‘RHOBH’ Star Erika Girardi Shades Dorit Kemsley’s Parenting Despite Abandoning Her Own 3-Year Old To Seek Fame!

Posted on Dec 21 2016 - 3:24pm by BeachSpin

Erika Girardi was ‘exposed’ during Monday night’s episode of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, in more ways than one.

Erika’s snatch-flash officially kicked off the drama party with rookie, Dorit Kemsley, and she wasted no time amping the beef on Twitter.

Erika retweeted the above tweet with the response, “Y’all crazy!”

Erika agreed with the above tweet, “Well said” was her response.

Interestingly, Erika “went there,” when viewers threw shade at Dorit’s admitted decision to use nannies to help care for her two young children. Erika called attention to a tweet posted by Atlanta reality player, Kenya Moore.

The real doozy was a tweet slamming Dorit as a mother — which Erika promptly highlighted for her 128k followers.

Controversy has swirled around Erika since last season, after she revealed in an interview that she had left her young son back east with his father, so she could be free to pursue a career in California. The child was about three  years old, at the time. The basic timeline is as follows:

  • Age 18-1989: Erika moves to NYC
  • 1995/96 (age 24-25): By now, Erika has been married, divorced, and has a 3 year old son, born in 1992.
  • 1995/96: Erika moves to L.A. — alone. She meets well-known legal eagle, Tom Girardi, and after a year of serving him drinks, they become a couple.
  • 1999: Erika and Tom get married, after dating for a year. Sometime during that year, Erika moved into Tom’s home. Her son would have been about 7 years old, when his mother remarried. He did not attend the wedding.
  • 2007/age 35: Erika Jayne is born.

No matter how one justifies leaving a child motherless, one thing is clear. Erika should run far away from any discussion debating how PK and Dorit choose to raise their children. It might come back to bite her hard.

The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills airs Tuesday nights, on Bravo.

 

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  • margaret

    If you are too dimwitted to come up with your own insults to hurl at your enemies on Twitter, maybe a Twitter feud isn’t for you. All the blow up doll can do is retweet and cosign the disses her followers are posting about Dorit. The only time she sounds remotely intelligent is when her grandpa tells her what to say.

    • Trippinhhard

      When he tell her to be quiet, I’m talking.. She just a kept women and that’s what has been shown..He shuts her down quickly..

      • margaret

        Totally! I was referring to Tom putting the “sniper from the side” comment and the bit about spiders weaving webs into Erika’s head about LVP last season. We saw that come out of Tom’s mouth, then all she did was repeat it to the other ladies later. 🙂

        • Trippinhhard

          I missed that part, I remember him calling her an alligator.. That wasn’t so nice, but Lisa took it as a joke.. Something to the effect of being a good opponent..
          I think. Lmao

          • margaret

            Yes, that was a cute exchange for sure. I think part of the reason Erika can’t stand LVP is because it is obvious her grandpa would rather converse and exchange witty banter with LVP over her. LOL

          • Trippinhhard

            That’s true and everyone can’t hold a conversation about anything.. Erika is one dimensional and that’s all..

          • classycns

            Yes, Tom G loves him some LVP and likewise but not in a sexual way.

          • margaret

            Right???? If it wasn’t for Erika, Tom would probably become good friends with the Todds.

          • classycns

            I believe it was worthy opponent. That is why LVP wasn’t offend by the alligator comment because he had acknowledge that she was intelligent after just meeting her for the 1st time. LOL.

          • Trippinhhard

            Yes I agree with you, I like her husband, but I don’t care for her at all

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            If you watch EJ face during that exchange, she was none to happy with Ole Granddad calling LVP a worthy opponent, because he will never see her as his equal.

          • Trippinhhard

            You are so right Bette. She’s arm candy and that’s all.. I like that he treats her that way and she can’t say shit… Lol

        • BeckyGrey

          Actually we saw her say it first and then he said it.

          • margaret

            It was a flashback clip of Erika and Tom discussing it before EG said it. I just watched a few episodes that I missed from last season this morning and that was one of them. I’m not being argumentative, it is just still very fresh in my head (for once). 😉

          • BeckyGrey

            lol

    • Athena Panagakos

      I really hope Dorit comes in with truth guns blazing at the reunion. I want her to spill all kinds of truth tea about Erika.😈

  • Athena Panagakos

    Erika is a selfish stupid c#t.

  • the underground train

    Talk about not having room to talk. Erika abandoned her son and Kenya is an expert on parenting? Since when? Stay in your lane.

    • SME-ShannonsGoldenChinHairs

      kenya swerved so far out of her lane she damn near hit a tree. kenya has plenty of questions she needs to answer her damn self like why she is 45 and having her dad fight her battles with her nephew son boyfriend

    • BetteDavisEyez1

      Dust Mop couldn’t even keep her dog alive. She is the last one to talk.

  • JuliannK

    I think Dorit’s son might have a hearing loss. It would explain him not speaking and I noticed he was very expressive with his hands to get his point across. My hearing-impaired nephew was the same way.

    • RealitytvJunkie

      That could be the case of just speech delay. So many kids nowadays have a speech delay issues.

      • MsM

        That’s because all those helicopter parents won’t let them speak for themselves!! Back in FL I had a patient who was almost diagnosed with selective mutism because she was five and had yet to speak. Her hearing was fine. She just didn’t talk. Why? Because mommy talked for her constantly. Why talk when you have an overbearing mother to talk for you? The minute I kicked her mother out of the room the kid had no problems talking. She could talk, she just didn’t see the point.

    • the underground train

      Could be. I was thinking that 2 years old may be too soon to determine a speech impairment.

      • BeckyGrey

        I’ve learn boys are late bloomers. my two daughters were talking forever….but my grandson didn’t start talking until he was 2 1/2 and now he doesn’t stop talking.

  • RealitytvJunkie

    The gaul of this slore to insult anyone’s else’s parenting when she ran off and left her 3 yr old behind. She’s pathetic.

    • Chickpea16

      Totally agree.

    • MsM

      She obviously didn’t think that whole posting thing through before she set it loose on society. People who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw rocks, just sayin…lol

    • SME-ShannonsGoldenChinHairs

      left her kid for old peen

  • Chickpea16

    Erika doesn’t care how bad she looks as long as she books gigs.

  • RunningWithWine

    Ericka is about one thing and that’s attention good or bad it’s still attention!

  • chacha1

    Erika is white trash with cash …… and NO CLASS ….

    • Elle

      Absolutely! That’s what her tag name on the show last year should have been. Instead of the enigma crap!

    • MidwestMiddie

      Agree!

      She is like the majority of Bravo’s Hags …………. UNWATCHABLE!

    • Why is this happening to us?

      An enigma, wrapped in a riddle and TRASH! 🗑

      • Perturbed

        Good one!

        • Why is this happening to us?

          Thanks…I wish I could take credit for it, but I saw it on one of these blogs. It’s a good one! lol 😄

  • the ugly truth

    Someone needs to shut their piehole.

  • MsM

    Dang, talk about the pot calling the kettle black!

  • Sugar in my tank

    Soooooo, am I to assume a woman can’t pursue a career and have her child raised by the father? It’s ok for MEN to do it though..double standard anyone..

    • SME-ShannonsGoldenChinHairs

      was she pursuing a career the entire time this kid was being raised? i mean she left the kid completely. if that were a guy we would call him a deadbeat so that makes pasadena puss a deadbeat mom

      • Sugar in my tank

        You can’t really call her anything because you don’t know if there was an agreement/arrangement or not between her and the father. A deadbeat is an individual who does not provide support financially or otherwise to their children. As for pursuing a career, that’s not any of my concern because I know horrible mothers who raise their kids..

        • SME-ShannonsGoldenChinHairs

          That’s a deadbeat move and that’s what I’m calling her

          • Sugar in my tank

            Call her whatever you want but I answered your question and I stand by my comment..if she’s a deadbeat then there are miklions of deadbeat men and women who leave their kids with a grandparent or their respective parent while careers are pursued..

          • Bryan

            Then don’t have kids if you don’t want them

          • Sugar in my tank

            Then “you” shouldn’t have kids if you don’t want them but speculation on an unverified article judging a woman for her choices is absurd and discriminatory.

          • Bryan

            That’s what we do here

          • Jackie

            I totally get what your saying but I think the others points are based on the fact that Erika is judging someone for having nannies and yet she never bothered to do even that much for the child she did have. Obviously she had the means once she got married

          • SME-ShannonsGoldenChinHairs

            Thank you. Maybe I shouldn’t have called her a deadbeat but I did. I am a mother and I cant fathom leaving my daughter to find a career. Isn’t that what adults are supposed to do before they have kids? I think they refer to that as responsible parenting. In any case we both agree, if pasadena Puss wasn’t going to parent her child she shouldn’t look down on her co worker parents hers.

          • Jackie

            Yup! Exactly. Love your name btw. 😊

          • Sugar in my tank

            I hear you. But we don’t know what truly happened. If the child was raised by relatives or friends, maybe there could be some room for doubt but he was raised by his father..see the fans don’t like her and they judge her for her sexy vixen image and also marrying an older man who is only a 5 years older than Ken..Erika has been married for 16 years or so and perhaps there is a reason other than the obvious for not raising her son or maybe no reason at all. Dorito was angry her husband was staring at her cooch and instead of admonishing him, she goes after the woman which is tacky..

          • Jackie

            I Think he was raised by his father and who knows maybe he wanted to stay with his dad. As a mother however. I think you have to have at best a narcissistic personality to just leave your child behind to pursue your dreams when you have nothing in the coffers. Basically. Just move to CA to be a waitress and then drop your aspirations because you found a rich man. It speaks volumes to the child and to her character

          • Sugar in my tank

            I hear you Jackie…We still don’t know her reasons or the entire story. We inserted a narrative to further a dislike of her character on this show.

          • Maria Lane

            Short dresses and no panties are the recipe to get men to look…then announce to the whole room you have no panties, get a few drinks in men and yes they are going to try and look.
            Does anyone else think how disgusting it is to sit in the same spot where someone without underwear sat? Gross.

          • Maria Lane

            Then why didn’t she move her kid out with her when she married the old man? She could’ve hired nannies and then pursued her career.

          • SME-ShannonsGoldenChinHairs

            She wasn’t pursuing a career the whole time or did I miss that in the article? But yes if you up and leave your kid and not look back to be a pop star or to try and marry an old man, then yes I am looking at men or women as deadbeats.

          • Sugar in my tank

            If you got her entire life story from this article, then I need to go back and re-read it because last I checked, it was an article not an autobiography. Live and let live..

          • SME-ShannonsGoldenChinHairs

            I’m not referring to her life story. I’m referring to a particular part of her life.

          • Sugar in my tank

            Well judge on dear…this is old now.

    • Jennymckitty

      She left Jersey and was working as a cocktail waitress in CA. Pretty sure they have bars in NJ.

      • Sugar in my tank

        You know what, I don’t sit in judgment of people’s choices. Allowing her son to be raised by his father may not have been her choice willingly. It’s easy to watch edited tv and judge a woman whom you don’t know personally. Her son clearly turned out fine and what I find perplexing is how society accepts when men doesn’t raise their kids but condemns women when they do not.

      • Perturbed

        Hey Jenny! Was she from NY or NJ? Apparently, she wasn’t talented enough to work in theatre! lol

        • Jennymckitty

          It’s been a year since I looked it up but I think they lived in NJ. Interesting enough, right after she moved in with Tom, her ex opened up a strip club for women in NJ.

    • Violet~Princess Pumpernickel

      It’s not okay for fathers to abandon their children either.

      • Sugar in my tank

        Well until Erika’s son writes a tell all saying she abandoned him, I give everyone the benefit of the doubt. Men are seldom ever condemned when they don’t raise their children but it’s expected that’s what a woman supposed to do..sexist double standards

        • Violet~Princess Pumpernickel

          It IS what a woman is supposed to do. It’s also what a man is supposed to do. Just because there are men that run out on their families doesn’t mean that makes it okay for women too. Anyone that decides to bring a child into the world should be making a life long commitment to that child. Moving 3,000 miles away from your child so you can work as a cocktail waitress doesn’t exactly seem like good parenting, in my opinion.

          • Sugar in my tank

            I am glad you noted “in your opinion”because that is all we bring. Unfortunately, I don’t know nor care about her choices as they did not impact my life. It is easy to sit in “JUDGMENT” when you don’t know the particulars. See, her son is the only one that “matters”, not us. We watch 15 minutes or less per episode of these women and we pretend to know their life and circumstances. Yes Erika signed to be on reality tv but criticizing her choices 20+ years ago is extremely judgmental especially when you have no tangible facts. For all we know, she could have been abused by her ex or her ex wouldn’t agree to allowing her to leave with her child..speculation is all any of us have until it’s confirmed.

          • GetReal2014

            Great, fair, and balanced post.

          • TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes

            Sorry Sugar but being abused by her ex is even more reason not to leave the child with him – as a mother I would ensure either we both go or we both stay. She said in her interview with Heather McDonald that she left to pursue her career and she felt there was more out there for her.

          • SME-ShannonsGoldenChinHairs

            Lol. She really should have never had a kid

          • Sugar in my tank

            Very true but that was a choice she made. What’s funny is soooooo many celebrities who we watch on tv left their kids to be raised by family while they pursued careers. Who is to say that he didn’t visit on vacations, summers and holidays. Maybe his father had custody. I just think it is a double standard and it’s not abandonment.

          • TrappedinVenus

            I completely agree with you that we shouldnt judge. Its so easy to GASP! at the word abandonment and given the tidbit of information were obviously supposed to think Erika is a shit mother and a monster for leaving a 3 year old to become famous. Maybe she is and maybe she isnt…we have NO IDEA what really happened, the circumstances, nothing. And she didnt leave her child in the street hes with his father. I just dont like jumping to conclusions regardless of who the person is. Im not gonna be a sheep and judge a person a certain way just because of a sensational blog title.

          • Sugar in my tank

            I agree totally..

          • bellota

            Hold up, because we need to get something clear, here. When a child is in the mix, yes, they are the ones who matter most and should take priority. When deciding a custody case, it’s the CHILD’S best interest that is looked, not the best interest of the mother or father. It matters because children cannot care for themselves and what parents do or do not do can have life-long detrimental effects.

            And by the way, the example you gave of “what if the father was abusive” does not make a better case for her. Knowingly leaving a child in the care of a person you know to be violent and abusive counts as neglect, a form of abuse. If you know their caretaker is abusive, you have a duty to get that child out of that environment and situation! If it is an inconvenience or hard, tough shit.

            I was abused as a child and I hate hearing these types of arguments. When you have a child, you have a duty to make sure they are safe and well-cared for. I get that parenting is hard and very often a sacrifice. But it’s something the child did not have choice in. They do not deserve to live with the effects of a parent’s bad decisions and selfishness. If you can’t do that, have an abortion.

          • Sugar in my tank

            First off, let’s take it down a notch because you are replying to a message that was not to “You”. I am sorry you were abused as a child but puhleeze don’t deflect onto a character on a show. As for being abused, MANY WOMEN LEFT TO SAVE THEIR LIVES FOR THEIR REASONS…and unless you were an abused mother living that “HELL”, PLEASE DON’T COMMENT on someone else’s choices. Now, my comments were responses to “JUDGMENT”. I don’t know or care because her son is the only one whose life was impacted. Furthermore abandonment was a “POOR DESCRIPTION”. Kenya Moore was abandoned. My best friend was abandoned, my cousin was abandoned and thousands of kids in the foster care system may have been abandoned. Perhaps Erika may disclose her reasons entirely or not but sitting in “JUDGMENT” is easy from the confines of your basement and/or living room..

          • bellota

            I think you are misunderstanding the points I was trying to make. My number one point is this, and that goes in general for all people on earth:
            Having a child is an enormous responsibility and it’s one that once you do REQUIRES you to put that child’s needs above your own. I have no time for people that whimper about what they lost because of their children, sorry but those are the consequences of your own decisions and not the child’s fault and nor do they deserve to bear the brunt of it if one or more of their parents decides after the fact that having a child was a mistake. I replied to you because you are continually arguing on this thread that just because some other people – men and women – have to varying degrees either neglected or abandoned their children, or have been otherwise absentee parents, that it is okay that this particular woman also did so, and we should consider her motivations. I’M SAYING, her motivations, or anyone else’s in a similar situation, don’t matter. All that matters, or should matter to people, is the well-being of the child. This is what people are trying to get through to you. The child comes first. Maybe if more people really felt this way mankind might be in a better place.
            Also, the comment about having an abortion wasn’t directed specifically to Erika, but said in general that if you don’t want to be a parent or care for a child, don’t have a baby in the first place. You don’t get to decide a couple years in that you just “don’t like it” or that “parenting isn’t for me, I’m going to go ‘do me'”. Maybe you don’t think it’s fair, but that’s the truth.
            Also, as for the abuse – yeah, I grew up with abuse (physical and sexual, thanks so much for the faux-concern) and the point being, if you are a woman who is being abused, of course get out in any way that you can. If that means you have to leave without your children to do it first, fine. But then you don’t LEAVE THEM THERE forever after. You do everything you can to get them out. That was my point. She left and never looked back, so maybe that speculation on your part doesn’t make her look any better (it makes her look so much worse) is what I’m saying. And, hopefully, what you’re speculating is actually complete bullsh*t. I actually hope it is not true, and her leaving the kid with the better parent would be much a better thing for her to have done.

          • Sugar in my tank

            You stated your point as I did mine. Your comments are way too personalized for a stranger on a tv show. You don’t realize that your feelings on this matter are “Personal” and you are projecting them onto a character on a reality tv show with which you have minimal information and the remainder is conjecture including my comments. So as I said, judgment is “WRONG” as we all have made choices in life good and bad. I.don’t know hers and really don’t care..oh and unless you work with domestic violence victims, Puhleeze limit your comments because they are flawed statements. Perhaps you guys can reach out to her social media and ask her as opposed to “JUMPING TO ABANDONMENT”. Thanks for your judgemental comments though, I am sure she would appreciate it ..ADIOS..

          • bellota

            🙄
            It’s really not that earth-shatteringly personal or unusual of a position to think that the well-being of a child needs to be the first priority.
            Also, the law says differently about my “flawed statements.” In the eyes of the law, keeping a child in an abusive home situation – even if the only one being abused is one of the parents – constitutes abuse itself and is grounds for having the child taken away. That sort of environment is damaging. Also, if you know that your child is being cared for by someone who is violent or abuse and you don’t do anything to get them out, that constitutes neglect, which is a form of abuse and is, again, grounds for having the child taken away.
            But I guess you only have room for compassion for domestic violence victims if they are adult women, the children in those situations not so much? What is your deal, there?

          • Maria Lane

            Either you are really missing everyones point or you are Erika.
            Erika is judging another woman on her parenting. Erika is the one that you need to comment to that JUDGEMENT is wrong.
            And you state you don’t care what Erikas are, I have to disagree, you are over the top about Erika and her decisions.

          • Sugar in my tank

            I will type s.l.o.w.l.y. I am not a follower and I think for “MYSELF” so I can SAY what I want and THINK what I want and perhaps you should relax and process that this is a REALITY TV SHOW and these people are Strangers unless you are Doritos..move on, I have..

          • Tammiethebully

            Yet you commented on Kenya’s beloved dog. Many dogs get killed with their parents looking and couldn’t do anything to stop it. Dogs run fast and sometimes it ends badly. The topic was Ericka and her right to judge Dorit’s nannies

          • Sugar in my tank

            What in the hell are you talking about? How many years ago did Kenya’s dog die and I don’t recollect saying anything adverse about it. Look, this is becoming very “STALKERISH” and clearly you think that you have the capacity to bully me which is quite pathetic and ill-advised sooooooo love muffin, feel free to stop replying because this is my final comment to you…

          • Tammiethebully

            Ohhhhhh, sorry to bully you… I was just having fun on a site clearly dedicated to making fun of others…..and please don’t respond back. . Happy New Years…..

          • Maria Lane

            But Erika is JUDGING another woman for the way she is parenting. That is what people are commenting on…don’t criticize another Mother if you aren’t the perfect Mother yourself.
            I agree mostly with what you say, but if Erika doesn’t say a word about Dorits nannies, this conversation doesn’t exist.

        • HankyPanky

          Yes, double standards, but society as a whole condemns Mothers that abandon their children

    • TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes

      But she didn’t leave to have a career – she went all the way to CA to work as a waitress but then happily settled down in to married life once she met a rich old man just one year later. She admitted she didn’t start her career until she was 35 – so if she could give it up to marry Tom then why not put it on hold to raise your child? It shows what was more important to Erika for sure.

      • Sugar in my tank

        Actually it doesn’t show anything. It shows that she chose to reveal certain aspects of her life to us. Her son is an adult working as a civil servant which is commendable. He turned out well in spite of being raised by his mother. Sheree didn’t raise her daughter and even denied having an adult child. Jackie Christie didn’t raise her daughter and doesn’t even speak to her as an adult. Jim Carey left Canada for his career and left his daughter with her mother. I can go on and on but I am not even a fan of Erika. It’s the judgment that ticks me off regarding a decision she made 20 years ago that’s being disected which is nutz..but I am officially done with this..

        • OhBother

          We do not know how her son turned out. But she for sure played a major role – by her absence. As for commenting on this issue – It’s a case of people living in glass houses and throwing rocks. This info was out there last season too and people didn’t discuss it much before she made fun of Dorit as a mother and her friends ED and LR both wrote how EJ should be respected because she is a “mother”. That rightly opened that can of worms. And yes, it stinks.

        • HankyPanky

          A decision, which is still abhorrent today. A Mother leaving her child?

      • Sugar in my tank

        Ahhh, I missed the rich old man comment. That is why I say double standard. A man can marry a younger woman but when younger woman marries a rich older man, the mud comes slinging. I can’t speak for you but if folks liked Erika, this wouldn’t matter. Dorito is friends with a fan favorite LVP and they will support this fake chick as long as LVP does…

        • RealitytvJunkie

          Why do you keep comparing a man’s actions to justify Erika’s actions? Just because a man does it….does not justify the action. It’s wrong by both sexes.

          • Sugar in my tank

            I am not justifying anything. I am addressing the “quadruple” standard and how men are not slut shamed or attacked but WOMEN are… See, I don’t judge people on their choices especially when the information is minimal. Look, I am not even a fan but I abhor misusing and throwing words like abandonment around for sensationalizing an article. As for the nanny comment, why does this unemployed woman need nurses and nannies ? That’s my question.

          • HankyPanky

            Double/quadruple standard, old?

          • Tammiethebully

            Because she wants a nanny and can afford them. The nurse comment is silly. Many ppl rich and not rich want and need help with their kids. It’s big business. Ericka didn’t raise her child so why comment on someone’s Nanny. ?? She tries to throw shade in her bitchy uppity way. She’s fake and most ppl see it.

        • HankyPanky

          Nothing to do with the rich old man, nor LVP. She abandoned her child

    • Perturbed

      She didn’t move across town – she moved 3,000 miles away with no job in sight! If that’s not abandonment, I don’t know what is?

      • Sugar in my tank

        We clearly disagree on the definition of abandonment as I know women serving on the other side of the planet, in the military and they chose to enlist knowing they had a child or children. As I have mentioned, I don’t know what truly happened and no one else does either so continue to speculate. Honestly, her reasons are not my concern.

        • OhBother

          Takes amazing lack of empathy to compare people risking and giving their life and health so others could be safe with selfish **** who let her 3 year old child to gain money and fame.

          • HankyPanky

            Exactly

    • HankyPanky

      Many men raise children on their own, for whatever reason? When the reason is the Mother abandoning the child for a spot of gold digging, that’s going against the grain? As for a guy copping an eyeful? Normal.,,

    • Maria Lane

      I’m just going to comment on the fake English accent. I have a friend from the Southern US, very strong southern drawl. She married an Englishman. After they were married for many years, she actually picked up his accent and she didn’t realize it. Just from her hearing it from her husband all the time, she picked up on some of the aspects of his accent.

    • Tammiethebully

      If ANYONE has the right to comment about this it’s PK and his wife. I would want my husband to tell me so I could confront the bitch as well. The difference is she would have APOLOGIZED to me before it was squashed.

      • Sugar in my tank

        Apologize for what? Maybe her trifling disgusting husband should apologize to his wife for staring at another woman’s cooch. Puhleeze, Pk is a douche and has no respect for his wife. Watch the episode again..

        • Tammiethebully

          It wouldn’t matter how many times I watch the episode. It doesn’t make PK disrespectful to watch the pus show…it makes her classless to show it to him. He looked as would anyone who saw it out in the open to be seen. As if you wouldn’t look…..get off your high ridiculous horse and keep patting that pus. But don’t look and don’t comment…..EJ might get mad…

        • Tammiethebully

          Apologize for what……. Trying to seduce my husband… Especially if it were on accident. Which by her attitude wasn’t really so accidental. I would have said in front of ALL of the ladies I am sorry and didn’t know that happened. Of course you have to be sorry to say that.

  • SME-ShannonsGoldenChinHairs

    hold on, kenya can’t keep a man long enough to have one kid and pasadena puss left her kid to chase old penis. it what universe is either of these two womens opinion about this worth a damn?

    • Bryan

      Two old skanks with poor memories obviously LOL

      • SME-ShannonsGoldenChinHairs

        Right! I mean the son didn’t even attend his moms wedding. That speaks volumes.

        • Bryan

          He didn’t???? I didn’t know that, well you learn something new everyday, thanks, Oh I missed that in this article

  • Bryan

    Poor Dustmop can’t even keep a pet alive and wants a kid and is mocking this one also, Pat the Puss is an Idiot,

    • SME-ShannonsGoldenChinHairs

      A huge one.

    • BetteDavisEyez1

      The only child that he/she will ever have is the one she is sleeping with. And he doesn’t even want her.

      • Bryan

        poor old dusty

        • BetteDavisEyez1

          Poor Twirl & King.

    • HankyPanky

      Bryan, that’s insulting to idiots!!

      • Bryan

        =)

  • Happylazymartha

    Can’t imagine abandoning a three year old and having the audacity to shade ANYONES parenting.. and p.s no one wants to see your nasty crotch. You’re manufactured and boring and you sold your soul. Enjoy your triggered sex life with evil Benjamin Buttons dude

    • SME-ShannonsGoldenChinHairs

      Right!

    • HankyPanky

      Hahaha

  • Haz

    Kenya really can’t talk considering how many nannies she will have to have IF she ever (or can) have a child. Raising tweens and teens is hard for the elderly.

    • Why is this happening to us?

      Kenya could barely care for a dog, let alone a child (RIP Velvet 😕). It’s always the ones without kids who think they know more than actual parents do. Smh.
      None of these women have room to talk about someone else’s parenting (or lack thereof). They are all in the same boat.

      • Jessica

        Right! Remember Gretchen trying to give parenting advice to Lynn on RHOC

        • Why is this happening to us?

          Oh yes I do! Smh.
          Forgot all about that until you mentioned it…lol

      • Tammiethebully

        Yours and other’s comments are silly. Kenya was abandoned by a mother who didn’t want her and was there to rub it in her face. Never talked to her or acknowledged her. She is and will always be defensive of children and animals. How careless are your comments..she can state her opinion just as YOU are doing. You go to far…

  • BetteDavisEyez1

    Childless women & women that have abandoned their children should mind their own business.
    It is obvious that her son has special needs so he needs both a nanny & a nurse & her daughter has her own nanny. So what?!? They can afford it.

    • Cdw789

      I’m with you. If a parent can afford the extra help why not? I think there are a lot of moms out there that would love to have someone there so they could take showers and go to the store or just get away from the house and have a nice lunch with your friends.
      What is Dorit supposed to do, call a teenager down the street to come babysit?

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        Exactly. Having a nanny is the norm where I’m from. So I never understand when these women are judged for having one.
        Both parents have careers & even if she was a stay at home mom, if they can afford it, what is the issue?!?

    • SME-ShannonsGoldenChinHairs

      There are plenty of times I know I wished I had a nanny

      • HankyPanky

        Me too!!

    • HankyPanky

      So right Bette. Don’t criticise her for trying to sort it!!

  • Appletini

    That takes balls to critisize anyone’s parenting when you failed as a mother and sold your soul for CA$H. She claims she’s guarded and cautous and loyalty is earned. She believes everone is as shady and out for themselves as she is. She is loyal to no one but herslf and her other self.

    • MarcoPolo

      That’s it in a nutshell–great post.

    • Kissme

      Well said!

    • HankyPanky

      Not balls, idiocy & arrogance

  • GetReal2014

    A lot of speculation here. Nowhere does it say who Kenya was referring to. It may well have been Phaedra who supposedly has around the clock nannies. Erika putting that up may have overstepped her boundaries because it led to a misleading conclusion and the tweet does not say who it addresses.

    Not to mention people like Nene shouldn’t have children either. Taking her son on the road and seeing him sleeping on nightclub tables isn’t a good look either.

    • Jackie

      She hash tagged RHOBH

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        LMAO!! As if it matters. Either way, no matter who she talking about, she needs to mind her own damn business.

        • SME-ShannonsGoldenChinHairs

          Yes Kenya should mind her business especially on this topic.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            Anything for attention. This is the person driving around with 2 little Yorkies lose in her back seat. SMDH

        • Tammiethebully

          To be fare Kenya would know what it’s like to be raised by others even though her mother was there. It’s probably a sore subject for her. And we are all watching and commenting on the topic. It’s open for discussion if it’s on reality TV.

      • GetReal2014

        Oh, you’re right. My bad.

    • RealitytvJunkie

      Kenya was talking about Dorit. Kenya was live tweeting about the RHOBH episode while the episode aired and used the hash tag #RHOBH. All the responses on Twitter to Kenya was about Dorit’s kids related to the show.

      • GetReal2014

        Yeah, Jackie just told me. In that case Kenya should’ve stayed in her lane. Why invite trouble?

  • GetReal2014

    Erika’s tweet in no way says who Kenya was talking about. But, people jump to conclusions so easily.

  • laura

    Erika J doesn’t have balls she is a total fraud and coward! She is not an artist she is a porn star with a lot of fake stuff. She goes there showing her old puss and then pretends that she has some kind of dignity what a joke, funny she tries to say LVP is rude ha ha, she is so CRUDE, and RUDE. I don’t think I would be proud of a mother like that.

    • Tammiethebully

      I agree Laura. Andy may love her because she is beautiful and her husband let’s her work and travel with her gays… But she’s no one to think she’s better than LVP and Dorit.

      • Karl Wolff

        She is better. Way better than those skanks.

    • Karl Wolff

      Coward? Coward?! Erika doesn’t shy away or back down from anyone and if you say you don’t know that you either don’t watch the show or you’re lying through your teeth. Old puss? Erika is the most beautiful and has the hottest body than any of the housewives on any of the housewives shows. And yes, I’m a guy who watches it with my wife along with six other couples and everyone feels the same way about her appearance. LVP is no longer attractive. It’s clear you’r a big fan or LVP herself. Yeah a long long time ago she was. But now the plastic surgery only keeps her from looking wrinkled. And if you watched it this week and saw her face while she was trying not to cry when she was with her son… God bless her because that was one ugly ass cry face. Sounds like you’re hating bigtime. Too transparent to be on here acting like you’re opinion actually means anything. Btw, they say it’s usually a coward that uses that very word towards another.

      • laura

        Are you on Erika’s payroll. Wow you have a lot of hate aren’t you the pot calling the kettle black.

  • TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes

    Ken’s reaction when Erika revealed she had no knickers on was priceless 🙂 he obviously doesn’t rate her much. She didn’t have her lap covered when PK first asked her why she was guarded. It makes me laugh when people like Erika or Yolanda lecture that friendships must be earned etc – they had the most fake friendship ever on the show.

  • Perturbed

    I’d like to know why she didn’t try to get custody of her son as soon as she could afford to raise him (after marrying Tom, I presume). Perhaps she did, but by that time the father had the upper hand? There’s still no excuse for the selfishness of abandoning her 3 yr old though, imo! All she seems to care about is designer clothes, jewelry & her ridiculous slutshow. She doesn’t seem to have 1 real friend!

    • HankyPanky

      I personally cannot understand, as a Mother, abandoning my children?? Couldn’t do it. However, now coping with two teenagers….

  • Jackie

    So I’m thinking this is how the season will go. Dorit goes after Erika and LVP ices out and insults Eileen all the while tangling Rinna by a thread. I don’t find it coincidence that LVP’s new friend and the husband are worked up over Erika and still discussing her vulgari clothing choice in their kitchen the next day.

    • Tammiethebully

      I am glad LVP finally has an Alli on the show. I hope Dorit and PK show how stuck up and fake LR, ED and EJ are. . Get them Dorit.

  • YouGotTheRightOneNow

    Damn, that says alot if your own child doesn’t attend your wedding!

  • WMK

    I didn’t attend either of my dad’s weddings (same couple they just had two weddings). I didn’t think he was a bad dad because he moved to another state for more status.
    If her son was safe and in a stable environment I don’t really see the problem.
    Of course going after someone for having nannies isn’t cool either, if I would have lived with my dad I’d have had a nanny. This is much to do about nothing.

  • RubyT

    So far, I haven’t seen anything about Dorit that I like. Of course people of wealth are self indulgent, but I don’t like seeing moms who aren’t a bit more hands on. Lots of women don’t wear underwear under tight fitting clothing….talking about it was crass by all parties. It, once again, affirms that money can’t buy you class.

    • Tammiethebully

      So it’s classy to wear a short dress and show your pus with men in your group. Dorit’s point wasn’t that the pus patter wasn’t wearing panties. .. she sat in front of her HUSBAND and opened her legs. Don’t wear something like that if you haven’t the “class” to keep your legs closed. Then she had the nerve to get uppity because First Dorit and her husband talked about it. And that fake ass Eileen/Rena agreed then disagreed and tried to stay relevant by bringing it up after the two said it was over. If the pus patter was classy she would have APOLOGIZED ….

    • Karl Wolff

      I’m with you and so are the six couples that watch the show with my wife and I. Many women don’t wear them with certain clothes. It’s no big deal and is actually very sexy when the significant other knows. We also can’t stand Dorito and her fake ass. She is the worst!

  • What is wrong with using nannies? Why is this so frowned upon? I’m a mom and if I needed help and had that kind of income, I would probably hire one myself.

    • Sugar in my tank

      To each their own..

      • Explanation please?

        • Sugar in my tank

          To each their own is an explanation. Look, if someone believes that nannies and nurses are necessary when they are not employed, to each their own.

          • I wasn’t talking about this particularly, I was asking a question in general about why the usage of nannies was frowned upon.

          • Sugar in my tank

            Ohhh, I don’t think they are so much frowned upon than the significance of having them for people who are not doing anything that they can’t care for them. I had a friend who went to boarding school and when he came home for holidays and summer breaks, his mother(unemployed) had two nannies for both he and his sister. I asked her as an adult why dud she want nannies for her children and she replied, she didn’t have patience for kids and she had them because her husband wanted them..

          • I totally agree with this assessment. I know women who work career jobs and hire nannies for after school purposes but I don’t get the ones who can’t parent their own children. I was just watching this affluent YouTuber a few minutes ago and he was talking about his upbringing and why and how his family used nannies, and I just couldn’t imagine ever being so self-absorbed as he made his mother seem.

          • Sugar in my tank

            Excellent observation.

          • Tammiethebully

            I don’t believe your story. Why would the mother of your friend tell YOU she didn’t want her kids? I cry bullshit the front door big time.

          • Sugar in my tank

            Then cry and don’t believe it.

          • Tammiethebully

            BULLSHIT…..SHALL I CRY LOUDER……. LOLOLOL…fake ass story ! As if your friends mother would tell you that….CRYING BULLSHIT! LOLOLOL

          • Sugar in my tank

            Lawdy, you should have taken your meds today, there is still time. You have truly earned your name but your bullying tactics don’t phase me..You should realize that while my story is VERY REAL and i don’t give a damn if you believe or not please note that you are becoming “UNGLUED” on a blog for a REALITY TV SHOW…

          • Tammiethebully

            Then why go so far as to answer me…. LOLOLOL. I am not unglued. My comments are mine to make and I laughed as I made it. I stand behind them all. Yep…ahhhh no I don’t believe you. Keep trying though I am sure YOU believe your story. Still crying and laughing out loud. As far as meds are concerned I am about due for mine….thanks for your concern….my meds are legal here so yey !🍃

    • Karen Allen

      Then for Kenya to say anything ( she has NO children) and Pat the Puss who doesn’t take care of her own.

      • Kathy Wiley

        Kenya can’t even get a man! Lol
        Yea, if Kenya did have kids, god help em, you know she would have nannies.
        She’s just jumping on the bandwagon of hoe bag cuz no one likes her .
        Me Tinks…Marlo said it best 😉

  • MarcoPolo

    I find it amusing that some deem it unacceptable to “judge” a mother for leaving her three year old to serve drinks and gold dig across the country, but it’s fine to diss someone who has the money to hire help…LOL…I have seen it all.

    • Chloe

      Hi Biridie. Right. Leaving your son behind so you can “Pat the Puss” was a selfish move. Erika’s world should have been her son, not chasing a pop career at 40 and gold digging.

    • BetteDavisEyez1

      It’s like bizarro world. SMDH

    • HankyPanky

      Unbelievaballs!!!

    • Karl Wolff

      Hmmm it seems like Dorito and douche nozzle Pk are on here playing several differnt people. Really amusing I must say.

  • BetteDavisEyez1

    It’s so funny that Pat the Puss has nannies aka her entourage that dresses her, does her hair & travels everywhere with her but she is judging someone having nannies for their children.

    • HankyPanky

      Reckon Dorits Nannies could do a better job of hair/makeup?

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        Couldn’t do any worse than the ones that do it now. LOL!!

      • Karl Wolff

        Look at Dorito and look at Erika. In totally different leagues. Dorito looks like a boy george tranny. Erika is gorgeous.

        • HankyPanky

          Dorit looks beautiful & fresh faced. Erika looks pudgy & plastic, if she actually moved/spoke apart from her T/H & videos we’d be left with a melted puddle of ? Plastic?

    • Nancysue

      Do you remember last year when she was nude with her arms up in the air, and the guys were rubbing self tanner all over every part of her body before a show? She has to pay all these stylists, how much could she possibly make for a performance? Very expensive hobby!

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        I mean she flew her entourage all the way to Dubai. Erika wasn’t performing, she just needed her glam squad/nannies. Yet she has the nerve to judge someone else for having help.

    • Karl Wolff

      Stop hating. Those aren’t nannies you tard. Look the word up douche nozzle.

      • BetteDavisEyez1

        There’s one at every party. SMDH
        Unless you are EJ, there is no need to take it so personally. Dismissed.

  • HankyPanky

    Beach, wishing you a Very Merry Christmas. Thanks for your fab blogs, luv it, keep em coming!! 😻

  • Maria Lane

    I may be an old prude, but I found it very disgusting to sit on furniture that someone without underwear and has sat on. IDK, maybe getting their coochies tightened makes a difference but I wouldn’t even want to guess what all had leaked on the furniture.

    • Karl Wolff

      Just talking like that shows that YES, you are a prude. And a disgusting one to top it off. One, with a big loose leaky coochie too. Yuck! You’re a fat pig.

    • Kathy Wiley

      It is my thought, ahe does it on purpose.
      All she wants is attention.
      Some people will achieve that at any level.
      She has shown her true colors. No character .
      When will Andy boot her?????

  • Nancysue

    Doesn’t Erika’s son live close to her now? I thought she said he lived in LA. I don’t remember if she ever talked about having her son part time or not, it’s not unusual for shared custody when a couple with children break up, Erika kind of moved for work/fame, wonder where she would be with out Tom? I was surprised she was from Atlanta, Ga.

  • Jeff

    Her Gay Friends make Gay men look bad! They are Disgusting!

    • Karl Wolff

      You’re disgusting, you fag. Her gay friends are the best. We all love them. Unlike you Jeff. Anyone that’s gay basher, gets bashed in the face over here punk. Bring it so we can dump you in the river after we’re done with you chump.

      • Jeff

        Don’t include me in your ilk. I am straight. I repeat Erika and her gay friends on RHOBH’s make gay men look bad. They act trashy!

  • Jeff

    Erika is a hypocrite with no morals! She apparently was a mom when it was convenient for her.

  • Kathy Wiley

    Erika is a horrible person, what ‘mother’ and I use that term very loosely, abandons her young toddler to seek fame???
    Not a decent one, that’s who.
    Despicable. She is a fame seeking white who married for money and Im I’m sick of her.
    Why Andy brought her back is beyond me.
    I used to like her and defended her.
    Ha! She’s a joke.
    #socialclimbing
    #2faced

  • Kathy Wiley

    P.S. …I’m sorry, why didn’t she let the very intelligent , component actor speak for himself tonite on WWHL???
    Who does she think she is. She answered all his questions for him. Who does she think she is?
    Totally full of herself. Sooooo sick of her and her mouth and her having to be center of attention…ALL…of the time.