Told her to pray for herself. That was similar to a bich slap, LOL.

  • Girl Please

    The only one who mocks the institution of marriage is Phaedra. Girl bye

    • The Champ

      Thank you 😂😂

  • Girl Please

    Phaedra:
    – said months ago she wanted to start anew
    – took her to that charity camp and enjoyed having Kenya with her.
    – had forgiven her and prayed with her over a year ago
    – knew those claims from Apollo were fake
    – was playing tennis and fooling around with Kenya the day before

    Now all of a sudden she hates Kenya and blame her for the demise of marriage

    • Guessy

      Fakedra will be Fakedra. This was never about forgiveness for her. This was about keeping Kenya close enough to put her down again and hurt her. Fakedra and Porsha are sneaky hoes that will stick together like thieves to hide all their shade.

      • The Champ

        Thank you. Poorsha had the nerve to enjoy herself and go back for cake and gossip.

        • Dani-K

          So true – with her Hennessy

          • The Champ

            Blame it on the aKKahol (Dr. Heavenly voice) 😁😁 Great post by the way Dani-K 🙌🙌

      • BOOM

    • Authentic

      I’m thinking the drama is to keep her peach. Just to be center attention, get everyone talking about her.

      • Girl Please

        I agree too. But she’s so pathetic hopefully it backfires and she gets fired

        • shayvoe

          She’s not going anywhere….Andy loves her.

    • The Champ

      Phaedra came out of nowhere with that BS. She’s so predictable and stank. She must have new about bcuz she came with an excuse, I’m sure they were informed beforehand. Her reaction said it all 😧😧

    • melanctha

      She didn’t say she hated Kenya but she did not appreciate the gesture. It was tack of Kenya, of all people to throw a divorce party. She did not blame her for the demise of her marriage.

      • Girl Please

        She did blame her and her reaction was ridiculous. Fake outrage

        • melanctha

          Kenya asked Phaedra if she blamed her for the end of the marriage and Phaedra clearly answered “No.” She said Kenya disrespected her marriage, which she did. Kenya’s behavior with Apollo and Phaedra was completely out of order. Kenya behaved like a skank. period. A problem having a never been married woman around married couples is that Kenya doesn’t even understand how ratchet her behavior was. There are rules of behavior when married couples and their friends hang out and hitting on someone’s husband is a huge no-no. There is no excuse.

          • Girl Please

            She sent a nasty text to Porsha saying Kenya was a part of the dissolution of her marriage.
            Second – Fakedra is a pathological liar.

          • melanctha

            Phaedra said she was the trifling woman who texted her husband. She was very clear. She said Kenya DISRESPECTED her marriage period.

          • Girl Please

            and?

          • Girl Please

            so why she being all buddy with her. Taking her to her charity camp thing and the rest of it

    • justanothermary

      Phaedra said she doesn’t blame Kenya for the demise of her marriage. Kenya lacks the ability to see a situation through someone else’s eyes so she was not aware that neither Phaedra nor Cynthia were in a space where they wanted to celebrate their divorce. If Kenya could learn empathy (Many people believe you cannot, you’re either born with the ability or your are not.) her life would be much happier and more fulfilled.

  • Bruce’s Balls

    Ugh, I wish Frick and Frack would go the Fruck away.

    • Guessy

      Best comment 😂😂😂👌🏽

    • RonnieRIB

      Flatlined________________

    • I die……………….

  • Authentic

    Best recap!

    I did not understand Kandi at the roast…She really needs a speech therapist. Thanks for clarifying
    I don’t agree with the Color Purple comments to support Kenya.

    Still best recap ever!

    • Dani-K

      Thanks! Sometimes I have to hit the rewind several times to piece it together.

      • Authentic

        You did an excellent job!

  • The Champ

    Pipe down ppl, the divorce party was a nice gesture. Divorce parties are the new wave, if you’ve never heard of it you don’t get out much. I don’t think Phaedra will ever forgive Kenya bcuz Apollo was infatuated with her. That was a major blow to her already low self esteem. I enjoyed seeing all the women get along at the party, one donkey booty don’t stop no show. Phaedra’s nasty azz had to resort to insults, goes to show how intimidated she is by Kenya #staywoke. The roast was actually funny to me, Peter never takes himself too serious. I cried when Poorsha asked him if he was getting some tonight, he replied “if you don’t hit it first”😂😂. Bob and Sherain’t were never working on a relationship, it was set up for the show. His real girlfriend was back at the room sippin mojitos in the jacuzzi🍹🍹. Peter and Cyn’s scene was very touching, they have a beautiful friendship, maybe not perfect, but unique. I will miss Peter, he’s the only husband who speaks his mind and don’t give AF what anybody thinks, big ups brother. I was glad to see Kandi in a good place, F&F didn’t steal her glory, thank God. Phaedra was also upset that her restoration party was an epic fail and the ladies were happy and having fun at Kenya’s. She know d@mn well she don’t give 2 fk’s about Apollo or the divorce. That ain’t what she told Mr. Chocolate when she was ready to be off the plantation. Restoration my azz, she needs to be at the head of the prayer line, she’s evil and crazy.

    • GetReal2014

      Outstanding.

      • The Champ

        Thanks girl 😊😊

  • Judith Lewis

    First of all, Phaedra marriage ended because Apollo got caught stealing and went to jail. Apollo never really showed Phaedra any respect on the show. Not only did he look at Kenya; he looked and talked about banging Porsha. Phaedra got this man off the street and Apollo was not with all that pretending. She knows her divorce is not final for she misspelled her name on every document and the judge unsealed those papers and she has to redo it. Reality is hitting her for she knows all her lies r about to come out. She just used Kenya to make herself relevant. She knows ppl want her off that show with her “house of lies”.

    • RonnieRIB

      Preach!!!!!!!!!

      • Judith Lewis

        The thing that really gets to me about Phaedra is her blasphemy. God is nothing to play with nor make a mockery of. All the mess that she does, that right there is just disgusting to me. She had Tasha Cobb and her pastor on TV. Going into God’s house with that foolishness. Now all of u that r reading this and believe in God; u know Phaedra has a very strong demonic spirit in her. To put that mess on TV was just breath taking. I know Tasha and her pastor knew that she was again Faking. How can u Host a Restoration Service when there is nothing Godly about what u r doing. That is why it was a failure. Somebody at Bravo needs to know that we do not appreciate blasphemy Jesus, the Lord God Almighty and the Holy Ghost name. For Phaedra’s actions r in vein and Kenya called her out on it. See what Faky Phaedra playing with God is the very reason she is being exposed. God opened doors for her to even be on that show and her thanksgiving is blasphemy. Her mom is a preacher, why has she not pulled her skirt tail and told her to sit somewhere? Phaedra sits in our face week after week and breaks his Commandments. Those Commandments are God’s law. That same door he opened for her, listen now, he will allow it to be closed. See, God does not leave us, he takes his hands off of us. She sits on that show telling lies, starting rumors, the foul and vulgarity that comes out of her mouth, in front of Todd putting lotion on in that bathing suit, demonstrating sucking a man’s penis, fornicating and adultery. Her body is God’s temple. What a mess it is. She needs prayer.

        • The Champ

          Amen 🙇🙏

        • RonnieRIB

          AGreed…which is why she is reaping what she has sown…..100 fold.

        • justanothermary

          I don’t know what is in Phaedra’s heart and it certainly is up to me to judge anyone else.

          • The Champ

            But Kenya ☺

          • justanothermary

            I don’t judge Kenya, I feel sorry for her, if anything.

          • The Champ

            Just as I despise Phaedra, she is evil to the core and she also lacks the empathy that you speak of. Now Kenya is not perfect, but she d@mn sure ain’t Phaedra. Judith has every right to feel any way she wishes, just as you do. I just wanted to make a point, since you seem to know what’s in ppl’s hearts. What do you think of Phaedra’s appalling behaviors?

          • GetReal2014

            Excellent post. The chit that Phaedra and Porsha has done goes well beyond shade. It’s evil, demonic, and godless. They have attempted to break up marriages, destroy people’s reputations, lives, and businesses, but then they can’t be judged? Anyone with even a modicum of decency is not feeling those two demons.

            That tells you everything that you need to know. Phaedra and Porsha are damaged souls. If you roll like that, then do that, but don’t deflect and act like someone whose deeds are a molehill are worse than someone who has created a mountain.

          • The Champ

            Those two busted hens are disgusting. Sitting around cursing ppl, giggling and farting. Did you see the smile on Poorsha’s face everytime she lied on Kandi? Those heifers are beyond evil. I don’t even understand why they are even allowed the platform. Where can they possibly go from this point on? They’ve already reached their lowest point, I think? 🤔🤔

          • GetReal2014

            I don’t get how they have fans. Touching their butt cheeks together, always talking about sex, lying on people, burping and farting.

            What part of that is desirable? LOLOL! I’m just not seeing anything about them that I admire.

          • justanothermary

            I think Phaedra is appalling and I think she has no place on a show like this. However, to say that she has “a very strong demonic spirit in her” seems a bit over the top.

          • The Champ

            Who said dat? I called her evil to the core. If you google the word evil, it describes Phaedra to the T. And you’re right, she’s also appalling.

          • justanothermary

            Judith Lewis said that in the comment I originally responding to.

          • The Champ

            Some ppl don’t appreciate Phaedra making a mockery of religion, it taints the message. I personally don’t tie myself to any religion, I consider myself to be spiritually connected. I believe in a higher power and whatever energies we put out into the universe, has its ways of making it back to us. The God that Phaedra speaks so freely of would not appreciate her using his name in vain. It’s written.

          • GetReal2014

            I was thinking the same thing. Kenya gets judged nonstop and she doesn’t do a fraction of the stuff F & F do, but when it’s F & F, or some other shady bich, then it becomes “It’s not for me to judge.”

            Seriously? We all judge or we wouldn’t have an opinion. The question is which side you choose to argue, good or evil?

          • The Champ

            Heard it all b4. They won’t even comment on F&F’s horrible behaviors, they only defend them. Sometimes they will skip over a post if they run out of excuses 😁😁 We are all hear to make judgements on what we’ve witnessed. I guess it only applies to certain cast, the ratchets get a pass.

          • GetReal2014

            I’ve noticed that. Never a word about what’s good or admirable about them, just defense, defense, defense. Telling.

          • The Champ

            Girl, they won’t even mention any wrongdoings. Sometimes they just skip over post bcuz they can’t deal. 😁😁

          • GetReal2014

            🙂

          • Judith Lewis

            God is the Judge. However, when u speak one thing and do another; his word also speaks of hypocrisy. When u show ppl things that r not Godly, they have the right to look side ways at u.

          • GetReal2014

            Absolutely, a person speaking with a forked tongue is to be questioned.

        • GetReal2014

          OMG. You did that. Her blasphemy, playing with God, and demonic sums up Phaedra Parks and her fake pastor preacher mother. This woman is demonic and evil and anyone who goes along with it is just as bad as she is.

          SpiritsBearWitness.

          You agree with that which is within yourself.

          • Judith Lewis

            Go look up Peter Thomas radio interview in Charlotte, NC. Phaedra has two sisters that live there that has nothing to do with her for those same reasons. Do u ever she her family. No, only her mom.

          • brendah

            Wow, this is awful.

          • GetReal2014

            I know. I also saw a video where her sister was saying the same thing. No one messes with Phaedra. She’s nothing but a devil.

          • Judith Lewis

            Did u see where Matt, Kenya’s boyfriend came here to NC and fought Peter.

          • GetReal2014

            Yes, it’s Matt vs. The World. Everyone is out to get him. If they’re not for him, they’re against him.

            :::Sigh:::

          • brendah

            Hello!!!!!!

        • YES! I was raised in a Born Again home….I am not religious now…but…ITA with everything you said. It drives me crazy! LOL

          • Judith Lewis

            Did you see the comments Apollo’s new GF said

          • No, I did not. What did she say?

          • Judith Lewis

            She went off on Phaedra about the divorce and cheating on him. However, she needs to watch her mouth for she was helping Apollo with his real estate schemes. Check out Peter Thomas radio interview in Charlotte

          • WOW! Thanks!

        • brendah

          I totally agree with this, you cannot play with the Lord.

    • HearWhatISay

      Agree 100%. She is only fooling a few.

      • GetReal2014

        Very few.

    • melanctha

      Total BS. Divorce is not pleasant no matter who is at fault. Kenya threw herself at Apollo. He accused her of wanting to perform fellatio on him because she kept spreading sh**t about him. Two peas in a pod. She did keep texting him. He did not want Kenya. Strippers, yes, but not Kenya. She kept telling Phaedra she could have her man. Which is beyond rude and trifling. Phaedra’s divorce is her business and not some hood rat guttersnipe’s business. Kenya is that Ester Rolle looking trifling woman.

    • GetReal2014

      Perfection.

    • Yes, yes, yes!

  • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

    Ugh~ … another lame and pointless episode … when you find yourself FF’ing through most eps week after week, it’s probably time to move on. In fact, commenting on this drivel isn’t even worth making my carpal tunnel worse. Spring is here! Happy Monday kids.

  • shayvoe

    Phaedra DID NOT say she blames Kenya for “breaking up her marriage”, as the headline states and said that last night! What Kenya did was insert herself into someone else’s marriage, and did not back off when repeatedly asked to, and continued to have private conversations with Apollo, after continually being asked not to by Phaedra, AND Kenya continued flirting with Apollo in front of his WIFE…that is not OK. THAT is what Phaedra blames her for. She disrespected another woman and her marriage. And, now she wants to celebrate her divorce and the dissolution of her family…umm NO! Everyone hating on Phaedra for feeling that way, would feel the exact same way if that was their marriage and their husband…FACT!

    • as seen on TV

      tell it Shay!

    • RonnieRIB

      Yes she did…

      Frick/Frack/Fake is a liar and was busted….

      • shayvoe

        No…she didn’t. Kenya asked her while she was in her room sitting on the bed with her, if she blamed her for her marriage breaking up and she said no, she didn’t. Kenya is a snake …always has been and always will be. Neither Phaedra nor Cynthia were happy about that party. Kenya is a nasty bitch…always was, always will be. She has absolutely no emotional intelligence.

        • RonnieRIB

          I know what I saw…as did everyone else who is blinded by hatred for Kenya…
          Fakedra is a liar liar liar and will spin any and everything and sprinkle it with prayer….Bravo even had the receipts….

          But keep drinking the Koolaid…might as well stick with her till the end…bc that heifa is NOT coming back next year…watch.

          • shayvoe

            Why is it necessary for you to speak to me that way? We disagree…can’t you keep it civil and keep it about them? I think you better go back and watch that scene, which is not about drinking kool-aid. It is what it is, and what I said they said, is exactly what was said….all you have to do is go back and watch it. I’m afraid you saw, or heard wrong. She’s coming back….Andy loves her. And I just read yesterday they are ALL coming back.

          • HearWhatISay

            ..

          • shayvoe

            I was not talking to you or about you…as you can see, this post was in response to another poster, not you. You have never been rude, that I can recall.

          • RonnieRIB

            FIRST OF ALL Shayvoe…you are soooo sensitive when it comes to ANYONE disagreeing with you…and you go HARD FOR FAKEDRA and after anyone who disagrees with you….please stop trying to act angelic…you have been rude on many occassions. Now I was NOT rude to you…not did I “speak” to you in any sort of way…”drinking the koolaid is a funny saying that we all use”…you act like someone called you out of your name. Perhaps you read a “tone” because you are ALWAYS ON THE DEFENSIVE. As you said, we can agree to disagree and I disagree with you. PERIOD. And as NeNe once said” I SAID WHAT I SAID”.

            #DropsMic
            #WillNotEngageInArgumentsOverFakeAzzShadyFae

          • shayvoe

            I may go hard for Phaedra, as you and many others do for Kenya and Kandi, but I am not disrespectful to other posters, unless they start with me first. I actually don’t even post to those people, becuase I have learned there is no respectful discourse to be had with them. If you think your post to me was respectful, then we have a different definition.

          • RonnieRIB

            #PickingTheMicBackUp

            How was my post “disrespectful?”…you sound like birdman…Trust if I EVER toss disrespect your way –you will know it. I’m quite clear and concise when I post. Again, as I said, I disagreed with you and all others who follow Fakedra around like they are “drinking the koolaid”. That’s my option. There was NOTHING disrespectful about that…unless you have something against Koolaid. You are not that important for me to “start something with”…this is not junior high school hunty, it’s a BLOG….where any and everyone posts OPINIONS…Yes I will stick up for Kenya and Kandi over Fakedra and that proclaimed thot Horsha for obvious reasons..I don;t ride with thots and liars. To each his own.

            You are correct about one thing: Your definition regarding respect is ENTIRELY different than mine.

            #SickOfWannaBeCyberBullies

          • shayvoe

            Thanks for proving my point…AGAIN..Hunty!!! Like I said, I am not disrespectful first, BUT, if someone starts it, I will finish it. That mike is doing you no favors…sweetie! Me and my opinion must have been important to you for you to even respond to my post initially, and to that point, that tells you how important you and your opinion are to me, since I NEVER respond to you, or even read your posts! You have always been and will remain an invisible nonentity to me. Poof!

          • RonnieRIB

            You just did…SEVERAL TIMES.

            #BishBooBye

          • shayvoe

            Dumb AF!

          • justanothermary

            I don’t hate either one of these women, but Phaedra did say that she doesn’t blame Kenya for the divorce. I’m not sure if Phaedra was acting or not, but putting on a celebration of your friends’ divorces is not a good idea unless you are certain they are in a space to celebrate it. Kenya is not able to feel empathy towards anyone else so she just does as she pleases and if anyone calls her on it, they are wrong.

          • GetReal2014

            I so hope that lying heaux doesn’t come back. She’s brought nothing but lies and ill will the entire time she’s been on the show.

          • Sunflower

            Read somewhere that she claims that she doesn’t want to return to RHOA..!!
            #season10chocolatedrill

          • GetReal2014

            Well…since Phaedra said it I have to consider it a lie. She loves being seen and she does have her fans. I hope the report is true though. I would love for her to stay away.

          • brendah

            LOL!

    • HearWhatISay

      Phaedra is full of BS. She is just acting for the camera. She knows in real life nobody wanted low life Apollo but her. In the end she couldn’t wait for the loser to go to jail.
      She also was sleeping with Mr. Chocolate.

      I think she is sad that kids father is in jail, but that is the only reason.

      Apollo chased her down with a drill.

      • shayvoe

        “Apollo chased her down with a drill.” What are you saying…that was OK? She and Kandi both said she was talking to another man…no one said she was sleeping with him, and we know Kandi would have said that! But, if she was, who would blame her?

        • HearWhatISay

          What?

          The point is Apollo was a horrible husband. He cheated on her, he was a two time felon, disrespected her nonstop, and chased her down
          with a drill.

          She was glad the fool went to jail. Kandi and Todd both said she couldn’t wait until the fool went to jail because he was causing her too
          much stress.

          She was happy off camera and being fake sad on camera.

          Do you really think “show my boobs and Butt” Phaedra didn’t sleep with Chocolate? Do you think they held hands and took a walk in the park?

          Please

          • shayvoe

            I don’t care if she slept with the entire population of Atlanta…nor do I care who any of them sleep with. Kenya and Porsha with their married African men, or Kenya with her paid boyfriends, Kandi and her women, Shree’ with the wife beater ex, Bob, or Phaedra and every candy known to man. I don’t care what these women do in their private lives. If that party was scripted as many are saying, then so was Phaedra’s response. I am not going to get bent out of shape with other posters who disagree with me, as some on here are, and I am tired of arguing about it. I see it one way, others see it another. No one is going to change anyone’s mind, and it is stupid to argue about fake TV!

          • HearWhatISay

            What?
            Have a good day.

          • shayvoe

            You too.

          • brendah

            I’m sure you now have a headache.

          • GetReal2014

            LOLOLOL! Dylan looks just like Mr. Chocolate. LOL @ the notion of the head doctor/whore/tramp/lady pond dipper being chaste.

          • Sunflower

            …. and Apollo has the receipts…!!
            #jailhouserockerreceipts

          • GetReal2014

            LOL, Apollo, Kandi, Angela Stanton, and the streets have the receipts. I don’t know who Phaedra IS fooling, but I definitely know who she’s not fooling and that would be the majority.

          • brendah

            Okay, Stevie can see this!

      • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

        … and probably Mr. Ridickulous

    • BetteDavisEyez1

      Thank you, Shayvoe!! Everyone is too busy trying to make Phaedra out to be jealous of Kenya & claiming she blames her for that shyt show of a marriage ending. That is not the case.
      Kenya wishes she were bad enough to break up someone’s marriage. She can not get her own husband, much less steal someone else’s.

  • as seen on TV

    mmm Phaedra didn’t blame Esther Rolle, that trifling woman, for the collapse of her marriage– that did not happen.

  • RonnieRIB

    Fakedrais as fake as her new tiddays…I cannot wait utnl I get to see them break her azz down during the Reunion..No more sad sap divorcee…she was lickin chocolate and err body else before he went to the Big house…allegedly…

    #FinishHer

  • HearWhatISay

    Oh please if you have a solid marriage nobody can take your man away.
    Now maybe Apollo living in the Strip Clubs spending $8,000 on strippers would be her biggest problem.
    Phaedra is full of Sh*t.

    • RonnieRIB

      And Fakedra was right there with him admiring the skrippers coochie….my my I just lovoooooove your shaved hairs….She is a freak and a fake.

      #CannotStandTheHeaux

    • Marsbars09

      Agreed.

  • RonnieRIB

    Fakedra trying to get a new storyline for next year…TOO LATE…BY FAKEDRA…and take your bad weave, fake prayers and too tight clothes with ya…lyin azz…Apollo has moved on and SO HAVE WE…..

    • HearWhatISay

      so true

    • What cracks me up is that she did this RIGHT after her “restoration” try. Showing her in the church all, “I have the joy, people ask me how I can be so joyful etc etc.” Then…this. And Bravo to BRAVO for showing the clip of her forgiving Kenya and saying it was in the past…not! My god, if this doesn’t show her sheer hypocrisy…and if people refuse to see that? No words, I have no words…LOL

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        Bravo to BRAVO for showing all the examples of Raisin Face being inappropriate.

        • LOL, I think we see different shows Bette. 😀

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Yeah!! It happens that way, sometimes. Mainly when I’m watching ATL. LOL!!

          • I think it is cool though to see, how different people see things.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Yes, Rochelle. I enjoy reading all opinions. It is just when you(fig) can not be mature enough to tolerate & respect differing points of view, it takes the fun out of the threads.

          • Oh I agree. 😀

        • Marsbars09

          LOL!

      • Marsbars09

        ITA.

    • Marsbars09

      LOL! Hi Ronnie! Your comment is spot on and funny as hell!
      I hope you’re doing well as I hardly chat with you anymore.

      • RonnieRIB

        Hey boo Yasss I miss you too! I am slaving at the corporation but err now and then I pipe in.

    • brendah

      I couldn’t agree more!!!

  • melanctha

    Phaedra was clear, she said Kenya disrespected her marriage. She did not say she caused the split. Neither Phaedra nor Cynthia wanted the divorce party. They both looked brought to tears when they saw the theme. It was insensitive of Kenya to think that she of all people should throw a divorce party. Kenya should have apologized and kept it moving.

    • RonnieRIB

      Fakedra was as clear as mud….

      • HearWhatISay

        LOL

  • justanothermary

    It’s really tactless to throw a divorce party for others when you’re too self-involved to know how they’re feeling about their divorces. It was clear that neither woman felt particularly good about their situation so why shove it in their faces. Kenya lacks empathy and it’s all about her. Until she learns to really relate to the other people in her life, she’s going to be lonely and unhappy.

    • The Champ

      And so does the rest of the millions of ppl who have thrown divorce parties, right? Maybe neither one of them did like the idea, but Kenya didn’t find that out until afterwards. Sherain’t threw herself one, ppl all over the world are having them. It’s not that serious. Cynthia handled herself gracefully. It may not have been the best idea for some, but not everybody is against divorce parties.

      • justanothermary

        It’s perfectly fine to have a divorce party – I’ve been to a few, but not everyone is happy about getting divorced and to have someone throw it in your face before you’ve even had a chance to fully reconcile the reality with yourself is pretty heartless.

        • The Champ

          She didn’t throw it in their faces. Phaedra was celebrating b4 Apollo was even sentenced. She talks about dating and wanting to get her freak on with Poorsha all the time. Now it may not have been the best idea for Cyn and Phaedra, but Kenya’s heart was in the right place. She was trying to lighten the mood amongst the ladies and it seemed to work for all, but one. Anyways, the party went as planned and the ladies enjoyed one another and shared laughs. That’s what some of us want to see. The negativity is draining, like Phaedra. Her restoration party was a bust bcuz she wasn’t ready to make peace and live in her truths.

          • justanothermary

            I agree that Kenya’s heart was in the right place. I believe that Kenya lacks empathy so she truly was not aware that Cynthia was not happy completely happy with the divorce. I think it would be impossible for anyone to know how Phaedra is going to react to a situation because Phaedra doesn’t know until she decides to pull some shit – then it’s off in whatever direction Phaedra wants to go.

          • The Champ

            I don’t feel Kenya lacks empathy, she was coming from a good place. With that being said, all of these ladies have said and done things that hurt one another, but this was not one of them. C’mon now, Kandi, Poorsha, Sherain’t and Kenya sharing laughs and hugs, how can anybody find the negative in that. This show is in need of some peace and harmony. Hakunamatata 😄😄

          • GetReal2014

            Agreed.

          • The Champ

            You know it 👌

          • GetReal2014

            ^100.

          • The Champ

            😉😉

          • ^^^this

      • GetReal2014

        Anyone would be surprised, but I think it they were “put off” by the divorce party they sure had a strange way of expressing it. They looked like they were having a ball until Stank Face came in.

        This episode was just another reminder of how F & F are the show’s chit starters and keep up all the mess.

        It’s always fun until those two show up.

        I would love a divorce party if and when it comes to that. Just more shade throwing at Kenya. Wasn’t that much fuss when Fake ass Phaedra sat in a house of God and lied through her gapped teeth.

        #StrangePriorities

        • Sunflower

          Carlos created a new job since he didn’t have to jump in as a Security Guard on Porsha this season to protect her castmates from her violent outbursts.
          He misses lying down on her stomach, calming down her violent spasms.
          His New Job is a lying trifling whisperer with no receipts… trying to bring down Kandi and Todd.
          Phaedra and Porsha were more than happy to execute his wicked plans.
          Porsha fed Carlos lies because she was jealous of Shamea’s relationship with Kandi… and in return Carlos used Phaedra to set up the scenarios of lies… and using dumb arse Porsha to execute.
          Porsha was too confident spewing her lies about sex dungeon, raping, drugging and Marvin.
          This Bermuda Triangle will be exposed during the Reunion..!!
          #dirtydozenminustenisthree

          • GetReal2014

            Interesting. It could be Carlos, but the fact that Phaedra is doing the finger pointing…I don’t know. F & F are always gleeful in doing the devil’s business.

          • Sunflower

            Phaedra and Porsha have been too confident going after Kandi and Kenya.
            The turnaround of events in Hawaii… Phaedra going after Kenya… has me wondering about this constant flaring up of unnecessary old drama.
            Those two were probably told that they are safe within the RHOA Franchise…. no repercussions whatsoever!

          • Guessy

            I personally think Sunflower, that in order for them to stay on they have to bring the drama so they were given the green light to do what they must. After all, the conversation about the Lesbihonest encounter between Kandi and Shamea was started by none other than Fakedra. This was also supposed to be “off cameras”, yet she had to whisper. Why??? Fakedra made the finger in the hole sign and everything. I agree with you, that is confidence. I have never seen Fakedra really talk so openly about someone else’s zexual preference like that…OF course until Todd and Apollo became friends and Kandi and Fakedra had it out. Seems like payback and fun filled Bravo drama.

          • Sunflower

            Unfortunately “bringing that type of drama” is uncalled for.
            These women have children and own businesses… therefore, have their reputations to protect.
            It is very sad that it has come to this for the sake of drama.
            This entire season is so raw and none of the episodes have been worth watching.
            The “Flint” episode was the only one slightly hopeful, but looking back at the hypocrisy of it all helping underprivileged children, while exposing their own children and family to damaging sexual language and culture of hate amongst women..!
            Phaedra and Porsha are totally disgusting and Production (Carlos) can also be blamed.

          • GetReal2014

            Right, the drama those two are bringing is dangerous and foolhardy. There is nothing light about it at all. It’s just dark and evil.

          • GetReal2014

            Good point, and since Phaedra wasn’t embroiled in the Kandi drama, by her calculations, she might’ve had to re-ignite that crap with Kenya to secure her spot.

            But if Bravo falls for that, they’re pretty stupid. Her talking about a marriage that’s in the divorce courts and he has a new fiancee, well, that’s just stupid and not a legitimate reason for her to stay. (Shows you how stupid she thinks her fans are, not to mention Mr. Chocolate) Anyone who falls for that is an idiot.

            If Bravo’s execs can’t do better than that they need to give me a job because I can do so much better.

        • The Champ

          I shows their real motives. If things come together and the women start bonding and building genuine friendships some wouldn’t even bother watching. What would F&F do without chaos and drama? That’s their brand, they can’t function in the sane world of peace and harmony. They don’t understand it. I saw a movie like that b4, I can’t think of the name. When things were going good for the family, the father had to create drama and wreck havoc. He only understood chaos and destruction, that’s how he was raised.

          • GetReal2014

            So true about the chaos and destruction. Remember that episode when Team Pretty did a getaway? People were trashing that episode on the blogs and it was the highest rated show of the season.

            Everyone isn’t into all that negativity and drama. This season F & F have been front and center creating negative energy and all around the internet people are calling it “a dark season.”

            No chit, Sherlock, because your girls are the ones behind it. Only, they try to put it on others. What have the others done? Nothing. Desperation brings about irrationality.

          • The Champ

            Right. We have F&F to thank for the shows downward spiral. Ppl don’t even want to watch anymore, but keep tuning in. They will find any reason to blame the others. It’s very elementary how ppl can’t admit when they’re wrong. It shows how immature they really are.

          • GetReal2014

            I agree. Put the blame where it lies. People did when they felt it was Kenya. They trashed her to death, but now, rather than assign the show’s darkness where it appropriately belongs it’s all put under a vague umbrella as if no one can figure out who the real culprits are. Sometimes we get things wrong and there’s no shame in that.

          • The Champ

            I am always the first to admit when I am wrong. I don’t even agree with everything Kenya does, but she’s no comparison to F&F. That’s the problem with ppl today, they have a hard time admitting their wrongs. I’d rather deal with it head on and take the sting out of it. It takes the stress and negativity from the situation. I learn from my mistakes and try not to repeat them. How will you learn if you don’t feel you did anything wrong? It defeats the purpose.

          • GetReal2014

            I find it not only healthy, but it also allows you room to grow. If you never admit your wrongs, you can’t fix them.

          • The Champ

            Exactly. The truth will set you free.

          • GetReal2014

            Absolutely.

      • OMG THANK YOU!!!!! Women throw Divorce Parties all the freaking time. This was NO different. I mean, give Kenya a break. Of course those that do not like her will come up with some reason. But this?? Please.

        • GetReal2014

          Total stretch. Just looking for a reason to criticize.

        • BetteDavisEyez1

          For themselves & when THEY are ready for it.

          • I had friends throw me a divorce party. It was fun. And it was a surprise. I didn’t take it any way than what it was given in…fun.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Not everyone celebrates though. Perhaps that surprise party was exactly what you needed but everyone is different. I am also going out on a limb & saying that the ppl that threw your party know you very well.
            I saw two women get emotional. Their feelings are being overshadowed by the blow up between Phaedra & Kenya. But let’s be honest, who wants a divorce party on national tv before the ink even dries on the decree?!?

          • Marsbars09

            ITA.

          • True. You have a good point. I can honestly say by the time we did divorce, hell, I would have thrown myself a party. My kids too, it was waaaay past time. LOL!!!

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            LOL!! I can relate. It is more about celebrating new beginnings.

          • Oh it was!!! LOL

        • The Champ

          That’s what I’m saying, I see them all the time. Ppl go all out and throw extravagant divorce parties. Ppl need to lighten up and stop looking for a reason to belittle Kenya, it’s desperate and petty.

        • GetReal2014

          Sad, isn’t it? I’ve heard of divorce parties for ever. Faux outrage.

      • justanothermary

        Some people celebrate their new found freedom, others never get a place where they a happy about the divorce.

        • The Champ

          We all know that Ms. Shady Phae is a bad lawyer/liar. Production has shown he true colors to the world. Nobody is buying what she’s selling, BS 💩

    • HearWhatISay

      Phaerda couldn’t decide how she wanted to be fake on camera.. Happy or sad

      • justanothermary

        Phaedra kinda blows me away. She’s been on this show for years and yet we really know very little about her.

        • HearWhatISay

          I thought she was weird but entertaining. Now she is just fake.

          • Marsbars09

            Hi HWIS! It’s been a long time since we’ve chatted.
            Fake has always been Fake.

    • Dani-K

      If only Kenya had either asked or called it something different, like a “first day of the rest of your life” party or a “girl power” party or a “real restoration” party. Anything other than what she did. It would almost be like throwing a, “yay you’re a widow” party. But not quite as bad because some women would like a divorce party – just ask first.

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        So true. I mean Cynthia was there with her soon to be ex husband. She was still all in her feelings. She could hardly hold back the tears.
        Did anyone notice the look on Peter’s face when the men arrived at the suite?!?

        • Marsbars09

          I knew Cynthia was on the verge of tears, but I didn’t notice Peter’s expression.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Watch it again. When they walk into the room, he was taken aback. As anyone would be.

  • italiano bambino

    Jmo i think production make fakedra sent that text and Krayonce got blind sided by it…

    Seem thing’s we’re ok between those 2 something doesn’t add up.

    • The Champ

      It was set up to create drama, all the ladies were getting along fine until oompa loompa came on the scene😬 Even Poorsha enjoyed herself.

      • italiano bambino

        I got the same shit they can things to go smooth and want to f up

        • The Champ

          If you noticed, Poorsha didn’t really even look at her phone long, she quickly glanced at it. Then gave a full blown speech about Phaedra’s feelings. We the viewer’s saw straight through that set up.

          • GetReal2014

            Ah, good catch. I did think that it was a glance and was supposed at how many words she used. No way that remedial azz can read that fast.

          • The Champ

            She has a short attention span, that’s why she can’t think straight.

      • GetReal2014

        You know it. They were all laughing and having fun until Phaedra showed up with a stank face and azz. Didn’t she look like she stank last night? Butt ugly azz chick.

        • The Champ

          I had to FF the part when she went to answer the door for Poorsha. I was utterly disgusted. She needed to put some d@mn draws on to cover her wide azz. It was nasty 😵😵

          • GetReal2014

            This last episode she looked nasty in every scene. It was disgusting. I don’t see how anyone would hook up with her. She is revolting.

          • The Champ

            Yeah, she’s pretty nasty. I don’t know who’s hooking up with her, looks like they don’t want us to know either. What fool would even claim that?

          • GetReal2014

            True. Not sure, even when the Mr. Chocolate fiasco was on the table. He stayed quiet. Probably didn’t want the attention, or the knowledge that he was with her would be known.

          • The Champ

            Right. He didn’t want tone be associated in the public eye. I don’t blame him, she’s nasty.

          • GetReal2014

            He sure kept himself out of it. He did not claim her.

          • The Champ

            Sure didn’t 😑

    • HearWhatISay

      Porsha tweeted that Phaedra told her to read tweet

      • GetReal2014

        I think so too.

      • RonnieRIB

        EXACTLY….she sent it to Frick and Frick outted her to be messy….but I’m glad she did. LOL

        Lyin azz talking about a stomach ache….

    • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

      I was thinking that maybe Po’Shit made it up, but then I remembered she couldn’t possibly know how to use the word trifling.

  • BetteDavisEyez1

    Why not Porsha throw an anniversary party for when she dragged Kenya?!? Or how about they all have a mother/daughter brunch with their mother’s & invite Kenya?!?
    Then everyone would see how inappropriate & insensitive the rest are. Kenya is lacking a sensitivity chip. She has no empathy for anyone & it shows.

    • melanctha

      Bette you got it. ^^^^^^^^^ 1000xs

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        Thank you.

    • Guessy

      I know what you are saying, but divorce parties are popular. Jen from Basketball Wives L.A. had a huge divorce party. A lot of the reality folks do, that is not rare. It’s not picking on someone for being divorced. There are women who get male strippers at their divorce parties and are encouraged to sleep with them. This is the New World. I was there when Jen had her divorce party in Miami, my ex owns the club where she had it. There were women strippers there too.

      I think people are reading too much into something that is trendy. I don’t know IF Kenya had a miserable plan or she was being trendy… it’s hard to tell. What I don’t like is that people in 2017 have not heard of divorce parties. They are like surprise baby showers… If Fakedra didn’t like it, she should have pulled Kenya “the clean slate” friend aside and told her it wasn’t not her cup of tea. That is what I would tell my friend. But no… Fakedra is only loyal to those who keep her secrets i.e. Porsha so of course she had to make a big deal out of this and blame Kenya for her divorce.

      Sorry, Fakedra is reaching for Pluto with this one.. and Pluto got cancelled!

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        Phaedra is NOT blaming Kenya for her divorce.
        I have no idea why that keeps being repeated. It’s like how everyone kept claiming Porsha SAID Kandi & Todd were planning to drug & rape her.
        I get celebrating a new chapter in your life. I just do not think that everyone does it. And just because celebrities are doing it, does not mean everyone should jump on board because it’s a new trend.
        Thanks for your insightful & mature response. These days when it comes to the ATL, if you don’t agree, it turns into a childish argument.

    • alwayznillin

      I can see where throwing a divorce party could be deemed as insensitive. But, I do believe Kenya’s intentions were good.
      I totally understood Cynthia and Phaedra’s disappointment in the party. However, just as Cynthia did, Phaedra could’ve easily conveyed her disappointment to Kenya about celebrating her divorce and opt out of participating in the party.

      There was no reason for Phaedra to send that text. But, we are talking about a reality tv show that is heavily produced…

  • Sunflower

    Cynthia doesn’t need to be on RHOA.
    Her demeanor around her divorce storyline borders to being awkward.
    She is tip-toeing around Peter as she seems calculated in saying anything damaging, even going as far as blaming herself “not being wife material”..!!
    Peter was more than happy to confirm that on camera, while in true time we have witnessed him… season after season going after Cynthia’s money, not caring about her fibroid issues, using foul language… and even sparring with her sister, Malorie.
    I can totally see now why Cynthia’s daughter, Noelle, confronted her by “asking if Cynthia had low self-esteem”..!!
    Whatever Cynthia is hiding…. will eventually come out.
    Elevating Peter Thomas to Sainthood by divorcing him… is not going to erase his track record of mistreating her!!
    #friendlydivorceoverreach

  • Girl Please

    A Southern Belle doesn’t act the way Fakedra did. Sorry boo

    • GetReal2014

      Absolutely not.