Amber Marchese Wants To Know Did Teresa Giudice Set Her Up To Take The Fall?

Posted on Sep 10 2014 - 2:49pm by Reality LuLu

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On the last episode of the “Real Housewives of New Jersey” we witnessed new cast member, Amber Marchese become very emotional after reading a report online about Teresa and Joe Giudice’s legal issues. Ever since that was aired, Amber has been under fire by fans accusing her of over-reacting. Amber tries to explain the reason(s) for her outburst in her Bravo Blog.

Here are excerpts from her blog:

“OK, OK, OK, on to my most annoying scene to date — my total meltdown when I called Teresa! OH MY Lord! I seriously was annoying to watch, I cannot imagine what you all were thinking. I remember that day, and I can assure you, I was having a very rough and emotional day. I cannot share exactly what was going on yet, but I was going through a very difficult time. I think it just all hit me at once, and I was displacing my fears and anxieties onto Teresa. Not that I do not care for her or her family, I truly do. That was absolutely not insincere; I was emotional for personal reasons and just could not deal. I do wish though that Gia, a 13 year old child, could have been asked to leave the room as her mother talked to both me and Melissa. I guess we have very different parenting styles. In my opinion, Gia should not hear adult conversations. Regardless what you think of my breakdown, I certainly do not give a crap about what she was wearing to court, I am thinking only of her children. Honestly, I wish I was not so empathetic to other sometimes; I take on other people’s heartaches all of the time, and it greatly affects me.”

I can totally understand getting way too emotional over something that a friend is going through especially if I were going through something that was troubling. In fact, I’ve been there, done that.

I also don’t think that people will disagree Gia should not be privy to adult conversations, particularly those of such severe legal matters. Most of online comments that I’ve read on various blogs the viewers are also concerned about the Giudice girls; no matter what their opinion about Teresa and Joe are.

“And, as far as asking too many questions, she is right, I did, and I apologize. This is difficult for me; I am unfamiliar with situations like the one Teresa and Joe are in. It is my personality to educate myself on everything there is to know of the situation. I remember when I was being treated there were two groups. Some people being diagnosed with cancer did not want to know anything about it. Their attitude was just give me the treatment and call it a day. As you can see, that is not me, I wanted to understand the science, the medicine, and the statistics about everything that I was going through. I think and think and think repeatedly in my mind until the thought is pulverized. Sometimes it is exhausting; I wish my brain would turn off. But it is just me, always has been and always will be. However, I do have to learn and respect that not everyone is going to be like that, including Teresa.” 

Amber has a point here. How many people are familiar with situations like what Teresa and Joe Giudice are going through? Not many! There is a saying “Inquiring minds want to know”.  Amber does not appear to be the type of person to sit back and say nothing. If she wants to know something she will ask. Frankly, I was happy to see someone have balls enough to ask Teresa questions point blank rather than ignoring the giant elephant in the room.

She goes on to explain why she took Teresa aside at Dina’s house while they were there to discuss plans for the upcoming Project Ladybug event.

Welcome to my mind:
1. The twins and I were working things out. Was Teresa going to say something? How was she going to handle it? I did not know Bobby and the twins were trash talking behind my back about reaching out to Bobby. I truly thought were working things out. 
2. After what Bobby, the twins, and even Melissa did to me, I was not in a place that I trusted anyone. As I looked around the room, I thought not one person who knew I was attacked, not one, gave a sh–. They did not break it up. They were worried about eating and went to dinner to celebrate with the attackers. And remember, it was because of me this group met. They knew one another for a hot minute. So, no, I was not trusting anyone at this point. With that in my mind, I found it suspect and odd that Teresa, who is good friends with Victoria, never heard this shocking piece of information. Was I being set up? AGAIN!? 
3. More bizarrely we were just asked to go on vacation with the girls. I have never left my children for any reason, so this was a big step for me. Before I even considered going, I wanted to make sure that Teresa knew that first; I would not disrespect her or her friend and blab to anyone about what I was told. I wanted to be crystal clear that I did not know what she was going to do with this information, if anything, but I was not going to do a damn thing with it. I am sweeping it off my front porch! 
4. What did Victoria Gotti gain by telling me this? Just why?! Still to this day it baffles me. 
I leave you with a final thought that swirls in my mind still to this day. How did Teresa not know Victoria Gotti’s bombshell about Rino already? That is some story to keep a secret until a causal drop in. Why do the twins blame me and Jim? We did not know Victoria Gotti, so something seemed out of sorts. The meeting was way too coincidental for me. All I know is Teresa brought this rumor to my table, and I was asked to go to Florida with a group of girls who either attacked me or sat idly by as I was attacked…stay tuned.

In Amber’s defense, she brings up a great point. Teresa and Victoria Gotti claim to be great friends. Are we to believe that there was never a conversation between them about Tuhressa’s husband Rino SLEPT WITH HIS MOTHER-IN-LAW when Victoria learned that Nicole and Tuhressa were joining the show? I’m sorry but women like to gossip and I find it very hard that Teresa didn’t know this juicy little tidbit before that scene in Victoria’s kitchen.

I also don’t blame Amber for wanting to know what, if anything, Teresa was going to do with that information so she could be prepared.

Lastly, I agree that the anger is somewhat displaced over this story being let out of the bag. Fingers should be pointed at Ms. Gotti first and foremost.

I certainly am looking forward to their Florida trip!

Until then, Reality LuLu

 

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  • twifan2

    IF Tre & Dinzer are so ‘bff’, then why wasn’t she with Tre at VG’s?
    Dinzer needs a story line BAD!

    • WestCoastFeed

      Ah, but Dina’s job is to be a good girl this year and beyond reproach.

      • twifan2

        Yeah sure, sure-WCF! 😀
        I’d try her Sangria.
        I really hope there’s a huge turn out for this next week! 🙂

        • oooo-oooo!!! I want a case. I would buy anything Lisa Vanderpump! Pandora looks gorg in that wrap dress.

      • nan/4

        She better work harder. it’s not going so well.

    • Jennymckitty

      I don’t think that Dina would have brought it to the twins attention in the same dramatic way that Jim did.

  • WestCoastFeed

    Amber had good reason to feel that she was being set up. And good reason to suspect both Victoria and Teresa. Of course, she can’t also say in a blog, that she also suspects the producers.

  • MorningYawn

    Haven’t seen Amber in action for myself (only read), but this blog makes sense to me. What did she have to gain? T and V are old hat at this by now. They had a good laugh at her innocence.

    • RonnieIsBack

      Exactly and they didn’t even removed thier coats…I was thinking did VG’s gas get cut off….
      Totally a set up.

  • WestCoastFeed

    Looks like next Sunday’s show will explain Amber’s histrionics. A cancer recurrence scare?

  • Anne Green

    Does anyone really know when the scene with Tre/Amber/Gotti was actually filmed? I thought I saw a pic somewhere of the 3 of them together and maybe it was February or there about. And when did they do their 12 hours Florida stint?

    • WestCoastFeed

      It was in February. I think Doc knows the exact date. The Florida trip began about March 14th because Melissa tweeted a photo from Boca that day. The trip lasted a few days and seems to have ended somewhere in the Everglades, which is, I think where the men joined them and the big confrontation took place.

      • Anne Green

        Thanks WCF

    • February for sure.

      Hi Anne! 🙂

  • Bravo Changed

    IF the Fraudices get off I would absolutely love if they brought back Jacqueline, Penny, kept Amber, Twins for next season. Sure it will be a bitchfest at first but the major story arc could be them all commiserating & teaming up over having been victims of TeresaFraudice’s set-ups before and exposing the Fraudices. IF she gets off, she at the very least deserves to be exposed for this. Tired of everyone letting her slide.She did not just steal from retailers but all those people who built her house, those tenants without heat/gas/water, etc. Remember that?

    • WestCoastFeed

      I would like for both Jacqueline and Penny to be able to fully tell their stories of just what Teresa did to them. But it won’t ever happen because Bravo would have to admit just what the producers’ parts were in the victimization.

      • Bravo Changed

        Not if it becomes a storyline. Everyone past & present together exposing the Fraudice what a evil vindictive human being she really is would be ratings gold, much better than this seasons victim edit. If you think about it Fraudice always got the victim edit. In the past they showed Teresa as clueless & Caro/Jac/Mel mad but never showed why (dug deep). Would be nice if it was opposite next go-round.

        • WestCoastFeed

          I am kind of hoping that Teresa’s vindictive behavior toward Kathy is exposed this year. Kathy clearly has been the dessert baker since she first appeared on the show. Teresa has horned in on Kathy’s territory but is acting as though Kathy is betraying her.

          • Bravo Changed

            It ain’t going to happen this season. This season is the felon love fest. They even cut out Teresa/Kathy addressing it at that family holiday dinner even though a bit was shown in the trailer (remember?).

  • nan/4

    Well, I guess in this case, I’m the odd man out. I don’t feel sorry for her, nor do I believe her. That whole scene with VG was a joke, IMO. Amber was surprised by this newsflash? I don’t think so. He wonderful husband said it was a well known fact all over the area about Rino and Santa. What? Did he keep this information from his wife? NO WAY!

    She just doesn’t ring true to me at all. Call it a strong feeling, but when I see her, I see a really bad actress who’s wearing way too much blush.

    I do hope that all is well with the results of her testing and that she’s given a clean bill of health.

    JMO folks!!! :-/

    • Jennymckitty

      I agree, Nan. I just don’t care for her. I think that during filming she was trying to make herself look good to Tre’s fans.

      • WestCoastFeed

        Some of Tre’s fans are unhappy with her now for suggesting that Teresa was a party to setting Amber up to take the fall for the Santa/Rino rumor.

        • nan/4

          I don’t see the connection myself, but maybe that’s because I doze in and out of every episode! lol First she was victimized by Melissa and now it’s Tre. I am no fan of Tre by any means…Just the opposite, in fact. But do I think there’s a huge conspiracy to “take down” Amber? No. I think she’ll do that all by herself. Again, that’s just my opinion.

          • Jennymckitty

            Her husband is a big help.

          • nan/4

            Yeah….right! I wish he would just go to somewhere and shut up! OY, he’s a worm, and she’s a wormette. This is just the way that I feel. I don’t want to make anyone angry. Sorry….

          • Jennymckitty

            Nan, I didn’t like him before ever seeing him on the show. Just reading what he wrote on a blog before his second trial and reading about his life was enough for me. He hasn’t proven my initial opinion about him wrong.

          • nan/4

            Really Jenny… I can’t find one thing to like about him. He brings plenty of drama to the show, but who cares when it comes from a man who had the “you-know-what’s” to sell fake cancer drugs to terribly sick people? I would like to see him gone from that show, and he can take his fake as diamonique wife with him too! :-/

            Have a nice evening Jenny! 🙂

  • RonnieIsBack

    oooh weeee the Ambuh has been taking lessons from Jim.
    The chit is about to get real!!!!!
    Tre you dirty dirty puddy tat.

    • twifan2

      JimBooB’s going to hit Twit like cray now! 😀

      • nan/4

        To do what? Defend his wife? Say that “everybody’s out of step but my Johnny?” I for one, am not buying it, or anything else that he’s got to say.

      • Jennymckitty

        I can’t keep up with him…

      • I can’t wait! Jimbo’s tweets give me life!

        • Raine Woman

          I thought I did?!?! 😉

    • Like really REAL!!!!!!!! Lawd Hammercy!!!!!!!

  • Wendy Owen

    I dunnnnoooo…..but someone’s yankin’ her chain by telling her the beret look is cool!

    • WestCoastFeed

      How about the burberry deerstalker cap?

      • nan/4

        LOL!!!!

      • Jennymckitty

        I think that was my favorite so far.

        • nan/4

          This is “The Season of the Hat.” Tre started wearing them to cover her lack of forehead, then they all followed along! It’s a riot! LOL!

          • Jennymckitty

            That Teresa, she is a real style maven.

          • nan/4

            That she is! I noticed to her court appearance to plead guilty to fraud, among other things, she was wearing a very genuine dyed purple persian lamb coat. It costs THOUSANDS!!!!! What nerve these people have!!!!!!!

          • Raine Woman

            It pains me to admit this but…I LOVE that coat. *runs away in shame*

          • nan/4

            HA! It was gorgeous….:-/

            Hope you’re well!

            See ya’ later honey! 😉

          • Raine Woman

            It’s at the top of my Crime Spree list!

      • Wendy Owen

        ROTFMFAO!!

  • Wendy Owen

    Yo, Ambuh! Monica Lewinsky wants her beret back!!!!

    • nan/4

      LOL! 😉

    • Jennymckitty

      She does wear the most ridiculous hats…none are very flattering.