Hot Tea Alert: Amber Marchese Fires Back At Teresa Aprea In Her Bravo Blog

Posted on Sep 18 2014 - 1:42pm by Editor

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Though Victoria Gotti was the one who exposed the nasty rumor about Rino Aprea bonking his mother-in-law, Teresa Aprea is displacing the blame on her costars, including Amber Marchese. All this finger pointing is causing quite the stir, leaving her castmates confounded and defending themselves.

[RELATED] Hot Tea Alert: Teresa Aprea Says There Was An Agenda to Hurt Her Family!

On the last episode of the “Real Housewives of New Jersey” we saw Amber’s emotional reaction upon hearing that her cancer may have returned.

“Hearing the word, “inconclusive” brought me right back to when I was first diagnosed. I remember the day like it was yesterday. I had just put my 6-month-old and 18-month-old down for a nap, the older guys were in school. My doctor called and I was alone. He told me to sit down and then relayed to me that I had invasive carcinoma.”

She’s now addressing claims made by the twins, that she holds a degree of culpability for the affair rumor spreading. Amber took to her Bravo blog to defend herself:

“I read Nicole and Teresa’s blogs and see what they tweet about me. It is clear that they have made up their minds that no matter what, whether their thoughts are logical or illogical, they will displace their anger and frustrations onto me. It is a classic textbook definition of displacement, “aggressing against a substitute target because aggressive acts against the source of the frustration are inhibited by fear or lack of access” (Kassin, Fein, Markus, 2008). I believe they are displacing their anger at Victoria Gotti and other potential factors could be a possibility in this entire scenario.”
[RELATED] Amber Marchese Wants To Know Did Teresa Giudice Set Her Up To Take The Fall?

On Teresa Giudice and Dina Manzo’s involvement:

“I can’t control others’ actions, however, I can control mine. I am completely confident that I handled the information that Vicitoria Gotti said to me in the most appropriate manner. Call it a chess move. In my mind, whether I was set up to take the fall or not, I had to deal with the situation. I had to make a move. I was told this information, so I made a conscious decision to put Teresa on notice that I thought it was all weird and I am not saying one word to any of the girls. What Teresa and now Dina do with this information is up to them. I firmly stood my ground on that and kept to my word. However, I do not believe the twins should be taking it up with anyone but Victoria Gotti and TereSSA’s husband, Rino. They especially need to stop misdirecting their aggressions towards me. I got ganged up on at a “party” over something that was true, here this rumor was crazy, weird, and I was not going anywhere near this one. NOWHERE. Nor was I at a comfortable point with TereSSA or Nicole to have a discussion about what Victoria Gotti said, moreover, since Victoria is Teresa’s friend, it was not my place to say anything. Follow me?”

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“I am not sure why Teresa told Dina in the manner that she did. She of all people knew that I was nothing more than an ear to what HER friend was telling me. Furthermore, I had already made it unequivocally clear that I was not saying a damn word to anyone. I took the risk to tell her at the party to make sure we were in agreement, so I am not sure of her intentions. I do know from past conversations that we have had, that she was burned many times before, even by people she loved dearly. I am not making excuses for Teresa, however, I do have an understanding of what she’s been through. However, it is me she is distrusting, so I have to defend myself, and honestly there is nothing to really defend. I tapped out of this situation, now how others handle it is it up to them. Remember, I can only control my actions, not the actions and behavior of others.”

 

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  • twifan2

    Are these people NOT watching the SAME episodes we are?!
    OR are they trying desperately to ‘earn’ a paycheck?!

    • Trippinhhard

      That’s one check I don’t want, anything you or your family ever did would be out for the world to know. This is the worse HWS show— between the boring twins, Amber, the theif n liar, n zen Dina—-it’s boring—TERESA and her good mothering skills is laughable to me.

      • WestCoastFeed

        Yes, the newbies are a disaster. Teresa’s attempt to be mother of the year is a joke. Ratings are plummeting. What a surprise.

        • Trippinhhard

          The rating are as bad as BH and Miami.. They are not getting their money worth of of the “star” Teresa and bringing Dina back was the worst of all, she boring and phoney.

  • Trippinhhard

    Well Amber is correct, she didn’t spill the tea—but Zen ass Dina felt it was her job to spread the gossip..

    OT::: Kandi’s play a mother’s love has been cancelled, the promoter wasn’t able to do the job he was hired to do…people are getting paid….

    • WestCoastFeed

      I saw Kandi’s tweet. She hopes people will get refunds. Hah! We’ll see.

      • Trippinhhard

        They won’t, if they do it will only be a portion of the cost.

    • italiano bambino

      Kandi fault she need it to get a good promoter. .. $$$$$ got the money then she need to spend good.

      • Trippinhhard

        She didn’t do her homework—she tends to expect her small team can handle anything.. Um that wedding was too much for them, but the pulled it off…
        Kandi is a little too cheap and have a way of wanting something for nothing..

    • Marsbars09

      How does Kandi find these losers to work with? You would think she would do her research before hiring someone to handle her tour.

      • Trippinhhard

        He had to be cheap and she could have put her own money up, and get it back on the back end of the deal.. We all know how she is with her money, but why go thru all that n the play isn’t well received. She should have ask Tyler Perry who to use, that’s how he started on the chittling route.. Small venues

        • Marsbars09

          Great idea!

  • Birdie11

    Why is Miss Zen wearing a pimp hat? That does not whisper ‘peace’ to me.

    • Marsbars09

      LOL! She’s just trying to floss, Birdie!
      How are you doing today?

      • Trippinhhard

        LOL

    • Trippinhhard

      She looks horrible with that hat on.. It’s too small for her big head. LOL

  • italiano bambino

    They all are to blame in one way or another. The rejects twins need to take some responsibility. Why come to a show with a huge skeleton ready to come out. Mummy gotti got her 20.00 check and left lol

    • Birdie11

      That will pay for a few new blond horsehair extensions.

      • italiano bambino

        Lol this whole show is a joke… bravo fuck up big time with Jersey. … they re-edit everything to include Jacqueline into the show. That’s saying alot. Imo they shouldn’t never let her go.

        • Birdie11

          Big time…they let a great opportunity to be gritty and real with the felons go by..this junk belongs in a crap heap.

          • italiano bambino

            Jersey needs a new production company

  • Marsbars09

    It sounds like Vicky & Tre set Amber up. I don’t think it was right that they placed her in such a horrible circumstance.

  • TartLemon

    That was gossip that did not need to be broadcast at all. A non-cast member gets a featured spot to ‘spill the tea’? No. Just NO! I’m not buying the necessity of it being there. Victoria needs to BE GONE!

    Tre put her own crap out there in every rag that would pay her and put it on the cover. Tre lies constantly to her kids about what’s going on and continues overspending and refusing to downsize.

    ETA… Why hasn’t PR maven Wendy Feldman put the kibosh on Tre’s latest romance with this Victoria Gotti association?

  • WestCoastFeed

    Somebody please by Amber a copy of “Elements of Style.” This blog was turgid and almost impossible to wade through. Thanks. AAtT for the effort to make it readable.