Nicole Napolitano Explains Why She’s So Against Saying “Shut Up”

Posted on Sep 26 2014 - 4:07pm by BeachSpin

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It’s Friday everybody! As all of you AATT readers know, laughter through extreme disgust is our favorite shared reaction to “The Real Housewives of New Jersey,” trashy antics. So in the spirit of heading into the weekend, we would like to offer you a little appetizer leading into the supposed Jersey blowout in Florida, airing Sunday. Luckily, I had to look no further than Nicole Napolitano’s Bravo blog, for plenty of ridiculous material. Nicole’s sister Terehssa as well as um…other family members, are embroiled in the potential fallout of a filthy family cheating rumor that is supposed to come to a head this Sunday. Every viewer in America knows this…but Nicole has decided to make the topic of her blog her very deep seeded feelings on the phrase ‘shut up’.      

“I love my sister more than anything, but yes, we do disagree and I think I got across how strongly I feel about “shut up.” I feel words are so powerful, so we must watch our words, especially with the people we love.”  
While this goes without saying with you astute readers…DEFLECTION much?? In this case, I certainly think certain dirty actions are far more hurtful than any words could be. Of course, Nicole is not the smartest bulb in the proverbial Jersey make up mirror, but surely she knows that most of the viewers will agree that this is a lame attempt to intentionally deflect from the seedy elephant in the room. Let’s review Nicole’s classy moments from last week. They include repeatedly calling attention to her boobs, embarrassing a cringing pool boy,  as well as verbalizing her desire to pluck his nipple hairs. Ironically, my first instinct every time I heard Nicole’s nasal blather was, “SHUT UP!” Nicole needs to go back to Dunkin Donuts, and take several counter seats. 
“Regarding Dina, I could tell something was lying heavy on her heart and she wanted to tell us something. I never thought for a second she ever wanted to hurt us, but only help us. ” 
My mother actually hated the expression ‘shut up’ and disallowed it in our home. Interestingly, she also hated the word ‘liar’ and forced us all to use the term ‘storyteller’ instead. Now if you ever want to call someone out, try blasting “storyteller!” at them and you will see, it has no venom. Eventually the whole sentiment faded away in our home….my mom was a smart woman. However, these accusations were made against a backdrop of offenses such as a stolen crayon , not a potentially disgusting family secret about to be revealed to America. When the sludge hits the fan Sunday, I would be very surprised to hear anyone bellowing “BE QUIET YOU STORYTELLER!!!” I am prepared for a barrage of beeeeps….and that’s keeping optimistic. I certainly hope that Nicole’s sensitive spirit can take it.

 

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  • WestCoastFeed

    I think we had the same mother. Mine would not tolerate “liar” or “shut up” either. And I get upset myself when I hear or read them.

    • KJ

      What’s even funnier WCF, I don’t ALLOW those words at my house!
      If the kids friends say them even in jest in the pool, they have to get out of the pool for 10 minutes!
      I think it’s dis respective & degrading! My kids know it & tell their friends when they get here & if anyone new come over, they are QUICKLY informed!! Momma don’t play!

      • WestCoastFeed

        Looks like we all had the same momma.

        • KJ

          Oh yeah!!
          LOL

        • Anne Green

          Seems we all had momma’s who believed in raising children with the proper morals, values and manners. It’s no so common nowadays..

          • It does not exist.

          • WestCoastFeed

            Oh, Doc, You’ve been watching too many trashy reality shows. Good manners, values and morals do still exist.

          • I’m referring to Anne’s comment about manners not being commonplace nowadays. Most of the kids I see lack manners not only on TV.

        • KJ

          My mom was the best!!
          After having 9 kids she took in foster kids & babysat! She had her angel wings before she passed!

    • Anne Green

      My family refers to it as “fibbing” but no one is a liar. Except for Teresa, she’s a liar…lol

      • WestCoastFeed

        Since Teresa has pled guilt to perjury, I feel justified in calling her a liar.

        • Marsbars09

          Tre is a proven liar.

  • Trippinhhard

    We weren’t allowed to say liar or shut up either.. The words are you telling a story or be quiet or I don’t want to hear that. My mother DIdnt play at all…..

  • September24

    **Drinking Game Alert** everytime you read the word love in Nicole’s blog drink like you just met a guy at Dunkin Donuts and he agreed to be your tv boyfriend.

  • Why do GROWN people take words so seriously? “Shut up” & “Liar” can’t hurt you. Nicole is ridiculous for even writing this stupid blog.

    • WestCoastFeed

      I was raised the same way as Nicole, I guess. Those words also offend me. And my mother would not tolerate them in her house.

      • I was raised not to mention those words in my home also. As an adult, I learned not to ever give someone power (over me) through their words. People can anything they want about me and it has zero effect. And I respond only if I choose to.

        • Birdie11

          Amen to this. As kids we learn how to treat people…as adults we learn how to deal with those who weren’t kept to the same standard.

    • September24

      I was raised just the opposite. My parents always told us to shut up, go watch tv, and don’t ask me again were their favorites. I can’t relate to taking it so seriously. No wonder Nicole’s divorced and ex won’t allow the kids to be filmed.

      • I agree 100%. Nicole is too grown for this shit and should be embarrassed. And the fact the ex wants nothing to do with her cements this idea for me.

      • Marsbars09

        LOL! My parents only told me and my siblings to shut up as a “final resort”. LOL! My mother also used the phrase, “don’t ask me again”. That always did the trick. LOL!

    • Marsbars09

      I’m surprised this article was written it’s so ridiculous.

  • September24

    O/T = Jac is going to be on WWHL this Sunday. What a waste of 30 minutes.

    • WestCoastFeed

      I’m very much looking forward to seeing her. I gather she and Ashlee are going to be in Sunday’s episode. I’d like to find out just how much of a player she will be the rest of the season. And of course I always want updates on adorable Nicholas.

      • Oh cool. So it’s confirmed now?

        • WestCoastFeed

          Nothing is confirmed. We know she did some filming back in Feb or March that hasn’t been shown. Is she going to be in more?

          • I’m referring to WWHL this Sunday.

          • WestCoastFeed

            Yes, it is confirmed. With Rita Wilson.

          • Ok, thanks. Should be interesting.

    • Bwahahaha!!!

    • Marsbars09

      What the hell is she going to talk about?

      • WestCoastFeed

        Other than her kids? It’s possible that the Signature Apparel bankruptcy has been settled and very much in her and Chris’ favor. She tweeted a few minutes ago about today having been a very long day but a very great day. Two other bloggers are claiming there is a settlement but the documentation doesn’t support the claims the bloggers are making.

        • Marsbars09

          I just read on the “other” website the Lauritas’ bankruptcy settlement is $1,000,000.

          • twifan2

            A sum that is much more likely to be paid back, than the Juicys will/would do.

  • victorg

    hey Nicole—-SHUT the F–K up!!!!! is THAT better!!

    • HAHAHAHAHA! Best comment award goes to YOU!!!

    • ✿♡❀♡❁ Tigerlily ❁♡❀♡✿

      Brandi, is that you? LOLOLOL!

    • Birdie11

      This might cause her to pass out or something.

  • WestCoastFeed

    If Nicole and her sister would agree to be quiet for the rest of the season, they’d both be more palatable. Both have very irritating screechy voices. And besides that, they have nothing interesting to say.

    • Marsbars09

      Preach WCF!

  • September24

    Booby Bobby took selfies at a rescue. ROL has the story. This is what happens when you pick up a guy at Dunkin Donuts and ask him to be your tv boyfriend!

    • WestCoastFeed

      Yes, he has taken a couple of selfies now after fighting a vehicle fire. Since Jim Marchese tried to claim that Bobby wasn’t really a fire fighter, Bobby wanted to prove that he is.

      • He’s not a REAL firefighter because he did it for all the wrong reasons. At the core of it, he’s not a good guy that decided to become a volunteer firefighter to serve the community; he did it to get on the show only.

        • September24

          He should have stuck with being a trust fund playboy!

        • Marsbars09

          Hi Doc! I didn’t know Bobby joined the volunteer firefighters due to the show. That’s really disappointing as there are many volunteer firefighters that risk their lives serving the public.

          • WestCoastFeed

            Bobby says that he joined before the show and not FOR the show. Jim claims otherwise. I don’t know why anyone should believe Jim over Bobby, or Bobby over Jim.

          • Bobby is a liar. The timeline speaks for itself. He joined shortly after getting signed to do the show. This has nothing to do with Jim Marchese although Jim is responsible for Global warming & ISIS, he’s not responsible for Bobby becoming a volunteer firefighter for the show.

          • WestCoastFeed

            Do you have the date he signed up for Fire fighting training?

          • Yes but I can’t post it here.

          • WestCoastFeed

            Okay.

          • Hi Marsie! Yes, it’s true….Bobby only became a volunteer firefighter for the show and it’s very disappointing. The guy is a sham.

          • Marsbars09

            People will do and say anything to get on TV. SMDH.

          • Booby is a famewhore, he also ONLY dated Nicole to get on the show.

          • Marsbars09

            I know Doc. I know. :/

          • WestCoastFeed

            They all got on the show for television exposure. None is any worse in that respect than the other,

          • Marsbars09

            But to use the First Responders is an all time low. Booby is probably a spoiled pampered playboy at heart.

          • WestCoastFeed

            He is a first responder, however. Joining the Colts Neck volunteer fire department is probably the best thing he has ever done in his life.

          • But he did for the wrong reasons. At the core, that’s inherently despicable.

          • Birdie11

            Motive is everything…it reveals character.

          • Exactly my point.

          • WestCoastFeed

            Oh, come on. I don’t care a bit why he did it. He is doing it. Good for him. He will probably learn a lot from the experience.

          • I don’t know West…..to me, motive generally speaks to the core of who a person is. I can’t dismiss motive.

      • September24

        A grown man jumping through hoops to prove a twitter comment! Booby just gave Jim credibility!

        • Birdie11

          See my cool fireman hat Booby? I TOLD ya it was real!

        • Me thinks Booby doth protest too much. He’s trying too hard.

    • Bam!!! Bwahahahaha!!!

    • Birdie11

      Nothing says true public servant like a well timed selfie…blech!

    • Marsbars09

      I thought Bobby picked the twins up from Dunkin’ Donuts?

  • Marsbars09

    So What?! My God, these twinnits are boring and dull as dry paint!

  • Pinky Pie

    Is it true that Teresa Giudice’s legal team is asking the judge not to read the publics letters about them? Saw something on another site.

    • WestCoastFeed

      Probably because they knew that all the letters supporting Tre would be written in crayon.

      • twifan2

        And large rule notebook paper. 🙂

      • September24

        OMG! LOL!

      • Bam! LMAO!!!

      • Harleygirl0685

        Each word would be written out in dots and traced over with a crayon!

  • woww

    lol nicole ur family is incest-happy and u are upset over the words shut up … no room to “tawk” please go back to BROOKLYN NY u r NOT FROM NJ stop giving ppl from here a terrible name.

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