Peter Thomas Blames ‘RHOA’ For Destroying His Marriage & Calls Porsha A THOT! Cynthia Bailey Confirms They’re “Not Together”

Posted on Mar 31 2016 - 9:32am by Avigail

RHOA_Peter_Cynthia

The marriage between Peter Thomas and Cynthia Bailey is taking a plunge and we wish it wasn’t so!

Peter Thomas took to the local radio waves on Monday to address the explosive Real Housewives of Atlanta Season 8 Reunion where his marriage issues with Cynthia Bailey was a hot topic. 

Cheating allegations, money problems and meddling mothers can drive any marriage to nosedive, and RHOA Season 8 featured the couple’s marriage facing real life problems.

The ATL couple dealt with their biggest scandal when a video surfaced of Peter engaged in “inappropriate” behavior with an unidentified woman. The video featured Thomas at his Charlotte bar, getting too cozy with a woman who is not his wife. He appears to kiss her cheek, stroke her neck, and run his hand along her breast. 

Thomas spoke to Charlotte radio station Power 98, commenting,

“I don’t see any relationships on any of the ‘Real Housewives’ shows, outside of Lisa Vanderpump and her husband, where it actually worked for them.” 

Cynthia Bailey recently confirmed that her marriage to Peter was not in a good place and that the couple were “definitely not together.”

“The status of our relationship is we are not in a good place. Peter is in Charlotte, and as you can see, I’m in New York,” Cynthia told Bravo’s Daily Dish.

“We’re definitely not together. I have been taking some time for myself to just kind of figure out how I would like to move forward. We haven’t officially done anything at this point, but we are definitely talking about taking steps to officially move forward in a different direction.” 

We’ve been waiting to hear Peter’s side and it looks like they are on one accord. Thomas feels if he and Cynthia were no longer on RHOA, their relationship would be a lot stronger.

“My marriage is definitely in a place where I don’t need it to be.”

Thomas explains that due to the couple marrying on the show, their relationship became a bit of a whirlwind and prevented them from spending quality time together. They didn’t even have a real honeymoon.

“We’re working 18 hours a day, so we never really get to spend time together and after 6 seasons on the show, we’re just not there with each other. Everyone tells me, ‘Oh, you’re going through the 5-year thing’. My wife might be going through the five year thing, but like I’ve always said. When I went before God and said ‘I do’, I meant it.”

Peter also addressed cheating allegations levied against him by fellow castmate, Porsha Williams, and he did not hold back!

“She does not have the resume that Cynthia Bailey has. This is one of those girls that was bred to go and get the cat with money. No education whatsoever, she just looks pretty and goes and get the [rich guy] and shows her ass.” He then called her a T-H-O-T!

Check out the interview below.

Despite Bailey standing by her man’s side through the video scandal, it appears shes gearing up for another walk, only this time it won’t be down the runway.

 

“Like” us on Facebook  “Follow” us on Twitter and on Instagram 

 

About the Author

Avagail is an entertainment news blogger for allaboutthetea.com. She’s a Brooklynite with a passion for travel, writing, reality TV watching and pop culture.

  • Sandy Wood

    RUN…don’t walk Cynthia.

    • MidwestMiddie

      Yes ……but please, spell it out for her because she is a one stupid woman.
      Seriously – She has a man cheating right in front of her and she can’t see it.
      She has a man robbing her bank account blind and she can’t see it.
      She’s selling her name on $200 per pair Sunglasses. LOL Apparently she
      can’t see she’s surrounded by Sunglass Huts. The woman has no mind for
      business and has forgotten how to walk a runway. The only thing she
      knows for sure is —–She NEEDS Bravo’s Paycheck. And, she is BORING!

      • CNN

        How do you know Peter cheated? Just because stupid Porsha says so does not make it true. There was never any concrete proof showing Peter cheating on Cynthia.

        • MidwestMiddie

          At the same time Peter denying cheating on his wife
          doesn’t make it true.
          Did his hand “slip” when it caressed that woman’s breast? Eye Roll
          Was he mumbling his bar’s Cocktail List to the woman?
          Sure …….. LOL

          • Sandy Wood

            One of her first clues should have been when he considered it recreation to sit in strip clubs on a daily basis…what’s the matter with golf or tennis as an activity.

          • Bad Barbie

            You do know this is ATL. The joint is the court…

          • CNN

            You make bold accusations with no proof. While that video was inappropriate, it does not prove cheating.

          • GetReal2014

            Agreed. That video was circumstantial.

          • MidwestMiddie

            Nothing BOLD here ……..I’m actually very late in expressing my
            contempt for Peter and his deep attachment not to his wife but to his Marital Bank Accounts.

          • Bobbi

            …and certainly is no cause for a divorce. I agree.

        • GetReal2014

          The fact that it came from Porsha is enough to discount it outright. I could see if she was a model of consistency in relationships; but from what she’s shown she has no room to talk. According to her own alligator lips Kordell cheated on her, was gay, and abused her. Where does she get room to talk? THOT.

          • JerseyCountess

            She was passing on some scoop. Geesh. She didn’t set Peter up. She didn’t shoot the video. She found it and was merely reported what he had done. “Just the facts ma’am.” Let’s not try to suddenly bring friendship, common sense, humility and morality to a show completely devoid of all.

          • GetReal2014

            There are no facts in this instance, IMO. At least not if you’ve ever been in a crowded club. Anything can be misconstrued and people taking it upon themselves to try to destroy someone else will always be looked at with side eye by me. Especially someone like Porsha who brings a different rumor every season. Why give her the benefit of the doubt? I don’t.

          • JerseyCountess

            I’m not giving her the benefit of the doubt. I think she is doing exactly what is expected of her on this trash heap of a show. If the she-beast, Kendra, had done it, all would be completely as it should be.

          • BetteDavisEyez1

            You got that right. It is a lie because Porsha said it but had it been Oatmeal Pie Face that said it, it would be the gospel.

          • Twirl On Them Haters

            I think Peter has cheated behind the scenes. No way would I be able to live apart from my significant other and be okay be OK with it. Something in the water ain’t clean. IMO.

          • GetReal2014

            I could do it easily, so that’s why I can’t say one way or the other.

          • Bobbi

            True. I don’t believe Peter would be that stupid even if he wanted to, when he knows the women are waiting on him to slip just like he said. They have their camera phones ready and waiting.

          • Twirl On Them Haters

            Of course Porkchop is exaggerating. But Peter has cheated in the past and he gave her ammunition. I don’t think he is messing around with his waitresses.

          • GetReal2014

            Oh, I’m sure but Porsha’s dumb azz lies so much I’m discounting it outright. Anything she ever says goes in the liars’ column for me.

          • Twirl On Them Haters

            I’m not even thinking about what knucklehead said. Peter is a womanizer. He needs to man up and be honest with his self and his wife. His behavior is questionable.

          • GetReal2014

            I hear what you’re saying, but I’m not comfortable with saying it about anyone, honestly.

          • GetReal2014

            I don’t know, so I’m reluctant to say that he is. I just know that Porsha is a flipping liar and that’s good for me.

          • Twirl On Them Haters

            Porksha is like a dump truck, she rummages through the garbage an delivers the trash. Look at what she had her bff Johnnie do to Kimmie and Chris. Except Johnnie came with receipts. In Peters case she has nothing but regurgitated gossip. Peters actions speak loud enough for me.

          • GetReal2014

            Ha ha ha, a dump truck she is.

            He may be guilty, I’m just not prepared to say it, about anybody.

          • Twirl On Them Haters

            True. I don’t dislike Peter, I actually think he is the most entertaining husband. I appreciate his perspective from a man’s point of view. I just feel that some of his behavior seems sketchy. He is hell bent on being successfully rich. He needs to understand money and fame doesn’t define success. He needs to prove himself to his wife and children and not the world. He always feels the need to be validated, which causes him to act out in such behaviors.

          • GetReal2014

            Peter gets on my nerves. I don’t find him entertaining in the least. He’s too arrogant and cocky for me. I totally agree about the need to be validated. I don’t like that in people.

            The only husband that I like is Ken, LVP’s husband. He’s just chill, like me.

          • Twirl On Them Haters

            Peter cracks me up. I do like to hear his opinion at times. As women we act on emotions, whereas most men tell it how they see it. Raw with no emotions attached. Yes he is cocky and arrogant. He also needs to show his wife more love and affection. He seems so cold and detached at times. Cyn is a pushover with no backbone, that is a turn off for any man.

          • GetReal2014

            Not me. I’ve been told on many occasions that I think like a man, and I do. My husband was the one who remembered the birthdays, anniversaries and all of that stuff. Don’t bring me any roses, bring me something more lasting than that. After a while he finally got it and gifts meant art, books, and things that I can enjoy on a daily basis.

            I can see Peter being funny, just not to me. Cynthia does seem to need more love and affection. Not so good for her.

          • Twirl On Them Haters

            Thinking like a man isn’t a bad thing, in sure it has it perks. Like not always being emotionally attached. You and your husband sound like a fun loving couple. Seems like you both balance each other out.

          • GetReal2014

            It definitely has its perks. You’d be surprised at how much men like that. They are so fascinated because I have so many interests that don’t include them.

            No, we weren’t a fun loving couple. I left his azz after a long time so that I could get back to me, LOL. However, we get along great and his family can’t believe how protective he is towards me.

            Anyway, his azz wasn’t funny, so that was a problem. Ha ha ha.

          • Twirl On Them Haters

            Yeah, that would be a deal breaker for me too. If you don’t have a sense of humor, I wouldn’t wait my time. Love, live and laugh is my motto 😀. You seem happy and that’s what matters most.

          • GetReal2014

            I was spoiled. My first love was hilarious, and so was my first husband. We had a ball. You hear me? But this dude, man he was boring as hail, I’m not kidding. Always wanting me to watch TV and movies with him with no input. Get out of my face with that mess.

            Even with my son, when I have to get on his behind I end up laughing. I can’t help it. Thankfully, he still takes me seriously, it’s just that I crack myself up even when I’m arguing.

            I am extremely happy, Twirl, and so are you. You can feel good vibes even over the internet. Can you imagine me, you and Bobbi viewing RHOA together? I know we would be crying, laughing and rewinding.

          • Twirl On Them Haters

            Just as we do on the blogs. We would have a blast. Your son probably enjoys your humor more than you know. I always enjoy being around fun ppl. Me, you an Bobbi would big time fun if we had our own blog, that would be epic. 😊

          • GetReal2014

            Gurl, we actually need to do that; get our own blog. I can’t see us tolerating the foolishness that I see people doing on blogs. I would shut that crap down so fast, my head would be spinning.

            Our blog would be light-hearted, respectful, engaging and enlightening. Whew, girl don’t get me started.

          • Twirl On Them Haters

            Good ideas. Imagine how fun it would be. We might be on to something 😀.

          • GetReal2014

            You have no idea. I’ve been thinking about it for awhile. I like love and peace. We would have a blast.

        • JerseyCountess

          What would you consider concrete proof?

      • Sandy Wood

        AND…Peter needs Cynthia’s Bravo paycheck.

  • CNN

    This makes me sad. I hate to see their marriage end but I think Cynthia was done when that video surfaced. She felt the public embarrassment and then had to deal with the issue on the show and in social media.

    • Shelly Jones

      agreed.

    • ScrappieONE

      I think Cynthia always suspected it but when the video came about it was the straw that broke the camels back.

      • Marsbars09

        ITA.

  • LuxLuxLux

    I’m over the moon that she’s in NY ~ hopefully a reunion with the beautiful Leon is on the cards!!! YES CYNTHIA SEE THE LIGHT!

    • MidwestMiddie

      Let Leon continue to enjoy his FREEDOM!!!
      : )

      • LuxLuxLux

        Noooo he needs to be on TV more!

        • MidwestMiddie

          I agree on that point but he certainly doesn’t need to ruin his
          life and be with Cynthia. : )

          • LuxLuxLux

            hahaha lol true

  • JerseyCountess

    Awww…Poor Peter. Clearly, he had nothing to do with the end of his marriage.

  • Shayvoe

    But, it was OK for you and Cynthia to involve yourself in Phaedra’s marriage, and bring up a cheating rumor, which Apollo, the beacon of truth, started. And, it was OK to bring up Porsha’s marriage in a group setting, and involve yourself in her marriage. Cynthia has no formal education either and neither do you…did you even finish high school? And Cynthia’s resume may be longer….she has 20 years on Porsha. The hypocrisy and ignorance of this bunch is comical. Shut up Peter and take responsibility for the demise of your marriage, and get prepared for the gravy train you have been riding to jump the track.

    • Shelly Jones

      That’s totally different. Apollo brought that story to viewers…NOT CYNTHIA or PETER. They are on a reality show and are supposed to bring up controversial topics to discuss. BUT they did not START the rumor. Apollo did that himself. Peter brought up a conversation he had with porsha’s husband that was filmed. it was a part of the show.What poorsha is doing is different.

      • Shelly Jones

        Let’s be clear….I AM NOT defending PETER. He made is bed.

      • GetReal2014

        Not only that, but Porsha and Phaedra ended that season talking about Peter and cheating. Cynthia didn’t say anything until the next season. Mr. Chocolate is real. He was brought up a long time ago. I knew that his name sounded familiar and several people who watch the show confirmed that Mr. Chocolate’s name was always out there.

        • 💚.

          It doesn’t matter when Cynthia brought the subject of Mr Chocolate up. She herself said she shouldn’t have done it. She was wrong to do it.

          • GetReal2014

            Is this EP from RT? What’s with the heart?

          • 💚.

            No, this is EP from AATT, don’t like the heart?

          • GetReal2014

            No, I saw someone on AATT mention it earlier and you didn’t deny it. I know you from RT as well. I don’t believe that Disqus would allow people to have the exact same names. That would be extremely confusing.

            The heart? I was just curious why EP on AATT suddenly became a heart? Didn’t care, just thought it was curious.

          • 💚.

            I use to post on RT, no more. Not since the first of the year. I posted on AATT long before I ever started posting on RT. I don’t know what you are referring to about me not responding to a comment that asked the same question. There is no mystery here, I am EP and I’m not denying that to anyone.

          • GetReal2014

            That’s what I asked you. It was a simple question. Are you the EP from RT? You just confirmed it. I didn’t say you didn’t respond. I said that you didn’t deny it (see previous post). I was confused considering that you were the same EP that I never corresponded with on RT and when I started posting here (although I have always posted here sporadically amongst other blogs) you came out with guns blazing. It was strange and confusing considering that we had never posted to each other in the past.

            But instead of answering the question you asked me if I didn’t like your heart. I didn’t understand what that had to do with anything.

            I was just trying to figure out why you came out of the gate trying to blast me when there had never been any communication between the two of us. It’s just odd.

          • 💚.

            Understood. I’m not making an accusation of any kind. I’m saying I didn’t know what you were referring to. The heart question was an honest question with no malice or agenda. That’s all. I’m going to leave well enough alone and wish you a good evening.

        • Shayvoe

          There is no Mr, Chocolatte and never was, and Peter and Cynthia both knew it. If that had been true, Cynthia wouldn’t have had such a hard time stammering and sputtering to get that nonsense out of her mouth. Apollo is vile for starting that rumor about the mother of his kids, just for spite, but Cynthia and Peter are worse for putting that on Phaedra at the lowest point of her life…who does something like like? She and Cynthia never even had a beef…Cynthia did it to keep her job after some prompting from Kenya and Peter…for different reasons.

          • GetReal2014

            Mr. Chocolate is real.

          • Bobbi

            Sure he’s real. I’ts why Phaedra got that piñata full of condems for her birthday in Mexico and Apollo talked about his wish for her to use protection if she wasn’t going to be faithful. He knew his wife was a hoe. Mr Chocolate info appeared right on the heels of that.

          • GetReal2014

            Of course he is. The piñata is a major clue that cannot be overlooked. Secondly, she came into the marriage as a head doctor getting busy on air mattresses in the projects, a name that she held from high school and beyond. Word on the street is that she slept with all of her clients, so spare me with the chastity. Phaedra has none. She’s a THOT, pure and simple.

          • Bobbi

            You’re right. That nasty thing should be knocking folks down to claim this one. This is her cleanest transgression to date.

          • GetReal2014

            Girl, ain’t nobody on Phaedra’s nasty, whorish azz. As if she’s above reproach; hiring people like Redickulous and salivating at women’s lady parts. Ha ha ha, and we’re supposed to believe that she’s as pure as the driven snow. Try slush for that bich. Nasty heifer.

          • Bobbi

            Hahahha! I agree!

          • GetReal2014

            I know. Nasty whore, tramp, slut, woman of ill repute. GTFOH with that BS. Like she’s above reproach. I can’t.

          • Bobbi

            It’s hilarious. This dirty bish graduated from head dr to having two books written in her honor charging her with being involved in the business of prostitution, shaking and showing her nasty tail on top of a car practically naked at a car wash for a drug dealer, to sleeping with her clients to getting busy on a dirty air mattress in a halfway house with a convicted felon, to being pregnant with Apollo’s baby while engaged to another man. Mr Chocolate is a walk in the park. Lol. Guilty as sin.

          • GetReal2014

            Exactly, that’s how Jessica met her, isn’t it? And this filthy bich was going around calling Kenya a whore when everybody in Atlanta knows what a trash bag she is. Calling someone a whore and didn’t have not one name that she could attach to the allegation, and guess what, she had people parroting that dumb chit. How crazy is that?

          • Bobbi

            She’s been filthy her entire life. I’m not about to believe her lies now.
            Apollo is the type who keeps a smirk on his face. It was maddening the way he seemed to never take anything serious. He had his moments though. The episode he told Peter about Mr Chocolate was one of those rare moments. He was dead serious and angry as hail. Not because he was jealous either. He didn’t care about that hoe. He lost it because he realized Phaedra was getting ready to discard and play him just like she did AS. This was when he started acting really strange and scary. All of Apollo’s actions, cryptic comments and sweet nothings in her ear from that moment on said, “I dare you. Try me.” Apollo let her make her little smart @ss comments but, started calling the shots at that point and has whipped her back and forth like a wet rag from that moment til now. He has been in prison two seasons now and it’s why her lying @ss is still talking about, “I want a divorce but, he won’t sign the papers.” She knows what’s good for her. He’s still calling the shots. If she can still convince someone she is being honest more power to her. Not me. I don’t believe she has ever had an honorable intention in her life or an honest bone in her body. Ever. I don’t expect her to acquire one either.

          • GetReal2014

            I feel the same way. Phaedra is a cancer, period. No one believes that BS about Apollo not signing the papers. He has nothing to lose at this point. He’s already been imprisoned and can’t be tried for the same crime twice, Phaedra’s azz is the one on the line. How convenient that HE doesn’t want a divorce. He already laid it out to her, “You’d better have my stuff when I get out.” That said it all. Apollo is not about to become another AS, and Phaedra, that evil cow, knows it. Trying to pawn off that BS story…not to people with discernment. Come again Phaedra, with something a lot better than that idiotic BS.

          • Bobbi

            ITA. I listen to Phaedra just like I listen to Porsha. Never.

          • GetReal2014

            You and me both. NEVER.

          • Shayvoe

            As real as all of Kenya’s boyfriends.

          • GetReal2014

            Or Porsha’s, LOL.

          • Shayvoe

            Porsha doesn’t have to hire hers…she is not desperate to prove she can get one.

          • GetReal2014

            I don’t know why you’re suddenly talking to me, but in the future you’ll be talking to yourself because I’m not going down the same path with you and your type. 1. You all like to start chit 2. You then flag any response you get. A tactic used often by you and your crew. That game is old and it’s lame. I am not interested in the shenanigans that you guys play. Move along.

          • Shayvoe

            I didn’t flag any posts…I assumed they flagged their own posts, because they were so nasty and personally attacking they were embarrassed…or perhaps the mods deleted them. I don’t flag posts…I like to leave them up so everyone can see the nastiness and personal attacks some people will go to try and make their point. Not sure who “me and my crew” are…I don’t post that often…and I don’t follow a “crew”.

        • Twirl On Them Haters

          Mr. Chocolate surely does exist. Phaedra, Apollo and Kandi know it.

          • GetReal2014

            Of course he exists and everybody knows it. In fact, there was an article out about it a while ago saying that was the basis of Phaedra and Kandi’s feud. Phaedra was mad because Kandi didn’t uphold her outrageous and filthy lies. Mr. Chocolate is real and some RH aficionados were trying to get me to remember when he was on the show. That information came from three different people, at three different times and I know that all of them are not crazy. I’ll stick with the facts and my research.

      • Shayvoe

        But, Peter brought it to Cynthia and Cynthia brought it to Phaedra! AND…Porsha did not start the Peter cheating rumor either…Peter did that himself. It was posted all over the internet in a viral video….and it was shown on the show. So what is different again?

        • Shelly Jones

          Poorsha brought rumors outside of the show to the show (I’m not referring to the video)..for two different seasons!!! That’s the difference. You are not going to see it…because you choose not to…I’m not in the back and forth mood so…thanks for the exchange. Have a good day.

          • Shayvoe

            She obviously knew what she was talking about! You’re right, I don’t see it, because you yourself said “they are on a reality show and are supposed to bring up controversial topics to discuss”. Obviously, what Porsha brought up was not rumor…turns out it was a fact. Good day to you as well.

          • Shelly Jones

            You so simple minded. I can’t.

    • ScrappieONE

      Well at least Cynthia knows how many days are in a year and knows there is no actual train station in the underground tunnel. Sorry but Porsha is as dumb as they come.

      • Shayvoe

        Do we know this for sure?

    • Marsbars09

      That’s two snaps around the world and a great big BLOOP!
      Hey Shay!

      • Shayvoe

        HA!! Hey Mars….waving!!!

    • Ronnie

      You said it Shayvoe!!!

      • Shayvoe

        Thanks Ronnie….This guy and his soon to be ex, are a joke.

        • Ronnie

          Big joke!!

    • BetteDavisEyez1

      Another homerun by Shayvoe. You hit it out of the park with this post.

      • Shayvoe

        Thanks Bette…the hypocrisy is pretty sickening.

  • ScrappieONE

    Peter nailed that THOT to a “T”….

    • JerseyCountess

      Oh definitely. Peter would know one if he saw one!

      • KKLS30

        He sees an old male version when he looks in the mirror. A lying cheater who clearly has had Cynthia’s money in mind their entire relationship.

  • ScrappieONE

    Didn’t Cynthia and Noelle spend the holidays together or either go on a vacation together. It would be great to see Leon and Cynthia together.

  • TartLemon

    I absolutely agree, Peter. It’s all the fault of RHOA and has absolutely nothing to do with you being a POS. ~~~AND~~~ The Giudices are only FELON convicts because of RHNJ not at all because they are CRIMINALS.

  • Marsbars09

    Wow, I didn’t know Cynthia got paid 1.5 million per season! No wonder she’s willing to do anything to stay on.
    This interview was the most lucid and practical I’ve ever seen Peter be. I know Peter loved the attention that appearing on RHOA brought him, but now that he and Cynthia are separated he has realized his days of cashing in on her success are over.
    Also, it didn’t help Peter and Cynthia to begin their life together flat broke AND on a reality show. That situation would challenge any union. I also thought it was a bad omen that they couldn’t cover the costs of their wedding.
    I wouldn’t put it past Peter to have cheated on Cynthia, especially as they have been living separately for quite some time now. With Peter out of the picture I’m curious to know how Cynthia will carry on on RHOA, that is if she’s asked back for season 9.

  • Deanna777

    Why did he call Porsha a THOT? Did he try to hook up with her and she turned him down?

    • 💚.

      Probably, wouldn’t surprise me.

    • JerseyCountess

      Why? Because she’s a woman who outed him and he is abusive.

      • Deanna777

        I knew there had to be a reason.

      • Peter called Porsha a THOT because she has pretty much admitted she dates men for things and then labeled herself a THOT during the cast trip in Puerto Rico.

        • Twirl On Them Haters

          #truestory

    • Porsha calls herself a THOT. LOL.

      • Deanna777

        I wasn’t aware. Thanks. I guess she would know.

  • Twirl On Them Haters

    I agree with Peter, bravo will try to exploit the hell out of their marital problems. Now with that being said, he should have thought about that before he embarrassed his wife in front of the world. You and Cyn were given a platform and it was you who chose what to do with it. I don’t blame the show, I blame the players. Just as we saw Porsha and Kordell’s marriage was fake, we also found out she was his beard. It was clearly a business relationship. Phaedra and Apollo’s illegal affairs unfolded right before our eyes. They both were having affairs, or should I say “open marriage”. And then we have Nene and Greg’s money problems. Once Nene became the breadwinner in the relationship, it all began to go to her head. She started treating Greg like sh*t and he cheated. All of these couples joined a reality show and had all of their dirty laundry aired out. Walking away would be the best thing for him to do at this point. He has lost everything, including his pride and self worth. Oh yeah, Porsha is a self proclaimed THOT, you get no argument from me there.

    • Trippinhhard

      You wrote the truth, now to me Peter and Cynthia never have an equal partnership, he would keep too much financial information from her.. It was her money used to set up that his first two failed business.. They way he spoke to her about her money was very controlling… Jmo

      • Twirl On Them Haters

        I agree, Peter has been messing up her money from the beginning. He just spoke of how broke he was coming into the marriage. He is definitely in the wrong, in more ways than one.

        • Trippinhhard

          I don’t and wouldn’t accept anyone speaking to me the way Peter speaks to Cynthia..
          He’s just a selfish man IMO

          • Twirl On Them Haters

            While I do think Peter and Cyn have love for one another. Peter was more invested in a come up than he was his marriage. He is very selfish and doesn’t know what it takes to make a marriage work. He needs to take some responsibility for his failed marriage, otherwise he will never learn.

          • Trippinhhard

            I’m sure there is some love for her, but he’s never showed her the respect she deserves..
            Cynthia is very supportive of him, but he’s not the same way.. Toward the end of this season he was better, but he flirts too much for me, and I don’t get the strip clubs they ..support and the money they waste on them.. Cynthia is a beautiful woman and her body is still looking good, so why waste money, when you have a model at home.. I personally would have never married a man with that many children and baby mommies.. Now that just me

    • Very well said!!!!

      • Twirl On Them Haters

        Thank you Seusseroo 😊. Nothing but the truth.

        • I know that’s right…you’re welcome sweetheart!

          • Twirl On Them Haters

            Smiles 😊

    • Abby_Wabby

      Peachter lost his self worth years ago….Bravo wasn’t responsible for that! IJS This was the same idiot campaigning for a peach a few seasons ago….he can buzz off!

      • Twirl On Them Haters

        If you read my post correctly, I stated that only Peter was to blame. You gets no argument from me. Like I said, it would be best for him to walk away.

        • Abby_Wabby

          Wasn’t looking 4 an argument….just adding my 2 cents

          • Twirl On Them Haters

            It’s a saying that I also stated in my post 😊. No tea No shade 😎 Just opinions. 2¢

  • Abby_Wabby

    I thot…Cynbot’s marriage was sooooo much better without Nene???? OMG WTF happened? AH Peachter is a leech….

  • Bobbi

    Did Peter just say Cynthia made 1.5 million dollars for RHOA?

    • Twirl On Them Haters

      I think he has cheated, but not with the waitresses. I think Peter thinks he’s the man around town and can do as he pleases. To me he treats Cyn like he is emotionally detached from their relationship. I do think he lost a lot of respect for her when she allowed Nene to emasculate him repeatedly. They have been living seperate lives longer than we think.

      • Bobbi

        I go back and forth with the cheating part. I am about even on both sides. I really don’t think it is why they are breaking up though.
        I believe Cynthia has cared more about the chatter and naysayers in their marriage and about what people thought more than what she believed or even cared about since she came on the show. She has proven right up to this season that she is swayed by public opinion more than her own heart and conviction in all of her relationships.

        For one, she cared that people said Peter was broke, even though she moved into his home when she came to Atlanta. I believe she knew what Peters goals were when she moved there and was on board but her attitude changed when he started to lose money which is not unusual when you are an entrepreneur. He had painted her a big beautiful picture and she hadn’t planned for the storyline the viewers handed her when his ventures failed. One of a husband who was using her and draining her bank account. I believe she resented that people thought this and also that she didn’t have the life she wanted to portray or the big beautiful wedding she wanted to have on television.

        Peter checked out but, I believe Cynthia checked out too when public opinion got rough. When Peter was available and lived in town Cynthia spent her free time talking to Nene 15 times a day and letting people belittle him.

        To add, Cynthia tries to portray herself as this woman of means that lived this high society lifestyle in NYC but, I don’t buy it. I would wager that her life now is FAR better than when she lived in New York and Peter helped her get that life and exposure to have all the opportunities she is now getting. I’m sure Peter looked at it from that paradigm. He got her on. She wouldn’t have “all of this” without him. We all know Peter had his own plans for stardom/success and he does not come across as a man who would not have had that conversation up front. That, this would be a partnership. It’s why he was unapologetic in his pursuit of opening those businesses. He was sticking to the plan they had agreed on. I believe she panicked when he failed over and over. I personally reject the notion of many that he took her money without her permission. He may have been bullheaded but, I believe that was the plan all along. I’ll get you on and we will build our future with those earnings. I just think the pressure and stress of it all took them down. I blame them both.

        • Twirl On Them Haters

          I agree. I was just telling GetReal that Cyn has her faults as well. Like most of the husbands on the show, there is a lot of pressure put on them to keep up a certain image to the viewers. They are also constantly compared to their wives status in the show. I think they both lost sight of their marriage long ago. Peter is obsessed with making a name for his self. Cyn is always worried about what others think of her. Peter don’t give a sh*t, believe it or not that is one of his best qualities 😀. Cyn is weak minded and does not speak up for herself or loved ones. Whereas Peter is outspoken and unapologetic. She knew he was broke when she married him, it wasn’t a problem then. I know men like him, always looking for a get rich quick scheme. In Peters case his determination worked in his favor, but it cost him his marriage. Cyn was in love with the fame.

          • Bobbi

            Yes, I agree in many regards. I don’t believe Peter was totally broke, though. I don’t believe Cynthia would have followed a totally broke man to Atlanta. I believe he had the 70G’s like he said and the home and she had some money and together they had a plan. But he lost his in the first business. He borrowed from Cynthia to save it and he lost that too. That happened right before they got married. She probably didn’t make that much her 1st few years and she panicked and probably lost faith in him a bit too.

            I do agree Peter wanted wealth and fame. He came along with the famous old school rap artist and he had some success in that setting but, I believe he grew up and was a bit more realistic. He wanted that lifestyle still (entertainment) so, being a social, party type personality his foray into the nightlight business was a natural choice especially with his background. I don’t believe he thought those Businesses were get rich quick schemes. Restaurants and clubs are grueling businesses. I believe he went into the business he always wanted – he just found a way to do it through the show, via Cynthia. I really believe he thought it through when he asked her to come and got her on. I think they used each other to get where they wanted. They paid the ultimate sacrifice with their marriage.

          • Twirl On Them Haters

            That’s exactly what went down. They both used each other and lost sight. In the end, the love of money cost them their happiness. Neither one of them seem content or happy with their successes. Oh well, you live and you learn. Life is an ongoing lesson. GN Bobbi, good talking to you. Until next time ☺.

          • Bobbi

            There you go. In a nutshell. Good night, Twirl. For sure.

          • GetReal2014

            Beautiful.

          • Bobbi

            Thanks GetReal!

        • RonnieRIB

          You Betta Preach!!!

        • GetReal2014

          Absolute perfection.

          • Bobbi

            🙌🏼

      • RonnieRIB

        Agreed and I also think that when Cynthia married him she knew his cat daddy ways…hell even Regina King (while drunk as hell with Jackay on WWHL –still my favorite episode—confessed that Peter got around and she even dated him herself…..

        I think Cynthia now feels she is a boss lady and wants to step away..but she is weak and will be all alone..she needs to work this out…she just cannot keep a man, Not russel simmons, not Leon..

    • RonnieRIB

      I agree…it has to do with money..and Moose is back in her ear…

      Funny thing how Moose is always telling others to leave their man, etc., but she married that crook Butler TWICE….she isn’t giving up her Murrrried status for no one….

      • Bobbi

        There you go. Cynthia’s ducats are lining up and she’s feeling herself. Moose is telling her she doesn’t need Peter. With Peter gone she can get Cynthia to do whatever she wants. Cyn is a stone idiot. Peter may not be the greatest husband but, none of those ladies have marriages they can brag about. Greg came in the house when he got old and tired and his pimp money ran out. Apollo is a walking explanation and Todd is still out there coming home in the a.m. after hanging in the strip clubs all night.
        Fine if she’s through but, Peter was the only piece of backbone Cynthia had. She’s going to be ripe for the pickin’ without him.

        • RonnieRIB

          Yup….

        • GetReal2014

          You got that right. She’s a total idiot. Nene’s going to run that azz.

          • Bobbi

            😂💯

    • GetReal2014

      I agree. Cynthia is just not secure enough in who she is. No marriage with her will ever work.

      • Bobbi

        It’s true. It’s a problem for her.

  • Pandora403

    I actually hope Cynthia and Peter get a divorce. Peter talks a good game but none of his business ventures seem to work out. If the bar in Charlotte is doing well I suspect it’s because Peter is only a part-owner. Anything he’s done on his own has flopped. Cynthia is better off without him, especially financially.

  • Lila

    Peter has been riding Cynthia’s coat tails since day one. He’s a user. She turned a blind eye but I’m glad she’s finally seen his true colors. I feel sad for her; divorce is lousy to say the least but there is a better life out there.

  • RonnieRIB

    ooh wee Peeetra is mad as hell and spilling chocolate tea all ovah the place lol..

    • Bobbi

      We’re going to hear a lot more too if that divorce goes through. Peter isn’t going down and out of the press without a fight. He knows he still has to generate press and media interest for his businesses. They think Peter is a bich now……..Hahahaha.

      • RonnieRIB

        Yasss..he will rant like Kanye…and he knows where ALL the bodies are buried..you know Apollo told him ERR’THANG while they were drankin drankin…at the skrip clubs lol….Todd has spilled plenty on Kandi and Cynt has told Peter all of Nay Nay’s business…they betta keep him happy or he will have one helleva book tour…

        I hope he spills it all…..(rubbing hands together)…

        • Bobbi

          Bullseye. Lmao I know that’s right, Peter made it his business to know everything. I hope he spills it too. Serve those papers CB!

  • RonnieRIB

    Funny how he didn’t mention Kyle and Mo….as being successful….lol I smell a rat…

  • fred

    Peter cant keep hjs little peter in his pants

  • Rosalie Parker

    So let me get this straight – RHOA caused Peter to cheat on Cynthia and ruin her finances? If Porsha is a thot does that make the women he is cheating with thots for messing with a married man. This man gets in everybody’s business but cannot accept it when he is the topic of discussion.

  • Pingback: Cynthia Bailey And Peter Thomas’ Divorce Scandal Grows Amid Their Rumored Feud #RHOA()

  • wellWellwell

    The ‘Tina and Ike’ story all over again..stop Cynthia!