Real Housewives of New York Recap: ‘Unhappy Anniversary’ [Episode 6]

Posted on Apr 16 2014 - 2:07am by Norrth Cafe



This episode could have just as easily called “All about Heather” – a take on “All about Eve” only bitchier and less fun.  We open with Heather’s charity event and the return of Ramona – who is back from Africa.  Ramona is shocked to hear that Heather has unilaterally exiled Aviva from the group. She remembers that Heather likes to selectively invite members of the group to her events. Power play in motion, folks.  The other highlight of the party includes Ramona’s recount of viewing hot animal sex in Africa – between mating Lions.


The Countess LuAnn is horrified and wishes she hadn’t heard the story. I keep wishing I hadn’t seen the Johnny Depp look-a-like escaping from her room last season.  We’re even.


When pressed to explain why she dislikes likes Aviva, Heather later admits to Kristen that she has her head stuck up snooty Carole’s … wait, wait, that’s wrong. Heather says that it’s just that she doesn’t like the way Aviva treats people.  She of the “Bring it on MFer, don’t tell me MFin’ nuthin” fame doesn’t like the way Aviva treats others.  That’s right.

If it matters, Sonja looks SMASHING!  She and Ramona greet each other (warmly?).

More man-child Josh belittling Kristen takes place at the charity event, with him “joking” that she’s failed to fulfill her promise of six blow jobs a week once they bought the new condo – he still has her promise in email.  I’m getting squicked out by their “sex for goods” jokes.  Carole “jokes” that Kristen has failed to fulfill her wifely duties.  I wonder two things – 1. Whether Kristen has been smart enough to retain a high profile divorce attorney and 2. Why Carole thinks her quips are cute?

Apparently Kristen is modeling Yummy Tummy for Heather – great, a product made for women who don’t actually need it? Ramona calls Heather to set up a “sit down” with Aviva.  Being on the continent of Africa has caused Ramona to want everyone to get along. Heather continues to argue about poor Carole’s hurt feelings. Carole argues about poor Carole’s hurt feelings and that Ramona is only stirring the pot as usual. Ramona argues that they are all behaving like Lions (mating lions or warring lions?  Neither interests me with this group).  Both agree to meet – but Aviva makes one near fatal admission to Heather, she’s afraid of her. Warring Lions it is!  Heather seems to relish the smell of a wounded prey animal.  This won’t be pretty.


Kristen and Carole meet up with Heather’s husband Jonathan.  Heather’s favorite food is caviar and they’re trying to find something they think she’ll love.  Jonathan tells the women about Heather’s promise of a threesome during their first year of marriage, which he is sure will never happen.  The uncomfortable waiter wants to leave, but Jonathan stops him as the three of them continue on about the intricacies and impact of threesomes  #prickswithprivilege.  After they’re done, the waiter is allowed to describe the different types of caviar on the tray.  Their conversation turns to Aviva, of course – bringing about an accusation of “psycho” from Carole – who hates name calling, smeared reputations, and whose anger at Aviva feels increasingly hypocritical and irrational.


Aviva and Heather meet, with Aviva asking for no name calling and no cursing – the latter of which Heather won’t agree to (in case she hulks out into “baddest bitch” mode).  Aviva notes that she’s learned the hard way that name calling doesn’t work.  She reminds Heather that she yelled at her and told her “nobody” likes her.  Heather denies saying it.  Aviva says that she didn’t retaliate and took it up the butt after Heather verbally raped her… Seriously, where are the women in NYC with money AND class?  Heather counters in a TH (Talking Head Interview) that she only kept it real, that and that if people don’t like it real then don’t invite her to the party. DONE!  I now question the cred of any rapper who ever worked with this woman. Yeah, you Puffy/Diddy/Puffy.  Heather brings up Aviva’s comments to Sonja and Ramona from last season as evidence of how Aviva treats people.  Where was this rage, last season?  Aviva wants to know what she’s done to Heather, personally.  The response?  Heather is pre-emptively de-friending Aviva.  I call bullshit.


(Hypocritical?) Heather starts name calling, referring to Aviva as “fucking dramatic.”  She begins hulking out (HEATHER SMASH!), taunting Aviva by calling her “Miss Vassar.”  She tells Aviva to get a job.  She feels that Aviva has attacked her career and that she’s only defending herself .  The restaurant patrons must be hoping their meals will be comped after being subjected to the fighting. Heather wants to know if Aviva gives a shit about her – oddly, Aviva says yes. Heather says that she doesn’t need to defend Carole, who can defend herself.  Aviva (sigh) pulls from deep in her “George genes” to ask if the two women are lovers or something. She doesn’t get why Heather is so invested.  I think it’s an idiotic statement.  Heather, goddess of small things, sees it as a sign that Aviva is childlike (#noroomtotalk) and is jealous of her friendship with Carole (#arrogant).

Aviva tries to explain her feelings about Carole’s response to her book.  Heather, who wasn’t there as I recall, denies Aviva’s version of the story.  Aviva tells her she’s not impartial and the conversation ends with Heather saying she’ll talk to Jonathan about extending an invitation to Aviva and Reid for the 10th Anniversary party.  Aviva wants Heather to broker a peace between her and Carole.  Either heavy editing is taking place or I feel like I fell asleep and missed about three hours of footage.  They have taken steps A to Z, missing every other step in between.


Ramona, Mario, and Avery are discussing her leaving home, coming home for holidays, and working in the family business to make money.  Bravo’s editing monkeys break my heart a little with flashback footage of a young Avery saying working in the family business is not the way to go for her.  It’s so sweet I get misty-eyed.  Avery says she’d rather spend more time with Mario – Ramona takes it as a slight.  Avery is exasperated.  So am I.

Kristen and Carole are meeting with RHOBH’s Yolanda and Brandi for lunch.  Carole calls Yolanda an old friend (someone she’s known for 5 or 6 years). Carole wanted King David, but was never able to date him. I tried to forget that Brandi and Kristen are friends and judge Kristen on her own merits.  Oh, if only this lunch date hadn’t happened.  There is some story about Kristen’s bachlorette weekend, heavy drinking, flashing a fake Elvis, a bit of kissing with fake Elvis. Brandi claims to have stopped Kristen from sleeping with the guy.  Carole brings up Aviva again in a TH and says she has other interesting things to talk about… irony. More George Clooney comments. We find out that Carole and Russ are done.  They are all talking over each other, Brandi tells too much about Kristen’s life.  I have a headache and am moving forward – but not before learning that Kristen asked Josh to have a vasectomy.  The next segment continues with Carole and Kristen working out and talking about Kristen’s sex life with Josh. I start thinking about the poor camera operators who had to hear more of this than I did.


Aviva reports (to Sonja and Ramona) a more peaceful conversation with Heather than the one I watched.  Ultimately, Heather sends a text letting Aviva know that she did not find the Golden ticket to the Chocolate Factory was not invited to the party.  Ramona and Sonja feel that Heather and Carole are petty and decide not to attend the party. OH SNAP, BITCHES!  I love it!  Heather says she doesn’t want drama at her anniversary party (I’m sure Aviva didn’t want to have her husband attacked on her behalf at her housewarming.  I do think Aviva was wrong for the ghostwriter comments but the response is utterly ridiculous and disproportionate).

Josh and Kristen are fighting on the street about being late for the party and about their lack of communication.  Kristen threatens to bring her punctual boyfriend to the next event.  Heather toasts to staying married/no divorce, and for whatever reason, I hope Josh and Kristen work things out, respect each other and make it long term. Carole recommends that they see someone despite her beliefs that some couples who bicker constantly have the strongest relationships – Kristen says that occasionally they have met with a counselor and that she’s pulled stealth moves to try to get Josh into counseling.

The Countess delivers the news about the boycott.  Heather hulks and the chorus (Lu, Carole, Kristen) follow.  RSVP’ing and not showing causes pearl clutching in the group of fake Elvis groping, pirate banging (maybe), MF dropping, young dude groping society maidens.  The conversation must have taken place over at least an hour, the backdrop moves from daylight to early evening. Ramona takes the lion’s share of the blame… you know, because she’s a mastermind pitting them against Aviva and they are all so weak.  The Singer Stinger is born and is capped with a “Holler that Bitches”.

The show ends on a high note, loving words exchanged between Heather and Jonathan, a bag of caviar, and tons of dancing.





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  • TartLemon

    I like Heather, Carole. Real substance there. Haven’t quite figured out the Ramona/Sonja game. Don’t like their coddling approach to Aviva. She has some very annoying facial tics like the eyelash flutter.

    Yolanda/Brandi appearance was a waste of airtime. They left the BH season not very liked (by me anyway). What was the point of the crossover? I think Bravo made that very bad decision before they found out the public’s very low opinion of Yolanda/Brandi by the time the BH season was over.

  • Norrth

    I like/dislike these women equally, minus Sonja. I’m starting to really feel for her but like the fact that she simply is who she is. It must take having real money to be quirky and petty over small things because once these women are irked by minor events, they seem to hang on to them with zeal.

    • GREAT BLOG!!!

      Exactly. It seems people with money don’t have REAL things to be mad at so every little thing is held onto and taken to heart. It’s sad. I did get all the Aviva hate either and I’m actually glad Ramonja took a stand and didn’t go to Heather’s self absorbed party. LuAnn is such a phony. I use to like her but I hate a friend who straddles the fence. You are either with me or not. Heather and her faux gangsta is nauseating. Can not stand Heather. So fake so phony! UGH!!!!

      • Birdie11

        Ramona needs to PERK UP!! I’m starting to worry that she’s too mature this season!!

        • Hi Birdie!

          Here Here! Have you noticed how run down and haggard she looks this season? You can just feel the tension and disconnect in the scenes with her and Mario. Strained and staged. I loved when she was walking around the store with her phone on speaker, talking fast and crazy! That’s the neurotic over the top Ramona I like.

          • Birdie11

            We need turtle time, stat.

  • Birdie11

    I call FOUL on forcing Heaux Glanville and LemonPledge on us last night. The post season recovery had just begun, and Bravo forced us into relapse, by not only having to gaze on Yo wearing white jeans, AGAIN, but subjecting us to a Kristen acting slutty story. How very appropriate coming from one of Brandi’s besties. This chick is fighting for her life for us to be interested in her…and it’s not working for me.

    • RonnieIsBack

      Oh no she Betta Don’t wear those damn white pants again…..NO WHITE PANTS!!!!!!!!!

      • LOL!

      • Birdie11

        Get ready Ronnie…she’s wearing them again. She must have 20 pairs.

        • RonnieIsBack

          Dayum did Saks have a sale…Gone with the White Pants Sale and she scooped them all up before Labor Day…you know the bish doesn’t have them washed…I will bet you she just tosses them out and put on another pair.

          • Birdie11

            Remember seeing her closet? I remember seeing about 30 oatmeal colored sweater looking things.

    • Hey Birdie. I rather watch paint dry than Kristen. She’s just stupid and so is her hubby.

      • Birdie11

        Hey Suessers…I agree. I think she’s a snooze trying to be edgy and failing.

        • Hey Sunshine! Totally and epic fail. I think they miss the mark by not casting Amanda Sanders.

  • italiano bambino

    Jmo I think aviva learn her lesson and is coming more mellow. The way Heather treat her was F up. Of course Aviva is not a walk on the park herself but at least she’s trying to get along. Heather want her head. But she needs to get over herself. Thanks for the recap. Well done. I’m still not impressed with the model. but boy Carole trainer mmmmm…

    • Hey Bam. Well said.

      • italiano bambino

        Hi seuss 🙂

  • WestCoastFeed

    Super blog,North. Much better than watching it. Heather was awful last night. But I guess she protected Carole from being her awful self.

    • Well said West. Heather and Carole are two peas in a pod. Both uncouth and full of themselves.

  • WestCoastFeed

    And George Clooney really dated Carole Radziwill? Has anyone found a picture of the two of them together?

    • RonnieIsBack

      No…he probably hit it and quit it….

      • Sara

        He did a drive-by, hahaha!

    • shayvoe

      Carol is the only one who has ever said she “dated” him. I don’t think a one night stand, in his home, or hers, no dinner, no movie, no nuttin….no place where anyone could actually see them together to take a pic, constitutes dating.

      • WestCoastFeed

        Oh, now I remember, this is just to try to sell more books. Supposedly the character in her new book has a romance with someone who bears a great likeness to Clooney.

        • shayvoe

          HAHA…she is fantasizing of things that never were, and will never be.

      • Hey Shay! LOL—You already know…no dinner, no drinks, no nothing!

        It was probably a one night “drunken” stand in the back seat of his car. She’s not even worthy of entering his home. And he only did it from behind.

        • shayvoe

          Or a burlap sack for her head…lol!

    • In her wildest dreams she dated that George Clooney. Carole looks like a walker in the Walking Dead. It kills how she thinks she’s so beautiful and sophisticated. Oh Please!

      • Birdie11

        I don’t understand why that’s such a hot big deal anyway. I’m unimpressed.

  • cutie pie

    don’t anticipate a huge turnout on a blog that supports a woman as insane as aviva….over and out.

  • shayvoe

    Loved Heather last year…but she was replaced by a foul mouthed, ghetto thug, who handles conflict just the opposite of the way she did last season…who is the real Heather? Why did she feel the need to amp up her storyline by becoming a ghetto thug? She was perfectly fine last year. Didn’t like Carol last year, like her less this year. And, lets be honest here, there is no way King David, George Clooney, or any other high profile man is going to be seen with Carol out and about, when they are seen with/date/are married to, or have been married to, some of the most beautiful women in the world. Carol, is an unfortunate looking woman and when I see her ugly mug flirting with men who in no way will ever date her, it is sad and embarrassing to watch, she really thinks she is something….does she own a mirror? Aviva is still crazy, Sonja, if at all possible, is more delusional and flitty, flighty than ever…she makes me uncomfortable watching her..she is either coked up or amped up on speed. I like the new girl ok, Luanne is fine, and Ramona is still Ramona, and if not for her stirring the pot, this snoozer of a show, which is on life support, would be DOA. I can barely get through it this year without dozing off.

    • Sara

      Heather has morphed into a foul-mouthed monster this season. I don’t believe her tales of dating Clooney and King David either. She is very unattractive and needs to get braces stat. Sonja is filthy and pathetic to watch. I only watch because of Ramona. They did not need to bring Brandi and Lemon on last night. That was a waste of a scene otherwise I enjoyed the episode.

    • Carole face scares the shit outta me. She look like the crypt keeper.

      • shayvoe

        You know it! That is one fugly woman. This is a case where a little work, teeth, fillers, botox, would be a welcome improvement. It couldn’t be any worse.

        • Bwahaha! We sooo bad but it’s the truth. Those sunken check bones and her attitude likes she’s so hot and every man’s desire is too much for me. She was flirting with that trainer (at LuAnn’s BBQ) like he wanted her so badly. I feel embarrassed for her.

  • RonnieIsBack

    Hilarious recap! I gotta watch. I was at effing work, but I DVR’d the chit. I cannot wait…..heheheh

  • Sara

    I love how consistently good this season of RHONY is. Granted I’ve had a very low bar set since last season was blah and RHOBH was terrible this season. And by consistently good, I mean there is at least two moments in each episode where I’m laughing and/or shaking my head back and forth and clapping.

    We should just end the whole rich (white) people going to Africa to see animals and help children cause they’re oh so poor and needy and this will in turn give them so much pleasure.

  • Dave

    I thought Heather handled Aviva brilliantly in last night’s sit-down. Heather was able to articulate just exactly how she felt about her, whereas Aviva kept sputtering cliches, insults, and just general nonsense. How Heather had the self-control to not smack her was utterly amazing, especially during the “You wanna know why I’m mad? Do you really wanna know? Do you want me to tell you? Are you sure?” ARGGGGGGG! Aviva is such a douche-nozzle.

  • Dani-K

    Very good recap. I don’t understand why they cross referenced the shows (RHONY & RHOBH). But in case they do this again. Perhaps Nene could visit Teresa and set her straight. Boop!