Lisa Rinna Felt Attacked By Dorit’s Husband PK At His Dinner Party ‘I Was The One Being Grilled’

Posted on Jan 5 2017 - 10:08am by Terri L. Austin

On the latest episode of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, Lisa Rinna accepted a dinner invite to PK and Dorit Kemsley’s house. But she didn’t know PK would delve into her argument with Lisa Vanderpump from last sesaon.

“I thought it was kind of Dorit to invite me to her dinner party once she knew I was alone, and I graciously accepted, wanting to get to know both Dorit and PK better. However, if I didn’t know better, I could have sworn that instead of being invited to a dinner party, I was actually at a BBQ, and I was the one being grilled!”

Rinna noted that PK seemed to know a lot about her fight with LVP and intimated that LVP had given him the lowdown ahead of time. Um… Rinna does know she’s being filmed, right? That the show, her argument with Lisa, her Munchausen madness — people actually watched that happen. It’s true that LVP could have aired her grievances to her friends (and probably did), but it seems silly to think the Kemsleys didn’t watch the show before Dorit signed the contract, no?

Rinna brought up the loss of her father and said she wasn’t trying to use it to justify her argument with LVP. PK immediately told her that the loss of a parent wasn’t a justification, but a real, life-changer. Instead of hearing him confirm her feelings, Rinna felt he’d shut her down.

“I found the conversation I was engaged in with PK and Dorit to be rather surprising. I don’t believe anyone can ever tell you how you should feel or how you should grieve. Unless they have walked in your shoes, they have no idea what it’s like to lose a parent.”

Then Rinna brought up the fact that Eileen had lost her mother, too. But Eileen refused to tell any of the other Housewives before taping the reunion. PK and Dorit thought that was unfair to the women. They thought Eileen had acted in a way that might have been influenced by her mother’s death, and the other women would have gone easier on her had they known. Rinna disagreed.

“Your process is your process, and no one can take that away from you or tell you how you should feel or act. No one.”

Rinna immediately told Eileen everything that had been said at the dinner party. Eileen became upset that people were talking about her.

“I always love when we get to see Eileen and Vinny talk about what’s going on in our group. The two of them are always so funny and cute together, and I think it’s sweet how Vinny always helps Eileen find clarity in any situation.”

That clarity morphed into Eileen confronting Dorit for daring to talk about her. Eileen must have felt defeated when Dorit said she didn’t even remember Eileen being brought up as a topic of conversation. Wah wah. Soapy worked up all that righteous indignation without a payoff.

So, was Rinna right to be angry at PK’s opinion on her grief? Was PK trying to be empathetic or was he telling Rinna how to feel?

 

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  • izzie

    Oh boo hoo, Lips. I’m in no way team Dorit/PK, but both were simply stating opinions and I think PK was offering an excuse (stress) for Lips’ boorish behavior. Classless women use the death of a parent for a storyline.

    • bluebell

      LR is always stretching the truth to make cause problems. I am sick of LR, ED, & EG.

  • JustSayin

    Rinna re Eileen and Vince: the two of them are always so funny and cute together – huh? Say what now? Dafuq show are YOU watching? O.o

    Vince always seems very…disinterested in whatever Eileen is saying. He acts like she’s bothering him just by talking to him – didn’t he actually tell her NOT to talk to him before a certain hour? I hate watching their interactions because I think Vince treats her horribly and their kid picks up on it and treats her the same way! She may not be my favorite, but she deserves better.

    • izzie

      Eileen is EXHAUSTING and I think he tunes her out just because she harps on the same thing for days. Plus, she is a snooze fest.

    • Jennymckitty

      I totally agree. Vinny the Shark seems to merely tolerate Eileen. I mean, it would be exhausting listening to her circle around a topic for hours before ever making a point. But Vinny could be a bit more tolerant .

      • Athena Panagakos

        I agree. I am not an Eileen fan by a long shot but she is the one paying the bills. Also, she is the one who he wanted bad enough, to leave his wife and children for. He’s so pathetic and gross. Maybe he has buyers remorse?

      • JC

        Well its hard to judge a marriage from the outside…..but here goes; I think they have a tight marriage and we’re seeing the results of a man who really thinks this show is a waste of time and he’s designated it as womens fluffy entertainment. This I think is why he’s coming off as cold and disdainful. Vince is putting up with BRAVO because it pays the bills. Its only this season that we see him beginning to open up a little. Just hope he doesn’t get addicted to the fame and notoriety

    • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

      Hmmm .. interesting take there JS. I agree there definitely is an air of frustration in their banter (on his side). It’s odd, they actually seem more like buds than a (passionate) couple. But interestingly, they do pass the litmus test for me; that is I can easily imagine them dippin’ and doin’ it (like animals). But regardless, getting close to 15 yrs., I guess it works for them.

    • chacha1

      Vinnie Van Nobody does not like his wife at all, he won’t let her talk to him before 9 a.m. so that shows he is not interested in helping to get his son off to school once in a while, he also ragged on her about the cost of a dress when she is the one bringing in the money for him to gamble, and then he recoiled from her like she had the plague when she just tried to brush a string of hair from his forehead ….. they ARE NOT cute together Rinna … now run along and make your threats, back stroke on everything you start and have another drink you rat nasty bitch

    • Oh Snarky Me

      Oh man, I totally agree. That relationship is unfortunate, but that happens a lot when people cheat and then get together. He has no respect for her and neither does the son.

  • Contessa Bel Raven

    I must have been watching a different show. I saw Rinna bring up the deaths and the situation with LVP and PK trying to be sympathetic while at the same time responding to the things Rinna was saying but not in a nasty way. I think they are all trying to gang up on Dorit & PK by being offended where no offense should be taken. JMO

    • chacha1

      that is how I see it … Rinna who is known for violence is also a back stabber, a fence jumper and a shit stirrer

    • bluebell

      I agree 100%! LR, ED, & EG are gunning for Dorit & PK because they are friends with LVP. Their made up slights are so boring. I like watching LVP, Kyle, Dorit, & PK. The rest is just zero.

  • Sandy Wood

    Can Rinna be more confused. Did she mean that Dorit graciously invited her and she gratefully accepted, or does she really think it’s gracious of her to accept a kind invitation.

  • Elle

    As always the shit stirrer Lipsa is just trying to make an issue out of something that didn’t need to be. I thought PK was very polite with her when she brought up the issues she has had with LVP. I also believe he was trying to be empathetic in his own way with his comments regarding the death of her father. How in the hell does she think she was grilled at a BBQ? She is insane!

    • Sandy Wood

      It’s awkward all around, particularly when the person you are telling the story to doesn’t know the deceased person. It’s understandable that PK would be stuck for words and just reacted with whatever came to his mind.

      • Elle

        ITA! It was in very poor judgment for Lipsa to make this the topic for discussion at a dinner party. The lady that was sitting to the left of Dorit looked extremely uncomfortable.

        • Sandy Wood

          I noticed the lady to the left also, she did everything but roll her eyes.
          Not knowing that the dinner went on for 6 hours, I had thought it was extremely rude of all of them to be hashing out a topic that was of no interest to the other guests.
          After hearing it went on for 6 hours, I guess this was just a small snippet, hopefully the convo turned to more important things, like what have you done to your lips Rinna.

          • chacha1

            ITA…. “is that hemorrhoids on your mouth or are those your lips?”

          • Sandy Wood

            LOL, now that would make a lively dinner party conversation!

          • Oh Snarky Me

            I’ve had dinner parties that went on for six hours and the amount of alcohol consumed would definitely make you forget a lot!

    • bluebell

      She is insane. LR & ED are reaching. They are boring.

  • Bryan
    • Elle

      That’s hilarious!😂👍

      • Bryan

        David Gilmore the artist really knows how to capture these fame ho’s

        • Athena Panagakos

          He even got her crazy eyes and self righteous indignation!

          • Bryan

            He really knows how to capture their moments, he says he sits sketch pad in hand, freezes the picture on the tube and with a tall glass of wine next to him, creates these HW moments for us to enjoy LOL

    • HankyPanky

      Love it

      • Bryan

        =)

  • TMonte

    I saw it the way Rinna did and thought it was extremely rude of PK (and Dorit had to chime in of course because she doesn’t seem to think for herself, PK does that for her) to say she should have told the girls. This was her personal choice and didn’t want to be treated differently because of the loss. I also don’t believe Dorit “forgot” that conversation, not for one minute.

    • Bryan

      of course Dorit didn’t forget, she was fucking with Sourpuss and it shut her down, I would have done the same thing

      • bluebell

        funny!

      • TMonte

        Why? Just to be mean and make Eileen feel they weren’t talking about her when they clearly were?

        • Jennymckitty

          They weren’t gossiping about Eileen. Her name would never have been uttered if her dear friend Lisa hadn’t decided to share a personal story about Eileen and drag her name into the conversation that had zero to do with Eileen. I think PK said maybe two or three sentences about the subject and Dorit said “Oh, how horrible” and then “PK is right”. I can’t believe that after watching something as innocuous as this exchange, Eileen can still find something to be offended about. It must be her super power.

          • allison1050

            screaming! ;~))

          • itsjustme

            Eileen will find ANYTHING to be offended by when it comes to Dorit and PK. She knows they ARE and HAVE been friends with LVP. She has been WANTING that connection with LVP since she came on the show.

        • Bryan

          no because she didn’t want to rehash dinner chit chat with someone who wasn’t there

        • nvrbl

          gaslighting.

      • Oh Snarky Me

        And it was hysterical! I need a screenshot of Whineileen’s face to use for my avi–it was priceless!

        • Sandy Wood

          LOL, she was gulping like a guppy at a total loss for words.
          She had the script all memorized in her head and Dorit threw her for a total loop by not responding as Eileen had rehearsed.

        • Bryan

          LOL!!!!

      • Jennymckitty

        I really think she didn’t remember. If she can pull of fake forgetting that well, she’ll be great at reality TV.

        • TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes

          Me too. Eileen worded it as if Dorit had brought up something and it related to a “gathering” of the other HWs last year. I really think Dorit didn’t get that she was talking about the reunion. Plus it was such a short conversation.

      • Kissme

        Either way the end results were hilarious!

    • PK was a bit sloshed as was his wife so I think they were hearing what Rinna was saying differently. They seemed to think the fight happed while they were both going through the loss of a parent and PK was saying how that could change people and had they shared what they were going through others might have understood and been kinder. But why did Rinna even bring up the fight or her dear friend ED into this dinner? No one asked her, she brought it up for no good reason then acted all surprised people had opinions or judged! We all have opinions and judge because are human but the person ED should be irate with is Rinna who was trying to use her loss as a topic of conversation to help along her story line. Also, Eileen’s name came up for like a hot minute when discussing loss and how it affects people so, I doubt Dorit actually remembered conversation in a dinner that lasted over 6 hours.

      • bluebell

        I agree. LR & ED think they are way 2 important. LR & ED clearly can’t stop talking about LVP. A dinner party is not the place to bring up death. LR & ED lost their parents, & yet they still act like total “B.” No compassion.

        • TMonte

          They can’t stop talking about LVP because it is always being brought up by someone, or someone has an opinion they want to share even though they weren’t involved with any of it last year.

    • Sugar in my tank

      Spot on.

    • Kissme

      I don’t think there was anything malicious said, just a different viewpoint on something he didn’t fully understand in regard to the women’s friendships.

    • itsjustme

      I simpoky saw it as PK voicing his opinion. Nothing accusatory or “grilling” about it. LR was totally out of line bringing ED’s mother up in the first place.

    • criley

      When you are invited to a dinner party you don’t leave and bash the host to others. You just say thank you and move on. Rinna is just a trouble maker. Rinna, EJ and ED don’t like Dorit because she is friends of Lisa.

  • Wishmich

    Faux indignation for being attacked. Oh yay. Fun non-story line. Bring on the addict.

    • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

      But doncha kind of agree that PK was indeed coming for Rinna (like an annoying gnat)? It’s becoming more apparent with each episode that HE is probably Li$a’s “friend” and is just getting to know Dorito through him. But regardless, they have quite obviously been put there as Li$a’s soldiers – which incidentally, I can’t really fault her for. Who wouldn’t want people on “their side”?

      • Jennymckitty

        It was clear that PK was coming at Rinna but I found his style to be direct and non-accusatory. He asked broad questions and didn’t seem to grill her or say anything derogatory about her or her behavior. And really, it was a ten minute conversation in a 6 hour dinner party.

        • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

          I’ll just say this … it’s obvious why he and Li$a connect.

  • Jennymckitty

    I don’t think PK and Dorit were disrespectful to either Rinna or Eileen in their conversations. I also don’t think that PK was very hard on Rinna in his questioning about what happened between her and LVP. I would never bring up stories of multiple deceased loved ones at a formal dinner party with a group of virtual strangers. It really isn’t proper etiquette puts everyone in the uncomfortable situation of coming up with a comforting response. Rinna always over shares. And if PK can shut down the constant stream of consciousness coming out of Rinna’s mouth, good for him.

    • bluebell

      ITA! LR & ED are reaching. They are boring & have no story line.

      • criley

        The fact that she was invited over to dinner then leaves and tries to stir trouble tells you what type of person Rinna is. She is not a person to trust! I think Kim would of had more etiquette.

    • Kissme

      I was thinking the same thing not a topic you bring up at a dinner party.

    • Oh Snarky Me

      Disrespectful and attacked means someone voiced a differing opinion to Rinna and/or Whineileen. “How dare you? You beast!”

    • BetteDavisEyez1

      Talk about being a Debbie Downer at someone else’s dinner party. Rinna just sucks the air out of every room she is ever in.

  • Sugar in my tank

    Child….I am confused. LVP instigated so much last season and when both Lisa and Eileen called her on her sh*t, they were the attackers and LVP was the victim. Fast forward Lisa R. apologizes(which I would neva) and she’s still a villain. See these shows are interesting, they edit and create villains based on who doesn’t get along with the headlining fan favorite which LVP clearly is. I like LVP but she’s a sh*t starter and stirrer and uses the British banter as an excuse to be passive aggressive and rude. LVP is also an actress and is paid to keep sh*t going on this show and fans haven’t figured it out yet..

    • Wishmich

      I don’t get how LVP even comes into this discussion. It’s really about Dorit/PK/Rinna.

      • Sugar in my tank

        Probably because I brought her into it..

        • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

          Kind of the way comment/msg boards work right:-)

          • Sugar in my tank

            I will always speak my truth

          • allison1050

            That’s a tired worn out phrase…”my truth”, let it die.

          • Sugar in my tank

            Then don’t read “My Truth”..and don’t say it, since it’s worn out..

          • allison1050

            Read a book for a change and it is a worn out phrase from last season.

      • bluebell

        I agree 100% The way LR & ED acted, you would have thought the entire dinner party was spent on them. They think they are way 2 important.

      • Maria

        Because it’s always her fault, even when she’s not there. LOL

      • nvrbl

        PK was saying that it was unfair to LVP that Eileen did not tell her about the loss of her mother. Apparently the most important thing is not the fact that Eileen lost her mother but how it makes LVP look.

    • AnEnigmaWrappedIn$nark

      (((DiNg DiNg DinG)))! The comment of the day – please leave your contact info with the producers to collect your prize!

  • allison1050

    How much “loss” could Rinna have truly felt since she wasn’t really accustomed to even visiting her parents and the same for that Eileen creature since she has to hold down more than one job to support that bum of a husband.

    • izzie

      I try not to be super judgmental when someone loses a parent, BUT it blew my mind when she said on the episode when she did visit that she “tries” to see her parents once a year. Seriously? LA to Medford is short flight and a trip that could be made frequently.

      I hate it when people pay lip service to loving their parents.

      • Sandy Wood

        And didn’t her daughters say they had never been to grandma’s house…I can’t imagine that.

        • izzie

          I don’t recall that, but remember how snotty they were in general. Definitely daughters raised by Lips.

      • allison1050

        izzie, I’ve worked in nursing homes and adult children living in town a lot of times don’t visit except maybe, maybe on Christmas. LA to Oregon is no distance at all by plane.

        • Jennymckitty

          Especially when they are perpetually jetting off to Canada.

          • allison1050

            If Rinna has time to fly here or fly there then she had to visit with her parents but it wasn’t a priority.

        • izzie

          That must be heart-breaking, but I thank you for being a surrogate family member.

    • bluebell

      I agree. LR & ED are odd birds

    • Cosmoz1

      cosmoz1
      Interestingly enough, I am always aware when a
      parent of my friends dies, because we are real friends.

      • allison1050

        Those 2 feed off of each other a la soap operas, I guess they believe that’s how real life plays out.

    • Oh Snarky Me

      I thought the same thing. Didn’t she say she had never taken her kids to visit her parents? How close could they really be?

      • allison1050

        Yep, I remember reading something to that effect and that her teen daughters were making fun to the town that she is from which made me believe that they weren’t accustomed to going there to visit their grandparents which would put the ball in Rinna’s court for not allowing her daughters to establish a bound with their grandparents.

    • ImFlying

      I realize that Eileen has admitted that Vince enjoys gambling, but, he does have a job(s) after all. Maybe he has preset limits that he tries to stay within? Maybe not, but do we know? I hear his voice while my husband watches World Poker Tours from time to time. My husband has a group that he plays poker with regularly, and they put $20 in the pot, once at the beginning of the month. There are 6 players. They play with chips and log points. At the end of the month, winner gets the pot. Anyway, Vince has a nice voice on his poker show, and he has always been a hottie, ever since his Tiger Beat and tennis days.

  • belleyd

    So obvious Dorit and PK are this seasons planted friends to praise LVP…how long will that last. It never works because LVP is shady and denies everything. Dorit will get caught doing something for Lisa a la Kyle, Brandi, Lisa R and LVP will throw her under the bus and deny deny deny..like every season. This has been her story line since Cedric and I am BORED.

    • Maria

      Kind of like YHF and EG or ED and LR. hmmmm.

      • itsjustme

        The difference is Dorit and PK (mostly PK) have been friends with Lisa and Ken. EJ was simply an acquaintance of Yolanda’s through her marriage to David.

        • Maria

          I really don’t remember them saying that they were just acquaintances, it was always that they were friends.

  • bluebell

    LR & ED are really reaching. I don’t think Dorit or PK were judging them. They made a comment in response to LR (running her mouth as usual) shared ED didn’t tell anyone about her mother’s death. It was ED’s call, but it’s weird. LR & ED think they are way to important.

  • Oh Snarky Me

    I totally “get” what both sides are saying. No one is right and no one is wrong (except for Rinna for bringing up Eileen’s personal sensitive info). Eileen didn’t want to tell anyone because it would make her collapse in grief. I get that at work. You don’t want to be at work sobbing. But, when you are in a fight with someone and you verbally rip them and then later find out that person’s mother died the day before then you feel like sh!t. You wouldn’t have ripped at them if you knew the situation. So I see both their points and I think they are both valid. Tomato tomahto. But to get all butt hurt and self-righteous about it is stupid, drama, b.s. I’m sick of Whineileen acting all self-righteous. She looks for ways to be offended. Why can’t she and PK have different opinions about the situation? Why does it have to be apology-gate 2.0?

    Rinna is the one who did something wrong and Eileen should call her on it.

    • Jennymckitty

      Eileen will never do it because Rinna is her mouthpiece. She is doing just what they accused LVP of doing.

    • loriann760

      Exactly. Lisa R should never have even brought up Eileen’s losses.

    • Kissme

      Well said and I agree!

    • Maria

      But ED said nothing about LR involvement in her blog. They get to watch the episode days before it airs, they get to see how Bravo edits it. But ED is giving LR a pass and focusing her hate on LVPS friends. Just like Erika didn’t bring up ED’s mocking of her and spreading her legs to flash.

      • TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes

        Eileen never does say anything about anyone else’s involvement except LVP or anyone who likes LVP.

        • nvrbl

          Eileen did not mention LVP.

          • TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes

            I didn’t say she did – perhaps you need to read my comment again.

    • nvrbl

      So Eileen should have told LVP so LVP did not feel like a B for going after Eileen? Are you freaking kidding me? Eileen lost her mother and LVP’s ” feelings” are supposed to be a priority? Eileen was supposed to worry about how LVP might look like a B?

  • loriann760

    The only thing wrong in that convo was that they just kept on and wouldnt let it drop. Its fine to express an opinion in your own home, but its not ok to say her decision to tell or not tell was wrong. In this case whats right for one may not be for another. If Eileen didnt want to tell anyone, thats her right. On the other hand, Eileen needs to get over herself, people talk.

    • Oh Snarky Me

      Exactly, what’s the big deal? Oh the big deal is that Eileen is as boring as unbuttered white toast and is constantly reaching for a storyline.

      • Jennymckitty

        If Eileen was a color, she’d be beige.

        • HankyPanky

          With a tinge of green

  • Oh Snarky Me

    The best part of the whole episode (sorry, I just watched it last night) was the convo between Kyle and LVP in the car–that was funny! When LVP said “You slut!’ I literally lol. It was fun and silly and no one was whining about you said this or you said that.

    • Sandy Wood

      That light hearted banter and the swell soirees is why I tune in.
      Enough of the real or imagined slights or the yawning chasm of the Pasadena Puss.

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        Yawning chasm. Nailed it.

    • Kissme

      Loved that scene and when Dorit had no idea what nutty Eileen was talking about, hilarious.

    • HankyPanky

      Me too, also the scene at the Doctors, lighthearted banter, more please

  • ImFlying

    I am so thankful that I am a “real” housewife, but too busy with children and husband to actually get personally involved in this kind of shallow drama. Thank you Jesus, for that! RHWOBH, and VR are the only tv shows that I have regularly watched, and at times, it has been very painful. I took breaks. I look at the shows, with the cast actively experimenting with social engineering, and I see how that works out for them. lol.

  • ImFlying

    I haven’t had a chance to see this episode yet, but I have to say this about last season and munchgate and apologygate. Truth… YHFH was and is a gold digger that has used “illness” and/or injury to bank royally. First “broke her back giving birth”, then Munchhausen, and the children caught it too (?!). She is lazy, not exceptionally talented, and wanted to travel the world wearing puffy jackets being a hero and pioneer for the cause. Brilliant. All LR did was read aloud the definition of MH. Fact checking is the first thing a person is supposed to do, when questioning, confirming, or supporting anything. Gosh! KR is a weenie and wants to be liked, so she just clutched her pearls. LVP is a MASTER of passive aggression and plausible deniability, so she stirred that pot until it was melted butter. LVP also asked ED “is that when the affair started?”, knowing full well they were on camera. No friend does that, no way. It doesn’t matter one bit that the word “affair” can have several connotations, or even be said tongue in cheek, poking in the ribs. She said “affair” for the world to hear, and that planted the seed subliminally, and literally for all the naive, young, inexperience, and just downright mean people to serve and reheat on a platter for the entire season, and she is full aware. Hence why ED wanted a genuine apology. She was hurt. Do you blame her? As far as I read, ED is on good terms with the ex wife, so everything obviously turned out fine. Not everyone gets marriage right the first time, and wounds can heal with mature adults. SO… for PK and Dorit, to confront LR with something they have no business with… wow… how thirsty and shallow is that? Goes to show, money does not, NOT buy you class. Rant over.

    • ImFlying

      Edit to add: I meant to say that YHFH said she had Lyme. I guess I just feel that the Munchhausen was a much more plausible assessment, so I forget to add the Lyme. Just a brilliant way to get all kinds of vitamin drips, exotic cryo treatments, and plenty of first class flights and hotels with white high thread count sheets with feet up on someone else’s dime. And fancy dinner fund raiser parties thrown in her honor. Like I said, brilliant.

      • nvrbl

        Yolanda had labs showing she had Lyme.

      • Oh Snarky Me

        Chronic Lyme doesn’t exist so Munchaussen was a very plausible explanation

        • ImFlying

          Exactly.

        • nvrbl

          Actually, chronic Lyme does exist as well as neurological complications from it.

        • pink shade

          And suddenly is not “chronic” anymore and she is claiming to be cured? Besides she is not sharing the treatment? I’m not buying it…

    • Eileen was open about her affair on her first season so it was not like a word she hadn’t used before. That side conversation where Lisa asks her how the love affair started would have been a non factor and most likely would have stayed in the editing room if it weren’t for the apology tour. Eileen DID have an affair and yes all is well now and yes you are right not all marriages are right and all that BUT you cannot go around asking for a 1000 apologies for a word that in fact applies to you. Even if she was affronted Lisa used the word she should have just let it go because Lisa was not asking her about something we don’t already know about.

      • ImFlying

        I can agree with everything you said. 🙂 And if it were me, I wouldn’t have asked for any apologies either. I would find that self humiliating. My natural reaction would have been a smile, steady stare, and zero response, for 3 count and done. lol.

      • Biscuit

        OR Eileen could have told Lisa V. “That is not a conversation I am comfortable having right now, maybe later when I know you better.” Or something to that effect. Lisa Vanderpump would have steered away from the topic. Problem solved. By entering a conversation about her affair with Lisa she opened the door, so to speak, Lisa had no idea she was uncomfortable talking about it until it came up later.

        • nvrbl

          I think Eileen was taken aback. She is now pretty clear on who LVP is.
          I don’t think she expects any decency from her now.

      • TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes

        Well said.

      • bjeans1

        She was open on how she told her story any time some one used the word AFFAIR she said she wasn’t married, this is where she tries to rewrite history she doesn’t say that Vinny was still married and had a family. With her making a big deal about it is where we all found out what a liar and cheat she really was.

        • I think she did mention she was married to another soap actor but she told her husband about her feelings for Binny before she started anything or something like that.

          • bjeans1

            She did tell her husband and he divorced her, but Vinny was still married living with his wife and children. Just because one person isn’t married and other one is. Thats an AFFAIR with a married man.

          • nvrbl

            Well, Vinnie’s ex doesn’t harbor any hard feelings so I am curious why viewers do.
            Life is complicated. We do not know the circumstances.

    • nvrbl

      Yolanda has a fusion so I do not know why you put ” broke her back” is quotes. She also had labs showing an infection with the Lyme Bacteria as well as secondary infections. I do not understand attacking people for injuries or illnesses.

      • TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes

        Yolanda also had a lamb stem cell vanity treatment in Germany just before she joined the show…months later she started have issues with her immune system, a known side effect of that treatment. She won’t admit that her vanity treatment compromised her health,

        • nvrbl

          And………

          • TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes

            Her “chronic” illness is not about Lymes.

          • nvrbl

            Well, lab tests showed her infected with the bacteria as well as having secondary infections.

    • Oh Snarky Me

      Eileen brought the affair up herself on camera long before LVP. Why would Lisa think there’s any issue whatsoever with the subject since Eileen had already spoken about it openly?

      • ImFlying

        Yeah, another poster, ffaye brought that up as well. The drama… maybe I can’t keep up and I got carried away. But hey…they are getting paid, and famous, and promoting their extra stuff, so I guess it is worth it to them.

      • nvrbl

        Oh, c’mon, that was a dig . That is why LVP was so confused. Why would she apologize for hurting someone’s feelings when that was her intention?

    • TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes

      Eileen’s axe to grind with LVP stems from Amsterdam. She sees Rinna as HER lapdog and was seriously pissed off when Rinna made up with Kim and left Eileen out in the cold, especially after ED only got involved defending Rinna. Rinna, being the coward that she is, is terrified of upsetting ED so she blamed it all on LVP saying she was manipulated in to going shopping. How pathetic is that?
      So Eileen now sees LVP as a threat to the influence she has over Rinna. Fast forward to the Hamptons and both Kyle and Rinna spend the weekend convincing Eileen that everything LVP does is for a reason, just to cover their arses later when Munchausens hits the fan. And Eileen goes for it. This is why Eileen only got upset two days after the conversation at dinner and kept changing the reason why she was upset as she went along – because she wasn’t really upset about the word affair or LVP asking too many questions, none of that held water. It was just because she was convinced by others that LVP was up to something.

      • ImFlying

        Ok, yes, now that you recalled those events, I can cosign with that. And you are right about Rinna. I can now recall several times when LR’s mouth went into overdrive to the point she was likely making stuff up. Ex: LR having that overly dramatic conversation on the beach with ED and talking about LVP and Yolanda. I think she called Yo dangerous and that she was “terrified” of her or something. Trying to be smutty and edgy with Jenny McCarthy saying her husband and her tried a strap on. (Probably an outright lie, which would be so lame / peer pressure). Another time recently during a TH where she said “because I want my husband to F me”…for God knows whatever reason, so unnecessary. Choosing to actually film her bikini wax, on her carpet, giving her regular girl instructions as if this was her first time. At least Kyle doing the same thing was a little more relevant, and kind of funny, because she was getting ready for that bike marathon.

        • TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes

          Rinna is incapable of owing anything and always tries to blame someone else.

      • bjeans1

        What amazes me is how some one doesn’t watch the episode, then blames it on Lisa V from last season. If anyone is clutching pearls its Rinna and Eileen trying to play the victims, and Eileen had a stick up her ass before Lisa V even arrived at the event last year, Eileen can’t rewrite history, she had an AFFAIR and broke another women’s home up. I hope Kim comes and f–ks that loose lipped shit stirrer Rinna up. I guess we won’t see that Rinna is bringing in some one to help her gang up on Kim. You know the one that loves her hair.

        • TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes

          When I look back at poker night I actually don’t think Kim’s behavior justified the reaction from Rinna at all. Yes Kim was off her head but she wasn’t exactly breaking up the place or running around with a knife.

          • bjeans1

            I thought poker night for the most part was funny. Rinna is such a lying phony, she makes out how she has empathy for Kim, her sister od’ed and HH is a drunk I didn’t see any of that she just kept poking at Kim until Kim had enough and poked back. The phony crap with her dad was the lowest thing ever and so glad her sister shut her down. Lets not forget the phone call her and her daughters were laughing about now she wants the sl my dad died. Rinna is lower than a gutter rat.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            The part that really bugs me is how Rinna pretends it is out of concern for Kim.
            Rinna could not care less about Kim’s well being. She just views Kim as an easy target & is always taking jabs at her. I mean this is the woman that had a sister die from using. What would make her think that constantly harassing an addict is the way to help them?!?

  • Biscuit

    Knocks the huge chip off of Eileen’s shoulder. There I feel better. I have been wanting to do that for the last few seasons. Not everyone is out to get you Eileen. Stop being defensive at every situation and really try and listen to what people are saying to you before you form an opinion. Oh, and quit listening to Lisa Rinna.

  • Glooba!

    Rinna: “I was the one being grilled”

    Says the ringleader of the grilling session of LVP during the RHOBH reunion.

  • AM Hedly

    Dorit was great in this episode, I like her more and more.

    • JC

      I like her also, but I’m begining to think Dorit’s not as ingenious as she portrays. She knows what she’s doing to irritate Erika….and always with the back-handed compliments to take out the sting. Dorit has kept up a running commentary on Erika’s age, personality, clothes and profession…. all the while throwing subtle shade. Erika may have little humour when it comes to laughing at herself, but I think she is wise to Dorit.

  • JC

    This group is so use to being cuddled that any lively conversation that doesn’t smack of instant acceptance is looked at as being an attack of some sort.

  • TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes

    I am really amazed at the amount of viewers who are siding with Rinna and Eileen here and seeing something completely different to what I saw on this episode. In no way did PK or Dorit tell Rinna or Eileen how they should deal with their grief. Dorit only agreed with her husband that it was unfair on the other women not to know – that isn’t telling Eileen how she should do anything!
    Dorit is getting slated for her parenting (at least she is raising her kids unlike Erika), for being a fake friend (yet LVP and PK/Dorit have been friends for some time and aren’t claiming to be BFFs unlike Erika/Yolanda) and for lying about forgetting the conversation when Eileen wasn’t quite clear on what she was talking about (and yet Erika gets away with blatantly lying to the HWs last season about telling Yolanda). The double standards and hypocrisy from Rinna/Eileen/Erika are unbelievable.

  • BetteDavisEyez1

    How Rinna can turn someone trying to show her some empathy into they were shutting her down & telling her how to grieve is beyond ridiculous.
    Soapy & Sudsy try to find a slight in every comment, just so they can have a reason to confront someone.
    Next week we get to see Rinna lie about KimR talking about Harry Hamlin, just so she can bring up Kim’s arrest. This woman is so annoying. It’s exhausting just watching her.

  • WeCouldBeHeroes

    Yeh she was attacked, but she is the stupid one who brought up LVP. He asked you about beings self aware. That doesn’t mean you have to start talking about your dram with LVP. Rinna is crazy