Did Mario Singer Pull The Plug On His Marriage First?

Posted on Aug 10 2014 - 11:49am by Reality LuLu

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Ramona Singer may have announced that she has decided to move on with her life without Mario but who actually pulled the plug first? Word is it was Mario.

[RELATED] Breaking News: Ramona Announces on Twitter Her Marriage To Mario Is Finished!

A “spy” for New York Daily said that a few days before her announcement on Twitter, Mario was at Upper East Side eatery, Arlington Club telling anyone within earshot he was “done” with the reality star. The spy went on to say Mario’s behavior was erratic. He was all over the place.  One eyewitness said:

“He couldn’t sit still. He was shouting on the phone and he was in and out of the restaurant all night. He appeared to be by himself and seemed to have enjoyed more than a few glasses of wine. He was carrying on, telling whoever was on the other end that it was done, that he wanted a divorce and couldn’t take it any longer.”

Mario apparently was raising his voice so much at times that he was getting stares from other patrons. The onlooker added

“He was talking very loudly and went outside to try and have a more private conversation. But he was standing right outside the door, and anyone entering or exiting the restaurant could hear him.”

All of this could be good and bad for the Pinot guzzling Ramona. This past season wrapped filming before she caught him with his much younger mistress, Kasey Dexter. Ramona filed for divorce then withdrew her petition when she and Mario reconciled. It wasn’t an easy time as reports circulated the pair were fighting on romantic vacations. The couple’s marital problems were not shown during season six although the public knew about the affair just before the season aired. When host Andy Cohen tried to ask Ramona about the marital problems, she dodged questions just saying they were together and they were fine.

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While it is bad for Ramona that her long time marriage is coming to an end, should she be offered a contract to come back next season? The end of her marriage could be a huge storyline for her and that could be good. A Bravo source told the paper that if Sonja Morgan wasn’t asked back next season, Ramona would be all alone. 

Ramona always had something to say about the other women’s marriages and relationships. The last thing Luann said to her on the reunion show was Ramona had no problem talking about her relationship and alleged affairs and/or open marriages. She ended it with “Karma’s a bitch.”

As we reported, photos of Mario and his mistress surfaced recently. It seemed apparent he made his decision and didn’t care who knew. Do you think he was talking to Ramona on the phone at the restaurant?

 

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  • twifan2

    Yep, I think Mario ‘pulled the cork out’ a long time ago with Ramona. 🙁
    Sad it happening to Avery, but it may be for the best those 2 move on.

    • RealitytvJunkie

      I agree. This was very obvious from the July 27 photo of Mario and the mistress. He was not trying to hide the mistress and seemed very comfortable. I suspect he left the marriage first.

      • Marsbars09

        Hi RJ! That photo was the shot heard round the world. I knew it was totally over between the Singers when I saw that photo.

    • Marsbars09

      Hi Twi! I was about to post the same thing on what type of impact the divorce may be having on Avery.

      • twifan2

        Hi Hi Mars! 🙂
        I think Avery already knew her parents weren’t happy together.
        Maybe she knew it was just a mater of time before they did actually separate.

  • cutie pie

    whoa! mario walked first..that smarts.

    • twifan2

      You can bet Drunkmona not happy about it.
      She needs to keep those shredded rags of her ‘dignity’ together somehow. :/

      • Marsbars09

        Drunkmona. LOL! Great one Twi!

        • twifan2

          Happy Sunday to you, Mars! 🙂

          • Marsbars09

            You too sweetie!
            BTW-Great job on Saturday’s funnies yesterday. Did you decide to give Tre a break. 🙂

          • twifan2

            Tre will be hacked some, Mars! 😉
            TY 🙂

  • Marsbars09

    OMG. Mario’s mistress looks like she could be his daughter. I wonder how poor Avery is dealing with her parents’ divorce. Lord knows her parents embarrassed her enough.
    If they decide to renew RHNY next season Ramona may or may not be back. It all depends on if she is willing to talk about her divorce. Ramona was really belligerent about her marriage woes on the reunion, so I don’t know.

    • It’s a shame that young lady does look like she could be his daughter.

  • Tre’s Pic’s aren’t Angelic

    Okay maybe I’m going to state the obvious but….
    Whomever it is, that steps out on a marriage to bed someone else, in a marriage that had vows of fidelity sworn to each other, that’s the person who pulled the trigger.

    • twifan2

      I agree with you, TPaA. 🙂
      BUT I think old Marples there should have had the ‘balls’ to get out of their marriage in a more ‘kindly’ fashion, i.e. separation–>divorce. NOT fool around while married.

      • Marsbars09

        You’re right, Twi. I wonder if Mario secretly hated Ramona. Why else would he be so cruel.

        • twifan2

          I think the ‘luv’ was both ways.
          Drunkmona was losing her ‘control’ over Marples.
          Marples was disgusted with Drunkmona.

      • Tre’s Pic’s aren’t Angelic

        Yep, that would have been an honorable thing to do.
        But on these shows, it’s hard to tell if anybody understands what “Honor” actually is.

    • Nowadays cheating in a relationship doesn’t mean the end. Although Mario is cheating I don’t believe Ramona would have ended the marriage. I think Mario fell in love with Ms. Kasey and left his marriage.

      • Marsbars09

        But how Mario went about it is plain wrong! :/

        • nan/4

          ITA Marsie.

          Hi Marsie! It’s good to ‘see’ you! Take care, sweetie! 😉

          • Marsbars09

            Hi nan! I hope all is well with you too!

          • nan/4

            I’m hangin’ in here Marsie, thanks! Be well, honey! 🙂

          • Hi Nan. Happy Sunday! 🙂

          • nan/4

            And to you as well Doc! Be well, my friend! 🙂

          • Thanks, you too! 🙂

        • There’s never a good way to go about cheating. Cheating in a marriage is very very bad.

          • Marsbars09

            Doc, I know cheating in a marriage is a no no. Thanks for the info. anyway.

          • huh? nevermind.

          • Marsbars09

            My apologies, Doc. Please allow me to rephrase: I understand cheating is wrong. Mario flaunting his extramarital affair so it could be made known is very cruel.

          • It’s ok…no problem, Marsie.

          • twifan2

            OT:
            Didn’t the Juicys have some sort of vow renewing thing some time back?

          • Yes, they did. If I recall it was for a magazine and she got paid to do it.

          • twifan2

            SO, the Renewing curse will catch up with the Juicys too! 😀

          • WestCoastFeed

            Bravo also filmed it, but the film was never used as part of the season’s story line. Bravo did use a couple of still shots, I think, during one of the reunion shows.

          • Marsbars09

            Hi WCF! I didn’t know Bravo filmed a wedding renewal ceremony with Joe and Tre?

          • What would we do without you? You are like the RHONJ historical department. Love it. Thank you! 🙂

          • twifan2

            She’s better than Wiki! 🙂

          • nan/4

            I told my husband before we got married that if he were ever attracted to another women to tell me. Be honest and then be done with it before any further harm has been done. And visa versa, I might add. Why sneak around and have sex with someone else when you vowed to be faithful? Just sayin’….

          • Marsbars09

            Nan, I hope you don’t get offended by me asking this, but I am unmarried and just curious-what do you do if a husband tells his wife he is attracted to another woman?

          • nan/4

            No problemo Marsie! I would get a lawyer, and end the marriage. You’re either all in, or all out!

          • Marsbars09

            LOL! nan, I’m the one that asked you the question, not Doc.

          • nan/4

            I know. I saw that as you were responding to me. Oops!!!! lol It might sound harsh, but that’s the way I feel. I would rather him do what he wants, as long as I’m not married to him at the time. But that’s just me….

          • Marsbars09

            That makes sense to me.

          • nan/4

            I’m glad. I don’t believe in these “open marriages.” I mean, why be married then? That makes no sense to me at all!

          • Marsbars09

            ITA.

          • RUN!!!!!! A married man that is attracted to another women won’t end well. Get a lawyer and end it.

          • nan/4

            BINGO!!!!!!

          • Marsbars09

            LOL! @Doc & @nan, you guys don’t play around!
            But I’ve always heard it’s natural for men, married or not, to be attracted to women in general. Isn’t the point the man has to remain faithful?

          • nan/4

            If my husband told me that he was attracted to another woman, I would never be able to trust him, and without trust, what have you got? I’m not talking about your husband looking at pretty women while you’re at the beach. Sure. Men can look all they want. But if my husband told me that he was attracted to someone other than me? I would be done. Like I said, I would want him to be honest about it so that we could end it before it got messy. Tough? Maybe, but I couldn’t have it any other way. :-/

          • RonnieIsBack

            Usually by the time they “confess the attraction” they are in too deep….it’;s best to end it and keep your mental capacities..the chit will drive you mad trying to figure out what’s on his mind by the hour..not worth it.

          • nan/4

            Yup. Stick a fork in them. They’re DONE!!!!!! ;-/

          • twifan2

            HEY! Same holds true for women, Mars. :/
            BUT we’re more ‘monogamous’ it seems. Most women that is-imo.

          • Marsbars09

            You’re right, Twi.

          • RonnieIsBack

            But attraction..the wrong kind, can give way to acting out on your desires…I think when they are asking if he is attractted, it is not so much as if he takes a look, but if he is lusting..there is a huge difference…
            Men are visual creatures…

          • RonnieIsBack

            exactly!

      • RonnieIsBack

        I am sure that is why it failed…Ramona would have kept taking him back…

    • twifan2

      OT:
      TPaA, have you seen: Ghost Rider: Spirit of Vengeance.
      it’s with Nicolas Cage & Idris Elba. It’s pretty good with Idris’ motorcycling antics! 🙂

      • Tre’s Pic’s aren’t Angelic

        Nope…but I will…thanks!

  • nan/4

    I think that Ramona is much nicer looking than his mistress. Just wanted to throw that out there. I know….love is blind……yada yada. Oh, and I think that he’s a jerk who has probably been cheating on her from the very beginning of their marriage, and she’s probably known for quite some time. I’m sure that I’m one of the few who feels bad for her, but I do. JMO folks!

    I hope that everyone is having a very nice Sunday. 😉

    • Yes!! I totally agree. I’m wondering if Romona will finally be honest about her failed marriage and apologize to LuAnn and the others. She was very judgemental about Lu’s marriage.

      • nan/4

        To me it was a reaction to her own doubts and fears about HER marriage. Yes. Now I’m Dr. Nan Freud. Hehe. I’m not saying that Ramona was right to say that to Luanne, but Luanne is no angel either. I know that this season people LOVE her, but I can’t help but forget last season. This makes no sense, so pay no attention to me. LOL!

        • Dr. Nan Freud at your service! LOL!

          I really think LuAnn was phony this whole season. I don’t care for her flip flopping on Aviva whom she considered a friend last season. But Ramona still should never throw stones if she lives in a glass house. I think apologies are in order for LuAnn. What Ramona did was just wrong.

          • nan/4

            Yes it was. But I do honestly think that much of Ramona’s behavior is a defense mechanism. She’s messed up, for sure. Ramona should give her an apology, but I personally wouldn’t want Luanne as a friend.

          • I agree, Nan. LuAnn is a SNAKE. I use to like her not so much now.

      • Reality LuLu

        Hey Doc, IF Ramona offers any kind of apology you know it won’t be a sincere one. She gives herself a pass for being “unfiltered”. She thinks it’s cute. IMO

        • RonnieIsBack

          and she will just shove flowers in their faces..

    • TopGear

      Luann is smart not to trust Ramona.

      • nan/4

        Hi TopGear! How are you? I hope that all is well with you and yours. I will agree with that, but I would go one step further and say that Ramona shouldn’t trust Luanne either. This is just my opinion, but when she had her fling with the pirate, and tried so hard to cover it up, it knocked her way down in my eyes as far as her character is concerned . I tend to avoid people who lie and cheat, and would never be able to trust her. But that just me, you know?

        It’s always a pleasure to see you whether we agree or not.

        Take good care TopGear! 😉

        • TopGear

          Hi Nan/4. Hope this comment finds you well on this Sunday afternoon.

          I agree, she may not have been nice in the past, but I would never want that for anyone. As much as I don’t like Ramona, no one deserves to be cheated on by someone they love.

  • TartLemon

    IMO, the marriage was over a long time ago, but the announcement was carefully timed to wait until the end of the season; after the reunion was filmed and had aired so Ramona would not have to talk about it. It’s also been rumored for a very long time Ramona was doing her own ‘stepping out’, but was more discreet. The announcement and leaked photos of Mario were released to make it seem he was just now caught.

    • twifan2

      I agree TartLemon.
      Drunkmona knows/knew about Marples’ affairs/flings.
      Sadly she didn’t want to be alone. 🙁
      Now she’ll be using this as her story-line, IF RHNYC gets renewed.

    • Boom!!!

  • RealitytvJunkie

    I’m slowly starting to get so over these housewife franchise. They start off good, then a couple seasons later its the same cat fighting gossiping immature 40+ women. I think I’m gonna start going back to scripted television even though this is considered somewhat scripted.

    • Marsbars09

      I don’t blame you RJ. Most of these reality shows are wearing thin on me. You might as well watch great TV rather than scripted “reality” TV.

      • TopGear

        Reality tv has gone to the dogs. It’s just not the same.

        • Marsbars09

          True dat!

        • LoLo

          I couldn’t agree more. I used to only watch reality with a bit of drama on HBO or Showtime. I could not stand drama on cable or regular tv. Now the F/X channel, AMC along with HBO & Showtime are getting better than going to the movies. Reality tv has become so fake, we’ve seen it all before & they don’t even try to make it seem real.

    • twifan2

      I’ve moved on mostly. 🙂
      True Blood, Walking Dead, Downton Abbey, A Young Doctor’s Notebook, etc…

      • Marsbars09

        Good for you Twi! The shows you mentioned above are quality TV.
        Hey, are you going to check out the new show, “The Knick”?

        • twifan2

          I’ll watch it & see how I like it, Mars. 🙂
          I love to see old NYC! 🙂
          But I am picky about my medical shows.
          NEVER watched Grey’s Anatomy! 😀

          • Marsbars09

            Eh…I was never interested in Grey’s.

          • RonnieIsBack

            Yall kililng me..I am MerDer untl I die (Meridith Grey and Derek Sheppard) Love that show!!!! LOL

        • twifan2

          You ever watch A Young Doctor’s Notebook?
          It’s tongue-in-cheek FUNNY!
          The main character is played by Daniel Radcliff-aka-Harry Potter.

          • Marsbars09

            No. I’ve never even heard of the show. It seems you really like British TV.

          • twifan2

            Yep. 🙂
            love the humor, drama, costumes, etc… 🙂

        • LoLo

          I am going to watch The Knick. Did you give Fargo, The Strain or Penny Dreadful a chance? All of them are pretty good. It’s the last season for Boardwalk Empire, which I love. I haven’t started this season of Ray Donovan yet. I want to binge watch it.

          • twifan2

            😀 LOL
            I’ve got lots of binge watching to do myself! 🙂

          • LoLo

            I love binge watching certain shows instead of waiting a week.

          • Marsbars09

            Lolo, I don’t watch none of those shows. But I am interested in True Detective & Ray Donovan.

          • LoLo

            Ray Donovan is a little slow to start but stick with it. My oldest son said the first 4 episodes of season 2 are better than the entire season 1. True Detective was good because Woody Harrelson & Matthew McConaughey were excellent. Each season will have a different story & cast, I think Vince Vaughn is in season 2. Fargo was really good & quick. What I am looking forward to most is Better Call Saul.

          • Lorn

            So AMC is extending the Breaking Bad show into a spin off for Saul? I really wonder what that could be about?

          • LoLo

            It’s a prequel. It will be about before Saul met Walter & how he became the kind of lawyer that he is. It was supposed to come out earlier but they wanted it to be on point. From the reviews at the network, they already renewed it for a 2nd season before this one even airs this fall.

          • Lorn

            That’s interesting. I liked Saul in Breaking Bad–not sure how he would work with his own show.

          • LoLo

            I think he will be great, he was fantastic on Fargo.

      • RealitytvJunkie

        I agree. I love the Walking Dead and True Blood.

        • twifan2

          *starts crying over sprinkle cookies-again*
          I can’t believe this is T-Bld’s last season! :'(

        • LoLo

          I watch True Blood & The Walking Dead too along with Ray Donovan, The Strain, American Horror Story & Fargo was really good. True Blood was not so good & was a bit cheesy the last 2 seasons for me. Their are some on the cast that needed to go & things needed to be more exciting. They also needed to tie up some loose ends like the Panthers & Fairies. This season is much better so far.

          • twifan2

            Yep, it is better this season, LoLo! 🙂
            AND OMG it looks like lots are getting ‘killed off’ before the end! 😮

      • nan/4

        I’m writing these shows down Twi. I’ll have to give them a try. I am getting so sicko of Bravo. My DIL ran into an old friend who happens to be a producer of a show on Bravo. She told them, my son was there as well, (shhhh…..it’s a secret…lol) that the show is “HIGHLY scripted.” No surprise there, but the concept of “reality tv” is a farse now.

        Have a nice evening Twi! 😉

        • Add these amazing scripted shows to your roster: Boardwalk Empire, Homeland, American Horror Story and Salem.

          • nan/4

            I’m making a list Doc! Thanks for the recommendations. The only one I’ve heard about is Boardwalk Empire, and it’s supposed to be great. But…but, if we all stopped watching these dumb shows, what would we have to talk about? I would miss you all terribly, so we HAVE to continue watching this garbage!!!!! LOL!!!!!

            Have a good night Doc! 😉

          • Awww, same here!!! 🙂

          • RonnieIsBack

            AHS is my chit!!!!
            They have to bring on a Coven 2….

      • Zoe D.

        I can’t wait for Downton Abbey…I love that show. True blood is in it’s last and final season…:( And you have to wait a year for the next Game Of Thrones. But Bravo still a a few good shows in the newer ones…so I cling to them…lol

    • Zoe D.

      Me too. I lean more towards the newer shows.

  • TopGear

    Karma sure is a bitch huhhh….

    • RonnieIsBack

      A much bigger bish than Ramona…she should just surrender and enjoy her 60s…

  • LoLo

    That would make sense if he asked for the divorce first or left on his own. That would be why he didn’t care if he was photographed with Kasey. He was already done. I thought when it first came out how stupid to go eat in public knowing the reunion just ended & what happened on it but if this is true, then I get it now.

    • TopGear

      Maybe that’s why she couldn’t talk about it at the reunion. She’s lawyered up!

  • Not sure frequent visitors of the blog know but Ronnie’s mom is in the hospital. Lets all keep Ronnie and her mom in our prayers. Love and miss you Ronnie! ♥

    • nan/4

      Aww. I just heard about her mom yesterday. She and her mom are definitely in my prayers. It’s such a difficult time, I know……My heart is with you Ronnie.

      • RonnieIsBack

        Thanks you all so very much!!!! It has been a battle but we are claming victory!!!!

        • nan/4

          OMG! You have no idea how happy that makes me sweetheart. That’s the BEST news possible. YAHOOOOO!!!!!

          Now try to relax a little bit, okay? 🙂 🙂 🙂

    • Marsbars09

      I’m so sorry to hear that. I do wish Ronnie’s mommy a safe and speedy recovery.

    • murlut

      Ronnie. Thinking about you and hope your mom is doing better.

    • Babson_Chick

      Thanks for the info Doc.

  • Zoe D.

    Hello everyone…*waving*

    Prayers going out for Ronnie and her mother. May she heals quickly. Hugs

    I like Ramona, but she’s burned a lot of bridges. She’s always reminding the ladies of how perfect her marriage is…and how bad theirs are. She makes no bones about discussing their private lives on national television…but doesn’t want anyone to discuss hers. Not even Andy could ask about it at the reunion. Remember what she said about Luann last season? It may have been true…but she didn’t have to throw it in her face. Now, the tables have turned…and karma has paid her a visit. I feel bad for her…but then again I don’t. It might be the best thing for her…since Mario really didn’t seem too interested n her for the past two seasons. Just move on Ramona…and learn from this experience.

    • Zoe D.

      So, yes. I do believe Mario pulled the plug…Ramona would of tried to save face for as long as she could. I think Mario wanted to be found out.

      • TopGear

        KARMA! She can dish it but can’t take it. She kept bringing up her daughter and for everyone to shut it down. Hey guess what, all those ladies also have children as she threw them under the bus each and every year. She can’t play the victim card now that her perfect little life has crumbled before her eyes and all the world can see the facade she portrayed all these seasons.

        • Marsbars09

          Thank you TG! Ramona has hurt a lot of people with her toxic tongue and now the tables have turned on her. That’s why you should never throw stones if you live in a glass house (or something to that effect. :))

    • Marsbars09

      Hi Zoe! This couldn’t have happened to a better person. I think Ramona is one of the meanest, most abrasive and unpleasant “wives” of the franchise. She has no filter and doesn’t care whom she hurts. And yes, Karma has paid her a long overdue visit and now she will be amongst the many “wives” that are divorcing their spouses.

    • RonnieIsBack

      Thanks you so much for the prayers!!! she is getting better..slow and steady wins the race….Still in ICU but things are looking up for sure.

      • Babson_Chick

        Hi there – am just hearing the news (I’ve been MIA) Glad to hear she is improving – take care of yourself too!!

        • RonnieIsBack

          Thanks so much BC…I will do my best.

          • Babson_Chick

            hope so!!

      • Trippinhhard

        Peace be with u —–I gave all y’all screen names to the catholic ladies that does the rosary n the candle lighting to pray for ALL YALL N YOYR FAMILIES..
        u guys have lifted my spirit, at some of the lowest points in my life….
        May God lay his living hands on your Mother…..

        • RonnieIsBack

          Thank you so much. One day at a time.

  • murlut

    Ramona use to be funny, Now she is an old hag who has a chip on her shoulder. I am so over watching her. She lies, she intentionally hurts people with her words and hands. Send her packing and PUT Aviva in the bag. She is beyond hateful.

    • Babson_Chick

      I so agree & she gets on my last nerve – my DVR auto mutes when she speaks.

  • Trippinhhard

    Well goody goody gum drop….
    Who cares, I hope the slut take all his money left, after divorce… JMTC
    Just my two cents
    He’s a moron n he won’t be faithful to anyone, he thinks he’s the shit…

    • Bwahahaha!!! Glad you’re back, sis! 🙂

      • Trippinhhard

        Me to sista —-miss my tea —11 days
        But I didn’t surrender like a Bitch would——–Dr if u only knew, what I went thru.., nothing nice, having all the ppl in my face screaming, trying to break me into submission. Shit didn’t work—I’m on death door—so I have nothing to lose. LOL the beauty of all….. Thank u my beautiful friend—ur one of a kind..

        • Babson_Chick

          Am hoping that things get better for you!!

  • Babson_Chick

    Can’t really blame Mario – she’s been driving me nuts for years so have tuned her out.

  • Tootsie

    Karma is a bitch. I remember Ramona being so horribly mean to LuAnn and others about their marriages, and especially when she–with her buggy eyes–telling LuAnn how wonderful her marriage was with Mario and she was the luckiest girl in the world. Ramona is just mean, vicious and a nutjob. Who would even want to hang with a b. like that? I sure would not.