‘RHOC’ Erika Girardi Is Offended By Dorit’s “Joke” & Feels She Was Trying To ‘Embarrass’ Her!

Posted on Dec 29 2016 - 5:15pm by Terri L. Austin

It’s PantyGate! Erika Girardi has two personalities — one is an aloof wife to a much older man who treats her like a child. The other is a post-adolescent girl who sings raunchy songs and struts around half naked.

The Erika we see every week on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills is uptight and lacks the ability to laugh at herself. In fact, I find her personality a little bland. But when Erika talks about being an introvert while wearing a short skirt with a very high slit and no underwear, I’m thinking she isn’t being real with herself. That’s exhibitionist behavior, girl.

Being on the receiving end of Erika’s bare puss made newcomer, Dorit Kemsley, and her husband, PK, pretty uncomfortable. So, Dorit turned it into a joke and bought Erika a pair of knickers. Dorit shared that PK had a very nice view of Erika’s naughty bits.

Erika took to her blog to tell us how offended she was when Dorit called her out.

Dorit is continuously talking about the “pantygate” situation, and I can’t help but feel like she’s out to start trouble.”

What else is Dorit going to talk about? How much can she expound on her baby’s protective headband? Nevertheless, Erika thought Dorit was intentionally making her look bad. (No, hunty. You did that all on your own.)

“She’s rubbing her hands together with excitement as she tells Eileen and Lisa R. that she “can’t wait” to bring this topic up to me in front of other people. She tells Kyle, “I have to make fun of her.” You can see how much forethought and energy was put into this and how eager she was to rub my nose in it.”

I get the sense that Dorit tends to talk too much. She overshares and starts babbling. But was she being malicious? I don’t think so.

“This “joke” feels so contrived, like she’s trying to embarrass me.”

I feel like Erika has an issue — and it isn’t Dorit. For a woman who’s that confident in her body, what’s a little snatch flash in the scheme of things? She unveiled herself completely last season and didn’t flinch. If anything feels contrived, it’s Erika’s anger over the situation.

After going to the Escape Room, the ladies had lunch. Lisa Vanderpump asked about the gift Dorit gave to Erika. Erika rudely flung her hand in Dorit’s direction and said, ‘Ask her.’ But she tried to put a different spin on it in her blog.

“…the first thing Dorit wants to talk about is her ongoing conversation about my “puss” and how her husband “could not stop staring.” The more she tries to insinuate that I did this on purpose only makes matters worse.”

Erika stated a few times in the episode that she’s not sure she even flashed PK. Riiiiiight.

“I think it’s clear by now that this was not an intentional incident, and she should really leave it alone.”

So, is Erika the one making this into a big deal or is Dorit trying to stir up trouble? Were the panties a joke or another way to intentionally embarrass Erika? What’s your take?

 

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  • chacha1

    Only Eri-Kunty can do and say what she pleases, she always dishes it out but can’t take it, she is a fence jumping liar and I would be happy if I never saw her over botoxed mean ass face again ….. bitch please !!!

    • CB

      Exactly… its hard to watch her with all the botox.. her face just doesn’t move.. geesshhh… and we are suppose to believe she married for love? her grandpa? really? I fast forward her, eileen and rinna… there’s really hardly any portion of the program i can watch… but they are ruining the show.. for sure.

    • bluebell

      Me 2!

  • Supatall2u

    Team Dorit! Pat da Puss needs to have several seats in the My Old Man Treats Me Like A Child section next to Whineleen’s My Hubby Gambles All My $$ Away section.

  • ScrappieONE

    This is the same woman who posed completely nude on Bravo’s camera to get a spray tan and is nownclaiming to be modest. Save it BITCH, I mean CUNTY

  • Sandy Wood

    Dorit’s only faux pas in all of this was her inability to assess which persona Erika was presenting when she gifted her with the panties.
    When not on stage, Erika tries to convey herself as the aloof, Ice Queen wife of a respected lawyer…she can’t have it both ways.

    • CB

      Erika being a split personality is a bit hard to take.. when she wears necklaces of See You Next Tuesday and laughs at peoples reactions but now she’s reacting? really? She throws herself all over the stage… and then wants to be respected like she’s from the Royal family.. she can’t have it both ways.. sorry Erika.. you need to take a dose of Shut the Heck Up … LOL!

  • hannigan

    RHOBH

  • Sugar in my tank

    Uh oh, I see the claws have cum out again. Clearly when a character is disliked, folks will condemn but not address the husband who disrespected his wife by creepily staring at another woman’s cooch. A woman can dress as provocative as she wants and it does not give anyone the right to attack them. This loosely reminds me of a case where a woman was raped and the defense was attacking how she was dressed as if the violent animal needed a reason to assault her. I always knew women attack other women but absolving PK for his role is absolutely disgusting..

    • the underground train

      Yes it is. I thought Dorit was too easy on PK, especially when he said he “liked the view”. She didn’t even try to check him.

      • JustSayin

        Maybe she checked him in private? Some people keep that kinda shit between them…but if it were me, if you’re gonna say something that stupid on camera, you’re gonna get checked on camera.

        • the underground train

          I hear you girl.

      • Sugar in my tank

        It’s easier to blame the other woman. She’s not going to jeopardize her marriage but at least we can expect his eye to be wandering..the cheating rumors will start surfacing before you know it.

    • BeckyGrey

      I can see you point, but I don’t think it totally applies here. We’re focusing on the question which was asked about Ericka…not PK (separate issue). I don’t think Ericka was flashing on purpose. Dorit made it seems as though Ericka did. I would be a little disappointed. But Ericka did announce she wasn’t wearing undies to be a little sexy. Dorit should apologize for upsetting Ericka. Ericka can accept it or not, but move on…

      • Sugar in my tank

        How can Ericka move on when Doritos can’t stop discussing her not wearing panties? I don’t recall when the announcement came about her not having on panties but I do recall LVP sticking her hand up her dress which was disgusting. As for PK, this is all about him because if he didn’t eerily stare or mention how it looked to him, his wife wouldn’t be on this pointless crusade including buying panties which was a b*tch move. The person who needs to move on is Doritos..

        • BeckyGrey

          Lets stop right here. I said what should have happened and then they could move on. The question that was asked by the writer was about Ericka. LVP never sticker hands up Ericka’s dress. Wait this is NVLRB?

          • Sugar in my tank

            Look, let’s learn to respect others opinions that differ from yours. My comments stands on both accounts and LVP should never have touched her skirt AT ALL. In the future if you don’t like my comments about tv characters , feel free to “NOT” respond..

          • BeckyGrey

            Well thank you for telling me I can chose to respond.So I can only respond if I agree with you? lol. I may actually agree with someone your comments about the characters in a reality show, but my comment address the question. I’ll share with you this, that I have no problem disagreeing with someone, nor the other way around. What I take issue to, is making up scenarios to fit the agenda.
            I didn’t comment on whether LVP should have touch Ericka, my comment was to your characterization that LVP stuck her hand up her dress. And if you are nvlrb ……

          • Sugar in my tank

            Look, I don’t know what the hell nvlrb means dear so that’s why I didn’t answer it. So if that was your shot at being funny, don’t quit your day job.. as for my comments, you can like/dislike, I really don’t care because I don’t go along to get along in life. My comments will always be “my perspective” and not based on devaluing a woman based on their life choices or the clothing or lack thereof that they wear..I don’t uphold wrong and when a favorite is wrong, I will be the first to condemn her for that but not forever because I don’t have neither a heaven or a hell to send myself to let alone a Real Housewife, if you subscribe to that sort of thing. In short, I don’t judge..

          • BeckyGrey

            nvlrb…is a poster on this blog. You didn’t address the issue and went back to “your focus”. That’s fine. No one condemned your perspective, I only stated that ,MY COMMENT was directed at the asked question. It seems to be a read comprehension issue or again a single focus.

          • Sugar in my tank

            Lawdy, Have a Happy New Year..

          • BeckyGrey

            Same to you !

  • MonaLucy

    Well your see you next tuesday necklace is ok to wear but panties offend you? I doubt you were named after Erica Kane, are ya that thirsty?

  • JustSayin

    Terri: …if anything feels contrived, it’s Erika’s anger over the situation – EXACTLY!

    Erika made a point of announcing she wasn’t wearing underwear, so she needs to accept responsibility for her actions. If she had handled it differently, she might have a point.

    For example, I have had situations where a friend took me aside to tell me privately that she was worried about the length of her skirt (or the neckline of her shirt) and ask that I please keep an eye out that she doesn’t flash anybody, or ask for a jacket, or something.

    Now if Erika had done something like that and the other women put her on blast for it, she would have a point. But she announced it to the group because she wanted the attention on her (puss).

    • Kell Mactell

      Exactly! She directed everyone’s attention to her lady part and then showed them all it!

    • bluebell

      ITA!

  • the underground train

    My take on this is, just for argument sake, Dorit was trying to embarrass Erika. Dorit did try to guilt or shame her. But if Dorit is so transparent and obvious why is Erika so offended? I thought Erika handled Bethenny and Lisa Rinna judgements really well last season. This season she seems to hypersensitive.

    • Sugar in my tank

      Absolutely in agreement. Presenting a woman with panties is a Rx for an ass kicking. Perhaps she should have given her husband a blindfold. I guess I would feel some kind of way if someone implied that I was pushing up on their husband because I didn’t choose to wear panties. Most of those trickz out in LA don’t wear drawers, sooo they need to have several seats and cut the phony bullsh*t out..they don’t like Erika so they pretend to like her and make shady, insecure comments.

    • LuxLuxLux

      Her husband probably reduced her pocket money after last season so she’s on her best behaviour & being all “I’m so offended you saw my exposed pussy!”

  • Jennymckitty

    Dorit isn’t trying to embarrass Erika…she is embarrassing her. I think Erika loves to be provocative and have people ogle her. I think, in the past, Erika could always play off other’s negative reactions to her displays as “pearl clutchers”. Dorit’s reaction doesn’t make her look like a prude but kinda makes Erika look low class and trashy. This was a social situation where Erika normally tries to appear lady-like and less like Erika Jayne. I think that is what is embarrassing her and making her angry.

    • Bryan

      There is nothing to Ogle,

  • Kell Mactell

    I think Erika’s exhibitionism is a substitute for the sex she is not having with her husband. She is screaming to the world “I am so horny” but she dare not act on that need.

    • Bryan

      LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • bluebell

    ITA with your comments. Erika did this on purpose for attention. Dorit was just joking. If ED or LR husband was sitting there they would flip out. They even joked about it with Dorit. I think Erika is making a big deal because she has no story line & is boring. Does Erika go without panties at her husband’s events?

    • WeCouldBeHeroes

      Erika is far from boring. She is the new Queen of RHOBH.
      Did you know Dorit told Kyle to take off her panties a few moments earlier?

      • penny 2

        I missed the part about the queen. She should stay in Pasadena.

        • WeCouldBeHeroes

          She’s the new Queen. Everyone knows and says it. That’s why so many are hating. They only hate you when you’re ahead of them.

          • penny 2

            Ok. I think production hates her.

          • WeCouldBeHeroes

            I think they love her. She’s one of Andy’s favorites too. After one season, she is one of his favs

          • penny 2

            So was Brandi and where is she now?

          • WeCouldBeHeroes

            What does Brandi have to do with anything.

          • penny 2

            She was his favorite also and that didn’t do her any favors.

          • WeCouldBeHeroes

            So what? What has that got to do with anything. That is Brandi. Not Erica. Trying to equate the two is what we call false equivalence.

          • BeckyGrey

            lol. Good one

          • BeckyGrey

            People cn dislike things about a character based on their actions. Doesn’t make Erick queen nor does it mean people hate her. This goes for anyone, not just Ericka.

      • Dr Moon & the Loon

        And?

      • Why is this happening to us?

        I forgot about that! Lol

        • the underground train

          Well Kyle was wearing pants right? She wouldn’t have to worry about exposing herself.

  • bluebell

    Erika embarrassed herself.

    • penny 2

      And no one had to help her

  • Sandy Wood

    For all we know, Erika chooses to go commando at all times. In this instance it wasn’t dictated by the fit of the dress, the skirt was loose enough she could have worn granny bloomers without a visible panty line.
    If that is the norm for her, to not wear panties, you would think she would have learned to be seated in such a way as to not expose her lady parts…unless she is deliberately trying to be provocative.
    Probably PK made a bigger deal of it than was necessary, but it could be he reacted out of embarrassment…I would have been horrified had I been seated across from her with a birds eye view.

    • WeCouldBeHeroes

      How do you know how loose the skirt was. Were you there?

      • Sandy Wood

        We clearly saw her approach the sofas, I was there only virtually.

        • WeCouldBeHeroes

          So you weren’t actually there and don’t actually know how fit or loose the skirt is

          • Oh Snarky Me

            None of us were actually there for any of this show. Should we all not comment on anything because none of us were actually there?

        • wellWellwell

          You’re correct Sandy ill fitting dress. There was a picture of her wearing it on Bravo website, if anyone cares to look.

    • Jennymckitty

      I agree, Sandy. The dress was a sack.. It wasn’t form fitting at all. Has Erika put on weight? The last two times she has “dressed up” she wore similar styles.

      • Sandy Wood

        Thank you Jenny, I think she is trying to establish 2 distinct personalities..
        Erotic Erika onstage and Elegant Erika, the lawyers wife.

        • Jennymckitty

          I totally agree. In this social situation she was supposed to be lady of the manor but didn’t pull it off. Instead, Dorit’s comment make her look like she doesn’t know how to behave like a lady in mixed company.

          • Sandy Wood

            Over on the Bravo site, Sonja Morgan has the commandments for going commando…Erica should take note. 🙂

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Not the one that needed a snatch guard?!? LOL!!

  • Bryan

    Pat The Puss is a pretty sad drag queen bitch needs to work on her tuck, she’s offended her Lady Bunny wigs offend me, there is ONLY ONE Lady Bunny and its not this Fraud!

    • BetteDavisEyez1

      Lady Bunny is/was a legend. Pat the Puss is a legend in her own mind.

      • Bryan

        She sure is!!!!, she is ALSO THEE QUEEN!!!!

        • BetteDavisEyez1

          And hilarious to boot.

          • Bryan

            Yes she is

  • WeCouldBeHeroes

    Well, Dorit was trying to embarrass her

  • bellaboo

    Why is erika “acting” like a prude? All last sea she was nude & her “gays” were rubbing self tanner all over her body including her “puss”, so 1 side of her is all an act. She cant have it both ways, either youre a prude, or youre “free” with your body. Her tagline says shes 2 people but not 2 faced, well the 2 people consists of a provacative performer & the 2nd is the wife of a prominent lawyer, but its all very exhausting trying to keep up with her.
    Erika should have told the other ladies “youre damn right i didnt wear panties, & if thats all youve got, well its your problem not mine”, & that wouldve shut them down, but shes gonna use it & milk it all season, in which i dont want to hear about it anymore. Plus i thought erika could give f*cks about such nonsense!

    There have been times when i was in my 30s & had my good times, i didnt always wear panties, & my excuse was the same as hers, “didnt want panty lines, BUT i didnt wear mini skirt & i was always self concious about keeping myself private, in other words, i didnt flash anybody. I hope i dont get a lot of flack for not wearing panties, but im also not a prude, & when i think back to my past, i find myself grinning because in my 30s i looked damn good, & could get away with not wearing panties, NOW i wouldnt be caught dead without panties! HAHAHA!!

    Also maybe this is a little off topic, but i have to get this off my chest; i dont like eileen davidson AT ALL!! Shes boring & she said shes over lvp, but that is a contradiction because in the same breath she says lvp is giving her the cold shoulder, & the kicker is that she said lvp didnt like her talking to dorit (she said lvp’s friend, yea right lvp doesnt think twice about eileen, so dont give yourself any credit, youre not worth it. Get another storyline, but shes too boring, & the only sl she has is Y&R (her show, what a crock because its not YOUR show). Like i said B-O-R-I-N-G!!!!! 1 last thing, eileen is obsessed with erika, she acts like a little puppy following her mommy, UGH!!

    hope yall had a merry christmas & have a happy new year!! Bring on 2017 because 2016 was exhausting with all the celebrities deaths, plus my life in 2016 had major challenges. Im ready for some good times, good luck, good etc………..

    • Why is this happening to us?

      Merry Christmas & Happy New Year to you too! Wishing you good health and all good things for 2017! Cheers! 🍾🥂

  • Bryan

    Just Wanted to share this drawing Todd Fisher posted to his twitter account https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/dac1333f26d9b8b917c3f860385429aa47e6daf3af032594bdaa9f2b36e76655.jpg

    • penny 2

      Printed and on the fridge!

      • Bryan

        =)

    • BeckyGrey

      I love it!

    • ❤️

    • Why is this happening to us?

      Aww…..that’s beautiful! 👭💔😢
      Thanks for sharing- I don’t use Twitter, so I’m glad you posted it. 🙂

      • Bryan

        Your welcome, I actually got it off of yahoo news

        • Why is this happening to us?

          It’s great 🙂

        • Bryan

          I am glad you like it =)

    • LuxLuxLux

      lovely. wonder how he feels with his mother saying she wanted to be with Carrie? What about him? What an awful awful situation for the family.

      • Bryan

        I think he knows she was griefs stricken at the loss of her child and understood, he just lost his sister and Debbie had not been well for awhile after suffering a series of strokes

    • JustSayin

      Ugh this made me tear up =(

  • becky webb

    Erika is really rather rude, unreasonable, and a liar.

  • Trippinhhard

    Anyone who announce that they aren’t wearing underwear, wants the attention they received.. There’s no reason to say that in a group setting.. it’s all the attention she will get, because grandpas tired after a long day of briefs and going over cases,he’s tired.. Erika was the person who said she don’t care what other think., She doesn’t have Yoliedo to fall back on so Eileen and Rhinna are her new cheerleaders.. Your grandpa should put you in time out..

    • Btheladyinred

      She didn’t announce it. Kyle was asking around if anyone had any underwear for her white dress and she asked Erika and Erika said she has none. Erika had nothing to do with how this all started. My word she wasn’t making an issue out of it. The only person who was making it an issue was Dorit and her pervy husband.

      • Trippinhhard

        I’m only going by what I read, because I don’t watch the show.. Kyle asked Lisa for panties, because hers were showing under her outfit.. Erika announced that she didn’t have any on.. It doesn’t matter to me, but Erika did say she didn’t have any on.. it’s her choice to wear or nit to wear, but I wouldn’t have said it in a group setting..imo

        • Why is this happening to us?

          Kyle asked Lisa if she had an extra pair of panties. Lisa said no, so Lisa asked Erika if she had any and Erika said she wasn’t wearing any. She only answered because she was asked… I don’t think she would have mentioned it otherwise. I also don’t think she would intentionally flash PK. I think she has too much respect for her husband to do something like that. Her dress was short, but I don’t know if anyone really saw anything or not. They are making a mountain out of a mole hill with this story that should have been a non-issue to begin with. I just hope they don’t keep bringing this up all season. I’m already sick of hearing about it!

          • Trippinhhard

            Panty gate have taken a life on its own.. She’s 3/4 naked on stage, if that don’t bother grandpa nothing will . I just hope I don’t have to read about this every week.l

          • Why is this happening to us?

            Ugh.. it’s so lame!

          • Trippinhhard

            All the money these people have and they are all disgusting. I stopped watching all the of the Housewives shows.. it’s the same old dance and pony show BH was the last one of gave upon during that trip to Dubai.. I didn’t watch the reunion shows i just waited for the recaps on this site

          • Why is this happening to us?

            I have been giving them up one by one and BH is one of the last few I actually watch. If the show keeps going on like this, I might have to bail. The comments here and the discussions are much more interesting than the shows anyway!

          • Sammie

            IKR I expect to see the glamour, charity parties, class, the utmost living on BH.
            It’s just like the rest, a bunch of women gossiping and disagreeing about the the smallest of things.. Money certainly can’t buy class.. I had a nice evening
            And I’m spending tomorrow evening with him, we are going to a New Year eve
            party.. Something I’ve never done.. we have always spent New Year eve at home, since I was a child.. We all get together, watch the party on TV, the singers and the count down in Time Square and pray, then toast in the New Year.. Why I’m going for the first time in my life to a party, and plan on having a blast.. My family wasn’t so happy about it, but they all gave spouses, ex wasn’t happy I’m breaking tradition and my brothers weren’t pleased.. I have my Gown and made sure, I would look good in it with my Flexees on..I’m toasting in the New Year with with this tall, handsome drink of water…I’m not looking back at my past, I’m so looking forward to 2017. I had already claimed it as my year
            To change some things in my life, and stepping out on faith.. Just look what happen when I wasn’t even thinking about a man.. I can’t let this slip through my hands because of what others thinks or feel.. It’s about me and I so elated
            I went to the doctors late in the evening because I normally go at [10:00 or 11:00.. The traffic is horrible in the evening from school and the plant workers getting off.. ummmmmm

          • Why is this happening to us?

            It took me a minute to realize it was you! Lol
            That sounds really nice! Have a wonderful time with your date! 2017 sounds like it will be a great year for you! Happy New Year! Wishing you good health and all good things in the new year. Cheers! 🎊🎉🍾🥂😘

          • Sammie

            They locked me out on thur my iPad I said something on a political blog and they shut my ass down…lol. I sure hope this weather clears up here it’s raining and I don’t need to be out in this weather.. The party doesn’t start until 10:00 and I’m trying hard not to change my mind.. my sinuses is horrible but I’m going because it covered parking and I may as well enjoy, something different for the first time in my life.. I wish I was in New York to watch the clock count down at Time Square.. All we can do here is watch it on TV and the people are packed in like sardines, I like to see it snowing, because ppl that are accustomed to the snow, it doesn’t phase them at all.. We would we shivering our butts off.. Enjoy Time Square in real time, I’m sure it will ge on TV..

          • Why is this happening to us?

            Oh that stinks that you got shut down…lol…at least there are always ways around that! Lol. Are you in VA? I thought you lived on the East Coast too, but I may be wrong.
            It’s not raining here, just cold (43). I went to the Manhattan yesterday and drove right through Times Sq, but I didn’t see the ball! Lol. I think it was up too high for me to see while driving and I also had to pay attention to where I was going…lol.
            I’ve lived here my whole life and have never once been to Times Sq. For New Years Eve. It’s not very pleasant. It’s VERY crowded, you need to be there like at least 12 hours ahead and they keep you in pens like animals. If you leave the pen, you can’t get back in. I always wonder what people do if they have to use the bathroom! Also, it’s so crowded, that oftentimes you can’t even get anywhere near the ball and they will have you on a side street, watching it on these big outdoor tv screens. If you have to do that, you might as well watch it from home! Lol. I always watch it on tv- it’s a better view and more entertaining. One of these years, I will rent a hotel room in Times Sq on New Years to watch the ball drop. That’s the right way to do it….lol…from the comfort of a hotel room! That’s on my bucket list for sure!
            Enjoy the ball! Maybe you can take a little nap so you have more energy for later, otherwise have some coffee before you go out! Have a wonderful time! Xoxo

          • Sammie

            It’s not the first time I been shut out, I was giveaways government information in details..you would have to book that Hotel a year or two in advance.. in live in the good old Louisiana… I see the crowds and it’s worse than my first Michael Jackson concert, the broke the doors and glass at the Centerplex, but my sister and I didn’t move..She’s petite and I’m the jolly green giant, she would hold on to my back pocket.. I wasn’t losing my place at front.. If I go to sleep, I will not make it.. Just moved my car to the other side of my carport, so he could just pull-up and I won’t have to walk around the back of my car…when my brothers were Senators,they would request so many front row seats and it wasn’t a problem.. I use to love concerts, I saw Hall and Oats in Mississippi 1 year ago and I saw Elton John the same year.. awww they was awesome.. I need to see
            Stevie Wonder and Frankie Beverly and Maze.. That’s the last of my bucket list..
            They sound just like their records.. No auto tune, bs etc. they have a band and their background singers it was worth the $250.00 a ticket because it live and no backup tracks.. You enjoy your New Year’s Eve

          • Sammie

            My post disappeared, if you want that Hotel, you would need to book it 1-2 years in advance. I just heard for the first time they will be live in New Orleans, LA.. I’m sure they will have the streets crowded, it’s always a party in New Orleans…if I took nap I would not be ready for 10:00, I would like to leave early, because the have a pre party he wanted to see his parents before picking me up, I cant say nothing about that because he blessed to have both parents
            He’s already invited me to go over to their house tomorrow because his sister and her family will be there.. I’ll decide on that later, although I know them, I’m not sure I’m ready for all that, that will be 3 days straight. I don’t drink coffee, I would be running to the bathroom allnight..I’m drinking me a Coke Cola.. I could just stay home and watch TV.. This weather is not good, but I must stop
            making excuses and enjoy myself…it’s been raining here all day.. You have a beautiful and Blessed NewYear, I’ve already claimed 2017 us my year for changing mysef, losing these 40 lbs, stop looking back and stay focus on my future.. I ready for big change and I hope Randall is part of it a chance meeting chaged everything for me..I would be home tonight with my family, but for the first time in my life I’m going out with this fine ass highly intelligent man

          • the underground train

            I know this might sound like nitpicking but why didn’t Erika just say no I don’t have any extra for Kyle (because obviously Kyle doesn’t want the pair she is currently wearing). Or just no. She didn’t have to say I am not wearing any, right?

          • nvrbl

            Erika said that after LVP shoved her hand up Erika’s skirt.

          • Why is this happening to us?

            Exactly. She didn’t have to give the answer she did…

          • TMonte

            Well said!

          • Evil Queen

            Amen! Next topic! Please!
            😀

        • nvrbl

          You missed the part where LVP shoved her hand up Erika’s dress. That is when Erika said, ” I am not wearing any. don’t shove your hand up my skirt “

          • Trippinhhard

            She should have BROKE her hands, she had no business doing that.. That is going too darn far to me.. I don’t know who Lisa thinks she is, but that was wrong on all accounts.. Ijs

          • nvrbl

            This is why you can’t go by comments. Erika was rat packed and PK all but fell out of his chair trying to see up Erika’s skirt so she obviously wasn’t flashing him.

          • Trippinhhard

            Erika dress was short when she sat down, I saw the commercial and then later she put something on her lap. I just hope this don’t be the whole season long..
            No panties.. Any man would look if you’re setting across from her.. Now I would have knock the shit out of my husband.. Erika is not a prude and she does like attention.

          • nvrbl

            If Erika were flashing PK he would not have needed to slump down in his chair and crook his neck. He all but fell out of his chair trying to see up her skirt.

          • Trippinhhard

            Like I said any man with eyes would be looking after announcing you are not wearing panties and I stand by that.. Happy New Years

          • nvrbl

            We obviously run in different circles. Happy New Years.

          • Trippinhhard

            TY

          • Oh Snarky Me

            Trippin, LVP didn’t shove her hand up Erik’s skirt and PK wasn’t falling out of his chair to look. I watched the show yesterday. Erica announced to the whole table that she wasn’t wearing panties and grinned like it was some super cool thing. She was looking for attention and now she’s pissed that she didn’t get the type of attention she wanted.

          • Trippinhhard

            Thank you that’s what I thought I read, because I don’t watch the show.
            No one should be putting their hands under someone else dress..

          • Evil Queen

            Really? Must be watching a different show.

          • Evil Queen

            Thank u! Pumpy was trying
            to embarrass Erika.

        • Btheladyinred

          She looked at Erika to ask her too. So Erika didn’t just say it for no reason. My word you people are getting all uppity about no underwear? It’s not that serious.

          • Trippinhhard

            It was made serious because everyone has an opinion and just because they are not the same, don’t make it untrue.. We all choose to believe whatever we want.. Erika announced it to get a rise and that’s my opinion and she got what she was looking for attention.

        • tsc

          Maybe it’s just me, but who carries around an extra pair of undies just in case a friend needs a pair?!?! Is that a Beverly Hills trend?

          • Trippinhhard

            I don’t know who would do that, but when I was an executive for a large corporation. I kept several pairs of pantyhose in my glove box, because I didn’t want to be seen, with a run in my stockings..I was the only woman in the southern division and I liked to look professional at all times.. Also I knew lots of people who didn’t wear panties, but they didn’t announce to it others.. To each it own

          • tsc

            I agree. I have done that too with stockings, always had an extra pair or two. But the idea that you would carry “community panties” just in case someone had a wrong colored undies or commando moment just seemed strange and funny to me.

          • Sammie

            That was just plain TACKY, I’m not taking no undergarments from no one..
            We couldn’t share in my house, because my ass is bigger than my sister and my mother.. They we’re petite and I’m 6 inches taller and bigger than them., my sister never wore undies with her blue jeans, never ever.. That was just who she was…

          • tsc

            No, no, no. I’m sorry, perhaps I was not clear. I was not saying that YOU would share undies, I was saying that these women in Bev Hills apparently think that the sharing of undies is some type of norm.

          • Sammie

            I was just saying it was tacky of that woman to try and give Erika a pair of underwears..it ain’t that serious that she didn’t wear underwear, I just thought she didn’t have to say, I don’t have none on.. Also sisters do use each other stuff, clothes, makeup etc.. I couldn’t because I’m the jolly green giant and she was petite.. I just think this shit has been blown way out of proportion and I hope this is not going to be the season of no panty gate…. my brains and fingers don’t match sometimes, and I need to reread before I post and I don’t reread my post.. no harm or fowl, we’re all just giving our opinion, which make it fun posting..

          • Sammie

            My post disappeared I was trying to say, I thought it was tacky of her to bring underwear to Erika.. Erika did say she didn’t have any on, I don’t get what the big deal is, besides her dress was short.. I just don’t want this season to be about panty gate, it’s not that serious.. None of these women are friends at all, they barely tolerate each other as coworkers… Sometimes my brains and fingers don’t keep up.. I wouldn’t take underwears from none of them and I meant no harm.. that’s what make posting interesting different opinions and enjoy reading and posting.. I don’t won’t to hear about panty gate this whole season..because it will be like Lyme disease the last two seasons..

          • Evil Queen

            Who cares if anyone is going commando, or not.
            Personally, I go commando too, with certain outfits.
            It’s 2016-2017! Not 1950!

          • tsc

            I don’t care if a woman goes commando. I don’t even care if, because someone wants to free the vajajay, there is a peek-a-boo moment. I won’t do it because I do would rather protect my vaj from the “freedom” of other folks’ bits. It just skeeves me a little.

      • Kissme

        She did announce it and she didn’t need to.

        • Btheladyinred

          How did she announce it when asked? Announcing something is when you just say it for no reason for people to know. That isn’t at all what happened. My word…

          • Kissme

            LVP asked if she had an extra pair for Kyle, that’s when Erika loud and proudly announced she wasn’t wearing any rather coyly. All she had to say was, sorry I don’t carry extras with me or whatever.

          • Kell Mactell

            As if LVP expected her to slip her underwear off and hand them to Kyle.

          • Btheladyinred

            Exactly, it was a silly question and Erika answered it exactly how she should have. I can’t believe this is even being talked about. Everyone keeps making stupid comments about being proper when the question wasn’t proper to begin with.

          • Kissme

            Of course she didn’t, it was a joke!

      • Evil Queen

        Thought Pumpy asked Erika if she had any panties for Kyle?

        • Btheladyinred

          Yes she did. I only meant Kyle was the one who needed them.

  • Btheladyinred

    The bottom line with all of this is that Dorit obviously thinks Erika is sexier than her and was a bit put down because her husband is attracted to Erika. Erika did nothing wrong, no one would have even known if Kyle hadn’t asked for underwear. Erika seems way over this yet no one else is dropping it, not even the gossip sites. What in the world is the big deal? Move on people move on.

    • I don’t think Dorit feels that way at all. I think what’s going on is Erika’s tacky and doesn’t know how to behave in certain social circles.

      • nvrbl

        You are kidding, right? PK almost fell out of his chair trying to see up Erika’s dress. If Erika was trying to flash him, why did he contort himself trying to see?

      • Btheladyinred

        Oh please. So Dorit thinks it’s her place to scold a grown azz woman when she should be telling her perv husband not to look if it’s so tacky. That is total BS. If Dorit was so concerned about how to behave is social circles she would have started with her staring husband.

        • Evil Queen

          Exactly! If PK was so uncomfortable, why not get up, & move. Nope. He loved his seat. Probably had a woody.
          He should have asked Dorito to switch seats with him, so he could talk to Ken. Perfect reason.

          • Btheladyinred

            And PK didn’t even have to say anything about it. The whole thing is beyond stupid.

    • Bella Pitty

      All she had to say was that she didn’t have any NOT that she wasn’t wearing any. Erika started it. She’s a snooze fest. Meh.

      • Btheladyinred

        Seriously? What does it really matter that she said she wasn’t wearing any? WTH? This is so stupid to me. Erika didn’t start it, she didn’t bring it up and would have no reason to say anything unless it was brought up, and she reacted to is like it’s no big deal and it isn’t. The people making an issue out of it have hang ups. Drop it, it’s no big deal.

        • Bella Pitty

          Then why mention it and then be embarrassed about it?

      • Evil Queen

        Erika did not start anything.

    • Evil Queen

      U took the words right out of my mouth. Dorit is an insecure, mealymouthed, woman. Her vajay probably still looks like she sat on a land mind, after having Phoenix. PK was probably drooling over Erika’s puss. He just looks like an old perv.

  • BeckyGrey

    Levity…an attempt for Dorit to be slightly passive aggressive but in a “Shots fired” kind of way.

  • Bryan

    Oh BTW All About the Tea, I LIKE the snow flakes!!!, rather soothing and festive at the same time, but that is just me!

    • Why is this happening to us?

      I like it too! Let it snow!! ☃️🌨❄️

  • Why is this happening to us?

    I’m really sick of hearing about this no panties storyline. Now all of their blogs this week are about it too….ugh….this season needs to change direction QUICK! So far, it’s been a snooze… 😴😴😴

  • BetteDavisEyez1

    With all of plastic surgeries they are able to preform, doctors should come up with a procedure to implant a personality & one for a sense of humor.

    • Why is this happening to us?

      Hi Bette! I just got here 🙂
      They need to learn how to do personality transplants on some of these women. Erika is a dud to me. Even her Erika Jayne persona bores me…

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        Good Morning, Why. GMTA. I said the same thing. How does she have two boring personas?!? LOL!!

        • Why is this happening to us?

          I don’t know! Lol
          I feel like she’s just predictable. It was different last season when we were introduced to her and her story was fresh, but clearly it’s a persona and not her real personality. I just don’t feel like she has much of a personality.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            One personality claims to give zero effs & the other gives too many.🤣

          • Why is this happening to us?

            Haha! Good one! Lol

        • Why is this happening to us?

          I’m sorry I didn’t get to write back to you tonight. I keep falling asleep over here mid sentence….I’ll get back to you tomorrow. Sweet dreams, Sugar! XO

    • RunningWithWine

      lol omg yes

  • Darris

    I cant understand being annoyed about receiving panties from someone I barely knew. However…no matter how much I like Erika…if she flashed someone’s husband on accident or purpose she should have reached out to Dorit and apologized. That probably could have killed this whole scenario

    • Kissme

      Thank you! I think your the first person that has mentioned that an apology is in order. Even if it’s a simple, I’m not sure how that happened and I’m sorry if it made anyone uncomfortable?

    • Evil Queen

      How can Erika apologize for something that she was unaware of? Erika didn’t know until Dorit told her that day @ the Escape Room party.

      • Darris

        She could have apologized at the escape room party…the lunch right afterwards. Two opportunities right there.

  • TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes

    Erika ignores conveniently how much Kyle and Eileen were rubbing their hands together at the prospect of Dorit bringing up pantygate to Erika. They were thrilled. Of course Dorit has to talk to the ladies about Erika – what else will she talk about? Her neighbours? Grocery shopping? They ALL have to talk about each other to each other. That’s the point of the show.

    • RunningWithWine

      Bingo! I don’t get how people have forgotten that they discussed any and all subjects to death with each women! Suddenly it’s like nobody’s done it before now.

    • chacha1

      Kyle and Eileen are two sneaks …. they stir the pot and then run and hide with a smirk on their faces

  • Wicked Cupcake

    I’m more offended by that shitty accent Doritos tries to put on.

  • Evil Queen

    #Team Erika. Erika is right; why did Dorit find it necessary to tell everyone first about ” Snatchgate, instead of going directly too Erika? It’s contrived!
    She can’t say it’s a joke,& then a day before tell Eileen & Rinna,” Classy ladies would have crossed their legs.”
    Dorit is coming off 2- faced.

  • Vera L. Cheeks

    LOVE ERIKA…DON’T THINK SHE IS BORING..AT LEAST SHE IS NOT TRYING SO HARD LIKE DORITO AND HOOKERPUMP…

    • Oh Snarky Me

      WHY ARE YOU SCREAMING?

  • shell

    Erika was just sitting there and Lisa put her hand up her skirt and said Kyle need panties. That’s when Erika said she didn’t have any on to stop Lisa from putting her hand up her skirt anymore then she did. Pk was almost falling out of his seat to look up her skirt. Erika did nothing wrong

  • FedUpWBS

    I thot it was creepy how PK stared. A gentleman wud get up and excuse himself and either discreetly get word back to her thru one of the women or just stay at the bar. Or if they’re all just so honest and open and humorous, tell her right then and there. She’did prol say oops my bad, sorry and move on. THEY actually turned it into a thing, not Erica. She can’t correct it if she doesn’t know. My mother is British and their humour is on the dry side and yes they poke fun but Vanderpump and Dorit use their nationality as a sneaky way to be mean. Theyre just mean and rude. You dont upset ppl and say you dont understand my humour or you dont have one. Cop out. There’s a difference between laughing with someone and laughing at someone and she attacked Erica behind her back before she gave her the panties. She WASN’T joking. Dorit wasnt happy. She saw her husband staring. Wut is he 14?? It’s not his wife and it’s a womans privates. CREEPER. Something tells me she’s insecure and maybe hes a womanizer or has been and that’s why she turned it into a huge thing. To me she’s playing the blame game and shaming a woman and it’s mean. Why not ask HIM why he didn’t get up and move or tell her? But he talks as if staring was his only viable option and Dorit goes with it. And Vanderpump is so sneaky, that maybe Erica is on to something when she said it might even be made up. Dorit is her friend and I’m sure is willing to do her bidding right now. Erica had her number from day one and Vanderpump didn’t like it. She was odd man out last season as she got exposed for the conniving manipulative person she is. But even so, if it did happen and they just let it go on and took a good long look and didn’t give her a chance to correct it or apologize or defend herself for the record right then and there…THEY are the gross ones. Grow the hell up. If you dont have a problem then, why make it into one after the fact?

    • Evil Queen

      Completely agree. Only disagreement is Dorito ia an American, not European.

      • FedUpWBS

        True. But she identifies as British because she’s married to a Brit and hangs with Brits. Whether that’s ridiculous Madonna-esquire arrogance or not, this woman identifies that way. It’s interesting that she has jumped right into this man’s life to the point she isn’t even who she really is and doesn’t hold him accountable in the situation at all and gives him the “men can’t control themselves” excuse which sets women back decades.

        • FedUpWBS

          Ugh I hate auto correct lol Madonna-esq ! Lol!

  • Evil Queen

    “Happy New Year’s Eve Y’all!
    Hope everyone has a wonderful weekend.
    To those, who r traveling, please be careful, the police r out in full force.

  • Nancysue

    Erica embarrassed herself with the weird attitude about ” panty lines”, put some seamless panties on, save yourself the embarrassment.