Amber Marchese Wants To Know is Dina Manzo A Cold Hearted Bitch!

Posted on Nov 6 2014 - 11:22am by Editor

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As the ladies bid farewell to a tumultuous season six of “The Real Housewives of New Jersey,” many wounds have resurfaced like festering sores during the reunion. Dina Manzo took shots at many of her co-stars during the RHONJ reunion and one topic addressed was “The Cancer.” The statement refers to Amber Marchese using the cancer card for sympathy.

Amber has taken to her Bravo blog to address “The Cancer,” in her blog she explains:

“One thing I did question after the reunion was if Dina actually has a heart or if I should start calling her the Tin Man. I actually have not figured her out yet. Is she really just a coldhearted bitch, or has she been hurt so many times that she has become warped and jaded. I feel I don’t owe anyone any reason as to why I call cancer “the cancer,” but I will give it once more anyhow. “The cancer” is “the monster” to me. It is a way for me to take away its power and to minimize it. “It” destroys lives, so “it” does not deserve a name. It is just “the cancer” — it was “the monster” or “the dragon.” Although Dina claims to have an understanding of how devastating cancer is to a family, her actions and blatant lack of empathy proves otherwise.”

Amber also addressed Dina’s cold and callous reaction to her nephew’s medical condition:

“In addition, I did not think it was appropriate for me to interject into family quarrels at the reunion; however, this is something that I feel strongly about. I have met Jaqueline and I have spoken to her on many occasions. In the very short time that I have gotten to know Jaqueline, I know and have empathy with the struggles she has caring for Nicholas. I felt that Dina’s interpretation of her nephew was callous and completely out of touch with reality. The only thing that keeps playing in my mind is, “You know nothing John Snow.”

 

“Although, Dina “visits” children with cancer, at the end of her visit she gets to go home, leaving it behind and goes on with her daily life. Since Dina does work with children with cancer, I pray that she can abstain from a self-absorbed lifestyle and become a loving, involved aunt.”

 

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  • Yolie

    I can answer this question for Amber…yes, Dina is a cold-hearted bitch. She’s a self entitled twat who plays psychological games with her siblings to get them to create division. She makes her family chose sides. Even her mother.

  • Bathroom Bobby

    Amber is right about Dina she’s a cold hearted bitch

  • italiano bambino

    Not her fan or any of them this season but she is sure on spot when it comes to dina !

    • Yolie

      Jim has been the only one that makes me laugh but this season has no favorites for me. Amber nailed Dina’s personalty.

    • Hey Bam!! 🙂

      Amber is READING that bitch! Hahahahaha!!!! I love it. First Caroline on WWHL, now Amber. It’s about damn time too.

      • italiano bambino

        Hi seuss is time to called her out of who she is

  • Bathroom Bobby

    Dina’s retreat ended so she can be back on twitter stirring more shit

    • RealitytvJunkie

      Did she get back from her Witches retreat?

      • Bathroom Bobby

        Yes she started up about amber again saying “Amber who” in response to a tweet

        • RealitytvJunkie

          What’s her obsession with Amber? Dina who? She thought she would come back and rise to stardom like her BFF. She was expecting the show would be a ticket to financial freedom from Tommy. Sadly she’s far too boring to pull it off.

          • Bathroom Bobby

            Her only story line is her fake friendship with Teresa

    • Hi Bathroom Bobby!! I thought she said she wanted peace and she never takes to Twitter to air family drama…….suuuuuure she doesn’t. Can’t wait for that waste of space to go!

      • Bathroom Bobby

        I agree Dina is an evil POS

        • VERY COLD!!! Dina hurts people for sport. In her mind it’s all a joke. And her daughter is the same way. You can tell.

          • Bathroom Bobby

            Yes she raised her to be just like her

  • RealitytvJunkie

    Amber is correct. No one should question how she deals with Cancer. It’s her own journey and Dina was out of line. Seriously, why is Dina back? The reunion part 2 is going to be epic.

  • WestCoastFeed

    Hi, all Just a note from my kindle ..MY. computer died and the typing on the kindle defeats me..be back after I get a new laptop.

    • WCF!!!!!!!!! OMG!!!!! I miss you this >>muuuuuuuch<<. It feels like a family member is missing. Please hurry back. ♡♡

      Best Buy, Walmart and Target have started early Black Friday sales, check them out. See you soon my friend.

    • Dave

      I was wondering what happened to you. I also miss your post. Hope you return soon.

    • BeachSpin

      Go into debt WCF, and get your butt back here!!

      • I’m starting a little fund. We can all chip in. We need our WCF back 🙁

        • nan/4

          I’ll pitch in!!!! Honest and true!!!

    • nan/4

      I’ve missed you so much WCF!!!! Use your Kindle until you get a new laptop….you just have to be here! It’s not the same without you!!!!

      I hope that other than being upset over you computer that you’ve been feeling well.

      HURRY BACK!!!!!

      Nancy 🙂
      xo

  • Mommyof4qtpies

    I totally agree with Amber! Dina is narcissistic b*tch. She has zero empathy for anyone with the exception of herself and her own daughter. When she said she only cared about the kids who could understand (Nic vs. Lexi), I was pissed. My son has Autism answer remembers things that happened when he was two. Children with Autism have an incredible memory but Dina is so self absorbed, she doesn’t realize that. Her continued “Zen” act makes me what to vomit.
    I pray Dina never has to face “the cancer”. She has no understanding of what it’s like as a patient, or a family member sitting by feeling so helpless.

    #ZenMyAss

    • Dave

      What really opened my eyes to Dina is Caroline putting her on blast on Watch What Happens Live. Hearing Caroline say, Dina wanted Chris to leave his wife in order to have a relationship with her revealed just how self centered and hateful Dina is. She’s all about Dina. Loves to be the center of attention. Even using her nephew’s condition to garner sympathy for Lexi. That’s pretty darn low.

      • Mommyof4qtpies

        Yes!!! After hearing that, I was appalled too. How dare she ask Chris to leave Jac? Not only do they have a child who requires extra care, but they love each other! Dina is a misery love company kind of girl. She’s getting divorced, so she wants Chris to go through a divorce as well? Dina needs to shut it!

        • Dave

          I agree. I thought is was the most absurd thing I’ve ever heard. A brother choosing between his sister and his wife. That’s insane.

          • classycns

            It’s that the reason why she’s so close to Teresa? Now I know were Teresa got her venom from. Teresa also wanted her brother to leave his wife and 3 kids. Birds of a feather,

      • Right. Caroline, though I don’t care for her much, has never talked about her feud publicly before with the exception of her speaking about it on WWHL. Dina has been off to the races talking about how Jac did this and Caro did this. She wants people to be on her team but this is the same woman who said she has funerals for people inside her own head. Very jaded woman.

    • RealitytvJunkie

      Dina needs some major life event to humble her. She swears her shit don’t stink. Her arrogance is stifling.

    • TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes

      Dina is full of spite and hate. That bitchy aside about “the cancer” was so unnecessary.

      • Mommyof4qtpies

        All of her disgusting, arrogant comments were uncalled for. If anyone tried to bring up her family situation, she shut them down!

        • TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes

          ITA. And the most annoying thing is SHE is the one who keeps talking about it on TV. Caroline and Jac had 5 seasons on that show and barely spoke about her.

          • msmcdonjm

            So true, I forgot all about her until she came on the show, oh and the one time I saw her on her decorating program, the one that lasted a whole minute. I remember thinking, “i know this girl from somewhere,” then I realized it was Dina. haaa!

  • ZammyB

    This is WHY Amber is the new star of RHONJ. These Marcheses came in and just took over! bahahaha to both MelGo and ZenDina bc they’ve done been replaced!

    • RealitytvJunkie

      Where was Melissa this season? Hahaha. Mel allowed Amber (and Jim) to take over. Dina was never a factor. She’s a BORE zzzZZZ.

      • Mommyof4qtpies

        I heard she is going to be a “friend” of the housewives next season.

        • Dave

          Melissa or Dina?

          • Mommyof4qtpies

            Melissa

          • Oh Snap!!!! Thanks for this tea.

          • msmcdonjm

            lol If Melissa goes, then we don’t have to look at joe Go. head anymore. I don’t know what happened to him, but he looks charcoal like. Just werid.

          • Dave

            They both need to go.

      • TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes

        I think Melissa was shackled by her association with Teresa this season. Even at the reunion you could see she desperately wanted to call Teresa out on hitting below the belt but couldn’t. When Teresa is gone Melissa might come back out of her shell.

    • RonnieIsBack

      Yup

  • CoinkaDinka

    I will preface my comment by saying that there is no one likable in this cast or RHONJ. However, Amber despite her foibles and mis-steps has grown on me and now occupies the position of “least bad” cast member in my mind. She isn’t the sharpest tool in the shed, but she does at least seem able to intelligently defend her positions and opinions most of the time. I think for myself and most viewers when she went against Jim in Boca Raton she swayed opinion to her favor, and good for her. It can’t have been easy to go against her husband when he was the only person on her side in that confrontation.
    There does seem to be something seriously off with Dina, she seems like such a miserable person who regrets the life she has chosen for herself. One wonders if she, as the baby of a big family just took the path of least resistance over and over again to get to the low place she inhabits today.
    After all is said and done I could see having Amber, with a much less involved Jim, being a friend of the housewives next season. Bobby and the twins really need to go, watching them on tv was like hearing nails scratched on a chalk board. Rino I liked, I think he has a good sense of humor, a big, loud personality, and seemed to act graciously in difficult circumstances. Just my opinion and I’ve seen a few people posit this, and be shot down vehemently, but I think the twins father has a cuckold fetish and he thought of Rino servicing Santa as a kinky act of duty for the family and that’s why there seems to be no bad blood in the family over the inter generational affair. Sorry for the long comment! Too much coffee and no food makes me type a mile a minute!

    • Hey CoinkaDinka! Hope you’ve been well, honey.

      Great comment and assessment of Dina. Spoiling a child is the worst thing a parent could do a child and Dina is the spoiled baby of the family. As a result she’s grown into a complete monster in society. She’s the quintessential mean girl, who thinks the world owes her everything.

      I agree about Rino. I actually find him funny and entertaining.

      • CoinkaDinka

        Thank you Seuss, you sweet thing. I’ve been fine, hope you are well too.

        • Awwww…thanks my kind, smart friend. I’ve been well, thanks. Gearing up for Turkey day. #GobbleGobble

          • CoinkaDinka

            Good for you being so prepared! Thanksgiving is by far my favorite holiday, nothing like a good meal with family and good friends.

          • Absolutely my favorite holiday. I always eat too much but the extra poundage is worth it. May you and your family have a blessed Thanksgiving. ♡

          • CoinkaDinka

            Same to you and yours love!

          • msmcdonjm

            Hi Coinka, I left u a msg right above to Seuss. peace and joy

          • msmcdonjm

            Hi Seuss, thanksgiving is my favorite of all time holidays, really. The prep. time, people, food, food, and then we have food. the pie and dressing, whew, I wish I could eat it every single fat day of my life. Hope urs goes yummy and well. “) you too coinka..ur name is awesome. { 🙂

          • Awww, thanks honey. You’re too kind. I’m glad you’ve joined our community here, you make a great addition. All the best for a bountiful feast on turkey day. ♡

    • Yolie

      “inter generational affair” is classic. I cosign this entire comment.

      • msmcdonjm

        Love it Yolie, “i cosign this entire comment.” I need to remember this. lol

    • msmcdonjm

      Lordy lord, you’re a good writer, so reading your comment, albeit, long was great. I tend to rant and rant a lot. I like Amber, I feel she wears the pants in her family and I think she’s gutsy.Dina needed someone to kick her sorry, ass ugly body way the hell off the stage, metaphorically and Amber did just that. I like the Jim, at first I couldn’t stand the weasel, but he’s grown on me..I loved how gentle he was with amber and her cancer pic. Very lovely. I got choked up when Amber whispered, barely audible, “i love you.” to Jim as they sat to eat.

      • CoinkaDinka

        Thank you!

      • GinaXOXO

        My favorite Jim/Amber scene was the one when he took her to dinner and gave her the pictures. And, yeah, seeing a man on the housewives display real love and devotion is refreshing. Jim adores Amber. I could watch *that* all season long and less Santa*twins*ish.

  • RonnieIsBack

    Gonzo is a bitch and the worst kind because she believes her own hype and has no remorse.

  • SDC

    I can’t stand Donkey Face. Thank God she won’t be back next season. She was hoping her return to the show would be epic…more like Epic FAIL! Girl, bye.

    • HAHAHAHAHA! You crack me up. #GirlBye

    • BeachSpin

      Hee Haw!

    • Bathroom Bobby

      She can shove her ZEN up her ass while she’s burning sage and dreaming of Tommy

      • msmcdonjm

        Oh, Lord Bathrm. I’m still laughing..buckets. [:…

  • BeachSpin

    Amber is secure. With herself, her marriage, and even in her vulnerabilities and fears. Other women want that, especially a weak, lazy and self centered insecure shrew like Dina. GO Amber.

    • GinaXOXO

      And, it is clear that Amber is intelligent–add that to being secure—and these women would love nothing more than to bring her down to size.

  • TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes

    Amber is a bit like Joyce on BH. At first she was so annoying but as the season dragged itself to it’s sorry end I started to like her more – not least because she calls out Dina and the Twits for their unadulterated nastiness. Go Amber.

    Poor poor Dina. Not only is she not enough for Tommy but she wasn’t enough for Bravo either – they had to go running back to Jac. Ouchies.

    • Hey TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes! *waving*

      LMAOOO!! Well said. Dina was kicked to the curb once again….she just wasn’t good enough. OUCH!!!!!

      • TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes

        Hello there Seuss 🙂 Love the new avatar! Must be hard being Dina huh?

  • Ventgrandma

    Amber should tell Dina to just go scratch, because that is definitely one cold blooded fake zen.

    I just don’t see the Dina love in the world. I really don’t. They should just count their blessings and keep away.

  • Ventgrandma

    I think one of the twins had it right by calling Dina an ice princess.

  • Get out

    Amber bringing up “The Cancer” every other sentence grated on my nerves, but when she stood up to Dina and her snarky comment and explained that it’s hers, she defeated it, and she can call it whatever she wants, well – she’s right. If she want’s to call it Susie and talk to her scars, take them out for drinks, whatever she has earned that right. Dina is a stuck up snob who thinks she is better than everyone else. She will be without male companionship other than banging Tommy for the rest of her life with that pissy attitude of hers.

    • Harleygirl0685

      Well said!

    • msmcdonjm

      and something worse than, “the cancer” will bring her to her knees, so Dina should praise God for what she has, then poking fun of someone who calls her disease. “the cancer”. Dina, ur an older, self absorbed middle aged women making fun of someone who is a 35ish woman who conquered cancer..you’re so jealous of her, her guts, her beauty, and courage to tell you Dina, to f……k off…so, “Get out”, I’m sorry I used your space here as my forum to tell Dina off..wish I could tell her this myself. Get out, I am proud of you, the way you saw thru ur distain for amber and saw her as a human being is great. “)

    • sassysue

      Amber had Stage 1….Stage 1 and she uses it for attention. It is a disgrace to all women who have had cancer. I truly feel with these 2 Bravo is like watching Jerry Springer. There has always been conflict, but never has any man or woman acted like Jim. He is disgusting in actions, pathetic in his attention seeking, and acts like he is something special. He is the lowest of low…it is okay to be disliked but when the fans all lose respect, and you continue with your antics..I question the type of man you are…Yo
      u should be doing good deeds and thanking God. I feel so sorry for your children….

  • colleen

    you don’t have to be a member of the cast to know Dina’s a bitch!

  • For Dina to work with sick children, she should be more sympathetic and empathetic towards Amber’s plight. Cancer, the cancer, whatever she wants to call it, she is the one who had to experience that and thankfully live through that. I used to like Dina, a small tiny bit of me still does, but I just have come to the realization that this woman is just a coldhearted bitch. For her to sit up there and say she can’t “heal” Nicolas, therefore she doesn’t have to get to know him made my stomach turn. Jac may be a drunk tweeter, but I definitely believe every word she says about Dina. I really hope that she doesn’t come back next season to expose us to more of her fake zen.

    • disgusted

      well, if you take dina’s comments about the children she visits (benig on respirators, etc.), unless a child is gravely ill, there’s nothing she can do for him. dina, if i had a child, i wouldn’t want you anywhere near him/her. if you couldn’t help yourself (as is clearly evidenced by the fact that you are still living with a man who no longer wants you) you couldn’t help a child with very special needs…. this is one cold, arrogant fish if i ever saw one.

      • Exactly! Dina is a the coldest bitch probably on the Housewives period! There’s nothing like the warmth and innocent in the eyes of a child, especially a sick child, and Dina just dismissed all that, just because of a silly feud. She needs help.

    • GinaXOXO

      I still like Dina but she went down a few notches at the reunion.

      About Nick . . . I think Dina was saying life goes on without her and that Nick doesn’t need her. I think Dina is fed up with her family and wants space.

      Edited: I also found it rude the way she treated the fireman. Her comments were unwarranted and cruel.

  • doggiedaddy

    Is she cold hearted?
    Most likely.

    Is she a spoiled delusional immature brat?
    Yes

  • disgusted

    dina, a friend to theresa?…..naaaahhhh! the look on dina’s face when theresa said she didn’t understand the plea deal said it all. a friend would never react that way. dina is a broken-down, over-botoxed, over-collagened, oiver-nipped/tucked bytch with too many animals for friends. maybe the next pet she gets should be a donkey.

  • murlut

    I didn’t really like Jim and Amber at the beginning of the season but
    now I like them both. He has no problem calling out anyone and I like that. Look at what he did to Bobby. He hammered him last night. Bobby wantedi to be on the show and that’s why he is with the screecher. Dina didn’t like him because he had no problem calling her out either. Dina is a cold hearted bitch and Amber is correct to stay away from her. Dina is toxic and has ruined her family and now whines

  • Shan A

    I’d rather a Dina than the Amber who called Teresa, who she wasn’t super close with, out of the blue, bawling uncontrollably and refusing to hear that it wasn’t a good time to talk, my kids are with me and I can’t answer these questions right now. Someone like that isn’t all that interested in improving or helping the other’s circumstances, it is all about herself and her emotions.
    I also don’t think Dina’s response about Nic was offensive or came from a hard heart.
    I think she tried to say, he is too young to remember her so there is not that factor of “missing” Aunt Dina, he is fortunate to have loving parents and resources to help him but unfortunately because of Dina and Jac’s relationship, she isn’t a part of his life as of now.
    I actually see that as using wisdom and maturity.
    Jac using one of her children once again, for a story line or to make someone look bad is what I find quite appalling. Jac will use anything especially her twitter account to slam someone constantly and she always has a target. Always. Right now, it is Dina.